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I am leaving the business I am in now and will be taking everything I have learned over the years and will be applying it to start my own company. Does anyone have any experience or maybe some information on how far I can take this without any action from the old business owner?

My next step is to consult an attorney.
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>>17574207
Bump
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>>17574207
Do you have a no-compete clause in your contract or exit package? Is anything you're taking exclusive intellectual property owned by the company?

Violating either of those could get you into serious legal trouble. Anything else, like using the general knowledge you learned through experience there, or even stealing customers, is considered bad form and might well hurt your professional reputation, but it wouldn't be actionable.
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>>17574387

This x 100

From the business side of things; you're going to earn very little money over the next few months so I hope you've got ample savings to float you. I'd definately recommend meeting a tax accountant to discuss how to get your company (and by default) yourself running as tax efficiently as possible. Have you got a client base?

It depends entirely on what industry and work we're talking about here; what field are you in?

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I never really bin to a coffeeshop in my own town, and don't like to be spotted by someone i know

Any advice?
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why does it matter if someone recognizes you?
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...get high at home?
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>>17574190
I don't understand my problem ether, but i'm a really anti-social person that never invites someone to do something. Those people who know me also go there sometimes so i feel weird about it idk

~sorry for the shitty reply

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6form britbong reporting in.

The lunch hour had just started and I went down from the 6form common room to go and get food. I left my laptop out and unfortunately I had disabled the password...

My mates open my laptop and check history and they find some tranny porn.

Apparently they were laughing for a solid 10 minutes.

>One of them calls me and tells me to go up to the 6form center "now", I go up there and halfway there I realize my laptop is open.
>I expect the worst.
>Rush in while and see them crowded round table with my laptop as the centet of attention
>Fucking sprint over, slide across desk like action man and grab that shit
>"anon what kind of porn do you watch"?
>Spaghetti.webm
>Make up bullshit excuse


I'm getting the feeling that my friends feel really fucking guilty, now that they realize wha they've done and the fact that people who aren't my friends now know. I'm skiving off of school right now, and last night I literally cried myself to sleep. Never done that before.

I am supposed to go to a birthday gathering with them tomorrow.

tl;dr My best mates, and aquaintences know I like trannies, and I'm supposed to go to a bday gathering with them tomorrow.

How do I sort this mess out, preferably without overdosing on sleeping pills?
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Go dressed as a women.
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>>17574183
Do this, OP. Show them you're not afraid to show who you are. But, seriously, it's not a big deal. Get over it.
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It is not that bad at all. It's not like it was bestiality or cp. Just admit you like some freaky ass shit. be like 'whatever dude, yeah i get my rocks off with tranny porn, so what?'

It comes up sometimes in drunk conversations with my own friends that my phone is full of degenerate octopus rape porn and they've seen it a couple times inadverdently. I get teased for it sometimes but i don't give a fuck and we all joke about how degenerate we are and i was even offered to watch bible black with some member of the opposite sex. It's even sparked some interesting conversations.

If people are being immature and trying to get a rise out of you just ignore it and don't let them use a part of you to hurt you. Your real friends wil stick by you dude.

Alright, I have asked this question before and I did what you all said but check this out:
GF of over two years broke up with me, been trying to get over her. I sorta am now that I see her with another guy, but I have tons of nudes of her and I always jacked to them because we had a sorta long distance relationship went to 2 different colleges, met in highschool.
Ok, well I had asked /adv/ if I should look a them anymore to bust a nut or would that make the process of getting over her worse, you all said it would, so I stopped. I don't know if it was just more time or that but I am getting over her more... but it could just be time.
I just woke up(and this isn't the first time this has happened) but I have sexual dreams about her occasionally, and will see the pictures n even new shit. I wake up wanted the beat off to them... it's easier and better when it's pictures of someone you know in my opinion.

Now after that dream n shit I really want to look at them and jack off... am I going to fuck up my progress? or was my progress a result of time. what the fuck should I do /adv/?
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Don't do it. Burn them or throw them in the dumpster asap.
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>>17574126
Different for everyone OP. I had a girl I dated for 2 years about 6 years ago. I got over her within a few months but I kept her pictures. After about a year I'd pull them up sometimes if I didn't have anything good to fap to and use them.
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>>17574132
there are so many, it would be such a waste to get rid of them. I thought about putting them on a flashdrive and just locking them in my safe.

so it's a bad idea to do it then? do you understand this want after the dream I had?

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Can someone explain to me:
- what a fucking connection error is,
- why am I getting it every second post and
- why is it only happening on 4chan out of all imageboards
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Disable ad block.
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>>17574105
We are trying our best to keep you out here.
Sorry for any inconvenience.
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disable adblock for all 4chan domains

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How do I get INTO the friend zone?
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>>17574103
Ask out a friend. Congrats. You probably got refused and are in the friend zone
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Be really clingy, text her a lot, help her a ton and then randomly ask her out. She will say "but I see you as a friend and then boom friendzone.
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Just... hang out with someone? Like a friend? Is that hard?

