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i dont know what to do with my life anymore
nothing seems worth it

im in the military and married.

why do i feel like lying down and dying
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You need something to give yourself worth. Something has to be fun, fine a hobby like games or drones or sports. Something to keep your mind happy.
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>>17407813
>married
>feels like dying
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>>17407813
its called depresion, go to a psychologist and tell everything that you think its wrong, but go to a private one, public one tend to just give you the meds and fuck off

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>move up to new state
>no friends
>inna discord
>find person that keeps asking about rooming with me
>not sure if he is asking sarcastically, but ask why he keeps asking
>turns out she's a trap
>inb4 >she
>she doesn't like living where she's living, I say that sucks
>rent around my town is cheap af
>offer her to rent an apartment together and split rent
>she appreciates the thought, but wants to get to know me more
>turns out she has abusive parents and an ex that is blackmailing her
>seems reasonable enough to get to know me so she doesn't get herself into that again
>as a month passes, we talk about recent events in our lives
>try to talk her through her problems, giving advice and my support
>at the same time continue developing a plan to eventually move in together
>plan works out to be economically viable
>tell buddy of 5-years about plan
>he's impressed at the low rent cost
>he asks to tag along, as he too is not into his current living situation
>ask trap
>she's fine with it
>a few weeks pass, and the plan develops more to include my friend
>plan for mid-august migration
>everything is fine
>trap suddenly deletes and blocks me without saying why
>at a loss, sob myself to sleep later that night, but still currently very bummed out
>stuck wondering what the hell happened

How do you deal with a friend that abruptly deletes and blocks you?
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Who gives a fuck, move in with your friend instead.
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>>17407812
This is why traps/trans/whatever are commonly referred to simply as 'mental illness'.

It is garbage. Get over it.

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Is there a good place on internet for asking dating advice ? I only want to take advice from people who are experienced, I don't know where to ask advice for my problem
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Not 4chan.
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>>17407801
That used to be a website specifically for animu loli
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>>17407801
Of course but where are the good places then ?

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Is it possible to strongly dislike someone without there being at least a small bit of jealousy?
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sure?
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I don't know why you would think the answer is "no" unless you happen to be strongly disliked.
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>>17407794
What? Of course. There are people I absolutely despise and there isn't a single positive quality about them to make me even the slightest bit jealous.

My sister in law comes to mind. Burnout drug addict with kids from other dads, has cheated on my equally retarded brother, some felony convictions from forging checks ten years ago.

Yeah, no, it's totally possible and likely that everyone will "strongly dislike" other people and have zero envy toward them.

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I'm about to start my freshman year of college as a Computer Science major. Is CS worth it? I've seen good stats about getting a job after college with a CS degree but I'd like some second opinions.
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>>17407761
Yeah, It's good for being a code monkey who will lose his job to an Indian or Chinese who will do it for half the price in 5 years time.
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Does your university have computer science courses, or does it churn out code monkeys with "computer science" degrees? You'll get a job regardless, but the quality of your job depends on that.
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>>17407799
It has computer science courses

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I'm 24 and live with my folks. We're making a big move across the country as soon as my house sells, at which time I can get a job, start saving cash to move out, live a real life, etc.

But the fucking house is just not selling. It's taken way longer than expected, and I'm running out of money, patience, etc. I don't want to start anything new because I know I'm leaving here. So my life is on hold. I have no job or obligations, which can be comfy as fuck, but now is often stale and unsatisfying.

I feel like I'm missing out on my 20s and all I want to do is sleep all day. I only want to be awake at night. Why? What do?
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Sell your body on Craigslist
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>>17407756
Try to get a job here, or set (try to) set up a side business. You can always quit when you move.

Yea got the same problem with sleeping, if I get up earlier then 9 - 10 (now 8 atm with work) I will be sleepy all day, and magically get energy in the evening.
Things that seem to help is working out early instead of in the evening, eat more in the morning, and force myself to sleep earlier.
Seems simple but I tend to (prefer to) do these things at night.
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>>17407756
Vitamins dude

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I really want to start doing some innawoods stuff and have had this idea for awhile. I have a forest in my backyard that I would love to go into, clear out a space, and make a camp/ shelter in it. Ive asked around and the general consensus is that I can do so without getting in trouble. Ive been told its "common ground". I live in TN and I have not found anything online that is a definite yes or no. Am I allowed? Would I get in trouble, if found? pic related, the forest looks a bit like this, but with more foliage and the tree are closer together.
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It should be fine as long as you dont throw around too much litter or break/change anything in the forest
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>>17407765
Nothing like that, though in order to clear out a space, some trees and other stuff would have to go in order to have the materials and space for what I have in mind. The only thing I'd have would be my tools and whatever I bring to make a adequate living space.
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Also, how would I go about finding out if the land is owned? I doubt it because it's nothing but forest, though you never know.

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Recently I just downloaded dating apps,as I wanted to meet girls,as I have only fucked prostitutes. In 4 days I got over 20 matches and I am keeping a conversation with 7 different women.(The names below are made up)
>Stacey:Hot Dominican mulatta that wants to get dicked. She alredy sent me picks of her in a top. Kind of crazy and wants a serious thing. I just want to fuck her. But she is nuts and kind of obsesive
>Stephanie: Probably matches my personality perfectly. Very inteligent and interesting girls. Very cute. Has lots of traumas due her sisters being 20 years older than her,probably spends lots of time alone.
>Charlotte: Ugly face .10/10 body. Would definetly bang. Very kind and seems quite normal
>Laura:US tourist that wants me to show her the city. Fuckable and nice.
>Alizee:French girl that just wants dick. She texted me first. Kind of ugly,but I would definetly do her.
>Rebecca:Outstanding blonde. I cant beleieve that she matched me.Havent talk much to her.
>Cristina:Nice girl that likes to cook and movies. Cute.
Who should I chose
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All of them
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Help guys
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>>17407749
Lmao, this doesnt deserve a thread. You are narcisistically just bragging and seeking acceptance and praise for this.

