25 year old anon here, will try to keep this short. Trying to find a job that will improve society the most.
I'm struggling to figure out what I should be doing with my life. Currently in military because it was an easy job to get.
I have zero ambitions. Don't care about making money, don't care about starting a family, and have no passions except reading books.
I'm fairly intelligent and people tell me I shouldn't be wasting my time in the military constantly. So I've been thinking of jobs that would help the most people since any job will be a job to me.
1. Cop? Chance to protect people but have to enforce laws I disagree with and no authority to change them.
2. Politician? Would have to lie, cheat, and steal for my entire life to get a position with power to fix anything.
3. Doctor? Best option I've thought of as medical research finding cures could help the entire species.
TLDR: Job suggestion that would help improve society.
Obviously doctor.
But your point 2 about politicians is false. Politicians are regular people, and most of the methods they use are above board. Furthermore, politicians start making a difference immediately.
>>17408855
I know two family members who got into politics in Georgia. Both were removed from positions by higher ups because they would not ignore blatant personal use of state tax money by mayors. That wasn't even at the state legislature level where people start tossing around millions.
I am seething, absolutely seething with rage.
Me and my gf broke up a week and a half ago, she said I wasn't spending enough time with her and wasn't giving her attention, I tried my best to convince her otherwise and tried to do anything to fix our problems, at first things seemed like they would be okay, got home after and she told me to come over again the next night, I did and she broke up with me
I noticed before we broke up she was texting some guy a lot, thought nothing of it, I try not to be a jealous person. Then I took her to work one day, and afterwards she went to the coffee shop where he works and he gave her a ride home, next day they hung out at a park by her house, next day she went to church with him, day after that we broke up
I confronted her about it a few days later, and she said she doesn't know if she likes him, I said how hurt I am she already moved on, she wouldn't do that to me, and got mad at suggesting that just because she was doing stuff with a guy friend that it made it a thing
(cont) She has been watching our family dog, I went over today and picked him up for a play day, I just got back from taking him back, she came out and we got to talking and then all of the sudden that guy came out of her house and stood there and said "everything all right" and we just stood there, I didn't say anything, just starred, he started to go back in and she turned towards me and I just said bye and walked away, got in my car and sped off really fast, she texted me telling me to drive safe, told her she doesn't care, she said she does whether I want to believe it, haven't responded.
It took everything I had not to punch that fucking balding faggot, fuck her so much, this girl was my life for 3 goddamn years. She even was being really friendly while we were talking. She loves that dog just as much as me, I don't give a shit that I'm not technically allowed to have him I'm picking him up and taking him back, she doesn't deserve him
I couldn't stop fucking screaming on the way home, I have no clue how I got home cause I was so angry I couldn't see straight, I am just so fucking hurt and upset.
Not really asking a question here, just had to make this post cause I feel like I'm gonna explode
As much as it fucking hurts, you have to be a grown-up and move on.
You should look at it like this: you're getting away clean, no kids, no child support, no alimony, only 3 years wasted.
And you may be able to get the dog, if I read the sitch correctly.
Sup guys, there is this feeling that I've been having for quite some time now, I just don't want to live anymore, everything seems pointless and I rather quit everything.
The problem is that even though I have this feeling I haven't been able to kill myself, so I figured out is because I'm not feeling depressed enough to do it, that's why I need help.
Please make me feel bad, tell me all the reasons why I should kill myself, post tragic shit, make me feel like garbage, prove me life is pointless, do as you please as long as it helps me feel depressed enough to an hero.
Thanks you guys in advance.
Tragically, the universe was not put here for you.
There's no such thing as souls.
This is a real children's book.
here's my situation
>working on a boat
>2 weeks ago, airport lost my luggage
>only get to the fucking usa once a week for debark
>everybody's pretending to help but no one actually cares
>fucking american airlines tells me it's in miami, then no it's in new york, then oh we can't locate it
I am going mad. I am going to the airport tomorrow and i am paying a fucking expensive taxi to get there and try to see what the fuck is going on.
What can I do? Any lawyer here?
Just keep calling around, they have it.
