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So my parents just informed me that I'm going to have to start paying for my own health insurance very soon. I'm 24, live in the US (fuck me), in my last semester of school about to get my Bachelors, and work part time doing both landscape and pool cleaning. I have no earthly idea what to do. I live in a very rich county where the average income is above 50k and there's going to be one insurance agency that providers will take after November because of Obamacare reasons, and the insurer is $250+ a month. I have two options it seems like, which is 1) Work more and start paying $250+ a month 2) Move to a new county and get more affordable health care. The problem with option 2 is I've never moved out. I want to, I just don't have the cash or time between class and work to do so yet. Plus I would need a new job that can afford all of this and with my degree I feel I could do it. I live in FL where living is already expensive af and I wouldn't mind moving out of state but I also have a supporting gf that lives a few miles away that I would hate leaving. I don't think moving an hour or so away would be too bad for us but I first have to figure out where to move.
I'm really stressing out about this and idk what I should do or how to prepare. I have about 2k to my name and can probably get 3k if I sell some of my shit. I don't know the first thing about moving out of state or getting health insurance, and I hope maybe someone on /adv/ could help an anon out.
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>Should I stay or should I go?
Which sounds better?
Which one feels better?
Have a solid plan A and B before deciding. sounds like you can figure it out just fine.
Have both lined up and then decide.
>SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO?
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>>17702873
Just don't get sick, live without it and pay the penalty.
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>>17702892
>Which sounds better?
>Which one feels better?
Plan 2 sounds and would probably feel better, but it honestly scares me making such a quick move when I hardly know anything about moving, insurance, etc. The only thing that's stopping me from moving out right away is the fact that I'm still in school till December and that's what's fucking me up right now.
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Does the penalty usually cost most than having insurance?
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How do I get good at eating pussy?
My GF gives me great blowjobs so I want to return the favor
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Do the alphabet bruh
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>>17702791
Where's that chart. Someone get that fucking chart!
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What's a great blowjob?
I always thought that it would be exactly that; someone giving head exclusively until orgasm. Is it common that hand/ blowjobs aren't supposed to make you cum, just get you hard? For all the guys and girls I've had suck my cock, it seems like the objective is no longer to actually get the guy off, yet they all still tall about this "great head" that doesn't seem to exist.
Dunno, that's just me. Opinions?
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What do you do when your girlfriend's family expects too much of you?
>She is 24. Asian. Finished college. Working
>I'm 22. Last year. Not working
I'm finishing up my CS degree, so I had to take an extra year. Her family is triggered that I didn't finish in 4 years, own a car, made a down payment to a nice house, invest in stocks etc.
My girlfriend is understanding, so that's a relief. I know I shouldn't give a shit on what they say, but it's demoralizing to keep hearing that I'm not some perfect man with no flaws. Give me a fucking break.
Thanks for listening.
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I think girlfriend's/wife's parents will always be disappointed at whoever is dating her, those fucks can't ever be pleased. Hopefully you and your girlfriend will be independent enough to not have to care about them other than visiting them like once a month or something soon. Good luck.
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Interact as little with as possible with them without being rude.
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Help me /adv/, I don't have luck with girls and I don't get why.
I'm 24 years old, around 195lbs and 5'11" and have a good job.
I think I'm not looking, bad average at worst.
I'm confident and I don't think my personality is annoying either.
It's not that much of a problem to be honest, I'm not even actively looking for a relationship as I don't go to clubs or use dating apps.
I'm just wondering why I never even get the chance to become acquainted with girls.
I'm talking to female coworkers all the time and I think they like me, one even invited me to her birthday, unfortunately all of them are already taken.
But outside of that I never get to talk to girls ever, no girl ever showed any interest, if I happen to talk to a girl in everyday situations, they always seem bothered by me or they are not interested in any conversation whatsoever at least.
I don't understand, married girls call me a cutie but singles don't give a damn about me.
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Anyone?
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>>17702828
married women are just horny and want to flirt.
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>>17702828
If you meet a new woman who looks interesting, then move fast. Make a move on the first day preferably. People categorize each other pretty early, sounds like you always end up in the friendzone. And don't be shy about it, it's a turn off for most women. Just flat out ask her for a date.
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Ok so back ground info I am 18 my gf is 17 (legal in my country) and both still live with our parents and it's been about a month since the last time we had sex. I want to try for it again but sometimes she'll play hard to get and say another time and I feel crappy for asking because it makes me look bad.
