Hey guys,
How to i get back with my ex girlfriend?
I'ts been 2 months now since we broke up.
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why did you broke up with your gf?
why do you want your ex gf back?
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>>17406770
First of all beacuse i'm a faggot ho doesn't know what he's doing, it's kinda hard to tell why we broke up. Anyway we lived far from each other for a while, and I was really tense about it, we saw once a month, I felt strange about my feelings. She wanted attenction even when she was away and it was so difficult for me so, I ended up caring about her only when she was with me.
Basically we had sex when we met, but once she was away I couldn't even think about her.
I can't stand this kind of relationship
I want to get back with her beacause i'm getting fucking depressed at home, i have no social life, all i do is staying at home thinking about her and it's becoming unbearable.
I don't even want to approach other girls, all i see now is her. This is shit, really.
I've know her since 1st grade, i fucking lost my virginity to her, I can't believe we will never talk again, I love her, but sometimes i get insecure about my life, and I fuck up everything. It's A vicious cycle i can't stand.
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>>17406785
You want her back for all the wrong reasons. Even if you did get back together the relationship would likely decay in the exact same way eventually. It's time to start trying to move on and living for yourself.
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I washed my electronic weight scales with water and washing up liquid and now they won't work. Glass style with metal strips on it.
What do?
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>>17406754
buy new scales
read manual in box containing new scales where it tells you how to clean scales without fucking them up
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Typically, people are smart enough not to get electronics wet to avoid breaking them, and know to disconnect all sources of power from the device and give it plenty of time to dry when washing it.
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>>17406815
the scales came back to life after drying them out a while. it seems that the moisture was causing some sort of problem with one of the sensors.
>>17407035
it's mostly glass and metal i didn't think i got any water in the electronics.
Please reccommend, which one of those is better? I stopped following hardware a long time ago so i don't really know. Benchmarks are similar as well. I'd prefer to take the one with better gayming performance so i can blay GTA 4/5 and such if on low.
Well, to start i have to choose between Acer E5-552G and Lenovo Z51-70
Which as better?
Specs:
Acer / Lenovo
CPU:
AMD A10-8700 P Quadcore 1.8-3.2/
i3 5005U 2.0
Screen:
same's
RAM:
12
4 GB
HDD:
same's
GPU:
Radeon R8 M365DX 2 GB/
Radeon R7 M360 2GB
Etc.
Thanks.
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>>17406749
I would not buy anything from Lenovo as they have been proven guilty of having spyware in their BIOS. It means that you can not remove it.
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I posted here ~10 months ago, a few months after my exbf broke up with me, and you told me to give it time. It's been almost a year now, and I still haven't gotten over him.
About me: I used to be severely depressed, and am still on meds. On the surface, though, I would be considered successful — in my mid 20s, work in a creative career with a high-paying salary (well into six figures). I own a co-op and qualify as upper class in nyc. I have a loving and stable family and a wide circle of great friends. I think I’m pretty average-looking, but I get dates bc I’m a thin asian girl.
My ex is a student. We’re the same age and went to the same hs, but he dropped out to join the Marines. He is good-hearted, kind, and sweet, with common interests. We dated for a year before he broke up with me, citing that he was uncertain, that we were at different points in our lives, and have always felt like there was a “wall” between us. We were going through a bit of a rough patch bc I’d found out he’d been lying about smoking, and I think the stress of the relationship, plus the poor health of his father, was overwhelming for him. Also he mentioned my depression. He kind of left it hanging, saying he’ll “become a better person”.
I’ve been trying my best to get over him. In the past 4 months, I’ve been on 30+ dates with every type of guy imaginable: ivy leaguers, successful guys, tall guys, nice guys, fit guys, funny guys -- one of the guys I’m seeing now is a 6’1” ivy leaguer doctor with blond hair and a 6-pack.
