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Help /adv/, I'm having money troubles
>Work screwed up pay on 15th, I only got $90 (For comparison, I should have got $1350)
>Bought fuel for car (Work 35mins away from home, have to drive in every day)
>Bought birthday present for mom
The pay clerk said it'll be fixed on my next pay, but, I'm down to $12, my car has less than 1/4 tank of petrol, and there's still a week until payday.
I have enough food at home to survive, but enough money to pay for fuel and an $25 parking ticket I got (Visited a sick relative at the hospital and parked in the wrong area at the wrong time) would be good?
So, /Adv/, how do I make $100-$200 quick? (Cdn)
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Talk to them again and tell them you're fucked for money, it's unacceptable, and you need it today. Stand up for yourself ffs. Or sell your asshole on craigslist, whatever floats your car.
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>>17697315
I tried, there's nothing they can do. The paperwork to get an advance issued would take weeks to file. Plus I'd have to attend mandatory financial counseling after.
>Such is life in the army
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>>17697315
This anon knows. You NEVER let work fuck with your money like that. If it was a nominal amount of cash you'd be seeing next week, let it go, but you cannot go poor and hungry because someone at your job was stupid. You have every right to go to your workplace and demand an immediate solution. If they can't actually pay you until next week, your boss needs to personally come out of pocket and make sure you're not going hungry because they fucked you.
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Something weird just happened and wondering if I need to see a doctor, or if its nothing. I was just in the bathroom feeling like i needed to vomit so i was on my knees near the toilet (i probrably needed to vomit because I just drank some pepsi) and then I started to get dizzy next thing I know I can't see anything and my mind is flooded with thoughts that are incoherent. next thing I notice in lying on the floor for what feels like 3-4 minutes. Is this just blood rushing to my head or something?
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Go to the doctor senpai
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I'm not happy in my current relationship. I would rather stay at home rather than hang out with her? I enjoy hanging out with friends and am social. I just don't feel happy being in a relationship though. Am I not meant for relationships, or am I not meant for her?
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It's her. A relationship that's a good fit should feel like hanging out with your best friend who you also have sex with.
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Are you a woman?
How can you say you are not meant for relationships, thats cunt talk.
Just think why you are unhappy. Its something that can be fixed? Its something enough that you can justify a break?
Once you know the answer,communicate with your partner face to face, be responsible and dont fear to be the bad guy if you are the one breaking
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I think my biggest problem is that she wants to spend 24/7 with me. She texts all the time, calls at least once a day, asks me to come over for a bit before either of us run errands. It's kind of draining to be honest. I just feel like I am attached to her at the hip, and I guess that's what relationships are supposed to be. I'm wondering if I am not meant for relationships because I want my own alone time, or times where I'd rather just hang out with other people
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If you told someone, "You look good", and they responded with, "Thanks. I try...", would you assume they were insecure?
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I would assume they are memeing and i would laugh and make some jokeish remark.
But women might redflag it because the belief that you uphold yourself very high, but in reality it will make them lose power over you at the start
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>>17697237
Compliments are overrated, only ever give them if you mean them. What reaction was it that you were looking for?
If someone compliments me I would either thank them, or make a joke out of it. None of this bull shit rocket science
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I would think they're being modest.
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If a girl asks you about your fetishes, should you be honest?
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Fuck no.
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>My biggest fantasy is to swallow the cum of 5 trannies in a row
Maybe not.
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If you are alone with someone who is sexually interested in you and who is asking your fetishes for the purpose of establishing a mutually pleasant sexual activity, say the truth. In any other context, lie. Don't refuse to answer, just say something boring and socially acceptable like "red heads", "nice butts" or "pretty smiles".
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Is no fap worth it?
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probably depends on your position in life. is fapping stopping you from doing important shit? if yes, then cutting down on fapping would be beneficial towards you.
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>>17697205
You unlock an achievement after 30 days.
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>>17697205
Is fap worth it?
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I got a morphsuit like pic related for Halloween but my bulge keeps showing.
> Inb4 bragging
Every man has a bulge there from what I've read. Should I figure out how to reduce bulge or just go with it?
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>>17697201
Wear a cup so your bulge isn't obscene looking.
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these always look inappropriate and obscene, even with a cup. i avoid men who wear these, its creepy. try same color shorts over it, or a modified costume
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Use shorts or swimming pants under it. Source: got same suit
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What are her intentions? 2016-10-23 21:34:49 Post No.17697188
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I matched on Tinder with a girl in one of my classes a few weeks ago (Oct 1), and since then we've been hanging out pretty frequently.
We went on three very "datey" dates to start (drinks, then dinner, then bookstore + dinner). Each one went really well, and after each we'd go back to her place and hook up.
Since those three, we've hung out three more times at her place and would talk for a while and hook up. We've opened up to each other a lot and whenever we're together there's a definite flirty/intimate atmosphere.
So far after every time we've hung out, she's been the one to initiate following up and asking about hanging out again.
