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Show a pic of yourself right now and I'll tell you

Wait OP are you a gay or a gal?

A picture is required to provide proper advice

>>17574523
Probably not

No.

>>17574523

If she is going helping a lot that means she is very fond of you so that is not small thing. I know that if was helping girl like that it would mean i like her a lot and I'm interested. But that is just me.

It is worth exploring you don't want to be that dude that gets all the signs but fails to see that girl is interested and wants you to make a move.

No one gives a shit. Super.

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>the hole time.
>She was toxic with me
> just had moved on from that bitch and no i don't know i will go through something like this.

>>17574515
Fuck that self pity, pick yourself Up and Be a man. We survived thousands of years, and your gonna give up at failing school. I know people with aids who have more courage, SUCK IT UP, and ask yourself "what am i prepared to do to make things right again"

>>17574499
What country are you in? Somewhat important.

>>17574499

Lets do this

You end up on platonic terms because you didn't show signs that you like the guy. Just having awesome conversation about random stuff is not enough. Sometimes you have to take initiative and give guy confidence boost. Be creative with it.

Keep looking deep into his eyes don't cross arms. You be the one to set up next date etc

I'm saying this because when I was 19 I was very shy I could talk with anyone but I didn't know what else to do and so I made friendship where there could be relationship. It is sad because i needed only little from her but she was equally shy and intimidated by my ability to converse.


Now your turn to answer me something. I'm 24 what do you think about guys my age ?

A qt who works at my college coffee shop i go to often complimented my radiohead shirt.

How does one go about flirting with a coffee shop cashier while there are (probably) people behind you in line without turning into autism, we have small talked b4 and she seems into me

She takes some classes around the same buildings as me but I rarely see her around the hallways, only know she has a shift on fridays

>>17574498
You strike me as a fat chick. While looks aren't everything, they do play a role. My dick isn't going to get hard if I have no attraction whatsoever to you.

That said, maybe your personality needs work too. I've dated chicks I wasn't particularly attracted to physically because I liked their personality so much, that made them attractive in my eyes.

Either way, unless you have some horrible disfigurement outside of your control, the problem is 100% you and could be fixed if you weren't a lazy self hating retard.

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>>17574498
>therapy and medication never seems to work.
try accepting what is , meditate
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vFr_zQCUMD4
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kaNO09cPS6c&spfreload=1

>>17574557
Sadly this

By looking for another job because youre probably going to get fired.

I am in the same situtation, I think you should get outside our head and do things with your hands.

>>17575711
Like masturbating in public?

>>17574475
>she clearly explained that she doesnt want to have a relationship.


What part of that are you having trouble understanding?

Cont.
So in the beginning we were a bit of a stranger to each other and i saw that she was hanging out with some other guys (but she didnt have a BF) so i didnt push into her. But quite quickly we started to hang out quite a lot (especially during work) and our bond grew stronger. We went on dates quite a few times and she never refused if i asked her to hang out (except if she went out with her female friends). At a private party a few days ago we went to smoke a joint in the near woods (first time togather), tripped balls and had a great time, i hugged her as we were sittig. As we were going back to the party i grabbed both of her hands and made her turn towards me. She said "Anon, dont..." I think she thought that i was going for a kiss but i only wanted to ask her if she missed me, since we didnt see each other for bout a week. She said "i did miss you a little" we held hands for a bit more and then went back to the party. Soon she fell asleep and went home after a few hours without any special shit happening. The next day we went back to the party place to clean it up with a few other people. We already cleaned everything up and everybody went away except for me and her. We talked for another few hours before we went home.

The thing is that we are clearly ment for each other (even people around us keep asking shy we arent officially a couple or why we arent togather and such). But whenever i want to make the crucial step she says that we cant because of some mysterious reason....

what should i do FFS? I love her to the core of my heart and she seems to love me too... should i try to get info out of her best friend (i know her well)? Or should i try to get it out of her, while risking that she makes distance between us, again? And what could her behaviour mean in general???

>>17574510
Mate read the rest. I got that lart too, you know haha

>>17574465

Bump

>>17574465
All québécois are just French people. You aren't special get over yourself.

You've never been taught other languages? It'll be a bit like going from knowing the number line to learning calculus.

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>>17574444

>>17574444
Sharia zone in your town, they will kill you for free

>>17574444

Why do you want to die?

