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Hi
I've been taking modafinil for around a year now. Most websites seem to be shutting down. Where is a good place to get some? I understand it's illegal to sale in the UK but not to take. I might get some backlash for this post. I take modafinil because I struggle to concentrate at university and since taking them my grades have improved a lot!

Thanks
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>>17702581

You've been taking it for a year, could you report on side effects and why is it worth it for you to continue taking it?
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>>17702581
Dude, don't be a retard. People do ok in college without those shit.
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>>17702795
Does this nigga LOOK like he'll settle for "ok"

Any religious people here?
I'm not very much myself.

I'm waiting for a response, very important, and I'm really scared of a negative outcome.

I don't know if it's gonna help, but could you pray for me?
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boo
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>>17702788
*tips fedora*
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>>17702569
>I'm waiting for a response, very important, and I'm really scared of a negative outcome.

Can you do something about it? Is it in your control? no? then why worry?

So I've met this wonderful woman who I've been dating for close to two months now and from the beginning she told me she was into the open / poly thing. At first I took it as it was until recently when she started taking interest in someone else and hanging out with different people (I introduced her to) at all hours of the night. Tonight I haven't got more than 1 hr of sleep and I feel as if I'm having symptoms from having a broken heart I.E. chest pain, insomnia, anxiety and what not. Plus it does not help I'm currently trying to stop drinking after many years of it ... On day 2.

Long story short is I just want advice from people who have gone through this, I really really like this girl even though its been such a short period of time she has opened me to a lot of things.

What should I do? Has anyone been in this situation? Just sick of being intensely jealous and feeling like I'm inadequate. Is it possible to overcome these feelings and still see her? Thanks.
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Those are things you should overcome regardless of your current situation.

I can write more, but just woke up, and most of my points will be furiously protested against, so first tell me:
Would you like to search yourself, and see if you can find a place within, where you can accept being with someone who also sees other people, possibly see other people yourself, and still build a loving relationship with this woman?

If you only want to change her, or listen to everyone who will inb4 degenerere whore leave leave leave, then I'm out.
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>>17702504
You ain't the same as her man trust me, if you feel this way now you won't change. She may be great and all but there are alot of women out there man don't settle for something thats going to rip you apart because it sounds like it already is. Break it off before you fall deeper anon, life is long man you don't need this shit in your life right now.
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You're not comfortable with poly. That's totally fine, I'm a strict monogamist myself.

But you put yourself in this position, she made it very clear what she wants. All you can do is either suck it up or move on. Personally I advise the latter because this is not something you can just rationalize away. I've seen a lot of guys in your position try to stick around and it just ate them alive.

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Is being in a relationship and having sex and all that kind of stuff as good as people make it out to be?

How does someone who has intense social anxiety and is a unattractive fat shit find someone? God it feels like im being a dramatic fuck
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>>17702500
It is good if you have it with the right person.

You lose weight, improve your body and your overall physical appearance. You go to a therapist and work on your intense social anxiety.
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>Is being in a relationship and having sex and all that kind of stuff as good as people make it out to be?
Yes. It's mindnumbingly good.

>How does someone who has intense social anxiety and is a unattractive fat shit find someone?
You don't. Deal with you anxiety first, lose the fat and max your looks to become attractive. Read The Book of Pook.
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You don't even have to lose weight but you do have to exercise. Exercise calms you on a long term basis by stimulating the growth of neurons that carry GABA, essentially, it's a natural benzo. Secondly, even if you don't lose weight, you will become much more confident.
Thirdly a fat guy can look spectacular with just well defined shoulders and good posture.
All in all if you don't fix your attitude weight loss will do jack shit. You have to approach women like you'd approach other humans. I suggest the above and getting to know women on a casual social basis. Don't even think about sex, just get to know them. Go to gatherings, go study, again if you must. Just be a good guy. You'll ease up eventually, you just gotta get out there and do it.

t. ex socially anxious fatty that while isn't a cunt destroyer, does pretty well with women

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I have a problem that I believe /adv/ can answer. Even since I learned to fap, I have had two groups of people for whom the fapping is off limits - russians and black people. If I watch a porno and discover it is black on white or I hear anyone speaking in russian in the video, I immediately stop the video and close the tab, even if I would otherwise enjoy the people or the action. I don't have this issue with another groups of people, like asians, hindus or another slavs, but black people and russians in particular. Additionally, I am not talking about gay porn here, I am 100% straight.

