Got a problem basically my cousin came over today she is a female and too me like a sister, we played video games pretty much all day with my other cousins which also showed up and before she left I gave her a hug and told her that I love her very much and she would take care of herself, now what's the problem you ask? the problem is that my nuts my nuts started to hurt after she left, did I just get blue balls from that? I don't desire her in any type of sexual matter nor have I ever thought sexually of her, is this normal on a man if he simply hangs out with someone they care for greatly or wtf?
>>17698459
Yeah you aren't old enough to be on this website.
>>17698459
definitely, save your soul while you still can. Break the computer and go climb trees...
>>17698459
Uh.. I mean, that's uh. Not exactly normal. The only thing I can think of to explain this is that you actually are on some level attracted to her, or you just happened to be super horny on that day and she's a girl, so..
But yeah, uh. Not normal, man. Sorry.
Can you be nice and get a girlfriend ? I'm in college and haven't dated since mid high school and wanted to know if do you have to be an ass to get a gf. Pic related
Well, I'm a pretty nice guy (too nice at times) and a girl likes me and I like her. We're getting to know each other before we become official. But yeah, you can be nice and get a girlfriend. There's no need to be an ass or anything. Besides, if you have to be an ass just to get a girl, then that girl isn't worth it.
What made you ask this question?
>>17698428
I red articles and posts how the less the guy cares about a girl the more she'll be into him and etc etc
>>17698455
Well, you could always play a little hard to get or act a little aloof. Basically, don't shower them with attention or hang out every single chance you get, because that's a good way to get bored of each other.
How nice are you exactly? To the point where you're a pushover?
When me and my ex entered our relationship, we promised each other we would still be friends if it didn't work out. We've been friends for over 6 years and have a great friendship but not always a great relationship. Now we're ldr and things this year was going well between us. We were planning on moving in together. We met up in May and were scheduled for August /September, but due to family issues and other things, it was pushed to November. That didn't happen because he decided to change the trip and we ended up arguing for 2 days. We broke up.
I held up the promise and thought he would too but it doesn't seem so. He said he needs time, and I'm giving him that and I kindly asked if he wanted to meet up for a day in December. He said no but suggested sometime next year.
This might seem like I'm pushing it with him but I need to emphasize how strong our friendship was, but I'm thinking he's going to tear the whole tree up with me and kill the friendship.
Should I just leave him alone completely and hope he'll still want to be friends? He was my best friend though and I his.
>>17698383
Promising something like that is dumb. Because sometimes it's not a good idea to stay friends. Sometimes it's hard and damages the healing process. You can't really ask that of someone.
>Should I just leave him alone completely and hope he'll still want to be friends?
Yeah.
Sorry for your loss, OP.
>>17698383
sounds like he didnt want to move in with u in the first place
>>17698383
as a general rule, friendships with ex partners is a bad idea.
Promises are fucking meaningless and trying to put weight on them is futile.
Cutting contact is the best thing you can do. It's hard but in the long run the best solution.
Every time you talk to him it would only reinforce whatever feelings you have for him and getting over him would take longer.
Just fuck some randos until you forget about him.
I'm thinking of joining a running group to meet people. Any better ideas? I live in a boring suburb of Ottawa.
>>17698335
>a fucking leaf
>>17698384
FUCK YOU FUCK OFF REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
>>17698335
that's a great idea. in-shape qt's, everyone goes to bars after their runs to socialize , it's a win-win
Any other females who are embarrassed of their vagina? I think vaginas look super ugly, like fish, buttholes are all round and minimalist. I don\t get what men see in women because vaginas are like wounds, not nice and round. I'm also wondering why vaginas are not round and closed in normal situation like buttholes.I\m too embarrassed to have sex because vagina opening and labia is ugly and it smells like fish. Seriously.
>>17698331
You are the classic Freudian female with penis envy. And I guess also bad hygiene?
>>17698331
get a better diet or see a gyno and your vagina won't be fishy.
I used to be very self conscious of my vagina (and my small tits), then I e-whored around a bit, and after hearing how beautiful my vagina (and small tits) is a million times, I started to believe it.
not saying you necessarily should do that.
BUT it just seems like you have low self confidence and/or body image issues.
>>17698331
>smells like fish
see your obgyn, you probably have bv or some other kind of infection
As we all know times get rough and some people cope with things differently, I tried smoking weed and its been a very long time since I did last. Below is a summary of my experience in point form.
-Short but extreme euphoria
-Consistent paranoia
-Seeing things out of the corner of my eye which isnt there
-Time slowing and speeding up quickly (within real time seconds)... I know far out....
