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/adv/, what's weed like, and should I try it? I hear it helps clear your head and helps anxiety and stuff. Could I get thoughts and past experiences?
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>>17577302
Weed has only ever made me MORE anxious. I stopped smoking in the spring and I feel great now.
All of my weed experiences can be summed up by forgetfulness, laughing, a tingling sensation, and near anxiety attacks. The first three are why I took up smoking, but the anxiety got unbearable.
Definitely try weed a few times just to get out of your comfort zone, but don't become a pothead.
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>>17577307
How should I? Bong, joint? Edibles? I hear bongs are the best but that's only from one guy.
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>>17577307
This.
There's nothing wrong with enjoying weed, but you don't want to smoke everyday and have it become the focus of your life.
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Hey /adv/ I made this thread yesterday but didn't get any answers
I have no actual ambition or drive, I just want to fade away and lead a quiet, comfortable life of solitude.
How do I achieve this? I'm in college studying a subject I fucking hate but I've already repeated a year so I can't really change now.
Any advice? I just want a comfy life with a job that doesn't require social interaction and leaves me enough free time to indulge in shitposting and weebshit.
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>>17577274
Very important question: are your parents paying for college? will you take on any debt for getting your degree?
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>>17577281
I'm European, so college doesn't require me to take on debt. The tuition costs are around 700 dollars per year, not including transportation costs which bring the total to 900 dollars tops. My parents are paying but it's not a huge sum either way.
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>>17577274
Bump. I posted in your thread yesterday looking for a similar way to live this life style.
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I'm currently failing a geometry course right now and I'm supposed to be having a test on Monday, but I don't know what to do. On the study guide, we were supposed to solve 5 problems and report back to get a grade and to do 5 problems and my professor did #2 on the board, but I have no clue how did he find 4/3. I know that 6 + 3/2 = 7 1/2, but I'm literally confused right now and I fear that I'll fail the semester if I don't do well on this test. Attached is a picture of the board and
#2. If anyone could help me solve for
#2, that'd be great.
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Or, well I should have explained it better. 4/3 would be the reciprocal of 3/4, but how does that turn into 15/2?
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Isn't geometry a fucking 10th grade high school class? Damn anon get yourself together unless you're underaged which means you should gtfo
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>>17577296
You realize you can take geometry courses in college to be an architect for example, right?
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>big group of guys at college who kind of know me
>avoid them like the plague because I know they're just making fun of me
>i'm talking about walking all the way around campus instead of seeing them
>a girl who hangs out with them confronts me about doing it
>I tell her they would harrass me if I let them see me
>She looks shocked, says goodbye, walks away
>think I heard her laugh
Fuck everything
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>>17577201
Why they are making fun of you?
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>>17577231
People all my life have done it. I'm just weird
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Do you at least have friends op?
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Hey guys, I’ve had giant levels of anxiety for the past month. It all started off with tumblr of all places, I started seeing posts about how you can’t like cartoons and be in fandoms if you’re over 25+ and over 20. How you can’t ship characters, if you’re autistic you should not stim. I got upset about all this so I stopped doing all these things. Of course this caused me to get giant levels of anxiety, I questioned everything. Like why I can’t like this, how can other people justify their own interests if I can’t justify my own, and boy did I start applying that logic to everything. I questioned why people liked anything, since everyone has an opposing view on other people’s likes. The next thing I did was start looking at peoples ages because you apparently can’t follow teenagers if you’re over a certain age, I already had issues with seeing younger artists do better art than me so this was a bother. Next I tried finding other fans that were older than me, and this is where it got catastrophic, I started fearing my own appearance, how I’ll inevitably turn old if I live long but how even that won’t last.
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Here is the point where I fixated on time and death, how everything is temporary, everything I do is meaningless. That everything I love will die some day and there’s no point doing anything now. I would say this is where everything went terrible for me. Everything I look at has death and time as its main themes, I look at people and see how they would either age or just die. It all seems pointless to me, I stopped myself from committing suicide because of my loved ones but I can’t stop thinking how even they will go away too, I don’t want to lose anything but naturally I will. This is where my anxiety level is right now, I would say it comes and goes. Though I’d like to know if anyone else has catastrophized to this level and had fear over everything and what they did to combat it, suggestions would be great.
