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How do I tell my best friend I love him 2016-07-29 07:11:49 Post No.17405660
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How do I tell my best friend I love him
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2016-07-29 07:11:49
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I've know this person all my life and I really love him, I really want to tell him.
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>him
Either OP is a troll or she'll wait until her crush has a girlfriend before she spills her guts. Every time.
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>>17405660
Say I'm your best friend. You don't have to say it, but say it.
I, as your best friend, would like it very much if you told me you loved me.
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>>17405660
love doesn't exist, are you trying to make me sad again?
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>ditzy blonde i work with
>amazingly hot but complete retard
>shes always giggling and winking at me and stuff, punching me, sticking her tounge out at me, etc
>i THINK shes flirting, but she probably does this with tons of guys
This has never really happened to me before. How do i get laid in this situation, /advv/? Eternal blessings to those who can help me out here
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>>17405629
Chance are you probably can't. A lot of women just flirt, especially at work, especially in the service industry, as a guess.
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>>17405643
Not service
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>>17405643
And even then, maybe shes just easy. Ive been on a long dry spell but i dont have any game, help me out here? How do i say "lets fuck" without saying just that?
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Depression/No Attraction 2016-07-29 06:52:18 Post No.17405578
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>Going to college
>Happy by myself
>I have plenty of friends
>I mean well and my heart is in the right place.
>Realize I'm not attracted to a single person at my university.
I mean don't get me wrong, there are beautiful people (personality) but none I see myself with. I sometimes wonder if I'm gay or something. I dunno, my biggest celebrity crush is Ellen Wong would you say her looks aren't realistic standards?
I won't be closed minded, it's just I'm not attract to anyone!
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>>17405578
You might be focusing on looks too much. The right personality makes a 6 into a 9. Also you might be focusing too much on trying to find someone that is absolutely perfect and ticks all your unnecessary and superficial boxes. Attraction is purely a chemical thing but you are clouding it with your mind.
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>>17405608
Most people aren't as beautiful as celebrities IS WHAT SOME PEOPLE SAY. I think you could afford to liberate yourself from guilt over having a pair of working eyes and a firm knowledge of beauty standards.
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Huh
Will I regret spending my twenties doing volunteer work on farms and not earning any money or any employable work experience outside of agriculture and permaculture? Seriously considering packing up out of the city and just travelling around helping people for free, but there's a lot of pressure from family and friends to get a job or study or whatever.
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>>17405549
>twenties doing volunteer work on farms and not earning any money or any employable work experience outside of agriculture and permaculture? Seriously considering packing up out of the city and just travelling around helping people for free, but there's a lot of pressure from family and friends to get a job or study or whatever.
Can you not get some kind of part-time degree online while you do this or something?
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>>17405570
I guess that is possible? I hadn't considered that there would be an online degree that would actually get me employable experience/I didn't think those were taken seriously be employers.
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>>17405575
What's your field of interest? This also sounds like the kind of thing you should do and will regret if you never do it?
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ITT: Questions that dont need their own thread.
Simple questions that dont need their own thread.
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Did he think we were gonna go on a date?
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>>17405527
Oh god, the cringe.
He wanted it to be a date. You made it obvious that it wouldn't be one, which is more than most women would do.
Tell us details about the "friend hangout" and how he got invited.
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I'm writing an essay on punk rock and I'm totally blanking on an academically appropriate term for 'fuck it all attitude'. please help
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Anyone know how to get rid of dark circles? Mine are similar to pic related.
They make me feel really insecure and I've had people comment on them in the past.
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Buy witch hazel. It comes in a bottle like rubbing alcohol. Wet a cotton ball with witch hazel and apply with dabs to your lower eyelid. Just keep dabbing and eventually (over a few days) the circles will dissipate. Just keep your eyelids wet with the witch hazel using the cotton ball.
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>>17405513
>have intensely bad dark circles
>use witch hazel as toner
>expecting this to burn my eyes like an absolute motherfucker
>too curious now not to try it
Brb
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You can't get rid of them. They're veins and their placement is genetic. Don't listen to stupid hocus pocus bullshit like the retard above me. I'm sure you have more immediately noticeable problems with your appearance anyway, like weight or makeup.
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I have a ticket for $200 in Chicago for skipping toll booths. I have never driven on a highway that has had toll booths. I honestly didn't know anything beyond you pay them to get passage.
There were 5 or 6 lanes, and 3 of them were toll booths; I just thought you had to pay if you were going to exit.
>broke ass fuck
>due in 3 days
>live two states away
I really don't think I can contest it under just a lack of knowledge about toll booths, but I really can't just throw $200 away.
My dad offered to help, but he's also been not taking rent out of my account for a few months because I'm so broke.
Can I/Should I contest it, or stop bitching and pay it?
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Ignorance won't excuse you. You have to no choice but to pay.
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Call the phone number on the citation, be polite af, explain your naivety, ask if there's anything you can do to get the fine reduced.
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>>17405534
I'll try when the offices are open.
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I'm still hung up on my ex. Like she was amazing and really lived me, but I was young and stupid.
8 years later and I'm still yearning. How do I stop yearning and is it possible to show someone you've changed after such a long time and after closure?
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ex-what
ex girlfriend? ex nanny? ex wife? ex dominatrix?
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>>17405507
Er, ex nanny. She used to give the best spankings
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>>17405512
ex-girlfriend or wife? there's a big difference.