>>17408781
then why don't they tell me exactly where it is? i'll probably waste my time and my money tomorrow as well :(
>>17408775
By law,if they lose your luggage they have to pay you for it. On top of that they also have to supply you with necessaries (toiletries, sometimes even new clothes) for the first few days. And they have to deliver the bags to you when they find them, not make you come to the airport.
Send them a bill for new clothes, the cab ride and any other expenses they caused you.
I turned 30 and I'm a virgin. So now I'm a wizard.
Does this mean I won't ever have sex now? I have a girlfriend due to me trying to improve myself, it's just that my birthday fell way before we ever got to fuck. Now what the hell do I do?
>>17408762
put it in breh
Feel her up, escalate, escalate,
if she says no. Stop. Escalate...later.
>>17408769
How? I thought a wizard can't do that.
Also what happens to the whole wizard thing after actually doing it?
1/10 replying to bait thread
>>17408762
> I have a girlfriend due to me trying to improve myself, it's just that my birthday fell way before we ever got to fuck.
You have a girlfriend but your not having sex? Is she an uber-Christian? Do you not initiate physical contact?
The entire point of relationships is sex, so if she is not interested, break up.
I was going on a trip out of the country with my folks but now I'm furious with the change that now my self entitled bitch of a sister is going. How do I express this without coming off as an autist?
Not like I hate her, she's just too young and would ruin the whole trip. Am I being autistic?
How is she going to ruin the trip? What were you going to do before that you feel like you can't do now? Going on a trip with your parents is already lame unless you're still in middle school or something.
Yeah, you sound pretty autistic. Why would they not bring both if you? Why in the bloody hell would your happiness/enjoyment matter more to them then your sisters. They would have more fun if neither of you fuckers went. But they are forgoing what would be most enjoyable for them for the sake of family. Stop being a selfish jackass and you child.
>>17408763
I'm taking them, but they want to pay for the kid to come along. You act like you've never been around a bitchy emotional girl that doesn't care at all about the culture we're going to be visiting. She would just be constantly on her phone and wondering where the nearest Starbucks is.
I'm currently subleasing from an old cunt, and there's a month left of the sublease.
This guy is really uptight about having the windows closed when I'm gone. Not entirely sure why, because:
1. There's literally nothing valuable in the house
2. The bathroom window is always open anyway
3. If someone really wanted to get in, they would just... open the windows
4. Or, just use the front door, which is sometimes open. Why the fuck would they use the windows when they can use the front door?
Anyway, I left the windows open a few times, and now he says he's going to "hire someone to close them during the day", and that the cost would come out of my deposit. Can he actually do this?
On a side note, I also have intel that he has sued a previous tenant.
>>17408757
>>sublease
so you never had a contract? how did you pay a deposit? he has no legal ties on you if you are subleasing
your a faggot for not taking home security seriously
Just cooperate.
Best Ultrabook for Performance & Gaming?
XPS vs Zenbook vs Razer Stealth?
Or Other?
Learn what computer specs are and decide yourself.
Just go to /g/ for a little bit and lurk, computer specs aren't that complicated.
How do you tell if something exists
>>17408741
You gotta pinch it.
>>17408741
Observation.
Next question.
I see pepe
I have a problem.
It's a long story, so to shorten it: A guy and I tried the long distance relationship thing about a year ago and it didn't pan out. He lied and dumped me for another girl, after I poured my heart out for him about how much I cared about him. Humiliating. 5 days before my birthday, too. I tried to make things work, and I did nothing wrong. We got into a huge fight.
Fast forward to May, and he tells me he still loves me and wants to give it another shot. Initially I say no, but slowly I begin to open up. I made it very clear that he would be doing the work in this relationship, but surprise, surprise, I was the only one trying to communicate and work things out. He wouldn't even talk to me verbally, it was just text. Several days after I found out I was ill with hormonal disorders and a tiny brain tumor, he told me that he didn't know if we should be together. He said he would be there for me while I was sick, and the next day he abandoned me. Not another word for a week.
On that day, I told him to forget all of the romantics. All he said was a long version of 'sorry'. This guy is bad for me, he has hurt me before, and I want nothing romantic to do with him ever again.