But I’m not over my ex. I miss him so much, but the last time I tried to call him (March), he didn’t pick up and unfriended me. I want to move on but I feel like I’ll never find anybody who’s better for me than him. I want to ask for him back, but I don’t want to be rejected again either — it was so hard the first time. I haven’t told anyone about my plans bc I’m ashamed that I haven’t gotten over him. What do?
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Was he the first guy you fucked?
Hi guys
Can anyone tell me what this is? Looks like some kind of eggs?
Thanks
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You'd probably have a better chance asking /an/.
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>>17406704
It's snoo.
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Can we talk about this in general?
Thoughts?
Solutions?
I never know how I'm supposed to respond or react but my instinct is to get frustrated and angry and then try to ignore that and just pester them until they reply
It's the worst when you're being ignored or you feel like you're being ignored
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Put on your big girl panties and give them some damn space. You'll only make the situation worse by forcing and pushing things.
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>>17406705
Okay but a few days to a week without hearing ANYTHING at all is incredibly hard, no?
That's being just being generally distant it's like being cut off altogether
What's the best way to give space? Just don't say anything until they do?
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>>17406712
>solution
Don't date weird emotionally closed off dudes
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What is it about guns that attracts so many psychopaths?
I'm so fed up with gun control advocacy and propositions that generally take away basic human rights from innocent civilians. I try my hardest to advocate how responsible most gun owners are. How paramount it is to be able to defend oneself from the threats of the world. But not only does it fall on deaf ears (especially in today's more liberalized society), you also get fucks like these who make you and every gun owner with look like maniacs by association. No matter how I or anyone I've met tries, we end up undeservedly looking like the bad guys. And that's without getting into shit like school shootings or domestic terrorist attacks. Another issue that makes us look like rapists and murderers. The very people we originally got guns to defend ourselves from.
So seriously, why do guns attract so many psychopaths? Why are they so appealing to people who just want to partake in conflicts with other human beings? They're inadvertently making us look bad and risking the loss of our civil rights by doing this.
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>>17406677
I thought the reason the US had that ammendment was to defend yourselves from the UK and a tyrannical government?
Also quite simple. Bad people want to do bad things. Guns are weapons designed to kill. Gun is good for bad people to do bad things easier. Also this should be in pol.
Also a lot of people who do the shootings arent actually psychopaths, just very unhappy and mentally damaged.
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>>17406677
>why do tools designed to hurt people attract users that want to hurt people
Are you seriously asking this question?
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It's pretty obvious why they're attractive. They provide an extremely effective way to hurt or kill someone. They're more reliable than beating or stabbing someone. They're an equalizer as well.
>>17406689
If there were a way to interpret the Constitution that was completely obvious, our country would be in a better place.
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I absolutely detest people like this. I'm normally blunt and direct with people. If I like you, you'll know. If I don't like you, you'll know cause I'll have 0 interaction with you unless absolutely necessary. I tend to not say enough to get my point across, save with close friends who I'll be more relaxed with.
But I've come across a certain type of person, the "liar", or the "salesman", the "everybody is my friend guy" They'll say ANYTHING to get you on their good side. It could be someone trying to get in your pants, someone trying to sel you something, or just a pathological con artist.
"Hey bro what type of music do you listen to?"
Me: *answers*
"Woah dude I love that band! My cousin does xyz with someone who knows that band that's awesome they're one of my favorites"
I can tell instantly off the bat that they're full of shit. They just have this...aura, this body language that screams "liar"... That they're just trying really hard to find some common ground instead of just being real.
I'm typically quiet, keep to myself, and have a tendency to be trusting which is a weakness I'll admit, which is why this is just infuriating to me. "Woah anon. Are you in the military? You've got great posture. He listen my cousin dropped me off here and he made a mistake and I need to catch a bus, would a man of your stature spare a quarter?" Why pick me when there's dozens of other people walking around? Why enter my space? Just leave me the fuck alone with your lies and your begging. Your exaggerations and your grandiose stories and your unwarranted compliments.
