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Thinking I might be doing Navy OCS next month.
What am I in for?
Before anyone asks I already did all the paperwork and MEPS. Just waiting for them to tell me when I can start.
I've got two college degrees but haven't been able to find a job for 8 months now. So a couple months ago I bit the bullet and talked to a Navy recruiter.
I watched some Youtube vids on OCS and now I'm all paranoid I won't be able to cut it.
But even if I get through OCS I feel like maybe I'm screwing up by joining the Navy?
I've been in college so long but can't find a job anywhere that'll pay me decently so I'm living with my parents right now, so anything sounds better than this.
But by the time I get out of the Navy I'll be 30, I'm 26 now.
I don't know if I want to do this if it means missing out on what's left of my 20's.
So anyone gone through OCS? Or you know, general advice on how to not feel like I've missed out on my 20's?
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>>17576427
I've been trying to learn Navy ranks so I figured it was appropriate.
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>>17576372
Relax. It will be easy. Do what your told, 100% effort at all times, attempt perfection in everything you do (YOU CANNOT ACHIEVE PERFECTION BUT YOU CAN STRIVE TO ACHIEVE IT). If you think OCS is going to be hard then this experience will be good overall for your personal growth as a human being.
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Ok so I just kinda want to know if I'm over-reacting in a situation... I'll give the general run down of whats led up to it.
Me and my girlfriend dated for over 2 and a half years when she ended up breaking up with me. a few days after she ended up rebounding and hooking up with one of my friends. While this was horribly devastating it didn't last long. She realized her mistake and broke it off not too long later.
Fast forward a little while and we started talking a little and she regretted everything etc etc we ended up getting back together.
Fast forward another 4.5 months and we're doing pretty well. The only issue is that I cant seem to get over this horrible (probably partially irrational) hatred for my ex friend.
This is annoying because most of my other friends still hang out with him but its w/e i can deal and make other plans that dont involve him with them.
But me and her have shared the same group of friends for a while. And on a few occasions she's hung out with a group of friends including him. This really makes me uncomfortable for obvious reasons. On top of my hatred for him, they hooked up and were together for a little while. She assures me she's had absolutely no feelings for him and that she only jumped to him as a rebound because she wanted some kind of comfort after ending a 2+ year relationship. But it still bothers me greatly when she spends time around him even if there are other people.
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I've talked to her about my feelings on this and she does agree to try to avoid it but she's also complained that it's hard for her to hang out with her friends if she has to police who goes out with them.
I'm worried that I'm being controlling or over the top in asking her to not go out with them if he's there. I know alot of my anger directed at him may be irrational, but its still there and its really strong. I've never loathed anyone as much as I've loathed him.
I thought that it was pretty normal to ask your SO to not hang out with their ex but I'm starting to feel like I'm the one in the wrong. I know it may make it harder for her to plan things and on the off chance of him showing up to an event (usually around 4-6 people) is it completely wrong for her to leave?
It just makes me so uncomfortable with her being around him at all and I want to know if I'm asking too much or not.
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>>17576362
Sounds like you're being pretty mature about the situation all together, however, I wouldn't be able to deal with that. If it bothers you she should be understanding towards not hanging out around him.
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>>17576374
Instead of directing your anger at him, it should be at her. She broke up with you and then slept with one of your good friends. She had her pick and didn't have to go for someone close to you.
>I thought that it was pretty normal to ask your SO to not hang out with their ex but I'm starting to feel like I'm the one in the wrong. I know it may make it harder for her to plan things and on the off chance of him showing up to an event (usually around 4-6 people) is it completely wrong for her to leave?
Depends on the circumstances. It doesn't sound like they were together for very long or had anything serious. In reality, she was just using the guy. Feel bad for HIM, if anything.
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Convince me not to go MGTOW
Lately every woman I've met has either hurt,abandoned, or just set an example of that all women really are shallow
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>>17576356
What the hell is mgtow?
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>>17576361
Men go their own way
Is basically living the philosophy that all women aren't nothing but hoes and tricks
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>>17576364
If you're actually considering this as a philosophy you'd like to follow, by all means go and die alone.
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It would have been my crush's 19th birthday today.
How do I go to work today without crying?
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>>17576324
Post questions on /adv/ with little-to-no context.
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>>17576324
picrelated
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I'm sorry for your loss. If you don't mind my asking, what happened?
