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You just described my life "to the tee" OP, I dont know how to get rid of the feeling I just workout now to try and better myself so I have hope of attaining love or how I perceive it.

>>17408603
English is not my native language, I'm sorry if my grammar is bad.

>>17408590
There is no one person that completes you. The only person that can offer you happiness is yourself. Looking for someone to provide you happiness is a trap and ultimately will make you unhappy. You can be with someone and be happy, but happiness comes internally, not externally.

Time i think. i'm getting over someone too and it's horrible.

>>17408654
I've read somewhere that you become addicted to that person's love and breaking up leads to withdrawal. Getting over someone is facing withdrawal

>>17408577
Get a hobby, start working out, and start talking to other people. Meeting another girl will get her off your mind

And if it's meant to be, then you'll run into her later on in life. If there are truly problems b/w you two, then it wasn't, so you shouldn't feel bad and move on

Just don't contact her or look at her FB, insta, etc if she has them.

you gona get a restraining order.
Better find some shoes without strings.

>hitting mama
why did you do that

>>17408585
I don't get the stringless shoe part. But yes, I do feel that I'm fucked now.

>>17408587
Pay back for all the times she beat me during the first twenty years of my life. It's been building up for a while.

>if you want to

That's woman speak for "I want to, but I'm not sure if you want to so I'm letting you decide"

Instead of asking her if she wants to talk on the phone, tell her you miss her and want to talk to her.

How far away are you guys from the city?

it seems like you two are hysteric pussies and you're enabling her.

>>17408576
That's literally what I do though. I know she's doing that "woman speak" though but I will literally say, "I would like to talk to you" and she will say "if you want to." Like what does that mean???

We had the city conversation because I just graduated and I'm looking into jobs in a city. But she doesn't want to live there when she graduates, she wants to live outside a city. I'm not gonna make her live in a city, I'm okay with commuting a reasonable distance. But she was all like "I don't know how this is gonna work out"

>>17408560
Let's all love Lain.

>>17408560
Your last sentence conflicts with the rest of the post.

you're slipping into depression again

cutting yourself off from society is your normal response, but also the worst one you can make. Try doing something different, maybe volunteer or join meetup, hell, go on hikes to get some fresh air

Up to your doctor and you whether you want to get back on medication, I suggest you do.

>>17408559
These days probably fetlife or tinder or something. Maybe even craigslist.

Whatever you do, DO NOT fuck your friends. That never ends well.

>>17408559
Single girls are not called "unicorns" in the swinging world for nothing - it's because you are VERY unlikely to find them through Craigs or anywhere else.

The best chance is through your gf. Girls talk sex even more than guys, and if she keeps her ears open she'll find an acquaintance or stranger expressing a curiosity in bi-sex or a threesome.

Alright, here we go. I've seen this problem come up a lot of times. Not to ring my own horn, but I like to think I'm pretty knowledgeable on this kind of thing.

Before you do anything else, you're going to want to make sure the AC is on. That way when you do something you'll be able to tell right away if it actually fixed anything, instead of having to turn it off, let it reset for a few minutes, turn it back on, and let it get back to 100$ performance. So make sure it's still running.

From what I can tell your AC has a very easy and detectable vent, as seen on the right. If that's not it, try to find it. There's usually some way to take off the front panel of the AC. They don't even tell you this in the owner's manual because this is strictly a mechanic's job and you usually have to take it in some place like AutoZone so they can fix it for you, but you can do it yourself for free. I'm pretty sure the AC companies and AutoZone have some kind of deal going on but that's another story. Anyways, inside you'll find the filter. Depending on what you're using the AC for you want either lint or no lint. No lint for cold air, lots of lint so the air comes out warm. This is the part where you save money on your heating bill too.

I usually pack an old t-shirt or small/thin towel in there. Something that will fit. This lets the air conditioned air get trapped inside the AC, heat up in the t-shirt, and then ejected through the fans nice and warm. Usually takes a couple minutes to heat up, but it should do the trick.

>>17408553
I fucking miss my air conditioner ;_;

I guarantee that you're not as ugly as you think. People don't notice all the little details that you fuss over so much. I think it's just a case of your mother projecting her own insecurities onto you.

Definitely lose the weight though. The odds of success aren't in your favour. I work as a personal trainer and it pains me to see how many people come in committed to getting fit, only to stop showing up 3 weeks later. It's hard for me to believe in people but I still root for their success regardless, just as I am rooting for you.