She's coming to my house today. Should I ask her through text if we should have Sex? Do I wait till she comes to my house so I can bring it up? Is it right for me to be SCARED or should I just be honest.
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wait til she comes, kiss, touch each other and fool around, she may get horny
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Some thing to know I can't just have Sex in my room we'd have to go the church bathrooms or something nearby (she's into public sex kinda, like in restrooms and stuff)
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>>17702794
I think you're a retard if you gotta ask for it, it's supposed to just happen.
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why do parents lie to their kids about being attractive? my family, my whole life growing up, told me i was very good looking. i'm a 5 at best. luckily, realizing this wasn't so hard because i've developed a good personality, but why can't parents from the start just explain "yeah, you're ugly/average, so learn to be funny/smart/dance/make a lot of money, etc."?
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because they aren't objective. Most of the time they actually think their offspring is smart, and beautiful and pleasant and all that. Even if they look like deformed monsters, are dumb as rocks and annoying as fuck.
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because that's shitty and you'd whine about that too?
and maybe you were cuter as a kid. Reason a lot of people get average is they don't workout or anything. Get fit or some shit.
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>>17702752
They were attempting to build up the child's self esteem and confidence because they're good parents. You don't fill your kid with apathy and cynicism from the start, that just slowly settles in as they get older and are more equipped to handle it.
Hi /adv/. I need friends but I don't know how to meet new people. I'm a 19 year old girl. Currently I don't go to school or have a job. I pretty much have no friends or acquaintances I could talk to and I'm feeling miserable because of this. I'm really bad with people. I'm autistic, depressed, tired and my social anxiety is ruining my life. Even grocery shopping is hard for me. I'm really interested in japanese fashion, video games and general nerd stuff. I just wanna have some weeb friends, but conventions are not for me. I'm really shy and not a 'go ask random people if they want to hang out with me' kind of person. Do I have any hope or should I just continue my hermit life without embarrassing myself in public?
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You have the answer you seek, but refuse to experiment to see if your solution will work.
Go outside.
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>>17702761
At surface level it does look that simple, but I'm really afraid of embarrassing myself. I've done that too many times in the past and it just makes me even more anxious. Also I have no idea where to go outside. Should I just sit down in the park and wait for a stranger to walk by? Where I live it's considered odd to just start talking with random people. Thanks for the reply though.
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First and foremost you have to ask yourself some questions and answer them.
What kind of relationships you want with people? Acquaintances, close or really close friends?
-What do you really want from those people, specifically? Do you want chats, to hear your problems, to exchange stories, or what exactly?
Furthermore, are you aware that:
-real, true friends you usually meet once every 5-10 years?
-you lose friends and people almost every year, so your circle is almost never the same for long?
-if you want to befriend males, you might find it hard to find ones that actually want a friend and not someone to sexualize?
-no matter how many friends you have you will always have moments when you feel alone
-people will almost always disappoint you
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Hi, /adv/, I've never been here before forgive me if I do this wrong. I'm 99.99999% sure my older brother is spying on my browser history via leet haxor methods I do not understand. I've noticed constantly running on his computer a program called GNS3-TinyCore2 and through my 15 minutes of intensive research I have absolutely no idea what it is used for. Every time I look at weird pronz he's always around the corner with a big grin on his face. It's annoying. I feel extremely invaded. I look at weird ass shit so he's basically black mailing me. Any advice would be awesome as far as information on how he could be watching me how to stop it and or what I should do as far as confronting him.
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install gentoo
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>GNS3-TinyCore2
That's a gui for another program called Microcore, which is used to create virtual networks - or in layman's terms, it's a great piece of kit for spying on your siblings online activities. There are ways you could get round it, but the technical solutions will require in depth knowledge so it might be easier to just punch him in the face instead.
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>>17702705
Thank you good sir. I truly assumed my gut was telling me the truth. I assume he'll see this yes? You dont think this gentoo thing is enough to get around it?
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If you know someone is going to physically hurt you, is there any legal tool to prevent it happening? If there is, I probably need to prove their intention. What's the best way to do so?
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>gun
>knife
>fists
>car if it's a mob
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>>17702699
I don't want to incriminate myself. Physical violence to be avoided if possible.
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Depending where you live, being threatened is considered a crime. Why would this person want to hurt you?
