Please tell ne whats the normal age for loosing virginity for a guy.
It doesnt fucking matter. Your life wont be magically 100% different once you've jammed your dick into a vagina. Set some loftier goals ffs
>>17703653
What about 80% different, that's a pretty big difference.
>>17703649
21y old khv here
i'm starting to realize my girlfriend really doesn't love me as much as I thought she did. and this makes me very very depressed.
the way she acts, talks, does things with me has always been suspiciously oriented around goals for herself. sometimes she tells me how she loves me so much and misses me, but i'm beginning to think those were either forced words, or she was just lonely and needed company.
last night we had a very serious discussion, no fighting or anything, and i had to ask her once and for all, does she truly love me or is she just choosing to be with me out of some idea that it will be good for her future. she felt like being honest for once and answered the latter.
ive been with her for nearly 3 years now. shes actually my first and only girlfriend. i was very lonely and depressed when i met her, and she made my life better in every way up to now. I worked very hard at my career and made amazing progress in my life for the past 3 years, and its all because i was motivated by the dream of making a family with her. that was my real goal in life.
now i feel completely lost all the sudden. literally i don't even..
i guess i should ask how would you deal with this? wtf was i working towards? what about now? it feels like i just dont want to do anything
>>17703622
what's your annual salary?
>>17703627
>>17703627
i think thats irrelevant. i had pretty much no income when i met her, and thats when i felt she cared about me the most. now i have a very healthy income, but its becoming more questionable whether she has any feelings for me now.
i dont have a huge bank account that shes after if thats what you're thinking
You need to stop basing your self esteem on another person. Everything you accomplished since you started dating her, you did YOURSELF.
You need to find your independence. A girlfriend shouldn't be someone your NEED to feel happy - you should be capable of doing that on your own.
If she's just using you and dating you out of convenience, dump her. That is an extremely childish and selfish thing to do You don't need that girl.
This girl and I had plans to have a "netflix and chill" night tomorrow, but she just texted me and said it'd be a shame to be alone tonight when it's going to be chilly and she'd love to come over tonight instead of tomorrow night. HUGE PROBLEM: I had a cold sore pop up yesterday morning and I was hoping it'd just fuck off by Wednesday night which I was pretty confident would happen but she threw me this curve ball. It's not very obvious because it's on the inside of my lip and it's also not an open sore (yet). I've been putting deodorant on it because I heard that it helps dry it out. Any other suggestions on quick ways to make it go away? I have about 6 hours.
Stop infecting other people with herpes, cunt
Stressing out anymore about it isn't going to help for one. Go to the pharm and get a bottle of abbreva or store equivalent but make sure it has the same active ingredient %. It will only make you feel better about it- put some rubbing alcohol on and calm yourself
>>17703606
its not safe to fuck around with anyone for at least a week
sorry about your luck, anon
dont be the douchebag that gives someone cold sores
as far as getting rid of it goes, abreva is your best bet
A friend of mine started lurking /pol/ a few months ago to keep up with the elections or something and since then talking to him is the exact same thing as talking to /pol/.
Most of the time he's talking about national socialism, jews, cucks, niggers, and it's painfully obvious that his only sources are dumb infographics.
I am not politically correct by any means, but the dumb shit he says is starting to get on my nerves, and what is especially troublesome is that he has zero self awareness whatsoever since he can bring up that shit in public at any time.
I wish I could cut him off a little bit at least but I am really not in that position since we are for the foreseeable future dependent on each other.
So what do I do?
Well, ideally you could help him to deal with his own issues and insecurities that draw him towards this bullshit and educate him ... but it's a pain.
Or you can make fun of him by pretending to be an even more extreme version of /pol/ till he realizes how ridiculoushe is.
>>17703576
i dont know how anyone could go on /pol/ and take what they say serious, and express it in real life. i went on /pol/ during brexit for a laugh to see what people would say, some funny fuckers on there but i would never take that shit serious.
>>17703594
I really don't want to become his /pol/ buddy, though as strange as it might sound it might also work.
I read a lot of articles from academic journals, both for class and for leisure, and I would like to get them printed off and into a book.
Would this be legal, or would printing presses refuse to bind them for copyright reasons?
pretty sure you'd run into some copyright issues.
why does it have to be a bound book? why can't you just print them off, run them thru a 3-hole punch, and keep them in a binder?