You're a total NEET for hooking up on Dating Apps, dont try and play off like you're some major PussSlayer just because you went to the cesspool of Daddy Issues and Normie Sluts.

Sage

I'm going into engineering and recently found myself in a leadership role, if I were going to choose a minor that would develop leadership skills what would it be?

What are some non-engineering classes I should consider taking?
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>>17407735
>learning leadership from classes

just no
you can get some basics but those you can read up on the internet as well, this is not something you learn without doing it

here's some tips tho:
-be firm, clear but open
-be consistent, don't play favourites
-walk the talk, if you say you'll do something fucking do it, don't promise something you won't be able to do
-show respect and be understanding, but draw the line and don't be a pushover
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>>17407762
Aren't there certain courses and classes that are designed for leadership skills though?
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>>17407762
I guess what I'm saying is I'm not sure why it would be a bad idea to focus and direct my studies into being an effective team leading engineer, with my major being engineering and maybe a certificate or minor in something else.

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I'm majoring in Mathematics and English. Besides a 4.0 gpa what can I do to be admitted to Stanford, UC Berkeley, or Caltech? I'm starting school this fall.
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>>17407730

you don't
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>>17407730

Sorry OP...you fell for that meme that Calculus at a community college is the same as Calculus at Cal Tech.
It's not.
You're not getting in to either Stanford or Cal Tech. You'll have a shot at Berkeley.
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>>17407734
>>17407739
Why do you say that? Calculus is quite simple.

For the most part, I have a decent life, except I wish I could get laid more often, but that sort of ties into my main point-

At work today, I was chatting my coworkers (it's a predominantly male job) and I overheard them say that I was a nice kid, but that I spoil their fun by not dishing it back out when they mess with me. I just take it.

I know exactly what they're talking about but I find it hard to do. Coming up with some stupid shit on the spot to poke fun at other people.
It's hard for me to say things that I know will sound stupid as fuck after the fact. I want to come up with a sick burn, a funny putdown, but I clam up. I feel like I can't conjure up something sufficiently funny on the spot.

I know this playful teasing is essential to flirting as well, and I'm fucking myself by not bantering.

Of course, everything is different on imageboards and I find it easier to be crude and debasing, but IRL it's hard not to reflexively be polite and serious, as that's the way I've been expected to act in most of the other schools/work situations I've been in.
I feel if I were totally unrestrained as if I were on this site, I would probably get in trouble, as I find very horrible things funny.
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Try hitting them
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>>17407728

Bully older coworkers about their age
Ask if someone is grumpy because it's been so long since last wednesday, or saturday (wife-sex-reference)
Balding coworkers cut the work out for you
Younger coworkers that seem tired, bully about their new girl (especially if they don't have any)
Also, tell the gossip runner all kinds of things: the leaders are talking about 20 hour workweeks, the leaders are talking about 60 hour workweeks, they are gonna hire, they are gonna fire, etc etc. Watch as the whole site runs abuzz with these "news". But only, ONLY, do this if others are present, so they can spread the tales of you setting the rumour-monger running

Keep it playful

Workplace banter is an art.
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Bamp. Surely i'm not the only one who is dealing with this issue

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my gfs younger sister is showering next to the room I'm in. she's always touching me grabbing flirting touching my ass wearing revealing clothes. i know she likes me but doubt anything would happen. i feel bad because i cat get it out of my head how bad i want her. i love my girl but what do i do?
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Fuck her you pussy.

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I have had this fantasy for almost a year, where I watch my girlfriend get fucked by a huge dick. We have been together for 5 years and have a great sex life, but I can't get this fantasy out of my head. A few months ago I surprised her with a huge penis sleeve that we use occasionally and she seems to really like it, but says she prefers just me. Has anyone shared their girl? How'd it work? Was it worth it? How did you get her to do it?
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>>17407712
r u a cuck
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>>17407712
Awkward, you may regret this midway through doing it.
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Not a cuck. I'm not into any of the humiliation chastity stuff.

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Was in relationship for 3.5 years,2 years passed since that and I still get tilted and a bit depressed when I see something she posts and some guy putting heart in comments on facebook on her profile pic.

I thought that after 2 years I'll be over it but sure as hell I'm not. Any ideas on what to do,how to deal with cuz it's obvious I'm too incopetent to figure it out on my own.
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>>17407711
Stalking her is only gonna bring you hurt man. Quit her cold turkey otherwise you will never move on.
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>>17407715
I'm not really stalking. I'm too damn proud for that so I neither follow her on IG nor look at her FB profile,I catch here and there some posts and that seems enough..
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>>17407715

/thread
and get yourself a new woman

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I'm interested in someone, but the only time I see them is in a customer/service context. I never get time to speak to them as a normal person really. Is it a dick move to ask someone out while they're working?
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go for it...without appearing too aggressive
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Just don't draw attention to it. If you need to start being more conversational with them during the customer interactions. Some people think they can't talk to employees but service is a number 1 priority and everyone gets joy out of it, and it increases relations with customers.

Ask if they'd like to get a coffee or some generic bullshit. Don't ask when they're shift ends, it comes across a little weirder then youd think.

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