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>>17577200
i think u like that shit at an old age because u never tried out adult hobbies.
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>>17577383
not op
adult hobbies are expensive garbage
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Dating a woman who works partly as a hooker.
Yes or no?
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I'll go with "No"
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>>17577181
yes, at least she's doing it for money
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What is her pimp like?
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So i have started a new job and my first day was last week, i walked in seen a girl who resembled my ex girlfriend and when i walked past, i noticed it was her.
As i spoke to her it was extremely weird, she was smiling so much and i was too but it was like a flood of memories just came flying into my head, ill put out greentext of why i think it was a weird feeling to see her again after so long.
>She was my first proper girlfriend ( I was 15 )
>I lost my virginity to her, she lost hers to me
>We have not spoke properly in about 5-6 years
Atm i currently have a girlfriend of 1.5 years, everythings is fine with us but its like feelings for my ex are creeping back in and i dont know why.
A lot of my colleagues say she is always playing with her hair and staring, smiling etc at me when we talk, it's almost like i am 15 again but i think thats down to nostaliga.
Are these just nostalgia feelings for both of us? I feel like there will always be feelings there for both of us cause we lost our virginity to each other, but is working with her a bad thing if im in a relationship?
I would love to hear a outside perspective on it
TL:DR Started new job, ex girlfriend works there and the feelings i had for her are creeping back in
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>>17577157
How did you break up with your ex?
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>>17577168
It just fizzled out, we ended it on good terms but it was mostly me who wanted to break up
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>>17577157
>Are these just nostalgia feelings for both of us?
Yep.
Hi /adv/,
I'm looking for ideas to make random girls slap me hard, like for example (fake) reasons and little games.
What ones do you think would work?
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go to a bar, tell some girls to do so bc youre drunk and to test if you still feel it? drunk people do lots of strange shit
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>>17577147
Why do you want them to slap you?
Ask them to give you a blowjob
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>>17577625
For some reason I have that desire. But yes, to most people it's weird indeed.
That might do sometimes, yep.
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I scored a gorgeous girl's number today. The problem is she said she recently graduated college, making her 22/23, whereas I'm 35. I don't have any problem with this (if anything I prefer it), but people generally think I'm around 25, so I worry about how she'll react when the subject of age comes up. How should I play this?
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You dont talk about your own age,but if she asks you are gonna be confident about it. If it matters that much to her that she will lose interest, then whatever. Ditch her.
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I vote for bringing it up. Wait until you have a bit more of a connection then tell her you're not bothered by it in the least, but she should know about the age gap.
Believe me, if she's not incredibly naive, she's going to be a bit wary of a man your age dating a girl her age. That in itself is not necessarily a dealbreaker, there's also how much she likes you, the connection you have, whether she feels something "off" about you or not.
BUT if you let her find out by herself that you're ten years her senior, you have pretty much already put yourself in the "creepy older man trying to downplay his age to get the young gals" category. That's just shady.
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Just mention it when she asks. If she has no issue with it then be happy.
Source: am 38. Dated a 23 year old girl. Nobody thought it was weird because I look about 10 years younger than my actual age.
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Girl I like still has feelings for ex. Should I move on?
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Yes.
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>>17577086
become the ex.
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>>17577086
No, she should. But there's nothing you can do about that, so moving on yourself may be the only practical solution.
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how many of those are valid reasons to stop getting in a relationship with someone?
>She's somewhat self absorbed and a constant projector. I always get invested in an argument with her only to find out she's not really paying attention to what I said and is projecting a POV she wants to disagree with on me. It also feels like she's the only one who's capable of initiating conversation. Whenever I'm the one to initiate a conversation she seems unenthusiastic.