I have had this problem even back when I used to be an SJW, which sounds ironic. Could it be that my dick is racist? Please help me understand what are the psychological implications to this "excitement block"?
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people have preferences.
pretty simple answer. if you aren't attracted to 'em, how do you think you'll get be able to get off 'em?
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>>17702473
>Is my dick racist

Holy fuck why was this so funny?

But yeah technically your dick is racist but it's not wierd. Everybody's got preferences.
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Spank Rock - Race Riot on the Dancefloor

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>be me
>9/10 stunner gf
>ohshitthebed.jpg
>one catch. Anxiety/childhood issues
>her abusive ex starts trying to break us two up and threatening her with shit
>said if she tells me he'll hurt her like he has before

What do I do /adv/? I'm kinda scared to try and beat him up since he is taller and fitter than I am but even if I did would he touch her? I'm really stuck here guys. Newfag btw don't judge. Pic unrelated
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sounds like more trouble than it's worth, t b h.
she has baggage, you know this now. it's up to you whether or not you deal with it. doesn't make you any less of a person walking away.
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>>17702472
Save records of his threats.
Tell her to block him on all social media, on her phone, wherever he could contact her.
Spend time with her if he didn't exist. Make her feel safe, happy, loved.
If he ever gets close to her physically, call the cops immediately.
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>>17702479
She's the perfect girl for me and I've been looking so long for her but I'm here for her and she had just about overcome her anxiety and issues and we have been having a great time together until he came walking back. She is definitely worth it he's the only thing bringing her down right now.

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Falling in love with a black girl?

Sup /adv/ i was wondering if anyone has had a similar experience as me, Im 19, still live at home, mexican/irish, and attend community college. I met a girl on my third week of this semester and started talking to her and fucking around. when it didnt work out with that girl, i began talking to her best friend. We've recently been talking every night for a couple weeks and have gotten really close. At this point we're very close and i can't hold back my feelings anymore, and by the end of this week i'm going to tell her. My family is somewhat racist and wouldn't go as far as disowning me for dating a black girl, but would look down on me for doing it. All my friends would look down on me and treat me differently and might stop talking to me if i date her. (all my friends browse 4chan, and hate nigs)

So does anyone have any similar experiences with dealing with interracial dating? How do i tell my family i fell in love with a black girl? Am i racist for wondering this?

>inb4 nigger, black jokes, and racist posts
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>>17702431
You just tell them. It's up to you to decide if she's worth it. They'll either brush it off as a one-time thing, protest but eventually accept it, or make you move out.
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Nigger
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>>17702431
I was dating a black girl, and my dad would always make fun of me.

But, he knows I have a bigger dick than him, so I reference that when he brings her up, implying his little white dick wouldn't be enough to satisfy her pussy, and that I'm bigger than all the black dudes she's been with before if any.

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I think I'm growing up or getting old or becoming an asshole. Can't tell which, would love to get some criticism/feedback/yell into the void.

Basically I'm a miserable asshole who insists that my brand of misery is the "right way" to live. I don't really want to argue about that, just want to say that I think there is a lot wrong with the world and I've always felt like putting your own happiness before doing what I feel the right thing may be was the height of insidiously casual immorality.

And now I'm going stupid happy person shit. Buying home goods. Learning crafting skills to make things that would cost less to buy than the time I spend making them is worth. Getting along better with my family.

I'm in my 30's and have been pretty successful at what I do, in large part because I always felt like it was a moral imperative. I'm still angry at the world, but I'm getting comfy and I'm terrified it will lead me to be one of those older people who is more concerned with the temperature of their chicken fried steak than the global economy (or whatever issue).

