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So i have started a new job and my first day was last week, i walked in seen a girl who resembled my ex girlfriend and when i walked past, i noticed it was her.
As i spoke to her it was extremely weird, she was smiling so much and i was too but it was like a flood of memories just came flying into my head, ill put out greentext of why i think it was a weird feeling to see her again after so long.
>She was my first proper girlfriend ( I was 15 )
>I lost my virginity to her, she lost hers to me
>We have not spoke properly in about 5-6 years
Atm i currently have a girlfriend of 1.5 years, everythings is fine with us but its like feelings for my ex are creeping back in and i dont know why.
A lot of my colleagues say she is always playing with her hair and staring, smiling etc at me when we talk, it's almost like i am 15 again but i think thats down to nostaliga.
Are these just nostalgia feelings for both of us? I feel like there will always be feelings there for both of us cause we lost our virginity to each other, but is working with her a bad thing if im in a relationship?
I would love to hear a outside perspective on it
TL:DR Started new job, ex girlfriend works there and the feelings i had for her are creeping back in
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>>17577157
How did you break up with your ex?
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>>17577168
It just fizzled out, we ended it on good terms but it was mostly me who wanted to break up
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>>17577157
>Are these just nostalgia feelings for both of us?
Yep.
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>>17577157
This shit will fade away. You both are feeling this because it's an unexpected surprise of circumstances. It's a surge that will go away once it becomes a norm that you two get used to the idea of working near each other.
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>>17577188
From what it sounds like, you're already in a good relationship. No point ending it, just to start a new one, which probably will end the same way. Its just not worth it.
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