The only problem is that she broke up with her boyfriend of two years just one week before we went out for the first time, and told me at one point last week that she's "not trying to date seriously right now". I can also see that she has still been updating her Tinder profile with new photos and such.
I can't really see how she's had time to go on dates with other dudes, since we've hung out 6 times in the past 18 days (and she takes a lot of classes and has three part time jobs). She also has very consistently been the one hitting me up to hang out, so I know she's interested.
What do you guys think is the deal here? I'm a bit confused.
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b u m p
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someone respond to this
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>>17697188
>What are her intentions?
How the fuck are we supposed to know the answer to that question? Why don't you try asking her what her intentions are instead of a bunch of strangers on the internet.
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Alright..
got a problem need some advice.
relationship+life
help me out
>be me
>come to the US and meet 8.5/10 grill at college
>grill dating sober ex-junkie - 5 years into relationship
>soon he relapses and starts using horse again
>she leaves him for me a month and a half into meeting me and we mutually fall in love.
>he drives a car that she pays for, she pays his rent at a shitty halfway home and most of his day to day expenses
>after he relapses he starts asking her for money to buy drugs every other day
>ask her to stop giving him money and tell her to cut it off, its good for her
>she cuts it off
>a week into her moving in with me (this is about three months into our relationship) I find out she's been texting with him on the sly and having long deep conversations
>confront her, she cries says she loves me to death and says its over and it was toxic and she''s in a much better place than before la la la and so on
>ok. convinced but still watch my back as once you fuck me over, i'm always aware of future discrepancies.
>fast forward, one day she gets an abusive text from him about wanting to see the dog that they both had which now lives with her.
>last straw..i confront him and situation escalates calls me out to fight but her parents intervene and tell him to back off and so he does. everything is cool
>move along to about 8 months later to now..
>couple of days ago she sees some junkies nodded out at the gas station and tells me they remind her of junkie ex.
>next day say that his aunt randomly texted her and told her that he almost overdosed recently.
>today i check her phone to find out that she texted the aunt herself to find out how he was doing and if he is well..
>also finds out she feels guilty about not letting him see the dog
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>this is a girl i almost fought some asshole over and the last time this sorta thing happened i was like just tell me if anything is up, you dont have to lie to me.
>I also have a lot of love for her, i dont know if she's fucked in the head, but overall, her vibe is cool and we have fun together and her work is brilliant. so overall has it together.
tl;dr : Girlfriend is thinking about junkie ex who i have had beef with and texted to find out about how he is doing. its eating at me...is this fucked for the long run or should i let it slip?
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Maybe gently bring it up with her if it's really eating at you.
Otherwise I would just be confident and not dwell on it. She's with you and not that guy for a reason. Part of her probably still misses and cares about him, but I don't think that will permanently damage your relationship unless she takes more serious steps to act on it.
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>>17697198
ah, it pisses me off that he was so bad to her and I thought i was protecting her and then she turns around and does this..and i asked her to be up front about it but she lied.
I get the part about her missing himor caring for him since they've been together for so long but even when I gently ask her about that she denies it..
its the damn lies man, or not being straight up about it.
if the dude shows up at my doorstep tomorrow, i wouldnt confront him now because I know he came down because of her text...if i didnt I would have fought him like a fool..its so stupid..the dude leeched nearly $35000 off this girl in the 5 years they were together..most ofo it for drugs and sold her belongings on a number of occasions and for the last one year before we got together he was cheating on her...one whole year!!! its ridiculous
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Emotional Detachment/Trust Issues 2016-10-23 21:26:02 Post No.17697171
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Emotional Detachment/Trust Issues
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Long story short, because of my terrible home life growing up, and bad experiences with close friends/relationships where everything fell apart, I don't understand what it means to feel close to someone and value. I consider all my relationships, regardless of their depth, to be extremely temporary, so I don't really become emotionally invested in having these people I care about around.
I've gotten around this by thinking "even if they're only here right now, and later they or I will change and i won't have this again, I'll always have this experience/memory" and that's gotten me out of my shell.
But it doesn't work when I meet someone I like, want to be close to, and want to have in my life. I just shut down and retreat into myself emotionally.
Anyone with similar experiences? What's the workaround?
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I wish I could help, brah. I've had the same shit happen to me, but I cope with hookers and vidya...
>tfw so ronery.
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>>17697204
Hah, I tried coping by getting a hooker.
Couldn't get past the notion I was dehumanizing her, so instead of the 35 minutes of shameful sex I paid for, I had a full-blown personal conversation about her life and dreams for 2 hours.
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bump because i feel this
i find dude that you need to try hard to trust people, and trust what the people who love you say to you about yourself
it takes a long time. it might help to improve some other areas of your life too. like exercising or picking up a hobby or just reading a new book or something.-- whatever will make you happy
godspeed
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Dating Single Parents 2016-10-23 21:18:29 Post No.17697157
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So i'm not super experienced in the dating scene. Been about 6 years since (23) my last GF. Still a virgin. I'm not horrible looking or anything like that, pretty successful, etc.