-Heart beating so fast I thought i died twice
-Having internal battles of good and evil
-Figuring out if drugs are good or evil
-Comparing life to inception and how the only way to get to the next layer is die
-Another couple time shifts
-50 inceptions per second (real time)
And thats all I remember... Woke up with a letter to myself reminding me to be a good person.
It might sound funny but trust me It wasnt fun at all.
All I wanted to do was relax and this is what happened. How can half of the world smoke this daily? How is this fun and what did I do wrong. I didnt do much...
>>17698311
Half the world doesn't smoke weed daily. Half of all people aged 16-25 don't even smoke weed daily.
Weed hits some people the wrong way. You're one of these people, most likely. If it doesn't feel good, don't do it.
>>17698311
This is pretty much what happens when I smoke, yeah. It effects people differently and you're probably a lightweight like me.
Get a lower percentage THC and smoke one or two hits (yes that is just one [1] or two [2]), wait like 10-15 minutes before going in for more.
>>17698311
Holy shit you got high as fuck. Man that reminds me of my early stoner days, really good times. But I'm the kind of person who loooves those crazy internal thought trains. If you want, try again but go slow and easy, weed tolerance is gradual but starts out super low so even a couple hits of dank shit can be too much for a newbie.
So I managed to save myself from wizardry and lost my virginity last night to a girl that I've been dating. Unfortunately, I seem to have a problem... After decades of fapping, I think I've fucked up my dick to the point where sex just doesn't do anything for me. I've only fapped once in the past week and yet I could barely keep myself hard, let alone derive any pleasure even when she was doing the work.
Is there any fixing this, or have I desensitized myself to the point of no return?
>>17698276
Nah man it's normal. I couldn't get all that into sex the first few times I had it and I was a horny teenager. There's nothing wrong with you. Just relax and try to be present in the moment. You'll get it after a while.
Don't FAP for like 2 weeks and u will b back 2 normal lmao the human body is programmed to fuck u r fine just paranoid and prob need a break. Sex the first couple times is not that great duh u r not experienced
Felt the same after 7 weeks of fapping only and saving myself when I was 28.
Buy some Levitra for the first sexy times. 5 pills top and you'll get yourself used to stay hard again.
>incredibly cute tomboy at boxing gym I'm doing a free trial week at
How do I not mess this up /adv/?
>>17698229
Remember your footwork, keep your head moving, and throw punches in bunches. Use your cardio to wear her down, don't go trying for one knockout.
bumpu
>>17698781
Go for her liver and kidneys, that shit hurts and will wear her down even faster.
So lately my neck has been feeling really uncomfortable. I go to check in the mirror to check what is going on and my neck has dark patches of skin (I think) forming on it. Its also really dry. Putting lotion on it soothes it, but this in turn ends with it getting much darker much quicker. During showers I can scrape it off as if it were mush, but it seems to endless. Any form of scrubbing doesnt work as it regenerates too quickly. What is it and how can I get rid of it?
>>17698217
R.I.P english, my bad
>>17698217
>it regenerates too quickly
Nigga you're turning to a lizard person
>>17698217
Sounds like impitego. (SP?) A disease that will spread and get worse if left untreated and can even leave scarring. See your doctor.
Hey guys...
Currently between a rock and hard place with my girlfriend of almost 7 years. We started dating when we were 15 and now as we are out and in the real world my girlfriend understandably, wants to start living together.
With this, I have a lot things going for me right now and I'm not sure of what to do. I love her deeply but I don't want to make any decisions that Ill regret. She is quite disheartened but my hesitance toward living with her and eventually getting married and having kids. IDK what to do. Very sad about the whole situation and I care for her. She is not talking to me too much after this conversation. Any advice?
>>17698153
Well, why are you against it?
>>17698159
I feel like it is the first step toward settling down. And I feel so young... to be living with a potential spouse and potentially getting married is pretty crazy just coning out of school
>>17698174
Buddy, I think it's time that you end it. It's not the advice you want to hear, i know, but IMHO it's the right thing for the both of you.
Moving in with her will result in one of the following
a) you're going to end up resenting each other for a number of reasons on account of 22 year olds being unsure of their place in their world, their desires, goals, and being generally restless, and thus the domesticity is likely going to feel suffocating. you'll then take out your frustrations on each other with barbed words and cold behavior that will gradually wear away at all affection you have for each other; and maybe infidelity will occur on either part. stuff like this is not uncommon in serious relationships between such young couples. i can tell you have the itch to explore new possibilities, and maybe on some level she wants the same (or will in the future)
b) you stick things out despite all problems, you get married and she inevitably gets pregnant. you're now ethically bound to the institution of marriage and parenthood. you could break the binds but it would come at a high emotional cost for everyone involved -- you, her, the child(ren). if you choose to stay, maybe you would be happy, who knows? but more likely you'd be wondering what your life would have been like had you not settled down with the girl you fell in love with as a child. you'd wonder what it would be like to date someone else or even just fuck someone else. maybe you could have emigrated to another country, gone backpacking in asia etc etc. my point is, marriage means mutual individual sacrifice.
cont.