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Say it, anon!
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I don't think I have any positive personality traits at all
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You are a customer I see every Saturday and damn it I have this crazy lust over you. I want to fuck you so bad but all that I could do is ring your order and tell you to have a good day. I watch as you leave the store and just have these thoughts.

You aren't the most attractive person but your personality and little quirks have me excited when you come near me. Sigh.
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This class is going to fucking kill me.

>Next class [in 45 min], you'll be giving semi-impromptu speeches
>Bring a picture, you'll talk about it and what it means
>We'll try to figure out what it is, you'll reveal it at the end
Fucking hate getting jerked around like this.
I just want some clear, straightforward instructions. Is that too much to ask?

I don't even have any problems with public speaking (did competitive debate and everything) but i DO have a big fucking problem with ambiguous instructions! Call it autism, call it OCD, it is what it is. And this shit triggers it!

Fuck!

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Will an air freshener remove the smell of weed from my car overnight?
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No.

But matches will. Burn 5 and that should get rid of the smell completely.
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>>17574088
Oh shit

Thanks anon
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>>17574088
Don't listen to him. THC is flammable and your car will ignite as if you've filled it with butane.

Failed the biggest exam at my uni for the second time. Wat to do?
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How? Semester barely even started.

Also what course is this and is this a midterm?
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Holy shit how do people not understand that we need more information than this to give advice
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>>17574085
Did this in august as it belongs to the last semester. It was a pathology exam (studying medicine). It is the last exam of the 2nd year and without it I can't continue my studies.

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Sorry, but my request for advice is gonna have to come with quite the preface.

So I seem to have hit the end of the line with a sexual relationship with a girl that's lasted the last three months. While we were fooling around she would frequently bring up how all I seemed to want from her was sex. Like the fool I am, I took this to mean she wanted more between us and I eventually started feeling like the relationship could be more than what it was.

I tried to ask her out at one point and she told me she was still new to the city and country and was still in 'travel mode' and wasn't in for anything exclusive like that.

Last Sunday she told me that she's smitten by some guy (she met on Tinder) and can't spend much time with me anymore. I was pretty taken aback by this, particularly because of what she had told me maybe only two weeks prior about the not being ready for exclusivity thing. I tried to assert that I could be that guy for her, but she insisted that she wanted to see how things would go with this guy. Now she's avoiding talking to me and rebuffed my last attempt at catching up with her by saying I "dealt with the thing quite childishly".

Now I'm really confused: the sex was good and we got along really well; how did it end so suddenly like this? We even fucked the Friday before and she claims she hasn't yet done anything with him.

Does she think I only used her? Did I take too long to ramp up the relationship? Did I react too strongly to the news? Is she a lying two-timer? Please help me understand this /adv/!
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You were a fuck buddy and nothing else.

She met a guy who she thinks she can date and have a relationship with.

She moved on with you because she wasn't alone anymore and wants to give this new guy a chance.

She will eventually stop talking to you all together.

Delete her number dude, 3 months is pretty long for a sex only relationship.
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>>17574070
You used her sexually and now she wants to be with someone who doesnt want to do that to her.
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She got bored of you and moved on, you should too.

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>got flirty with girl because why not
>she start saying shit like "you wanna know something sad? I never did this with my boyfriend" and shit like that
>she has a boyfriend
>I'm now interested

Wouldn't put my money on it because I've only known her for a few weeks, but she might be interested too.
Her boyfriend is "what the fuck" tier, like you'd expect a 15 years old guy to be like that,
but still it doesn't make me feel proud flirting with another man's girl.

But I like her a lot and I wanna keep pushing to see if there's something worth investing in.
I don't think it's gonna last between them.

I'm gonna spend a couple of days with her and a couple of common friends in a few weeks (her initiative), I'm trying to keep my distance for now and she tried to start a conversation a couple of times, nothing major.

I kinda want to see how she behaves when we're alone, she's always sticking to me when we're hanging out with other people, and sort of deliberately teasing me since I'm pretty sure she understood I like her.
Anything I should try to do? keep an eye out for some specific behavior?
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prepare to get cucked
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Well you won't bang her that is for sure.
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>>17574093
Yeah ok, I'm not interested in a quick bang.

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There's a slight chance I may be able to lose my virginity tonight to my gf.

How do I play this right? We'll meet later today like usual, maybe have a walk, have a drink, maybe meet some mutual buddies. How do I, instead of walking her home and kiss her goodnight like the usual, instead of being the usual how do I get her to my place to eventually fuck?

Hmm? How in the shit do I do that?
I feel she's waiting for it (cancelled some plans with her friends today for bullshit reasons) so I suspect she AT LEAST wants to be with me more than with them.