>She's not conventionally attractive and has low self-esteem. While I personally think she's really pretty and am attracted to her, it just seems like it's a potential zone for a lot of insecurity & jealousy problems I don't know how to deal with. I think she's definitely prone to feeling that way.
>She's incapable for blaming herself.
I think she's unreliable in the sense that she wouldn't feel bad at all to ditch me if someone better came along, and that isn't to say anything about my own self-esteem, she's just very whimsical and she can be swayed by new things without thinking. She even said she can't trust her own feelings.
>We fought quite often despite knowing each other for a short time.
>She runs away from confrontations.
we're both 20, am i being pessimistic?
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>>17577068
She sounds like a fucking nightmare, but if you can't do better then this is what you get.
If you're a virgin and in need of a training relationship, go for it. She'll make you appreciate that the only, truly important thing for a woman to have - is emotional stability and maturity.
Tldr: bad decision but bad decisions can be fun if the sex is good
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post a pic of her so we know what u mean by conventionally unattractive
how does she project?
she sounds cute desu, p wild in bed amirite?
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>>17577084
>She sounds like a fucking nightmare
This. Have some standards OP.
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Hi, so i'm leaving my job in like 5 months. What are some supplies i should steal? There are this huge storage room where i can take whatever i want without getting questioned. Obviously they are for office use and not to take home.
But i'm an cuck and want to get supplies so i won't have to buy them later.
My question to you:
What are some expensive supplies i should steal before leaving?
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You should only steal out of necessity if ever, most office suplies are useless for home purposes or will be suplied to you at your next job, they will just take space in your house.
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>stealing all the pots, pans and utensils in skyrim
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>>17577064
You know that this is very bad?
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How to tell a whore from a girl? 2016-09-17 10:38:18 Post No.17577026
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How to tell a whore from a girl?
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I have this problem quite often.
When I see a good looking girl and they give me the "I'm interested" look.
I go introduce myself, but most of them just want the D.
And I'm looking for a serious thing.
How can I detect a nice girl, from a dick hunger bitch?
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You need to go classier places.
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>How to tell a whore from a girl?
lol'd
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Give them the D first, see if they stick around. Pretty simple.
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Idk what's wrong with me, I feel like such an idiot...
Me and my bf have been dating for a year and I love him alot. A month into the relationship he tells me that he has stopped watching porn. We've never really talked about it before and I've never really said or did something that would suggest that I had a problem with it, but I was happy that he seemed to enjoy our relationship so much that he stopped doing that. Anyways, months go by and we've been dating for 3-4 months, and we somehow start talking about porn. He mentions then that he has been starting to watch it again, and I wasnt very happy to hear that, especially when he could get nudes from me whenever he wanted to. But I didnt really want to say anything because I mean...a lot of people watch porn, and it should'nt be a problem for me. I tried to accept it and just not to think about it...
We had a huge fight about it a couple of weeks after that. I told him how I felt about it. His respons to my uncomfort was that it had nothing to do with our relationship and that he did that to relax when he feels stressed, and that it didnt mean anything. I wasnt really convinced and asked him how he would feel if people would view me as he viewed porn, because what they would do to me wouldnt really matter and that it was only for stress relief. He said that he wouldnt like that at all and that he got my point. He promised me that he would stop watching it.
I did believe him and I appreciated that he did that. But my stupid brain suspected that he did watch it anyway behind my back, which led to me asking him if he still did that. I only asked him 3 times over the course of 5 months. He always told me that he didnt watch it.
I told him about my fear of him lying to me about it, but that I knew that I was stupid for doubting him. I also told him about scenarios that I've read about people lying to each other about that.
He later confessed that he had been watching porn all the time (1/2)
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Sorry for not waiting for part two but I'm going to post my reply now.
You're making porn an issue, which is why he felt the need to lie about it.
You need to work on your self confidence and accept the fact that people use porn for different reasons and it isn't an indication that you're not good enough or he finds others more attractive than you. Sometimes people just need to knock one out, or want a bit of variation.