Just noticed clusters of red dots on my arms and googled it. I got to "10 signs you may have leukemia" .
https://www.caring.com/slideshows/signs-you-could-have-leukemia
>red dots
>sometimes pain in joints
>no headaches(except when im literally writing this now)
>no bumps except what a relative doctor told us was cartilage
>been feeling tired
>literally did wonder of a bruise I didnt know where I got it last night and I've been having a lot of red spots and small scars
>no fevers or infections
>always have been weighing little (67kg)
>history of heart (or something nearby) suddenly hurting when taking deep breaths, this happened for the first time in a long time yesterday
>no abdominal pain
I am kind of shitting myself atm. Though some of those things I can explain from another direction. My father told me the red dots are due to me sunbathing a lot suddenly and being pale (another symptom). I sit A LOT = joint aching. And feeling tired might be due having been sleeping irregularly recently. Scars might be due to mosquitos.
Should I worry?
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>>17405465
Nah, self diagnosis isn't to accurate. But if its really bothering you, go ask a doctor.
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I'm keen for getting ear piercings. My sister and mother both got infections though, is it genetic at all or did they just not take care of their stuff/bad place? What else should I know?
Cheers
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>I'm keen for getting ear piercings.
Well, are you a boy or a girl?
>I think infections are genetic
Oh, that answers that question.
I think my bf and i are saying "i love you" way too often. It starts to not feel special anymore. How do i tell him that we need to tone it down without him feeling rejected?
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Sometimes I think that my boss and I are getting too friendly and our relationship just doesn't feel as special when we're palling around and talking bullshit. So I keep my fucking head down and work.
Maybe you could try something like that. Do you see the point I'm trying to make here? What zillion things aren't you doing that you find time to worry about telling someone you love them?
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>>17405462
Mkay
I'm just being a bitch about it then?
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>>17405458
do what I do:
when woman says "I love you"
I just say "whatever"
This entire summer, my sex drive has been very wild.
To start things off, i got off on basically anything with boobs and a vagina. I was a mess. I was 18 at the time, and wanting to fuck anything and everything. I fucked my gf for awhile, and when we broke up, the very next week i went back on ny college campus and had sex like crazy.
I remember one particular night i got incredibly fucked up, worst i have ever been, and i passed out. Woke up in a random chicks bed, tried to have sex with her, couldnt get hard, so i bailed. Ever since then, i barely get boners anymore. Its been all summer long. Porn doesnt do anything. If the hottest girl in the planet came to my room, stripped off her clothes and told me to fuck her, i probably couldnt do it. My erections are barely hard, my orgasms suck. What should i do? Im freaking out
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Yeah, that's what you get for having meaningless and shallow sex. Enjoy perma wet noodle
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>>17405434
No, something else happened.
What did you get fucked up on that night?
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>>17405437
Only thing i remember was it was really, really fucking strong wine. And i had like 6 cups of it.
And like 7 shots of vodka.
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I have an ultimatum coming up and I don't know what to do.
In a month my best bro is proposing to his girl in Japan. He's flying her out there for a "fun trip" to drop the ring bomb. He's offered to front the entire airfare and hotel to have me around during the one week trip. My other friend and his girl are going as well as a childhood bro of mine. Two of them told me that this is a once in a lifetime offer. They know that I'm studying Japanese and like the culture and they want me to help them plan it out.
But my dilemma is that my employer will not give me the time off. They said the only way is for me to quit and reapply. I feel like I should go with them. Though, I'll be losing my job. I'm not getting younger and I was recently forced to move in with my mother because I lost my prior job. I've been with my current company for almost a year and I'm about to get vacation time. I'm twenty five for fuck sakes. This is Fucking with me.
The part that scares me is losing my health and medical insurance. I could get another job but nothing like the one I have. It only makes 12 an hour but they train you for positions that make bank. It's in aerospace. I was thinking about getting work in an Asian airline from here so I could speak more languages.
I'm pretty torn here. My logical mind says don't do it but I want to believe that there is something for me to learn there.
I have no savings. I would need a new job immediately.
Any advice for me? This is fucked.
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>Aerospace
>$12/hour
>No vacation time accrued within the first year
>"But I'm being trained!"
No, you're being dicked around.
You've got a month to send out applications to other places. You can do it.
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>>17405376
Sick holiday or something like that?
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>>17405397
They train you for other positions. I'm the lowest pay grade. I could be making 30 an hour in six months if I go for crane operation or management. Not to mention salary positions.
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Why am I having premature ejaculation?
I didn't have this problem before now all the sudden I can't control my or orgasm. It has been 2 months and it hasn't improved.
My wife likes it rough but I cannot pound away without busing after 10 pumps.
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>>17405368
Either go back to masturbating or she's not as loose because she's not sleeping with Jamal behind your back.
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>>17405455
I've tried both stop fapping and fapping frequently
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Tell a doc, get ssri inhibitors. Get viagra. They put me on prozac for PE, then I was so insensitive I couldn't even get it up so they give me viagra. My gf loves it, I can literally pump for an hour, like constant stimulation. It's kind of creepy cuz it's gotten to a point where I don't cum during sex. I really only do it for my gf, sex stops when she can't get wet anymore.
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I am a university student. I currently have this temporary part-time job that I absolutely love. Nobody seems to care when I tell them about my job. Why? Is it because the oldfags in my social circle are past the part-time job phase? Similar to how I don't care how my younger cousin loves Clifford and other cartoons for kids?
If I mention how much I love this job to my older relatives/high school teachers I kept in touch with, will they think of me as native/childish? I mean, nobody enjoys going to work and I think these guys have been working long enough to know that.
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>>17405333
It's not that interesting if the part time job is not that cool. They probably won't think that your childish. People do enjoy going to work. If you want to share it, share it. But don't get surprised that no one really cares.
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what's the job?
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>>17405367
I won't mention my job here as I do not want people to identify me but it is related to my interest.
And it's also nice as I get free buffet lunches, unlimited coffee, expensive treats, etc. I didn't mention this to people I am not close to though as I know that everyone has the potential to become jealous