It would have been my crush's 19th birthday today. How

>>17576324

Post questions on /adv/ with little-to-no context.

>>17576324
picrelated

I'm sorry for your loss. If you don't mind my asking, what happened?

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Is your crush kill or something?

>>17576343
Friend flipped her car on a road trip. Friend survived. She didn't.

>>17576334
I don't have time to watch Zootopia now.

>>17576380
Then she truly was crush

>>17576383
BRUTAL
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>>17576380
you shouldve said she died in OP
that's ouchworthy.

have you tried lashing out at your friend?
what stage of dabda (5 stages of grief) u at?

>>17576380
>>17576395
nvm its obvi depression

talked to a therapist?

>>17576395
Clearly not at the anal stage yet

Dank memes
Anal
Boredom
Dicks out for Harambe
Acceptance

>>17576397
Nah, too much money.

I didn't even know her that well, really. I just followed her on Insta and shit. But she was so sweet, talented, young, and beautiful. It's such a grim reminder of life's uncertainty.

>>17576324
By realizing that shit happens, and you can't stop to sit over shitty events.

Being mopey about her death won't bring her back. Nothing will. You can only move forward.

>>17576479
Your mom is uncertainty

>>17576479
So let me get this straight. You're sad over a girl you barely knew.

Dude, I've known people who I looked up to that have died. You know what I did? I accepted it.

Don't be a /b/-tard over a girl.

>>17576489
>>17576485
hey OP dont be like these assholes, dont be ashamed of how you feel and never lose your humanity,its true, shit will happen in your life, theres no reason to act like a robot about it, cry if you have to, but always remember that you need to be strong, if not for you then for them.
>>17576324

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>>17576515
>crying over a girl you barely know

No offense, but that shows immaturity. Look, it's ok to be sad and even depressed about the loss of a loved one, even decades after.

But a girl you barely knew and stalked on Instagram? Come on man, grow up.

>>17576324
I'd have a 15 year old daughter right now, and potentially a wife.

I feel you.

>>17576532
lack of empathy detected, its ok to show your emotions, i bet youve cried over an anime episode you little autist, dont be like that

>>17576532
Not that anon, but I disagree
This could be OP's first real encounter with death and that's always hard to deal with
Plus this isn't just some random girl - this is a girl that OP wanted to date

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>>17576539
>lack of empathy detected, its ok to show your emotions, i bet youve cried over an anime episode you little autist, dont be like that

And make accusations that don't further your argument shows immaturity. Again I said it was ok to show your emotions, but for someone who was close or at least mattered significantly in life.

Look, if she died right in front of him, I'd give him all the benefit of the doubt and let him sob till his sockets turn blood red.

But until then, you're encouraging something similar to this.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ElJFYwRtrH4

>>17576540

I suppose that could be the case. I won't disagree with you, that OP could felt that this destroyed his chance at a soul mate. But like OP said, he barely knew her. From what little I read, he implied he barely knew her and stalked her online.

>>17576561
ooooooook no one cares for your retarded argument, not everyone agrees its ok, everybody is DIFFERENT

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>>17576565
>I can't make a good argument to that
>so instead of countering him by calling him callous or needing to show more empathy, I'll just call his argument retarded and declare victory

(You)

You didn't even know this person ffs how pathetic are you, meanwhile people have to work their fingers to the bone to pay for their dying baby's cancer meds, get a fucking grip op

>>17576569
I prefer medium rare

>>17576569
i didnt declare victory buddy, stop thinking everything is a contest, everybody thinks differently, stop arguing over nothing, if OP feels that was let him be, stop being a piece of shit

>>17576570
youre the type of person to show up to a funeral and say youve experienced loss too

Get a new one.