The problem is that I feel like if I date anyone else, it would seem like I would do him a disservice. The idea of being with anyone else makes me physically and emotionally sick. It almost feels like it would be cheating, and it repulses and nauseates me.
I bonded to this guy, and I'm loyal to the point that it's sincerely hurting me. How do I get past this? I'm tired of being sad and feeling like I owe this motherfucker something. I owe nothing. What do I do?
Hey pretty, jaded, mistreated lady of the internet.
What do you do?
Think really hard about why you feel you owe anything to this guy. This guy treated you like shit. You deserve better.
All of the internet will say to "love yourself". Thats it right there. We can close the books on this one..
There will be a guy that loves the shit out of you, and wants to treat you like a princess.
But unless you have your head on straight, and your heart sitting comfortably somewhere in your chest (right now its lodged around your pelvis), you may not be able to receive all this love.
Your love receptors arent working.. theyre picking up some sort of distortion..
You already know whats up. We can read it in your post. Buddy is a D-bag and youre gonna be ok.
Sometimes you win. Sometimes ylu learn.
Just grow from it man. Yeah...
Hey /adv/,
What are some good places to talk to girls online? I don't want sex, I just want to have a girl in my life since I'm so awful at socializing that I don't have any female friends.
>>17408691
I know a good place: Outside!
Socializing is a thing we were all bad at at one point. You don't become good at it until you do it. Try to talk to some girls that are mutual friends as a start.
>>17408778
What places do you suggest I visit? Considering that I have limited choices since I live in a wartorn shithole.
>>17408691
Any social media site or app. (I.E. Twitter, Instagram, Tinder, POF)
How do you get over a girl that you are head over heels in love with, likes you, and keeps leading you on, but she just won't make it work?
Date other girls, see if she gets jealous
>>17408696
I tried talking to another girl this morning. I struck up a really good conversation, but I just backed out of it because it started to hurt. I know its what I have to do, but I can't bring myself to go after someone I don't desire, especially when there is one I very strongly do.
>>17408687
Just understand that this is someone who has no emotional depth and will only drag you down.
Traveling around France. Was leaving a museum and a guy suddenly approached me and asked for my name (he asked in French). I was a bit surprised and left. Was he trying to ask me out?
>>17408680
Not you again.
STOP BEING SO FUCKING INSECURE
>>17408686
But seriously, I was traveling with a group of girls who are not exactly my friends and I heard that commenting amongst themselves how horrible my eyelinger was put on. My mom saw my photos too as I backed them up and she made the same comment
>>17408716
Who gives a shit. What a waste of bandwidth
I met this girl at this event last year, I'd only popped in there out of morbid curiosity since I was nearby, she was there with her mum because the mum was a fan and she was there for the same interest as I was, and a chance to go abroad.
We started talking and hit it off because she was weird and brilliant and beautiful and pretty damn straightforward, and apparently her countrymen aren't into that. We exchanged info and been chatting every day for six months now.
And now she's first brought up she's starting hormone treatments for a gender reassignment this year. She said it's been a thing since before we met, and she'd figured there was no point in telling me since I would just be a temporary fling who'll eventually - her words - "get bored and wander off". She only told me now because it's eventual I'll figure it out her voice will change on skype.
I don't know what to do, she said it's up to me what I choose. She likes talking to me and I love her, but I'm not gay.
are you gay
Homie she called you a temporary fling and you love her?
>>17408632
Don't fret OP, you'll be riding her dick before too long.
Just bought a brand new pair of Skechers for about $170 from a retail outlet store.
And then I got home and stumbled upon an almost identical pair onnline for $50 on the skechers storer.
The is one small difference on the online one and that's a small little 1cm by 1cm 'ribbon' on the shoe
Did I just get royally fucked over?
Is that legal?
How am I meant to feel right now?
Pic related: The online version of the shoe with the little tag thing on the side.
Haha what, I didn't even know Sketchers could cost as much as 50 dollars.
You sound like a moron to not only pay almost 200 dollars for those ugly things, but have you even considered just taking them back and re buying online?
WHY would you pay that much for shoes? Any kind of shoes?