Yes, it was a bit shitty for him to withhold that information, but you made it so he didn't feel comfortable telling you. My partner and I have an extremely open relationship and even though sometimes it might be difficult to hear some things, I try my best to remain understanding because I appreciate that level of honesty.
You need to get over it because he is never going to be honest with you about his porn watching skills. You should decide if it's something you can handle and if you can, leave him to it. Maybe even try to encourage it - watch it with him, find out what he likes, try to emulate it?
I know it's difficult, I know it probably makes you feel a bit redundant but just remember it has absolutely nothing to do with you personally.
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And that he felt awful about it and that he was planing to tell me...
It really broke me to hear that, and we had a huge fight about it (again) about 2 weeks ago. He promised this time that he would really stop doing it for good. I decided to believe him, even though he lied to me for about 5 months.
He claims that he hasnt been watching porn ever since we talked about it last time (1 week approximately). But he says that it's really hard for him to stop and that he enjoyed watching it (even though he claimed that he didnt like to watch porn at all). I felt that all of this made our relationship much more complicated and that he should've told me that from the start. He also says that when he masturbates to porn he forgets about all the bad stuff, but when he does that to me he cant really stop thinking about bad stuff. I asked him what I could do to make him forgets about it and why out conversations about it doesnt really ruin the picture of it, but when bad stuff happens around me it affwcts his view of me...
I've also asked him what I can do to make him feel less to watch it. But he said that he will always have a desire to watch it. That makes me feel like shit. That my pictures arent good enough, and that they will never be. My question is, how do I stop feel like crap over the fact that he has a desire to watch it. I mean, he cant control his feelings and he has shown that he cares. How do I overcome the feeling of not being enough for him? If I was good enough he wouldnt be having the need to watch porn... (2/2)
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>>17577008
Thank you for your reply! I guess that it also has to do with my view of a relationship. I dont really have anything against porn desu, but I dont want my partner to have a need for it since I want to be able to be everything he needs. But you're right, it has to do with my lack of selfesteem. I really appreciated your view on this, and I'll try to work on my self.
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My girlfriend broke up with me after almost 6 months, because she felt she kept hurting me. She has issues with low self esteem and feeling like she wasn't good enough, she said I always treated her real good. When she got in a mood sometimes she'd create some pointless argument then end it, but we'd get back together a few hours later or the next day.
Just for the record, I'm her first kiss and took her virginity, and her longest relationship has been like 2 weeks, with me its almost 6 months. She always said how perfect I was, how she felt secure and protected with me, etc.
It really was just petty stuff, nothing bad ever really happened, but it did weigh down on me. I told her this can't keep happening because I don't want my feelings for her to go away, she told me how sorry she was and she feels bad. And she just didn't know what to do (inexperience). She even told her friend that she would get back with me, but is afraid all she's going to do is keep doing it and I don't deserve that.
After a week of not being together, whether it's because she's hurt, confused, trying to fill a void or what, she kissed some guy she recently met. She admitted it to me straight away, broke down crying etc. So later that day I just sent her a message wishing her all the best and how I can't be around for her anymore as she's my girl no longer (she wanted to be friends but nah). She has some growing up to do, and please don't call me names but I do want her back. What should I do? I made out last night I burnt all the love letters she written to me (I didn't) and she made a snapchat story looking really sad saying 'why you do that'.
I don't know whether it's all a cry for attention, her simply being inexperienced or what, but I know she loves me, she had such strong feelings for me and I want them back.
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>>17576968
Dear first time fool, come back again and tell us how much you want her back after she fucks another guy
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>>17576982
I just wouldn't do that, I'm not that much of a cuck. Like I said I was her first, and she don't even hang with anyone in her free time besides her sister and I get along with her sister so she tells me everything. It's not like she is going off seeing this guy etc, she only see's him in college and that's it.
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>>17576982
>I was her first
means absolutely nothing since she is clearly looking for mr. second. She will give that pussy to another guy and already has him in her sights. Oh, having her sister spy for you will not prevent the inevitable and when you get the "not good enough or hurting you" speech it comes from guilt. You know, cheating guilt.