Physically scared to have sex, what do???
I'm a virgin and it doesn't have to be that way, I have had many opportunities to get laid or at least recieve/give head. Whenever I get close to the situation I bug out and bail. My teeth get really chattery and my body starts shaking like it's negative degrees outside. I want to have sex and do sexual things but it seems everytime I get close my body says no, what do I do?
Gif not related.
See a doctor
>>17479292
Already have, "you're just nervous anon, it's natural". I'm not nervous for it at all, it's physically uncontrollable, I don't feel nervous at all.
>>17479288
Were you raped or assaulted
>>17479306
No I haven't been sexually traumatized ever. I just get really shaky and my body starts to almost convulse.
Thats normal when youre having anonymous intercourse
>>17479333
I know the people lol its not strangers.
>>17479314
Perhaps you havent tried having sex with someone you trust and care about. They can ease you into the experience a lot more easily and you'll want it enough that your phobia will not matter.
>>17479350
Yeah that's possible. I wish there was a way too over come it without having to be emotionally attached to someone. I feel like that's part of the issue. I don't feel safe.
>>17479288
Ive never been in a situation like that but oh boy I get exactly the same thing. I uncontrollably shake violently and I cant stop myself. Was on omegle and a girl offered to show boobs and what not, could not stop vibrating like a fucking motorbike. Whole body. Then I get really sick and teeth start going. If I try to talk its like a speech jammer. I am SO SCARED that if I ever do get down to your situation that it will be so embarrassing that she will never talk to me again.
So yes, not alone here