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I am dating this sweet wallflower who is very dedicated. She is down to earth and isnt clingy or an attention whore. Why do my friends call her boring?
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Gee maybe it's because she's boring. We don't know your gf, and none of those traits you listed off have anything to do with being exciting/boring
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They're probably right, she sounds incredibly boring. Give it a few months and I guarantee you, you'll be bored of her too
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> very dedicated
To? What does she want in life? What does she do?
>down to earth
Sounds rather boring.
> isnt clingy
Only means that she's a normal human being. Clingy fucks are mental wrecks.
>attention whore
Perhaps because she has nothing to attention whore about?
You didn't name a single interesting thing about her in your post, so maybe your friends are right.
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Have I finally "gotten a life"? 2016-10-24 08:31:58 Post No.17698893
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Have I finally "gotten a life"?
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>lost a bunch of weight
>lift regularly
>wear nice clothes, hair, bathe constantly, great hygiene all around
>play dodgeball, going rock climbing, kayaking, experimenting with mma and judo
>have not a shit ton of people who wanna do stuff with me but a good amount that wanna hang when they have the time
>just today went to a dodgeball tournament with my club and rode in one of the cars in the passenger seat playing music and talking there and back
>made some nice plays while I was there and got complimented by my team and the other
>people let me co-ref the match between two other teams
>been to a club downton and gonna go again this weekend for a "twerk or treat" thing
>been to some parties in the early part of the semester when they were all over the place
>came close to getting into a frat but because of their whole has to be unanimous rule it didn't happen
>got a girls number the other day after hanging for a while, hung again, got ghosted by farthest I've ever gotten
>smoked a bit of pot and hang out with some people like a week ago
>one guy I know wants to train me to get better at dodgeball
Is this what having a life is?
Because I still feel like total shit because I've still never gotten laid and I'm literally doing all of this to try to make it happen
I know the only way to get laid is to be normal or at least seem normal
Have I basically done it?
And if so how much longer until I get laid?
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>>17698893
Oooh, it's going to be really awkward when you'll get laid and will once again check in with yourself and think "Yup, that wasn't it". In other words, getting laid=/=having life.
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>>17698912
This, getting laid wont fix anything. I have a degree, a nice car, a resonable job, a girlfriend and regular sex but still feel like a fucking loser.
Sex isn't the key to happiness.
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How do I become a strong male, /adv/? I'm always afraid of speaking my mind and am too afraid to argue with anyone. I don't like conflict and that makes me someone who is not fit for leadership. When I am aggressive, it's passive. I hate it and want to change. Any tips?
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MBTI? I'm guessing INFP?
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>>17698250
Not OP, but I have the same problem and am INTP/INFP depending on when I take the test. I've gotten a little better by pretending to be confident (good posture, etc.) What really helped me is just saying fuck it and learning not to care about anything, including people's opinions.
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>>17698250
I took a test about 5 years ago. I believe I was INFJ. if it helps, there's this mental block in my head where I'll feel bad if I hurt their feelings or go too far with my judgement, hence the "i don't like conflict" part.
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I think I fucked up my choice of college 2016-10-24 02:39:20 Post No.17698089
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I think I fucked up my choice of college
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>tl;dr I think I mcfucked up my choice of college
>people go to college for years and years some even 6 or 7
>I'm 1st semester of year 2
>thinking of transfering ASAP
I'm to going VCU and not only is it infested with the worst of the worst of this generation in terms of total dyed hair "muh diversity" libshitism, something like 20% of the population doesn't even identify as straight, but because its an urban campus and its a tiny one at that it is seriously hard to get anyone to do anything, because they all just go to a stupid island in the river, fuck around in residential areas near the campus, lift in the gym, or do fuck all in the library
I've heard from other VCU students that colleges like JMU, VT, Longwood, UVA, are all dedicated college towns where the college is all there is, that's its not nearly as fucked culturally as it is here, and that because there "is nothing to do =(" that all they do is party
Partying is the best, not only is it fun as hell but its a great way to get pussy, even an autistic NEET shut in could do it if they just dress up nice, literally all you have to do is walk up to a girl who is twerking (they are always there) and bam, grind, hang on, eventually turn her around, make out, ask to get out of there, bam
So given how much these other places party constantly, I'd imagine its way easier to find these these parties and to get into them, and on top of that even if you can't just walk right in given that "thats basically all they do" it must be easy to find people who can get you in
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What is the point of this post? You don't like your current college? Then transfer. Let me know if you're going to VT though so I be on the lookout for a sperg.
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>>17698089
*can get you in
Also VCU has no greek row, frats are a joke here
I've heard at all these other colleges they have a much bigger presence, and I'm guessing they are easier to get into given that like 30% of the population is in one
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Point is I'm wondering it really is really different at other colleges or not
I know different highschools are all the same
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you know what this thread is for.