>>17703524
I think it's probably fine so long as you don't sell the book. Really doubt anyone's going to sue you for making a collection of articles for yourself.
>>17703524
Look for photocopy pajeet stores near universities, at least mine has a few, they have the pdfs for all the books in the uni's courses and sell prints, if they do that they arent very worried about copyright laws
How do you become confident about being a woman? My mom was a super masculine feminist type who built her own house and a terrace to show everyone that she don't need a man, and my dad was really distant and never really expressed positive feelings about having children - much less daughters. While I never dated as a teen, he never expressed any protectiveness towards me considering unwanted male attention. I don't know whether that has anything to do with anything.
I don't get how other women handle it so effortlessly, slipping into heels and a skirt and slapping on a flawless makeup and just walk out of the house like they own it. Like it's no problem, like they're just doing it for themselves, because they want to do it.
Is there really anything else to being a woman than maneuvring your life around men and their wants and trying to make sure you are using them more than they are using you? Is that really what life is supposed to be? Do other girls really genuinely LIKE doing that?
Is femininity really nothing else than the need to attract men?
I feel like I want male attention, but whenever I actually DO get it, I get scared and just want to get out of that situation ASAP.
Hey OP.
>>17703487
I know it sounds cliche, but you don't have to be like those other girls. Femininity is relative, you don't have to be feminine or whatever if you don't want to.
Did I fuck up? I have zero experience with this kind of thing, so I genuinely don't know. DMA is my city's art museum btw
>>17703479
Honestly I would think Dinner is the more datey option.
But I really cant answer on if you fucked up
That last reply is pointless and it screams "pls respond". That emoticon just makes me cringe, not only because it's a stupid emoticon, but also because that wasn't the time to use it at all. Other than that I see no problem.
Maybe you should've said something like "I was under the impression that getting coffee or dinner is as just as datey" or simply "Aren't we dating then?" if you wanted to be direct, but you didn't drop your spaghetti. Not all of them, at least.
>>17703479
yeah, you fucked up
disregard this one and move on
So there's this white/arab chick in my college. She invited me along to some party. She qt as hell and dropping winks at me.
Somehow she's single, probably jumping the gun a bit here but any white guys out there ever dated an arab/white girl? I don't know anything about arab culture really.
In your experience how does it work out? I'm basically average ultra white guy.
Probably doesn't even remember my name but just on the off chance we hit it off sometime is it worth pursuing?
>>17703453
girl ain't the problem its her family that is
>>17703468
i mean is dating a white guy viewed as dating satan? im from a fairly affluent area/family if that helps. I honestly have no idea
>>17703453
Do you know where she's from? Arab countries like Lebanon and Jordan are more liberal in dating, while Moroccan ones...... well gl.
If there's the possibility that she's Christian then you're more fortunate.
Thinking about doing this because I fucking hate every class that I'm in. Currently majoring in Comp Sci but I feel I haven't learned anything practical in my 2.5 years at Uni.
Anyone feel the way I did and pursue a trade? Thoughts on doing so? Was thinking about being an Electrician.
I just want a job where I can see the fruits of my labors and feel accomplished at the end of the day.
leaving uni for a trade is dumb and lazy. you get thru general education and easy classes out the first 3 years. the last year of undergrad and postgrad is where its at.
>>17703434
No, but it could be good for you if you prefer hands on work. But you're already close to finishing. You might as well just get your Bach in cs and be a code monkey.
>>17703434
thought about doing this myself but i decided not too because im already in my second year. if you're already 2.5 years in, you may as well finish it and get the degree. uni is bull shit desu, i literally learn more from reading. im paying to basically say i am qualified. the teachers in my uni are too liberal and it pisses me off.
Okay so I was in a /tv/ thread and someone posted a link to this hentai.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f17RcSihyU0
I really never saw any animated hentai before, so I torrented this. Then I deleted it right after.
It's like commonly available to be streamed or torrented and is on myanimelist.
I live in Canada, isn't this technically illegal or something because the girls look younger?
Don't people watch this all the time?
>>17703432
Yeah its illegal
>>17703447
How illegal?
Like "torrenting" or jaywalking illegal?