There are many many European Countries that allow it. Switzerland, Belgium, Holland (I think). Some US states allow it too.

But seek help though.

>>17574414
>Is it even real.
Yes, but in a different way from what you might envision.
>Is it worth?
That... entirely depends on you. Hypnosis should be a state of trance defined by a precise heart rate and brain activity; it's meant to soothe and relax. Most patients can't achieve that, because they're unconsciously scared of the hypnosis concept. Yes, the parameters might lower a little - but you'd get better results handing them a cold drink and a soft armchair.

>Hypnotherapy
Also, that's not enough. What are they using hypnosis for? What is the main goal of the treatment? Are they trying to alleviate depression, memory loss, or...?

>>17574414
Hypnotist just make you do embarrassing things.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G-ohZL3WDF4

>>17574425

I take meds for anxiety and depression and whatnot and see a psychologist. In a more detailed way, it goes around having will to do things and all that nihilism crap. Sorry for the shitty info.

What kind of interview, like a real job or a wage slave job?

>>17574399
Did you ever take speech class? Just like that but easier because it's only 1on1

>>17574407

>>17574407
>>17574407

Interview for university. (Or College as you may say in USA, idk).

I want to study Dentistry and I have an interview in a month.

>>17574409

Nope. I don't have time either.

>>17574349
>find the highest building
>jump off it
>????
>yes

DEHUMANIZE YOURSELF AND FACE TO BLOODSHED

>>17574349
If you're really at rock bottom, then you have nowhere to go but up.

>>17574341
Yes, who are you going to share your dank memes with if you have no friends?

yes friends are important to mooch off of
and to confide in
so they can tell everyone your secrets

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>>17574341
I'm not entirely sure that ensuring whether or not you're a sociopath counts as asking for /adv/ice.

Anyway.

Yes, they are important.
Recent researches (to which I mostly agree) are trying to push social needs into the "primal needs box" - meaning, valuing human interaction as high as food or water (the implication being that a prolonged lack of the above leads to death as much as starvation/dehydration).

>inb4 heremits hurr durr your move mister law-man
You can try googling "Social Pain" if you're interested in the subject.

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>>17574234
This can't be real anon, tell me it's a fucking joke

In what world would someone who's committed at least 5 KNOWN felonies, be someone you want in your life much less be in a relationship with??

You should just walk away from this, how can you love someone you fear? Why do you need explanation for crazy?

>>17574234
>I shouldn't be asking for explanations why she did it
>but she expects me to fly her from EU to US to visit me in two months
This is already a bad start, who the fuck expects someone to do something as huge as paying that expensive plane ticket just to see someone who tells you that you are not entitled to simple FUCKING explanations on what went on in her head when she tried to STAB her exes.
The stabbing part is already enough, the way I would handle it is fucking cut that crazy bitch outta my life ASAP.

Why did you flunk everything? Are you actually unfit for traditional school (don't be ashamed, theres more people this happens to than you think) or were you depressed?

People work at mcdonalds with barely a ged to make it to manager status as an end goal. I don't know what working at an airport would end up as but it's probably loads more opportunity than mcdnalds. Jobs are not hard. You just need to show up on time and use common sense.

I get the feeling maybe trying a job at the airport would be a better idea before trying college--seems like you need to learn how to organize your life first, show yourself that you can complete something, don't rely on dad's money only... and a job would help without putting you into debt like college would.

>>17574231
I flunked everything because I guess you could say I had a hard time paying attention. Or just working on school overall. I was never a good student I guess. I lacked the discipline.

I want to, but then my mom complains about it and guilt trips me.

>>17574252
You know yourself better than anyone. If you go to college now, without having solved your issues that caused you to fail before, this will not end well. And you're in a worse state mentally than you were before. Get a job, any job, move out of the house so your mom isn't controlling you anymore. You're 20 years old and you let your mother guilt trip you? You will go to college someday and probably soon if you can save up some money first and get loans. There is no shame in entering the workforce op. You need to do something for yourself.

Practice healthy living and get yourself into the best mental state as it seems you can't afford a counselor right now. You can do that by working out again (the purpose is just for you to be able to accomplish something and feel pride in that accomplishment, which will in turn help you with disclipline). You are not unintelligent op. It is ok to fail, but you need to work to overcome that failure