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I'm 25 and waaaay too old to be a kissless virgin but there doesn't seem to be an end to the cycle.
Last year I decided to go on OKCupid and be more pro active with talking to girls but even the super religious "i wont have sex before marriage" types stop responding if I mention I've never dated anyone before. Even after long messages, I still haven't landed a real date.
I guess I'm just lost as to what I'm even supposed to do.
I've started excercising, I have a good job that pays well, I have hobbies I enjoy. I'll admit I'm kind of awkward and possibly autistic, but I don't think I can change this.
Any advice besides "just wait, the right person will come along" or "just b urself" would be greatly appreciated.
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Don't mention you haven't dated anyone in the messages. The only purpose of messaging is to get numbers, not to tell your life story.
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>>17407699
Expand your social network. Start hanging with people you don't normally hang with.
That or get fit and hit bars.
25 ain't that old.
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1. Never tell them about your inexperience, it's an extremely pathetic gesture on many levels.
2. Get hobbies that involve natural interaction with lots of women
3. You'll need to learn at least basic game, since you didn't develop it naturally. Get a pdf copy of The Book of Pook. While you're reading it, fix your wardrobe and lift (you wouldn't want a fat slob gf, why would she want a weak slob bf?)
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Good idea or nah?
>been in a relationship with a girl for 4.5 months before she went to spend a year abroad as an au pair
>our semi-anniversary is coming up
>thought about writing her a letter and tell her how important she is to me and so on
is that cringeworthy or is that actually something that would make a girl/woman happy?
19 years old, btw.
>inb4 i should know what she likes and what not, I was just generally curious what others think about something like that and if the majority would find it cringeworthy or not, because I'm really not sure with this part.
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I think it's a great idea.
"Faint heart never won fair maiden." ~Shakespeare, probably
Go for it!
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Would probably be sweet if done tastefully. 18yo female here btw.
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>>17407695
thanks!
>>17407696
I think I know what I would have to write and what she would like to read, without making it too awkward, would definitely keep it tasteful
Is it possible to live in Los Angeles to pursue a musical career without having a college diploma or rich parents?
The following skills I have for work or employability is
-I took a course in Microsoft office and am familiar with all the products
-attended an alternative vocational school in high school where I learned criminal justice for 2 years and got certification in security guarding
So if I move to a cheaper neighborhood and get as many roommates as possible would it be at least doable? I know I won't have tons of money or free time for fun but it's just a sacrifice I don't really mind making. Is it possible to get something really cheap like a dorm-style living situation like what you would see in college?
Should I consider a cheaper city where the industry I'm looking for still thrives such as Chicago, Miami, or Atlanta?
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Everyone does this.
Not everyone is successful. It's like winning the lotto. Good luck, anon.
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Is it better to have a scraggly, unkept non-beard or no beard at all?
The best I can do is a sort of chin-strap that is heavy on my chin but weak around my cheek bones. Though, I think I still look better with it or without it. Is facial hair like that unnattractive to women?
Pic is me from the side... the """""""better""""" side
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>>17407666
that looks like shit, better shave it off
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>>17407666
No beard. Definitely no beard.
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Humiliating.
Shave it off.
UGH. Two days a recruiter for a job I really want sent out an email to me saying they were interested and wanted time to set a phone screen. I reply cordially and let them know, and they haven't said anything .
This is like the tinder girl that schedules a date with you then flakes/doesn't show up.
What the fuck???
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ouch, here's a free bump mate
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>>17407655
Find a close up picture of a vagina/dick and send it to his/her friends on facebook claiming it's theirs.
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So it's been two days since your response? People get behind on emails and if this guy's a recruiter there's probably a bunch of people he reached out to. I would bet he just hasn't gotten around to you yet. It's appropriate to send a follow up at this point if you want
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Is a long distance relationship ever a good idea? 2016-07-29 20:57:50 Post No.17407644
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Is a long distance relationship ever a good idea?
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Two scenarios:
First: met a girl at an event and we clicked. Trouble is that she lives 200km away from me. We are still in contact. Worth it?
Second: I live in Canada and I can't get any girl that shares my values. It has come to a point that my friends avoid me because I am perceived of lower value that I can't get any girlfriend/female friend. I want to know if it's possible to get a girl from the United States or somewhere in Europe (Norway/France/Neatherlands...)?
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For your situation probably not
I think LDR only work if you both we already dating before it went long distance and there's a plan to be together again
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>>17407644
Relationships already fail when people see each other every day. Go for it, who cares.
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I'm in a long distance relationship with a backpacker who's 10hrs away picking fruit to stay in the country another year.
If you clicked and then why not try?