It must be super common for people to watch stuff like that.
Apparently it is pretty damn illegal.
http://comicsalliance.com/u-s-citizen-arrested-in-canada-for-manga-on-laptop-faces-minim/
http://www.therecord.com/news-story/2597313-six-month-sentence-sends-strong-message-about-animated-child-porn/
http://legal.advicescene.com/ca/question/1047373/child-nudity-in-anime
lol. I'm actually curious how they determine if someone looks like a child in an anime. I mean, in the OP example it's pretty obvious they're children, but what if they were a little taller, with wider shoulders and hips? Do they have experts who determine whether a drawing represents an adult or a minor?
How does a 18 year old Asian guy get a 24-27 year old girlfriend? Where do I go?
Pic related
Go to the club and scam on older women. Tell them you're 25 and you look younger cause you're Asian.
>>17703406
I would need a fake ID or something
I'm right here.
So, I'm in my longest relationship yet, we'll have our first anniversary in a couple of days but i dont really know what the fuck should i do with this relationship.
My girlfriend and I have a lot of differences especially opinion wise. I'm a total liberal who doesn't give a fuck about patriotism, moral values and religion. I'm actually a rather die hard atheist. Now my girlfriend is very religous. It wasn't that much big of a deal at first, but lately she's been acting more and more like your typical christian brainwash. She makes its rather clear that she looks down on me for being an atheist and nihilst (No. I'm not some edgy fuckhead. Its just a belief thats rather inseperable from atheism). Also she acts kinda fanatical lately... She wants to wait with sex untill mariage (fuck that), when talking about children she insists we'll raise them christian way (I want to teach them about all options and don't force my beliefs on them) and some other stuff, too many to list.
But her religion isn't the only problem. She's way to oversensitive, always plays the victim card and blames everything on me. Im kinda tired... yet i find it really hard to break up with her. I care about her a lot. Don't know if i love her, maybe not. Not to mention that i'm an ugly autistic fuckhead who will propably never have gf again.
You fuck her and fuck her good.
differences in politics/religion aren't necessarily dealbreakers but the fact that you're so dismissive and disrespectful regarding your gf's convictions makes me think the relationship isn't going to work
break up
>im willing to do the church thing if de do the sex
Sex usually fix everything
I don't know if I love my girlfriend anymore.
How can I tell?
>>17703249
break up with her. wait three months. if you want to get back together with her after that, you probably love her.
>fast forward 2yrs from today
>she's still your girlfriend
>what feeling does this leave you with?
Spend some time away from her. A few days. I week. Do you miss *her* or do you just not like being alone (romantically)?
Who here quit alcohol?
I drink so much that its addiction. Several drinks everyday.
Never stopped so I have no idea what to expect. I have no idea why I even rely on it so much.
>>17703225
Sorry OP, I'm too distracted by wanting to be in your picture, drinking a beer.
I'm doing what I can to stay away from liquor but I sure do love beer. Just talking about it makes me want to grab one. After a while, it's the only reliable way to make yourself feel something that isn't sad/ angry.
>>17703244
I tried that method months ago, but ended up buying beers with like 8+% alcohol and visiting liquor stores more often and paying more money. I get cheap whiskey.
I'll give a try at quitting no matter what I hear here, but so far I simply havnt stopped for a single day for a few years.
I feel like I am on to a solution. I have tried to work to replace my drinking, but maybe I need a more relaxing and less responsible activity that enables me to stop drinking. I'm considering biking at the moment cause I could force myself away from home but its gonna get colder.
>>17703225
ive never quit entirely but its pretty easy for me. even when im not avoiding it i can go a month or more without realizing i havent had any booze.
i took accutane so had to quit for three months. i also had brain damage for a while so didnt drink then either.
How long does it take for most places to look at your resume?
It's been almost two fucking weeks without a response. And we sent several emails back and forth before I submitted anything, I don't think they'd blow me off without at least telling me they're not interested.
>>17703219
yes they would. cuz they have dozens of candidates and the person in charge doesn't get anything out of saying 'sorry were not interested'.
source: I've done hiring.
>>17703223
Is that what I should assume happened? I thought my resume was pretty strong.
You should have called or walked in for an interview or to ask about one
THey blew you off for sure. Dont put all your eggs in one basket.