Alright fags,
Has anyone figured out a reliable way to not feel like dog shit after a break up? I've been in a cycle of short term (1-5mo) relationships for about 4 years now (I'm 30). This is due to me being an asshole with a drinking problem.
Anyways- when the breakup inevitably happens, it cripples me for like a month. Even though it's happened a million times before. Even though I know it's coming. I wake up every morning feeling like I want to apply my 9mm directly to the forehead. Takes FOREVER to feel any better, meanwhile months and years of my life are wasted in the post breakup hell hole mindset.
Am I just being a little bitch about it? I don't remember ever feeling this bad, including when siblings/close friends have died. Any tips? Hard mode: I'm a full time single dad, so I can't go out and get shitfaced/bring home skanks, and I very rarely see my guy friends.
>>17407580
consider having more respect for yourself. if you like yourself and can maintain happiness on your own, break ups dont mean nearly as much.
also, dont over invest in a girl. by which i mean HAVE OTHER NON ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS. so many dudes drop their friends to get with a girl and then are surprised they are alone when it ends.
stick with friends, keep making new friends. dont make this girl the center of your universe.