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Despite eating pretty healthy and getting good sleep, I never start getting work done until like 2pm, for reference I wake up at 7am. I feel like my mind is unfocused, and I have no energy. I eat a good breakfast--oatz, fruit with cottage cheese, and two cups of tea. In the mornings and early afternoon I sulk about, browse the net, and read stuff. Additionally, when it comes to it I can only get done the most boring work like job applications if I throw myself out of the house and go to the coffee shop.
I would love to do early morning bike rides, but I am so zombie mode that it would be dangerous as I'd probably crash. I also want to be productive and get my shit done so I'm not left with a pile of work at the end of the day where I have to sequester myself and not do anything fun until it is complete.
Why do I always lack energy? How do I get my shit done and get up ready to move and work? I feel like I waste my whole day, every day, doing nothing. I hate myself for being a lazy piece of shit, but my brain is just so foggy. I peak in intelligence/creativity/productivity around 4-7...clearly not long enough to get shit done. I waste my whole day doing nothing.
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Being productive is all about habit and discipline. It doesn't come easy for anyone. But some people are just able to see the bigger picture. Create goals, and break them down into smaller goals. Keep your sights on the goals and work to accomplish them.
As for energy, block out distractions and exercise. Stick to complex carbs for longer lasting energy. Eat smaller meals throughout the day
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>>17407646
>habit and discipline
So like what, start building better habits? I'm so foggy-headed though, how do I do that when in zombie mode?
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Do a 5 minute burst of exercise whenever you start to feel sluggish.
Should clear up that physical aspect of it.
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Last week I put an ad on craigslist for roommates, and stated my preference is for male roommates (to minimize drama, there will be 3 of us total and it seems like a recipe for disaster). Now I've got a response, but it's from a Chinese exchange student chick going to community college here (and her English is pretty damn bad). Should I allow her to move in?
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Do it. Note that asian women sound like they're crying during sex. So be prepared for that
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>>17407589
no.
Women roommates are the worst. And communication problems have the potential to cause even more problems.
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>>17407589
Stick to your principles and get a dudebro, dude bro.
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Ok so life aint going to well for me. But thats ok because i feel like one of the best ways to get my mind off it and improve is to help others.
So what im asking is what are some things i could volunteer for. I was thinking of volunteering at a homeless shelter or animal shelter. But id like to explore my options
Any ideas?
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>>17407588
Got to any job agency ask if they have a list of volunteer jobs(they have them for resume building). They will give you a giant list bigger than you will get here.
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I honestly cannot think of anything because I need money and will have to work, otherwise I'd be a hero like you. No sarcasm intended, you are doing good but I again don't know because I'm in no position to help others.
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I voluntereed in an herpetarium, i learned a lot about Wild life, snakes, lizards, kinds of poison, first aid on snake bites, some cool facts about animals (did you Know the scientific name of the green iguana is iguana iguana?), i met some of my Best friends, went into some Wildlife rescues and releases, I met the girl with the biggest boobs I have ever seen(and get laid with); and after all, I did something which made me feel proud of myself, everything works different for everyone. DO SOMETHING YOU LIKE WITH THE BEST ATTITUDE POSSIBLE.
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So /adv/ I kinda fucked up today, I'll try to tell the story via greentext cause its quicker and more efficient.
>Be 19
>need a job
>mother works at a hotel
>im writing my resume/cv
>she basically is like you can work at the hotel
>gives me a super boring kinda like housekeeping job but not really?
>do it nicely for 3 days
>fourth day, i stay up all night cause im depressed and I cant sleep
>go to work
>doing the rooms and stuff
>my head starts to hurt and my neck too
>decide to lie down on the floor cause it hurts
>end up sleeping about 20 minutes
>come out and theyre like "oh we needed your help and we were looking for you"
>go and help them
>do the rest of day without resting or anything
>come home
>sit down and spend my day watching films and playing games and whatever
>am told by a manager that she found me sleeping
>my mother knows
>have to go in tomorrow knowing this, probably going to be monitored all day and shit
>i fucked up major cause im basically caught and i have anxiety
>want to leave in two weeks now and make this look like a seasonal job
I know I fucked up and you dont have to write your paragraph about how much of a bad person I am, but I didnt want this job in the first place, I wanted to work reception which I thought I'd be doing but I clearly am not. I wanted to apply for jobs I WANTED but this is not what I wanted out of a job, how do I quit a job and not look like a sperg and not have my anxiety overlap me /adv/
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>>17407583
>freaking out this much because you slept on the job
>HOW MUCH OF A BAD PERSON I AM
Hahaha, young people.
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>>17407583
Just work there and find a better job. That way you can just leave like a normal person instead.