>>17408549
Get a job and save up your money to afford the surgery.

In the meantime continue to work out, learn how to dress attractively and wear an attractive haircut. If female, learn how to do makeup.

If you still can't feel good about yourself, try therapy.

Also make friends. Friends are there to boost your esteem.

>>17408561
I've gone about 3 weeks now without soda! I used to have a terrible addiction to it
Thank you for the support though

>>17408564
That was also a concern, getting the surgery and still feeling ugly afterwards

blackmail her and demand a percentage

>>17408548

Firstly, the evidence isn't conclusive. She might be camming but you can't be sure.

Secondly, if you come down on her like lead rain and call her a disgusting whore and demand she stop she's going to tell you to fuck off and she's going to keep camming.

If you give a shit about your sister come at her with love, not disgust and anger. Everyone else here might encourage you to shame and belittle her but she's not just some random girl, she's your sister.

Tell her you're concerned about how her decisions are going to affect her later on. Tell her that the images might come back to haunt her later on.

Do it with love, if you're interested in being a part of your sister's life. If you don't give a shit whether or not you're in her life then I guess you could just bring the hammer down and call her a whore.

>>17408562
absolutely correct! also tell her that she is better than this, she is smarter, more talented, and loved. She doesn't need to do this.

If you call her a ho, she is just going to be defensive.

>>17408544
It's called bisexuality

>>17408508
I' m reading all that and I'm wondering if you have your electives squared away?
Honestly, it depends on what kind of professors you have. The physics courses are all different but still fall under physics - which is applied math. What does that mean? It means that if you're motivated enough, you will see some underlying fundamental connections that will allow you to lop all the material together as if it's one big physics course. The more you can simplify things in your head, the better off you'll be.

That is, if you do reading outside of class and your professors don't give you unnecessary work/put you to sleep during lecture.

I almost guarantee your biggest pain in the ass will be the lab- so much work and a really long period for a credit/2 credits.

To summarize, if you can get into the mindset that follows with STEM class material and pacing, and if you can find at least one or two professors who you can chat with about the material, you could get a 3.8 easily.

Oh and study diff eqs early. You'll need it in every one of those subjects, I think.

>>17408508
Depends on how good you are juggling school work, a friend of mine did two semesters of med school in one semester and still had time for social activity, seen other people do way less and fail miserably

>>17408528
Thanks for the advice. I did finish most of my electives, and only have 2 left (which I plan to take during the winter and summer).

That's what I figured, all those physics courses fall under one huge umbrella, so if I study for one of those courses, I'm essentially studying for the others. As for the labs, I heard it is the biggest pain in the ass (even the advisor said it is). It sucks though, some of these physics courses only have terrible professors....

As for differential equations, I think the 2 part physics course covers it (there's a physics course that covers differential math, or a math course entirely dedicated to it).

Also, which course would you say might be the "hardest" besides the labs?

>>17408504

lol you're kind of in new ground here. people arent this lazy with setting people up generally. if you want you can always reach out to her on facebook and be fun about it.

or you can wait.

whichever. no matter what you do some people are going to thikn wahtever they want to think. have a 'mind your own business' atitude about it and just do what you actually want

>>17408504
Add her, and talk to her, i know you want to hear that its pretty much fucked and its in her hands now, but no, you will have to talk to her

>>17408511
Or ignore me, im drunk and just giving random people the advice i needed 3 weeks ago, your case is probably different but if you want to hook up/gf her you will have to communicate sometime, why wait for a random social event when you are clearly interested in each other (if her friends told you you were a nice match they were even more hardcore telling it to her)

>>17408489
Tell her.

She'll be more hurt if you deal with it for the longest time and not tell her, trust me. So just tell her you faggot retard.

shameful bump

She likes you, anon. If she knows you pretty well, odds are she's okay with your awkwardness. Maybe she's worried about coming off as awkward too.

Stop watching porn (if you do) and do some strenght exercise(pull ups and squashes are great) with That, you shouldn't be having any real problem.

>>17408479
Don't give a shit.

>>17408486
Not helpful, given that I have anxiety.

Challenge your anxiety to a duel. Kick its ass. And go crush some pussy.

I give you +10 ass kicking points for the duel.