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Because he's a fucking dick, just drop him, B. He doesn't sound like he wants to hook up again, and it seems like he may be putting you in the side lines

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He still hasn't overcome the whole thing. Since he checks on you periodically maybe he's waiting for the right time to make his move. When is that right time? Who knows, maybe he's just thinking breaking up wasn't that good of an idea

Source: my ex's ex. One time the fucker was stalking us outside her house (she told me this when I arrived to my place).

>>17701457
I still love him, but I understand that nothing will happen anymore. I just wanted to understand why he does if he doesn't care about me and hates me.

I send about 5 snaps per day and quite a lot of messages. I know he reads it all because he sometimes replies to a random paragraph

>>17701440
It is almost never worth following your dreams. It almost always ends in failure, and with it being a failure of your income, you will be left without a house. Find something that isn't your first choice, but you don't hate, and something that makes money. Pursue that.

>>17701450
Dont listen to this dumbcunt

>>17701440
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eiy9legEW-U

I highly doubt your sickness is the reason she declined your request

>>17701452
It certainly is.
We both know it. Which is why she just sent one icy line.


I let down a lot of people when I got sick. I was living in a very badly maintained apartment run by a slumlord that wouldnt let me move without a huge penalty fee. I did not have a working shower for months. I struggled to keep my life and health together but several profs/employers watched me fall apart.

Most have been very kind and understanding but one other I also know just thinks I am a piece of crap.

>>17701461
How do you know it's your sickness?

>>17701433
Mate, you fucking garbled that greentext. Your grammar is shit.

>>Everyone knows I asked other girl out somehow, she even asked me if I still liked her
>>Said girl recently seems to purposely avoid me on occasion for some reason
>Said girl
>Did I make a mistake?

Just send her a dickpick and apologise that you don't speak good
>Referencing two girls in that sentence

>>17701433
anne frankly u r autistic, dont try

>>17701612
Fuck I'm just tired and stressed, my apologies. In hindsight, the girl who liked me before (the girl I like currently) is acting weird around me. She has shown obvious signs that I completely ignored because I'm retarded. What should be my action so that I can spark the flame again?

>>17701428
>lasting 7-8 years
>should I let time heal it

Go see a professional, you don't need to be suicidal to need help. And I say this as someone who was suicidal

>>17701454
Ill probably go check one out when I have the time. Ive only thought about taking my life once. A few weeks ago it was one of my worst lows and I had tied a belt up to the staircase. I didnt go through because Honestly I was really scared. What helps/helped you with depression?

>>17701465
>What helps/helped you with depression?

For me there really isn't one magic bullet but a lot of little things. For the most part humans aren't designed to be living in a modern world.

>little/no junk food
>exercise
>going outside
>good relationship, 4chan is awful for relationships
>no video games
>hobbies that feel like i'm working towards a goal

>>17701381

thats the best part. you get to figure it out as you go along.

When you focus on your assets, your good qualities, and what social resources you have, and then see how you can use them to overcome your flaws, and set goals that serve mankind and yourself personally, the parts of you that walk on the path to achieve those goals, that's yourself. The one liners you carry in your head to sound witty, the obsession over girls who you never talk to, the false confidence that comes out as bravado in situations where that's uncalled for, the bragging, the boasting, the self hate and flagellation, that's not yourself.

>>17701381
I think they mean for you to be the person you are when not restrained by fear or worry.

>>17701360
install gentoo

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>>17701360
Social engineering

>>17701360

hold them at gunpoint and demand their password

power through anon you can do it i know it might be hard right now but im cheering you on. if you don't know what to do after graduating take a break travel it seems to me you havens really found yourself just don't throw away all your hard work that you've put in. also try weed for the epilepsy its helped me :)

>>17701366
That's what I keep telling myself :/ Thank you, really I mean it, encouragement is definitely something I need. I'll get through this week. Two tests. One tomorrow that I feel pretty prepared for (chilling out after studying)

Now I understand, you, anon, might not be able to weigh in much on this but the thing is, I have sort of found out what I like. Don't take this the wrong way, I'm not really a big druggie or anything, but what I like is pharmacology. When I was in high school I would spend so much time reading about pharmacology and even reading through papers for fun. But I'm just in a situation where I haven't had experience with research so pharmacy school sounds appealing because at least I'd get to read about pharmacology all day every day.

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"A" is for Arrogant
"B" is for Busta
"C" is for Charismatic!
"D" is for Delightful!
"E" is for Excellent!

>>17701353
It's one.

To the second power: (-1)*(-1)= 1

To the third power: (1)*(-1)=-1

To the fourth power: (-1)*(-1)=1

Negative numbers raised to the power of an even number will always be positive. Negative numbers raised to the power of an odd number will always be negative.

>>17701353
It's -1. I think -1 to any power is just -1.

>>17701365
Actually ignore me, it's 1. >>17701363 is right

>>17701342
Friendly reminder that Christianity is not mysterious, most of us are personally familiar with Christians. Many of you are lovely people. But you've got pretty much the same problems as the rest of us

>99%
That's not completely true, I don't think most of the threads are guilt threads. Sometimes you also have to take fate into your own hands

>>17701342
What if I'm not sorry?

I try and maintain one friend don't try and take on 4 different people try and focus all your efforts on one person once you feel comfortable branch out, I had zero friends in school and never spoke, and now I have like 3 hope my sobb story helped

Also don't be afraid to try dumb things Iv made the best of friends doing things out of my comfort zone

>>17701293
Still at the bar. The old guys are arguing about what mass shooting in the U.S.A killed the most people. One grey haired man in a blazer, says it was the time a guy in a clock tower shot all those students. Another old timer with a baseball cap says the biggest mass murder committed by an American, was when the bomb was dropped on Nagasaki. Their friend is leaving, but before he goes he is coordinating an outing for all of them to meet again. I hope I'm like him when I'm old.

>>17701283
*Heard of lens distortion, but how much does that really change things?

I always assume that the way I truly appear to other people is shown by my worst pics.

>>17701284
Pessimist
>>17701291
You're full of shit

have you gone to the university mental health services?

>>17701296
Yeah they only offer short term counselling.

>>17701271
Vitamin b12 deficiency.

>trying to fuck another guy's girlfriend
>presumably there would be some legal trouble involved
No

>>17701270
No legal stipulations, she is of legal age here.

Chances are it's illegal until she's 18. I understand why you want it, but if you get caught, you'll end up in prison. And if she's a good person, she'll understand that, too.

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Disgusting

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All these little turds its like stepping through a minefield