My town is a bit of a small town. Not small enough where everyone knows one another, but not big enough where there's a lot of things to do for fun (besides walking around, going to bars/restaurants, and movies).
There are a surprisingly large number of women with kids I'm finding. Especially when looking online dating stuff. The women are very attractive. On one hand I'm kind of interested in pursuing them, on the other hand I feel like my lack of experience spells disaster when pursuing someone with kids.
People who have dated a lot and dated single parents (or the other side), what do you think? You think I'll be in way over my head?
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>i wanna
dont. They are broken individuals that got pregnant, the guy flee'd cause they went for the wrong sort and are now on the prowl for men to raise their kids
do yourself a favor and dont. You're better than they are
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>>17697157
Don't date single moms unless their husband died in a fire or in Iraq. Anything other than that is just her looking for someone to raise her kids.
Feel free to fuck em, or if you don't mind being a dick, leading them on.
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A lot of women with kids have only had sex with one or two men. Some single moms are nice women just like anyone else, and some are crazy. Kids do complicate things, but it's actually a good way to tell what kind of person she is sooner because it's an added stressor/responsibility for her and you'll be able to observe how she handles that. She may just be after a man to make money for her or to have a dad for the kid, and if she is it'll be immediately obvious. I wouldn't discount a woman just because she has a kid. If it does seem she isn't right for you, do like you would in any other relationship and just break it off. No big deal.
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Hey /adv/, as cringy as this sounds, I need help getting over my first girlfriend.
I'm 20, she's 20, we're both students but at different universities, albeit only an hour away. Rival ones at that, but I digress.
We only dated about 3 1/2 months, but man I have never gotten along with a girl as well as her, and I've had my fair share of women, albeit it's never progressed to the point of dating before.
She's so fucking gorgeous, sweet, smart, ambitious, fun and funny. She isn't without her flaws, but no one is. I accept those flaws and like them.
But it just didn't work out I guess. She didn't like the sweet/romantic side of me that came out after we became "official".
Said she liked it so much better when I was just her friend/fuck buddy and we were just chill.
We started arguing somewhat more after that. Had a few small breakups. Not giant arguments but just, I don't know, after that her usual jokes and shit would just get to me and annoy me, as opposed to make me laugh from the teasing and me teasing her back. Same went with my jokes towards her and how she would react. Stuff like that. Her anxiety disorder didn't help once school started back up.
After a particular argument a while back I snapped and called her a cunt. And apparently, that absolutely destroyed her. Made her cry for hours.
She still hasn't forgiven me and probably won't ever. I finally gave a decent, genuine apology and she was appreciate and thanked me. I think that helped.
I still feel bad for ruining things like that, especially with a girl that I genuinely care about, love even.
And I find myself here sort of trying to hang on, hoping things can go back to being normal, but I realize I have to move on.
How do I do this? The thought of her being with another guy, both emotionally and physically, absolutely destroys me.
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Yeah, I've been there. It's not easy, of course, but you'll get through it.
Don't contact her at all, and don't check on her social media activity (block/hide/unfollow her if you need).
Focus your energy into schoolwork, exercising, other shit you have in your life.
And when you finally feel up to it, start talking to other girls (maybe download Tinder).
I went through this recently and that's how I got over it.
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It's weird because she's still in my life. We don't talk nearly as much but she wanted to remain friends.
Maybe the reason I can't/don't want to let go is because she's flip flopped so much on this stuff that I'm not sure if this is what she really wants.
I don't know if I have the strength to delete her number and shit.
I hate removing people from my life. Especially someone I'm so attached to.
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>>17697217
Yeah, but basically the first rule in getting over any break up is cutting contact. It sounds nice on paper to remain friends with her, but it's not going to work out if you still have feelings.
Try setting yourself a goal of one month without hitting her up in any way. You'll for sure feel better at the end of it.
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how can you tell if it's time to break up?
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>>17697129
If you even get the thought of breaking up, it's usually a good time to break up indeed.
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>>17697129
I can't even take a leak without doubting if I need to, I dont think it is possible for me to not doubt my relationship from time to time.
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Relatively easily.
How do you find motivation and stay motivated? I've been going to the gym for three months and I've had less and less motivation every week since I started, I've even thought about stopping recently. I've got no motivation to study or practice. What do?
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Pls reply
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>>17697048
Exact same problem. Wish someone would give me the answer. I need to Tudy but can't motivate myself.
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Last bump before bed
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I missed a midterm this morning, and I really need an excuse to see a doctor. Preferably with something that doesn't demand a follow up. I previously went for food poisoning, but they demanded a stool test (kek) which I do not fuck with.
So what's a good excuse?
>inb4 white knight tells me to accept consequences
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Or a really valid reason that the teacher would understand might work too. I'd be careful with that though, as I'm sure teachers have heard their fair share of excuses.
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Find poison ivy. Rub poison ivy on face. Go to doctors.
I'm sure no profession would question that. What kind of sick fuck would take ivy to the face just to miss a midterm?
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>>17697009
Are you the same guy that was asking how to avoid a midterm yesterday