Would you date a guy who uses marijuana?
I recently met this guy who is great. I really really like him. He's very funny, thoughtful, and romantic.
But he told me last week he smokes marijuana.
I was never around that growing up at all. I've only seen it like twice and never smoked it or tried it, The first time I saw it I was 24.
He told me he smokes it 1-3 times a day when he's off work. I asked what it did to him and he said it helped him relax and be more motivated after work or on his days off (I don't know if that's true, I've never tried it).
I asked if he used any other drugs and he said no.
What do you think?
Make sure he has his finances under control. Other than that its all g
>>17698145
>Would you date a guy who uses marijuana?
Why do people make threads about shit that are solely dependent on their personal preferences? He's just a fucking stoner.
>>17698155
kek
>>17698145
1-3 times a day is quite high.
But there's nothing wrong with Marijuana. It's a personal choice. As long as it's not affecting his life in a negative manner shoot right ahead.
Like innocent guys, that act... Innocently, and just want to be their support and do the hard work for them?
>>17698085
Some, but they are probably not the best partners a person might want, although I don't know your preferences. If you want a submissive sex doll that won't do shit with their life, then sure.
Theoretically, but men like that don't exist and ALWAYS have an ulterior motive.They then get angry, abusive, and violent when they don't get what they think they're owed, even though they never told you their conditions.
I do, especially innocent guys when it comes to sexy things.
Okay, so I recently started talking to this girl and she's actually hella chill. I can be myself around her, literally first time I had her over at my place we made out for like hours, she cuddled up against me telling me she feels comfortable around me and stuff. She texts me like everyday, was the one to ask to come over to my place to hangout and wants to hangout this Tuesday also. She likes the same /mu/ type music I like, etc. etc. pretty much this is like what I've been looking for.
Only problem is she isn't that good looking. Like, shes probably average or slightly better, but normally I pull better looking girls at parties and stuff, yet desu I've never had a girlfriend, I just manage to hookup with a good amount of girls and that is it.
Idk what to do, like it makes me feel like an ass, and if I can't get that physically attracted to this girl I feel like it may not be worth it. But her personality is pretty much just right. I feel like I'll have to compromise either way, that is if I find a more attractive girl her personality won't be right like this girls'.
Anyways, what would you guys do?
>>17698071
If you have to ask strangers if this girl is worth your time, chances are she isn't.
If you feel you deserve an above average girl THAT badly, she deserves better than you.
And this is why you have never had a girlfriend.
Have fun fucking hot girls at parties and never developing a deeper emotional connection with someone and then realize in a few years you're dead inside.
>>17698071
kek
>>17698099
kek
>>17698099
I mean I'm not saying I DESERVE one, just that I feel like, idk, considering my past that I can get one. But maybe not, idk. I feel like an asshole for thinking this but I can't help but feel like this slightly.
I'm already dead inside most of the time, she makes me feel quite a bit better ya know, but it's been this way for awhile so I figure I could be dead inside for awhile more. I've gotten used to it.
Im broke. My housemate borrowed a lot portion of my scholarship allowance last month to pay for the rent. He said still dont have money to pay me back, eventhough he buys weed and takeaways everyday. I sold my games for cash to buy food. I dont have money for bus fare to go to uni tommorow. When i told him that, he asked me to walk. It was quite far though, 30 minutes by bus. Does this enough for a little arguments or a fight.
>>17698032
It's more than enough to collect on the debt.
So you have many options here you can explore.
Sell some of his things, and if he confronts you tell him straight up you weren't taking his shit any longer.
Or threaten collection by calling the landlord/police for his drug usage.
Don't pay your side of the bills/rent and tell him "its cool bro, i'll just take what you owe out of the bills."
>>17698032
You housemate has no fucking place indulging in vices while he owes you. Confront him or do what >>17698045 says. At this point, he's fucking with your prosperity and you should view him as cancer.
>>17698045
>>17698059
This and this. Really, you should have put your foot down long ago. He is no longer your friend. At this point, just do whatever you have to in order to get your money back and get a new roommate as soon as possible.
But
>My housemate borrowed a lot portion of my scholarship allowance last month to pay for the rent.
You should not have done this, for reasons that must seem all too obvious. Don't ever do anything like that again.
what exceptions would you make in staying if your girlfriend was clingy and depressed
>>17697895
exceptions to what?
staying in what sense?
>>17697902
with her
>>17697906
what?