Not sure what I'm asking for just panicking a little. Pic realated ish- a giant smug waste of time.
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You sound happy in your little bubble.
Why ruin that?
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>>17702468
It seems immoral to let myself be happy in a bubble instead of spending that energy at least being pissed, if not actually doing something.
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well throw yourself in to more hobbies then. or if you want to change the world, go get among it, go down to the local homeless shelter. get mad, and use that energy to help those less fortunate, etc. etc.

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I'm pretty sure at least one of the girls I'm sharing a flat with at college is starting to get comfortable with my food. Yesterday I noticed my butter container seemed to have less butter than how I remember leaving it, but wasn't sure if I was simply being paranoid.

Today I noticed my milk cartridge had what seemed to be lipstick markings. So not only is someone stealig my food, they're also being disgustig and stupid at it, too.

We're a total of 9 I think. If I leave it be it'll definitely only get worse. How do I get to the bottom of who did this, ensuring it won't hapen again and without causing much of a stir?

I.e. how to mark territory?
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>>17702401
Expired butter or some expired milk in a fresh milk carton. Whoever gets diarrhea has been taking your food.
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>>17702401
Laxitives.
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>>17702414
That's not badly thought, even though it might take a while to execute.
Some of the suspects are chinese though. I'm wondering if their general diet has made them imune to spoiled food.

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So I bought a Acer Aspire E5 15 and rarely use it. I probably use it once a week at most and barely I can get it to work.
Problems first arises when I tried to delete some terrible antivirus program called Comodo and Geekbuddy which were installed by a family member. I wanted to use AVG because for years it has worked for me and I couldn't bare the Geekbuddy popping up every 20 minutes. So I go to delete it but the programs list won't open up. Finally after a while I find the apps location to uninstall programs and it uninstalls Geekbuddy but will not uninstall comodo.
For comodo it says allow changed to be done to your computer(when you click on the uninstall button) then nothing happens.
So I try opening up AVG to see if it can find any problems but it won't and just gives me the error 0xc00000e5. I google it up and find that CCleaner may help fix this problem.
I download CCleaner but it won't install.
TLDR: apps won't open because windows 10 error 0xc0000e5
-can't uninstall or install some programs
Can someone please give me advice or point me in the right direction.
>pic related, I'm marge and windows 10 is homer
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Shameless self bump.
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>>17702395
It'd probably be easier just to back up your shit and install Windows fresh. Also don't bother with antivirus bullshit, just get a decent adblocker and don't download blackdick.exe

That's what you get for not buying a macbook.
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>>17702433
That's what I get for being a poor. Advice appreciated anyways.

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A hot friend from high school just called me and asked me if I wanted to be in a dick sucking contest, but I said no because I have a gf.

I know I did the right thing but I still feel so sad /adv/. I'm barely 18 and a freshman here in college. I feel like having a gf is killing the college experience.
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The college experience isn't always (or even often) wild party bullshit. There's the couples that learn skills and hobbies together. The bohemian types who won't fucking shut up and stop debating during open mic night. The brogineers making wild shit after everyone else has left lab.

Forging good relationships and friendships you can be proud of is more important than doing wild shit that your 35 y/o self should be ashamed of.
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>>17702396
I've thought about that too. It's that wild parties are so hyped up. I think if I got a taste of it I'd realize it's stupid.

I dunno. I think I'm using my gf as an excuse to stay in my dorm and play games too. I'm socially anxious and an introvert. I usually just go to class, play games, and workout.
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>Dick sucking contest

1.) You would probably catch something

2.) While it would feel good, it's disgusting and degenerate.

I guarantee you would regret it, and that's if you didn't have a GF.

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Strategies for not losing my shit at customers?

Came close today when a lady was criticizing me for selling travel-sizes on top of a large transaction. Basically said something along the lines of "Yeah, it's not good to sell people things they don't need, but it's also not good to lose my job, drop out of school, and become homeless." Managed to pass it off as a joke and joked with her for a while, to the point that she thanked me for being so friendly and cheering her up. But man. close call.