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I want to fuck pewdiepie
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I'm keeping my guard up, I'm doing my best not to get attached again. I've also got my eye on a guy that may start shit
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I don't have time for people stealing corporate documents to check up on me. between running the current project that's over deadline thanks to others hired on the project and not subcontracted under me, growing a client list, starting a second business and the R&D involved, and coming up on tax prep season, I really don't have the patience for this bullshit or any of the other bullshit that keeps coming this way. act on it or don't, either way you should know there is zero tolerance or attachment, I'll send family to jail and not lose any sleep over it.
get out of my way.
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Accidently signed lease to live with 2 gay dudes 2016-10-24 23:17:22 Post No.17701001
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Accidently signed lease to live with 2 gay dudes
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Long story short...
I signed a lease at my building with some rando from facebook. Apparently his sexuality was not part of the "getting to know you stage" and he felt was unnessiary to mention. Fast forward 2 months and his Boyfriend has been living with us the entire time. According the the basic subletting and occupants clause he is in the wrong and the roommate should have been evicted; however the Landlord is under the impression that he is a "only staying 3 nights a week" which is complete bullshit..
Tl;Dr I dont hate gay people, but my roommates boyfriend wont leave after 2 months and the Landlord is to big of a pussy to do anything.
Picture obviously unrelated but go Cubs
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it's funny because you're afraid for your butthole
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>>17701001
You haven't explained what's the problem exactly. Why does it bother you?
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>>17701021
He did though. They've got an extra person living with them.
>>17701001
I'd treat this the same as any leeching roommate situation. First, bring it up with them as to why it bothers you. I'm assuming it's a space issue, and I totally understand because I dealt with the same thing. If they don't take you seriously the first time, tell them a second time that you'll talk to the landlord because it's already cramped enough and you've signed the lease for this. Make it explicit that you totally respect the boyfriend coming to meet his significant other, but living along with you guys isn't fair.
Then I'd take it up with the landlord and be adamant about it.
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Genuine advice after bans 2016-10-24 22:51:43 Post No.17700931
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Genuine advice after bans
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Hi anons. I typically browse /b/ and /r9k/ to shitpost, /a/ for obvious weeb, / or /fit/ for lifting.
But contrary to what you'd think, I've been banned twice now from /r9k/
I genuinely don't get it. I read over the rules and the FAQ again to see what could lead to a ban, and I think I've isolated it to flaming. Could someone please detail what this entails? To my understanding, a sarcastic insult or a jab isn't flaming is it? I thought /b/ and /r9k/ were supposed to be containment for shitposting, effectively making that okay.
Sorry for the meta post. I just use 4chan to de-stress and I don't want to keep running into trouble.
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Don't look a gift horse in the mouth
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be less of prick.
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>>17700931
If you wanna flame, just go on pol and post some pro Hillary shit. Or, if you're clever, pro Johnson shit would also work. They freak out anytime either of them are mentioned.
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>am senior from high school
>kissless hugless gfless whatever it's called, probably ging to end up on r9k.
>take oneitus to homecoming
>week later; she's dating some other motherfucker
Cheer me up adv, please.
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You have no diseases, no disorders and are healthy. A long life awaits you and if you could get a date in the first place, then you aren't totally hopeless.
We have guys in there 20s and 30s who never had a date in their life. Feel good for at least doing that.
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>>17700894
It hurts to know that all of the degenerates I see around me got to have that experience, and I just wanted to kill myself through most of high school. Feelsbadman
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>>17700905
You can't call others degenerates when you're even more of a loser than they are
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Friendly reminder if you are in a relationship and your partner is not on your sight right now, you are being cheated this very second.
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Doesn't that also mean that I am cheating on them right now? Because the same could be said to them
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>>17700813
It's cool, I'm pretty sure that by that logic, I'm cheating on them too right now. I'm getting a lot more sex than I thought I was!
Thanks anon!
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>>17700821
No, don't be stupid. You're here on 4chan
I am spooked
So some people found out I used tinder... 2016-10-24 22:02:00 Post No.17700766
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So some people found out I used tinder...
I am spooked
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Okay, so I'm probably blowing this out of proportion but here's what happened. So I'm in highschool (grade 12) and I turned 18 about 2 months ago which means I could use tinder. So I make an account, do all the cliche bullshit for my description and mess around on it for a bit. fast forward to now, one of my friends was on a meme page that was mainly dedicated to people in the school and guess who's tinder profile shows up? Yeah. Fortunately its a private profile meaning that the user has to accept any follow requests but the cliche shit I put in is already cringey enough, not to mention my snapchat handle is in my tinder account. Any advice on what to do?
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Delete your account anon.
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>>17700796
Yeah I turned it off but its now burned into the meme page for the rest of eternity. If I report and it gets taken down then they'll be like "oh he's such a faggot" and more copies of that fucking account might be put up. Not to mention that some lil shit probably posted this on their snap story.