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1. Don't quit that job before having another one lined up
2. It could've been so much worse. You could've been stealing or shooting up drugs.
3.Never put this on as a referral in the future.
4.Everyone fucks up their first job
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Alright fags,
Has anyone figured out a reliable way to not feel like dog shit after a break up? I've been in a cycle of short term (1-5mo) relationships for about 4 years now (I'm 30). This is due to me being an asshole with a drinking problem.
Anyways- when the breakup inevitably happens, it cripples me for like a month. Even though it's happened a million times before. Even though I know it's coming. I wake up every morning feeling like I want to apply my 9mm directly to the forehead. Takes FOREVER to feel any better, meanwhile months and years of my life are wasted in the post breakup hell hole mindset.
Am I just being a little bitch about it? I don't remember ever feeling this bad, including when siblings/close friends have died. Any tips? Hard mode: I'm a full time single dad, so I can't go out and get shitfaced/bring home skanks, and I very rarely see my guy friends.
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>>17407580
consider having more respect for yourself. if you like yourself and can maintain happiness on your own, break ups dont mean nearly as much.
also, dont over invest in a girl. by which i mean HAVE OTHER NON ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS. so many dudes drop their friends to get with a girl and then are surprised they are alone when it ends.
stick with friends, keep making new friends. dont make this girl the center of your universe.
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So... this is my story...
I fear that the only thing I am good at is being a stay at home dad with 1 kid on the way. My wife is about to pop out our first kid and I don't have a job. I lost my last job of 3 months in customer service because I told my manager if he ever yelled at me in front of customers on the floor again that I would quit. I know I shouldn't have done that and just quit like that but at the time I didn't see any way around it. I hate it when people decide they can just yell and cuss at me.
So... I quit that job making 7.50 an hour (not enough to even pay rent.) and I have been jobless for 2 months looking for another job. Before this I have been jobless for about a year (different issue)
I feel as if I can never find a job that will be able to pay me well enough to support my family the way I should. After all, the man in the house should be the bread winner in the family... not the wife.
With my wife coming close to giving birth, my fears are becoming more prevalent... I feel like a deadbeat... I can't hold down a job, I don't have my own car, I don't have a license to drive because I dont have the money to get one, I didn't finish highschool because Foster Care screwed that up for me when I decided to run away.. I dont have any money to get a better education like I want. I want to go to school and be a network admin for a school.
I have so many things I want to do to better my life but I dont know how... When my wife gives birth, our money will be out the window, we will loose our apartment..
I have noticed my anger escalating because I am at home all the time. I keep the apartment clean, I do everything I can at home but I just feel useless... I have contemplated killing myself numerous times. I have a list of ways I can because of my past depression episodes. My depression has gotten worse.. I just dont know what to do..
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So is it possible to get another job? If so, do that.
How do you get whiter teeth?
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>>17407548
dentist can bleach them
brush teeth after every mean
white strips.
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Whitening products. Or you can get it professionally done but that's expensive. I just use crest one hour express about every month or two and brush and rinse with whitening toothpaste and mouthwash. Works well but you won't get movie star white.
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>>17407548
buy new toothbrush every 3 monthes, bristles don't stay good forever
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Why women love to travel so much? 2016-07-29 20:21:55 Post No.17407531
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Why women love to travel so much?
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Seriously, they ALL love to travel all over the world, visit exotic regions and whatnot. I have traveled a few times including Florida, Germany and Romania but I find it more of a waste of time. There's not much to see in my opinion and I prefer the outdoors.
The problem is no women is even remotely interested in me and that may be because I haven't traveled and therefore, boring and not interesting.
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>I have traveled a few times including Florida, Germany and Romania
> I haven't traveled
-_-
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>>17407531
Because then they can say "I've been to country a,b,c..." and sound interesting and like they're doing something with their lives. That's all women care about really.
If you think for a second that they actually give a fuck about experiencing foreign cultures more than they do about snapping a selfie in front of something and posting that shit on their instagram, you're sadly mistaken.
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>>17407539
I meant I haven't traveled that much and it was with my family. Seriously all they do is get money to travel whenever it's possible. They go to Europe, Cuba, United-States etc...
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I don't care how extreme the idea is. 2016-07-29 20:20:42 Post No.17407529
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I don't care how extreme the idea is.
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What can I do to be happy? I will go to an extreme that people would question at some point. I will consider everything. If chopping of both my hands and going blind means happiness, I will do it. If eating a porcupines shit means getting a special nutrient for happiness I will do it. What sacrifices or things can I do to reach happiness?
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Happiness is a plebeian, unnecessary emotion.
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>>17407532
Wrong board.
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