Any anger-management vets or retail slaves have any advice other than "don't do that?"
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Think about how badly you don't want to be homeless BEFORE you talk.
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>>17702383
Well, not sure if it helps but try to look at it from the other side. I have absolutely no idea WHY and HOW people can lose their shit, be it with personal stuff or work related. Specially at work it's just extra irrelevant. You're there to earn a paycheck, everything that doesn't contribute to it, is beyond irrelevant. Some bitch complains about something? Smile and explain that it's how the things are and how sorry you are. Whether she likes you or not, doesn't affect your paycheck. Some bitch insults you? Just smile and go back to whatever you was doing before. It doesn't affect your paycheck.

Had 2 retail jobs and sometimes the customers bitched because we didn't have stuff X or Y even thought it was advertised, they told me how bad the company sucks and how they will never come again. The hardest thing was not to give them a comically slow shrug.
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>>17702407

In that case it's mostly just pent up anger about how the company works, how the economy works, etc etc.

Yeah, it's my job to fucking fleece people. It was her role to try not to get fleeced. Pointing it out like I have much of a choice is cunty in a way "you just lost a customer because of an uncontrollable computer issue" or "you're a bitch because you won't give me a discount" just isn't. Never really gotten mad before but she hit a nerve I guess.

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Basically, really alone. Thats my only problem. Have most of my life sorted out, but have never realy gotten close to anyone.

It's really fucking wearing on me at this point. How the fuck do I open up to people when I don't feel close to anyone?
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>>17702333 befriend someone with the same problem as you, for example me
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>>17702333

Why do you want to open up to people? People are misery. Stay alone, stay selfish, stay happy.
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>>17702362
But I ain't happy in the first place. I really fucking miss someones touch
>>17702341
Would love to find a friend IRL

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Not asking for advice, strictly, but i'd like it if you could enlighten me about this topic.
I have a female friend who's had a bit of a change in attitude and behavior, and i've thought of some reasons why.
She used to be a really sweet and innocent girl (fact, not an assumption) but has steadily adopted an increasingly liberal view on her own sexuality, and started engaging in casual sex, drugs, etc. to the point of actively shaming others for lacking sexual experience, and (unrelated) manipulating her friends' feelings, betraying their trust, lying etc.
What i wonder is, could this outburst of promiscuity have something to do with the fact that she was raped back in 2012?
She's stated it herself, that she was "innocent" before the rape, but then chose to learn all about sex afterward in order to avoid getting hurt again.

Could this slut behavior be a coping mechanism, or at least a reaction to a traumatic sexual experience? Is this common, or is she just a slut?

(If it's relevant, i have another friend who also got raped and she didn't turn into a manipulative slut.)
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Maybe she just wants to fucking explore who she is.
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>>17702307
Actual psychologist here, timing is really important here, if the rape and her behavior change coincide then you can safely assume there is a relation, otherwise is too hard to say and maybe >>17702309 is right.

Or maybe is something entirely different and you have no way of knowing because women are weird.
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>>17702309
this

have you considered that it might not be your job to analyze or judge her life?

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I'm from Cali. Moved to another city to be with someone but it turned out to be a waste of time.
My parebts love Greece and want to send me there. They have some family there.
They want to send me there, asked if I wanted to be there forever or atleast for a while they'd send me...
Should I? I mean... I haven't been there before but.. maybe it will be a great experience? I don't have a clue what to even do with my life anymore.
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Do it. Not everyone gets that opportunity, and if you are open to change, eventually you'll run into something good outside of your normal routine.

Seems like whatever you're doing atm isn't making you happy so why not?
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>>17702410
I don't know. I'll miss my family, and being that far away from them for long is scary...
plus how would I find work there? Isn't the economy shit?
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pros:
you're in a very rare position of having nothing to tie you down or hold you back from exploring the world
you have family there to help you get set up
greece is a beautiful place with beautiful women and great food

cons:
Greece's economic situation is not great
possible language barrier

I think you should do it. you can always move back.

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