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>>17700805
No not turn off, I mean permanently delete the account.
Also your friends sound like assholes.
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I don't know how to feel... don't really know what to even say...
My whole life I haven't had a single real friend. I've had one friend in childhood but he moved away. During the highschool I didn't have friends, I had acquaintances, and not even that many. Worst of all, I've never had a girl. Never kissed, nothing. I'm afraid all of this is due to being socially awkward/inept and ugly. I don't know why I'm even saying this all, it's not going to change anything.
I thought that maybe, if I got plastic surgery I'd have a chance. I can see people treating me differently. I saw how people treated me compared to my good looking friend in hs. He was the closest to being a friend ever since the childhood.
I'm even switching countries because I feel that maybe people of a different mentality than the ones that live in my country might see me for the person that I am, and not my outer appearance.
All of my facial features are ugly, and I'm afraid that not even surgery can make me look above average. By the time I have enough money to even try for plastic surgery and see if it even does anything, I'll be too old for anything anyway. What's the point of having surgery approaching 30s? I've come to terms with just being subhuman, not worthy of love or friendship. Some people lead nice lives, have someone to talk to, etc.
I don't know what advice you guys can even give me, I don't think there is a way out of this. I think daily of suicide, but I don't know why I still sense that small glimpse of hope. Deep down I know that I won't make it. I'm 20 now and haven't even started university. I fear I will get a job, and at one point just get fed up with being alone and take my own life. I look forward to that day.
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Sup Elliot Rodgers. Listen just because girls don't bang you doesn't mean suicide or going on a rampage is the right solution you angst fuck.
Grow up and see a therapist.
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>>17700716
Actually, I never mentioned killing anyone. You might have misunderstood what I have written. I just tried sharing my feeling, but it gets you called Elliot Rodgers. Thanks mate, cheers
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>>17700750
anyone but myself, that's obvious from what I wrote. Also don't think a therapist can change the way I look. Sometimes looks play a role. Sometimes.
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I can't focus on productive things, how do I fix that?
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Adderal.
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>>17700639
I already take ritalin and coffee, any more uppers and my heart would break
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some actual advice would legitimately be appreciated
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I'm utterly pathetic at sex and my premature ejaculation problems have been becoming even worse lately. Please help
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Stop jerking off so much and let your body rebalance itself.
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I went to the doctor and spoke about the issue. They gave me medication called Priligy. It's a take as needed SSRI, you just pop it an hour before sex.
Anyway I don't use them anymore, after about a year of fucking with them either my dick got used to it or I got used to it or something.
I know not everyone is keen on meds for their dick I'm not sure if there's any risk with Priligy, I've never been unable to get it up no matter the circumstsnces but twice with alcohol and proligy I couldn't but plenty of times I could.
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I would devour 50-100 hamburgers just about now, mad jelly
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I have to give a presentation tomorrow in class. I usually get tripped up by my nerves. Any advice to handle the dreaded presentation?
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wear a mask
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No one gives a fuck about it except your teacher.There's no need to be tense.
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Coming to terms with the fact that i will never be loved 2016-10-24 21:04:40 Post No.17700583
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Coming to terms with the fact that i will never be loved
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Hey /adv/. I don't know how to put it but like the title says, I am now quiet certain that nobody will love me. No, I'm not trying to go "oh, woe is me" here. I'm being pretty fucking serious.
All these years I've met several girls, tried doing my best all the time, but I've never managed to get in a proper relationship with any of them. It's not like i can like someone in an instant too. In 25 years, I only had actual feelings for 3 women only, two of which I lost my chance with on a last minute occasion.
It's not like I'm a bad looking guy or anything either. A female friend of mine almost slapped me when i said i didn't find myself attractive at all. Maybe it has something to with my attitude or my aura or whatever the fuck that is.
So what I'm asking for here is advice on how to move on. I want to forget all of these and quit trying to get a girlfriend. Turning 25 soon and I would like to accept this fact and move on to something productive.
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I seen people who have disabilities, who are were really fat and ugly get significant others, why can't you? It is because of you negative pathetic atitude of yours. I bet those girls were interested but saw how much of a door mat you were to lose interest.
See a therapist with your faggot ass to hopefully fix the beta.
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>>17700593
thanks for at least replying. but you're not getting my point here. i'm done. i'm sick of trying over an over again. don't want to watch the same shitty film knowing that it's shit. i didn't ask for advice on how to get the girls and shit. i can get the ones i don't like. so many times i had the chance to bang chicks most people only dream of. but like i said i can't just bring myself to like someone easily. i just want to stop worrying about being single and move on to something else that is productive. i want to spend time on my hobbies without feeling sad about how fucked up my relationship history is.
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>>17700620
Were you sexually assaulted when you were younger or something? I don't understand how a male in his 20s is turned off by meeting women and having relationships with them?