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So, I'm having some problems with my life during this period and I just wanted to solve them as fast as I can. I didn't want a relationship because of this problems since I knew they would just make it harder. But then
>meet this girl
>holy fuck she's the best girl I have ever met
>ask her out, we are really into each other
>ending up having a relationship with this girl
Now I don't know if this is a good choice. I really REALLY like this girl she's perfect for me but I already know those problems are eventually gonna ruin some "magic" moments. So what do I do guys?
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stop being vague with us or we can't help.
what 'problems' are you talking about? are you gay or something?
look, whatever shit you have going on, fix it, but don't let it get in the way of your happiness. you deserve to be with a great woman, remember that. are you gonna keep putting it off until you're organized and everything's perfect in your life?
because I got news for you, pal: it'll never ever happen.
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>>17702680
What are you talking about exactly? I don't understand holding back information when you're on an anonymous message board asking for help.
From the vague information you have put forward I would say hold onto the relationship and fix your problems at the same time...
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>>17702683
Yeah guys I guess I should have said my problems you are right
>have had depression for years
>randomly get depressed like for example I go out with friends then start feeling sad n shit
> hate myself and my look even if everyone says "you are funny and good looking"
I'm prob scared that those things will hold me back in this relationship so I don't know if that was a good idea
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The business I started failed and now I have to go back to working for my dad's business. What do I say when the staff ask me why I'm back? How do I explain my business failed in a way that doesn't make me look like a complete loser?
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Why would you care if people 'think' you're a loser? You went out, tried something and failed. That's one of the potential consequences of starting a business. Taking such a risk is a lot more than most people do.
Their opinions do not matter.
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look for another job. family and business don't mix.
in the meantime, fuck 'em, who cares what they think.
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>>17702678
They're still going to ask what happened.
And I will still need a good answer.
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Anyone knows something about dreams and their meaning? 2016-10-25 11:51:34 Post No.17702638
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Anyone knows something about dreams and their meaning?
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Hey /adv,
i can't get stuff done in my dreams.
Example:
>want to go on a trip to the carribean
>Things are all packed
>but there is always one thing in my way
>like groceries, doing chores and shit
>i never get to the plane
or
>i try to punch someone
>i cant
>my punch gets so weak that i dont even reach my target
Anyone with similar dreams/experiences?
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Anxiety dreams. Generally brought on by stress.
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>>17702638
Dreams have no meaning. They're simply you trying to interpet random brain signals.
How ever your interpret these signals depends really on what you've been thinking about recently.
t. pyschology masters
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I have those weak punch dreams as well OP.
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Illegal immigrant/Overstayer 2016-10-25 11:30:52 Post No.17702613
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Illegal immigrant/Overstayer
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I know a really rich guy, his kids nanny is a Philipino overstayer in the UK her visa expired anout 5 years ago so shes now illegally in the uk. I feel like reporting her. I am fuelled more by my immense hatred for him than by the law. Shes collateral damage.
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>>17702613
Why do you hate her? if she did harm to you or someone you know, do it. But do it anonymously.
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I dont hate her, i hater her employer and it will get to him. Shed collateral damage
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>>17702613
Rich guy will use lawyers to get out of any trouble and get another nanny
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I get along with pretty much very well, I like everyone and everyone likes me. I really have no social problems and making friends is easy for me. Both male and female.
I've never been in a romantic relationship but girls are attracted to me, I however am usually not.
But there is this one girl in particular I seem to have major issues just talking to her, when it comes to her I watch every word and tend to give generally too many fucks about what I am doing. I can't approach her without feeling like a pussy, a feeling which I haven't really felt for some years.
How do I stop giving a fuck?
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pls respond
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>>17702610
You are prob in love anon good for you. JUST don't fuck it up by being a creep and try to train yourself talking to her.
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You let yourself understand that all emotion is just in your head. Relationships these days always end up badly so don't risk it, unless if you want your life fucked. No human being has some magical bullshit love at first sight nonsense. It's just our mind picking out a sexual partner and nothing more. So, the more you get laid then the less you'll care.
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Why do girls pretend to be vegans all of a sudden? Is it because being a feminist doesn't get them enough attention anymore?
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they think it will prevent them from turning into massive cows
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they actually want to be vegans, but it's easy to give up as it's a difficult transition. Men dramatically try this too.
Also feminism isn't for attention, would be the opposite.
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this isn't asking for advice, you're whining. Shut the fuck up.