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Horrible idea and you should go through the proper channels under doctor supervision.

Casual use of offmarket hormones is a major factor in dissatisfaction with the transition process and major complications.

>>17699087

Are you stupid or what? Go to a doctor and get assigned the proper hormones. If you eat whatever at whatever dosages, you'll forever fuck up your health and possibly the rest of your life.

Yeah well when youre in the military things get a little more complicated. I need a backup plan.

Hate her back. That's the best way to get her to fuck you.

>>17699082
Do this. Or just call her out on it. If it bothers you, make it clear it's not cool. Make her feel like the fucking asshat here because it seems she is one

>>17699082
I don't want her to just fuck me. I'm not a virgin, I've had sex before a few times. I just want to settle down with a girl that I actually like, but she's making it incredibly hard for some reason. I helped her out plenty of times when she was stuck on her studies, I treated her good, so what gives? Why am I being treated like complete shit by her? I just want a girlfriend, not a cheap fuck.

How many children do you have and how old are they? You could maybe hire a nanny.

>>17699085
26 and unmarried, just wondering where to find women like this.

>>17699103
Why didn't you say so in the first place? If you are looking for a housewife, try the church. Though at your age they will mostly be married already.

She wants to know what your intentions are. Stop reading into it too much.
Just be honest, if she says shes not interested in a relationship point of view then bad luck.

>>17699066
she made a couple sexuals comments and talked negatively about her ex. Maybe she might just be looking for hook ups? If I say I'm looking for like a relationship would I close the door for fwb, how does that work?

>>17699075
Look dude. Don't let your giddiness get crazy. Just have fun with her. The way you do this is you steer the conversation.you don't have to blatantly say 'anyway wanna fuck or get married????' just lead to conversations and make your intentions somewhat clear. Do you like her? Do you just want to be her friend? You have a say in this to you know

>>17699063
I used to be like that, but somehow, after losing some weight I lost interest in that. I'm not saying this is in any way a scientific way to go about it, and this is just my experience, but if you have some extra fat layer, why not try this.

>>17699080
I'll give it a whirl. I'll make it a point to regularly do my routine rather than the spotty mess it's degraded to. I'd say I'm just bored if I didn't do this at inopportune times (at work in the bathroom, instead of getting ready for class, etc)

>>17699101
Yup, same here, I didn't even notice when I had stopped since it was always like a sudden urge, now I just don't get the urge.

Answer honestly. It's a common tool for gauging how your job works for you, and if there's something that can be done for you to feel that you get to apply your skillset properly.

>>17698960
It depends on how long you've been in the job.

If you're new, you love everything, are pleased with yourself for mastering the job so quickly and look forward to being even better at it.

If you've been there for a while, you are happy in the work but are beginning to feel that you are capable of more, and would appreciate the opportunity and challenge of stretching yourself in new areas of skills or responsibility.

>>17699023
Thats a nice answer, thanks alot!

>>17698934
you sound very unfit. it's not that hard. i don't even exercise and i can do this for at least 20 minutes.

Literally the best position for that emotional connection shit women like, especially if you hold short bits of eye contact. Strengthen your arms in the pushup position and fugg by using hip rotation - that shit drives them cray.

>>17698934
Masturbate on you back less.

It's less about age and more about stage. For example, if she's a high schooler about to finish but doesn't know what she wants to do and is incapable of holding down a job, and you're a loser basement dweller who has no ambition and has been a NEET since you finished high school, then you're at the same stage and can be drains on society together.

I am with my GF since she was 14, by then I was 20, and everyone was judging us. Welp, time flew by, after 4 years we are still together, no matter what. It was really hard from the begining but it was definitely worth it.

>>17698945
Come back when she's in her mid-20s and then I'll think that's something worth talking about

>>17698895
Did you say you're bf/gf? Doesn't seem like you need to dump her, just stop seeing her.

>>17698907

Well we're in that phase just before you talk about yourself as a couple, you think I should slowly have less and less contact or say it straight (Say I don't want to be in a relationship again this soon) ?

>>17698915
Have you kissed/had sex etc?

>>17698890
He's neglecting you, dump him

>>17698896
Should I state the things I've written here when dumping him?

He is just not that into you. His loss. Dump him and do not look back. Dumping someone by giving them reasons (telling them their faults) is never a good idea. You think it'd give you a closure but it will likely just lead to an argument. Opposite of love is indifference. Tell him it won't work out and you wish him good luck in life. Cut all contact.

>>17698888
check'd

>>17698888
>Many mental illnesses
>Doesn't make effort to be attractive to you
>Can't accept that other people can have wrong opinions and still be civil
>Poor financial decisions
>Toxic family members

>>17698888
Red flags aren't deal breaker. They're signs that there MIGHT be something off with their personality.
It is possible that a guy who tells me "all my exes were crazy" had really bad luck and dated a few girls who were completely insane and ruined his life, but it's so much more likely that he's not able to have any form of self awareness and doesn't learn from his mistakes.

don't. resist the urge. put your mind somewhere else. talk to someone else. talk to another girl. get on tinder and talk to some bitches.

>>17698875
if she hasn't responded and you are trying to get her to respond then don't.

That's easy it means you should track her down and have as many babies as you can make with your new soulmate.

If they aren't texting back their busy, most likely sleeping.

tl;dr you want to get rich without doing any work.

>>17698802
A few people born rich.
The big majority of them are MADE.

Do you think every rich person just woke up to millions of dollars?
Or that a lot of them did it SOLELY for the money?
Do you know how hard it was for a lot of them?
Or how many times they failed?

If you're interested in this you should read up, it's interesting and it's not just about getting lucky, it's about perseverance.

If you don't want to work and you weren't "lucky" to be born into the 1% then tough fucking luck.

Too bad you live in a global capitalist economy and will fuck other people over in this pursuit.

If you don't even have any idealistic justification for this...gross.

>>17698792
Alex Trebek, I'll go with "What is psychological abuse?"

Yes, your parents lashing out for literally no reasonable reason is abusive.

When you say 'lash out,' did they really lash out, or is your memory of it exaggerated since you were a child and everything is super dramatic to children?

>>17698818
We'll I remember for small bad attidude things like frowning she'd get REALLY pissed and start pushing me, and I'd tell her to stop and she'd just get more mad and even bruised be with her nails, (I think that's what bruise means) and put choked me very briefly. But what really made me upset is when I told her to very nicely to stop and she'd just get pissed. I feel like she wasn't trying to discipline me but just take out her hate on me. Idk

>>17698783
You either find a new purpose, or you continue your existence passively like 99% of the rest of the population.

If you have any specific questions, ask them now.

>>17698783
What was your dream?

>>17698794
I wanted to get cucked by my girlfriend who I've known since high school. So after 5 years of being together I finally fessed up, and I became ecstatic when she said she was interested in having sex with another man in front of me. So I went online and set the whole thing up. We met with the guy to set up some preliminaries before the big event, but I didn't realize that my gf began talking to him behind my back. So before I got to watch them fuck, she just left me for him and I never got to watch. Now I have nothing.