I can play this right, I know I can. But how do I make this opportunity lead into sex?
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dude she is your girlfriend not some random chick u just met, kiss n cuddle > grope > start finger banging if she's cool keep moving along till ur balls deep
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She is your girlfriend you shmuck, you do netflix and chill if you can't be aggressive about it. Super easy. Go for the walk, have a drink, forget meeting mutual buddies and propose you watch a netflix movie. Invite her over to your place, watch the movie, snuggle up together, start rubbing on to her slowly from shoulders, to hips and legs. Bring her close and make out with you then boom sex. Fuck.
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>>17573995

It's your fucking gf, how difficult can it be? The girl's already obviously into you, so just bring her to your place or go to hers and go from there. Like what the ever loving fuck do you think she wants, if she's already your gf? That you just hold hands and stare lovingly at each other. Just fucking bang her already, before she dies of old age waiting for it.

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I need advice on how to break a cycle of chronic procrasination that has been stalling my life for the better half of the past decade. I find myself unable to even begin tasks until it is too late or almost too late to finish them in their entirety. I don't even so much as sit down to look at them but rather find ways to escape into internet and vidya and pretend the work doesn't exist. I have gone beyond the point of responding to late-minute panic to pull an all-nighter to finish coursework or finally put in a job application at a deadline and have begun simply half-assing barely half an assignment the morning of and just giving up. My life is being completely derailed by these habits and I have seen them guide me to places I might not otherwise end up if I had worked steadily before the deadlines. I have missed application, job, vocational, and social opportunities as a result and am a shut-in most days, clinging to the distractions, promising myself that the start of the work is going to be in just another 15 minutes but that time never comes.

I'm afraid that I am no longer responding to my usual internal panicked calls to act and that I might slip totally into a pit of apathy and abandon all the projects I have facing me that could potentially land me in a graduate work program that would pave the way for the rest of my career-building. Procrastination has adversely affected my social life up to this point as well, because I have had decline previously-held engagements due to needing so much time around a deadline to complete a workload meant for several weeks or months. When I push people away like this, I feel like a junkie who cloisters himself away in a sacrifice for the addiction, which ultimately pushes everybody away from me and perpetuates the cycle. I'm fighting against myself here, because I have goals I wish to reach, but then I second-guess my dedication when I don't rise to the challenge of doing the work and putting in the hours. What do?
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>>17573977
Do everything important that pops into your head the moment it happens.
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This may not be helpful for you (I suspect that I may be unique in this) but I find marijuana helps me with procrastination.
Stop laughing, I'm serious.
I get super introspective when I'm high, and if something's bothering me, it comes bubbling up to the surface. And I find that suddenly I can name it and pinpoint exactly why I've been feeling bad, and 90% of the time it's because I've been avoiding a responsibility that I know deep down I need to take care of, but have been avoiding thinking about. So I say it out loud, and I write it down to make sure I don't forget, and then next morning, when I'm sober, I get to work on it.
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>>17574060
I appreciate your taking time to respond, and I don't mean to make excuses, but I would be wary of adopting another potential escapism.

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>Girl is interested in a Chad
>Fuck oh well
>She flirts and approaches me constantly
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>Decide I'll ask her to lunch because fuck it
>She accepts, we goo, it goes great, she dressed beautifully and did her hair nice
>Yesterday with group of friends and her
>Friends keep nagging her as to who she likes
>Says it isn't Chad anymore
>They ask who, she says she doesn't want to say
>They keep asking and then she says it is actually Chad
>She never even speaks to Chad, it makes no sense
>We still continue to talk a lot, she looks at me constantly and acts rather nervous around me

The fuck do I do? I've kinda fallen for her now and don't know how to proceed from here. Does she like me or does she want Chad more?
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You move on because this girl clearly is embarrassed about you. Guy who hasn't even talked to her is getting her to say his name in a social group....what more needs to be said.

Have some self respect and stop talking to her guy. Dead serious. Ya ya you "fallen for her" because she is a girl who looks decent and giving your autisitc ass a chance but more will come and a few you can be proud to say is my girl. This isn't one of them.
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>>17573961
But Chad wasn't there when she said that, while OP was (that's what I got from the post). She might have said Chad because saying OP would have basically been like confessing, and she had to say something since she was being pressured
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>>17573961
wow, perfect response anon. It's true, she tells the world, including OP she's into another guy. That does not mean she is into OP and always fail to understand the confusion.

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So, I'm a 27M. I work with this 20yo girl, she never really acts like she's 20, and it's easy to forget just how young she actually is. A few nights ago after closing with her, we ended up sitting talking for a couple hours after work and started kissing. At the time she seems really into kissing, but since has completely stopped contacting me and I have no idea why. What do I even say to making things less awkward with this girl?

P.S. Girl is virgin and only dated 1 guy before ever. I should have seen this coming, but it's easy to forget she's 20 when you're with her.
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You can't.
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Nothing you can say will make it less awkward. She made a mistake making out with you and regrets it.
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>>17573947
shitty part is she is the one that instigated it.

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