>hanging out with friends
>girlfriend is resting her head on my lap
>I get aroused for no reason
>attempted to adjust my dick
>I failed and pointed it directly upwards
>girlfriend rests her head on my lap again
>she missed and hit the back of her ear with my dick tip
>she felt it and chose to say nothing
>a week passes and we skype
>she confronts me about it
>I react by saying I get easily aroused
>I think we're breaking up
>I need help
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your girlfriend is breaking up with you because her head-laying arouses you?
good riddance. although it's probably all in your head.
why do you think she's breaking up with you?
she could just be planning something sexy
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>>17576297
>Girlfriend mad at boyfriend for getting aroused by her.
This is an 18+ website, go be 13 somewhere else.
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>>17576297
>Help, my girlfriend turns me on!
>I think we're gonna break up over this, guys
the fuck is this
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Can't trust women anymore. 2016-09-17 03:12:27 Post No.17576286
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Can't trust women anymore.
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I was at a party last month, my band had just had a very successful night playing at a venue while on tour and we were partying at a friend's place. At said party I had enough to drink, enough that I was still conscious, though I could barely speak or stand up straight.
There were a girls there. I didn't really have any interest in any of them, they weren't really my type.
One of the girls though saw that I was pretty slammed and said that I should come with her to get some water in the kitchen. (The people/party was out on the back porch). She took me to the kitchen and gave me a glass of water. She then put her hand on my arm and said that I "Played really good tonight." Her hand then moved to my chest and she started moving closer to me. I said to her "I'm not ok with this," though I guess she didn't hear me, because she dragged me into a bedroom and threw me on the bed and held me down. The bitch fucking raped me.
Now I'm not sure if this has happened to anyone else, but generally what I hear is "That's awesome man!" or "Congrats."Though I didn't feel like it was an achievement. This bitch took my dignity, she held me down. She violated me.
I don't know if I a faggot, hell maybe I am, but I'm just looking for some advice. I'm back at uni I feel like I can't trust girls anymore. I'm always thinking that they could have that same motive, floating in their head.
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That's awesome man!
Congrats.
maybe if you weren't such a beta piece of shit faggot, you'd have stood up for yourself.
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>>17576286
This is actually considered rape tho. An I think no one should be forced to do something without their consent. Unfortunately male rape happens a lot but no one talks about it cuz muh patriarchy.
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>>17576290
You sir are an alpha male! You definitely hurt my feelings!
>>17576294
But what should I do? I mean, I can't exactly do anything? I have broken up with my girlfriend since I feel like I couldn't trust her anymore. Does anyone have any experience around this?
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Am i actually masterbating? 2016-09-17 03:05:27 Post No.17576276
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Like im my situation i will look at porn , and then i would most of time just go to sleep and don't really jack off but the most rarest of times I'll get hard and pre-cum but won't go to the edge of actually cumming. Also when i do that i don't really even touch my self when i look at it. I just let it loose.
Also i haven't stroke me dick in a good 3 years and haven't came in a long while. I know i can cum but i just don't want to.
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>i dont even touch it
then no its not masturbation
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation
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>>17576280
Then what is it then just me looking at porn?
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just think about it:
what's the natural purpose of precum?
you're watching people have sex, why would precum occur?
just think about it
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Know of any online businesses that will take my mp3 files and put them on CD and mail me said CD?
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>>17576273
What? just by shitty burner and do it your self.
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>>17576277
if we all just did stuff ourselves, capitalism would fall. I'm trying to give someone a job. do it for me and I will pay you monies
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>>17576307
This is the stupidest thought process.
You shouldn't tie your shoes either. That way you can give a poor shoe tie-er a job.
Is it shitty to just leach off your parents through college?
I worked full time over every holiday break and even with that and scholarships it's not enough to get me through the semester. I decided to get a job this year but I'm already feeling burnt out not even a month into the semester. My grades are also taking a notable dip. I'm an only child with two middle class working parents and they've offered to help out and make it seem like it's not that much of an issue. I feel bad when most people have to work their way through college and I don't necessarily have to.
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they're good parents, so dont feel guilty about taking their help
and dont feel guilty about being in a better financial position than others
if your grades taking a notable dip is really bugging you, find a tutor, or study harder
if u rly dont care about college, drop out and pursue a career through certifications
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>>17576260
Nothing is wrong with it my dude. If they're offering the help, take it. Worry about your education and make sure you call your parents more often and make some efforts to visit them to repay their efforts. They love you and want to help you.
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>>17576260
They're your parents. They want to help you. Just ask them if you're gonna be a financial burden on them thou. Might help your conscience.
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Why do I suck at FPS games so much???