Girls do this shit too."oh you're so wonderful. I want to see you again. Your dick is so big you're amazing." And never call back. Shut the fuck up. I never showered you with compliments like this so I know something sketchy is going on. Cool the Machiavellian shit and just be real, life isn't a fucking crime drama goddamn.
How do I stop people from lying so much?
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>I tend to say just enough to get my point across
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Cause there were too many words in the field:
These are the people in your social circle that will say yes to EVERYTHING. "Yeah dude for sure that place is dope let's go to xyz at this time" then flakes with a bullshit excuse. Who the fuck flakes on getting a beer early in the evening? Now I just like you less and it's obvious you had no intentions of showing up in the first place. This isn't some girl from tinder or some shit, this is another guy i'm supposed to trust. Wtf?
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You don't.
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Got a date in a few hours, first date with a girl since like 3 years or something so I'm kinda nervous, any tips?
My plan is to take her to one of the coolest spots in my town, on top of a building, and drink a few beers there, then when night falls go for a walk to a park or something and kiss her in the shadows.
Also she's a slav and I'm not, she'll probabky outdrink me, how am I supposed to treat a slav like? Been practicing squat all morning.
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First, embrace being nervous. After all, you've been 3 years without dating, it's normal to feel like that about it.
Second of all, it's ok to have plans but you don't have to detail them a lot. "Kiss her in the shadows", kiss her when you feel like it and it seems she does too.
About slav, can't help bro. Gl Hf
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>>17406638
>Also she's a slav and I'm not, she'll probabky outdrink me, h
Have you been practising squatting? Take her somewhere you can both squat.
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>>17406652
Are you a grill? Do they care too much about guys with braces?
Any of you niggas know how to lucid dream? I've been trying recently with the MILD and WILD techniques but I've had no luck.
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Fuck thats not the pic i meant to upload
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>>17406637
I tried this by keeping a dream diary and only worked once. Beyond the methods you described, not sure there is much else. Fun experience though, even recording my dreams.
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I've had Lucid Dreams with both, Mild and Wild techniques. But they don't occur fastly, you need to develop a routine about it.
In the Mild case, ask yourself EVERYDAY, many times a day, if you are awake or not and TEST IT. Actually ask yourself if you are and test EVERYDAY.
Another good tip is to have a dream journal. This connects you even more to your dreams, also making it easier to remember them.
I'd wake up after 2:30 hours of sleep just to leave REM and write down the dream I was having. Aftera while, I didn't need to wake up, I'd recall 3 to 4 dreams in the same night as vividly as if I was still there.
Take on the lessions of Stephen LaBerge from Stanford University. His books on it are awesome and led me there. He's also making a glass-like mechanism to induce lucid dreaming.
Good luck!
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Anyone here used 7cups? What do you think of it?
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coffee makes me poopoo
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Yeah I've used it. If anything, it taught me to write in a more gentle language, and to be humble and rant and downspeak myself less.
The thing is, listeners aren't really allowed to give specific advice. But at least people treat eachother with dignity. Nobody calls you a autistic faggot, which can be nice for a change.
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>>17406717
Oh jesus christ is the faggiest thing I have ever seen somebody write
WHAT THE FUCK HAS HAPPENED TO MEN
EARTH CALLING MEN.... EARTH CALLING MEN.... WHERE THE FUCK ARE YOU
This generation is absolutely FUCKED
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hi /adv/. I don't get on with my gf anymore and I don't see myself in a relationship with her anymore. I'm breaking up with her in a public space in 2 hours 20 minutes. I'm pretty nervous. Tips?
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>>17406613
Why public? First is not to do it in public but private. Second, breakups can be emotional in both sides. Remain calm and explain clearly why you are breaking up.
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>>17406623
Why public? Not him, but it's so.she doesn't sperg out, or try to stab him etc.
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>>17406629
Thought public would give her more of an excuse to freak out.
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Hello /adv/,
At the moment I'm obsessed with the idea of getting bigger, of being tough as fuck, of being able to beat other men physically in a fight
Because really that's all life boils down to. All other things that people try to use to feel good about themselves (having a ""good job"", virtue signalling) are just fake, empty replacements for the real pride that comes from physically beating another man.
What do I do? All my motivation to get a job has completely gone. I feel like I know too much now (yes I go to /pol/) and once you've seen the truth, how can you force yourself to accept lies again?
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Try suicide. Any fucking dog can kill another man. Few men can kill themselves.
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>>17406571
>Any fucking dog can kill another man.
Completely untrue.
I'm right though aren't I? The only thing that matters is if you can physically beat other men. When you search your feelings you realise nothing else matters. And the REASON you need to be able to physically beat other men is so you can impregnate all of the desirable females.
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You sound like a runt that will still be at a psychological and mechanical disadvantage regardless of what shape you get yourself into.
You're correct about one thing, people are self deluding and ultimately it is only the most base and natural of natural laws that matters: feed or be fed upon. Kill or be killed. The idea of being in decent shape isn't for some infantile notion of "the pride" of enforcing your will, physically, on another male, it's about having the means to have control of a situation and make the world, and your own life, better. If another machine (person) is able to beat you in a one on one physical altercation, this is an obvious indicator of the extent with which you can influence outcomes.
Anyway. You're being stupid, I could beat you up IRL, your problems stem from being trapped and feeling as though you have no control over your life, etc.
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tl;dr wife wants to get pregnant but I'm planning on killing myself in 4 months. Should I knock her up to insure she doesn't kill herself when I kill myself?
>have life insurance policy
>suicide clause on policy will expire in 4 months
>this will mean that in 4 months I can kill myself in a blatant suicide and my wife will still receive the payout
>originally took the policy out as a "just in case" but it's been 9 months and I'm even more sure I'll kill myself so I'm certain to go through with it
>my biggest fear is my wife will kill herself immediately after losing me
>wife has been wanting to start a family for a while but studying/work/travel has always intervened
>we're 26 now, she's very keen to try and get pregnant
>she's also a depressant like me but has recovered exceptionally well
>though in the past she has said stuff like "if you died I'd kill myself" quite seriously
>I know she wouldn't dare doing it if she were pregnant and it would basically guarantee she lives her life after I die
>I know with time she would get over me and go on to live an amazing life which she deserves
I appreciate that this is a dick move, but I can't help and consider it. There would be a huge risk of her killing herself after I died, and it would just be a waste of such a beautiful person like her but I'm absolutely certain she wouldn't kill herself if she were pregnant/had our child.
I don't know. I'm just so desperate for her to get through this, because I know in a couple of years time she'll be fine. I don't care if she's mad at me, or hates me, or that I'm forever portrayed as this horrible human being (because I would be for doing this), I just want her to live, she has such a great life ahead of her after this pain.
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Knock her up, it could change how much you think about suicide if you have a kid on the way, but wait more than 4 months, and atleast talk to ur girl about it ya know
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>>17406564
Talk to someone and get help op. Shit seems bad currently, but it can get better.
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>>17406564
you literally want to get someone pregnant and then leave her on her own and pussy out. congratulations.
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I just realized I own 17 Neil Gaiman books... Should I cut back a bit? Maybe have a limit of 12 or 15? If so what number is more practical 12 or 15?
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Even with all those books, you're still gay man.
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>>17406562
Neil Gaiman is fucking terrible.
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>>17406562
Why does it matter?
You're an adult. Get those book as ebooks, if you're moving around and they're too heavy or you don't have the space.
Physical books are only useful if you have a child, kids need to be exposed to physical books.
If you're saying they're too much because 'it's too much Gaiman'... you have already read them, it's too late. If you haven't read them, you bought them, so read them! and then it will be too late.
The only thing you can do to save your soul is to buy and read more books by different authors.