I used to be decent in middle school and early high school
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>>17576202
You don't play as much as you did in middle/high school.
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>>17576205
But I practice more nowadays
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Maybe you're just thinking too much about it. Like honestly you just need to kick back and enjoy the game, then it'll come naturally. None of that practicing bull crap.
Also have you perhaps considered that you were just playing against other middle schoolers and early high schoolers and they just sucked at the game?
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How do I satisfy my man? He seems so bored and uninterested.
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>>17576190
Suck his cock
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>>17576224
um...no
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>>17576248
Found the problem, it's you.
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I am really embarrassed about my girlfriend's art. Shes a drawfag on /b/ and draws really gross porn of fat ugly people and monsters and stuff. So far she stays on /b/ but someone linked me to some of her art shown on a porn site and someone posted some from her tumblr mocking her and me.
I tell her to think about what she draws, she just says "You shouldn't tell people who I am online."
I don't know what to do, it is putting a strain on our relationship.
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>>17576167
Don't tell people who she is and let her be. Why would you fucking care whatever she does on 4chan b of all places?
Specially when it comes to something like art and drawing. Geez. Just let her draw fat people having sex. She likes it. It is not the end of the world.
Op. Seriously get a life and tell your gf to git gud
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People shouldn't know who she is, just her account, and they shouldn't know you.
> "You shouldn't tell people who I am online."
Did you do something stupid?
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>>17576167
well at least we know why shes attracted to you.
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Ok so I was schizophrenic for a short while and it wasn't really too severe however I am on medications and the doctors think I need to stay on them. However I want to get a job as a truck driver and you cant be on any forms of medication which may make you drowsy or dizzy which these do. How do I proceed?
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I think that you should stay on your meds, anon.
Why do you want to be a truck driver so bad??
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Forget truck driver. Meds are more important.
If you want to drive without a CDL you could work for delivery companies driving light duty vehicles.
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>>17576155
because I'm a loner and its about the only career I can see myself doing.
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How long should I wait before I quit? 2016-09-17 01:45:36 Post No.17576122
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How long should I wait before I quit?
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I had a terrible first day at work. I mean so bad, I contemplated leaving mid-way through my shift.
I feel sick to my stomach knowing I have to come back tomorrow and do it all over again.
With my other jobs, I had a feeling on my first day that it was either "for" me or not.
I am already feeling like this job is not for me at all.
I am continuing to fill out and submit more applications like crazy.
How long is an appropriate time for me to tell my new boss that the job just isn't for me, and quit?
Not only do I not want to continue being miserable, but I don't want to waste anymore of their training dollars or resources on me.
Will this make me look like shit?
I really would not like to be there by mid next month.
What do I do
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Use the same notice period as they would have to give if they wanted to fire someone.
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>>17576122
As an employer, quit now. They'll work to talk you out of it because that's their job and they probably need you, but if your head is not ready for the job you're doing, put in your resignation at the start of your shift and finish that shift out. This gives them time to make sure they're scheduled out for your absence following that and overall just makes you seem like less of a dick.
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>>17576134
Do it tomorrow?
Won't that make me look worse, considering I have only worked there for 8 hours?
Should I just give a two week's notice? Or is it too soon??
How would you handle this if an employee did this to you?
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Dude, the fuck. I'm fucking bored.
I live in suburbia. Like, shit suburbia. Can't go to a bar and have a drink because I don't want a DUI. Don't have any friends who are worth shit so I have no one's home to drink at. My only real friends are dads or in a severe depression and won't respond to me. My girlfriend lives three hours away. I've exhausted all of my solitary hobbies, and I'm usually very good at keeping myself busy, so I'm inb4 only boring people are boring meme.
I'm stuck in this shitty town due to reasons for a year or so. So what the fuck am I supposed to fucking do? I can only have fun by drinking alone like once every two weeks, that's the only thing I can think to do tonight.
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>>17576087
hangout with someone on skype and drink together . Play some games with people or something.
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>>17576091
My only skype buddy lives in China, so it's morning over there now. Games -- I got no friends to invite to play games with. If you mean online videogames, I don't have a computer that can handle it at the moment. Fuck, I just want to have a conversation with somebody. I miss living in a city, having friends all around me, just going out and talking shit for hours on end.
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Fishing, hunting, programming, working out...I hate to say it, but video games? It's a personal decision. There's always something you can do to better yourself, but it sucks sometimes.
Life's about moments man, some are better than others. You should do what you want to do, but make a dignified choice.