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Shut up, shut up, stop right there. You're thinking about her words too much, think about yourself for God's sake. Do you like her? Do you want to fuck her? Tell her and don't miss any opportunities. This doesn't have to do with her bullshit, this is all on you.
Go into it like that and whatever the outcome, at least you were honest for your own sake.

>>17755169
>Just tell her you like her

I mean, I guess that's a given. Although "yo you remember how you said you wanted to lose your virginity to a friend. I think that friend should be me" is kinda awkward isn't it?

I need to stop being so timid about making moves..

>>17755155
>Was she low key hinting at wanting it to be with me?
Yes and if you tarry long she will fuck some stranger and you will be crushed. Happened to me

>>17754962
Just goes on to prove that women are nothing but whores.
Platonic friend, give me a fucking break.

>>17754970
I do not think of her as a whore. I do not want any kind of relationship or sexual intimacy from her. I have determined that she is neither compatible with my personality on that level or mentally sound enough to risk sex with.

>>17754970
Yeah all women are whores, just like I'm a whore for my boyfriend. I worship him and him only. I adore his cock and only his cock. We wouldn't have it any other way

>>17754949
You've hit a girl who's perfect in every regard -- except intelligence. This is where you made the decision: "Do I want to be with a stupid chick that doesn't really know fuck all and can't even keep conversation, but a good fuck? Or do I find a girl who is probably ugly as fuck, but keeps me interested?"

>>17754949
Is she talkative in person? Might just be the kind of person that is better with face to face communication.

>>17754961
>except intelligence
She would flip over my ass and fuck it n anything scholarly since she actually went to high school so I dunno about that.

>>17754966
Nope. Actually we even work in the same place but the only person she talks to is me. Everyone else that approaches her she just smiles and stays silent like she wants them to go away. I asked her about it once and she said she doesn't care about it because she's there to work.

And on another note I can barely get her to do a real phone conversation. 90% of our shit is texting.

Well, I used to have really bad self esteem. Slightly better now and I feel like I'm making progress.

I try to look at myself in different ways. Found things about me and talents I had and morals i carry that put me better than the scummy people I see as worth less as a person than me. And then I try to build on those and present the bits of me I got pride in as the "me" people see.

I hope that made sense, its all about changing not just what you think, but how you think.

>>17754497
I only have a quick thing to add here. One thing I realized is that people don't care about you. That might sound bad, but hear me out. People aren't thinking about you as much as you might think they are, or at all really. I realized I never think about other people poorly, even if they drop something or do something stupid. So, logically, I realized other people don't think of me poorly either. Maybe I'm deluded or simply too nice of a person to think poorly of others. But I guess that's all I have to say.

I guess also, I stopped thinking about it as much. Much easier said than done, but clearing my mind of it helped me.

You have to want to not care about what people think. For me I developed that through horrible facial acne. It was pretty bad and I was self conscious. it did clear up though, but now I couldn't care less about what people think. You can only make yourself feel like shit. You can also take refuge in the idea that most others who make up the common masses are quite simple minded scum.


Oh also, if you're not already, start working out. Helped me alot after I got less ugly.

Money is only a means to an end. Find something worth spending it on, to you. For some people its their passions. For others, independence. And some find fulfillment in charity.

Ask yourself what you want in life.

>>17754440
I want a wife but I'm only 5'8 with a 5.5" penis on a good day. No woman of value will want me. Sure I can use money but that's not real.

I've exhausted all other desires in my life, found them all to be hollow and unfulfilling, and this is the only desire I have left. But maybe I'm just young and stupid.

>>17754432
this might seem like nonsense philisophy but listen up

money does not bring happiness by itself, but there is an undeniable truth about money. given two people in extremely similar situations, the one with more money will always be better off. You might be rich and have cancer, but your chance at the treatment will always be better compared to the other guy who has cancer etc.

if you have shitloads money you do not know what to do with you can send me some because I am a poorfag grad student and short on rent.

if you'd cross off drinking that's most people

>>17754344
I can't cross drinking off that list because I don't drink, and it's not a lifestyle choice, it's that my father and grandfather were both raging alcoholics and I don't want to end up like them. And it genuinely doesn't feel like most people. There's always a tattoo on their wrist, always some clover on their ankle, a kanji symbol on their upper back "to even out their energy". I think it's my age group, and where I live (Arizona).

>>17754342
The fact that you would make a thread bitching about how your standards are never met means you have shit standards or you are projecting because women don't like you for a reason that is not obvious to you.

>>17754065

No.
Yes.

Will you go into further detail like an ama kinda deal?

>>17754065
I say yes, but then again I am a virgin who just doesn't want to deal with it.

Depends on the girl. Most probably don't care or likes it. Others probably find you only wanting sex instead of money and steer clear.

>>17754065

The fact that you've counted each and every one of them says to me that you don't really care too much about the long term. Not yet anyways.

No one who isn't proud of the dozens of the girls they've fucked knows exactly how many down to the single digit.

Bait thread.

If anything it's the Hillary supporters who will harass you the most. Alternatively who gives a shit I don't think that many people really care who others vote for.

a) that's never going to happen and b) just yell "make america great again brother" and they'll fuck off

i'm a hardcore racist trump supporter, and the only people on the chopping block are the unbelievers. If you shout make america great again and god bless america, they'll believe you, because any self-respecting shill for hill would commit suicide immediately after saying those words

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Shameless self bump. Posted in a few other anon's topics, for any mods reading this.

Her happiness is not your burden. Do what makes you happy.
1) Being with her makes you happy
2) Being with her makes her unhappy and that makes you unhappy

If 2 > 1 then stay away from her.

>>17752220
That's the thing, though. When we would text, we would text basically nonstop for a few days until one of us would get too busy to text the other, I was fine with that, she was fine with that, we knew we were both busy people.

We also never get bored of the conversation (obviously) and can always find something new to talk about, wether it be my hobbies, her hobbies, life in general, music, even mundane topics. We also keep making plans to hang out, but they never fall through, because again, we've both got busy lives, and she lives about maybe 45 minutes to an hour away, which I wouldn't mind driving at all.

She hasn't specifically said she still had a thing for me, but she didn't deny it when I asked her, either, and I asked her to be straight up with me, that I'd rather hear a no and continue being good friends than be playing little games.

I know how it feels to lose someone to someone else, so I don't want to put her bf in that situation. Especially coz he's military.

Not that I'm afraid or anything, it's just that that would be an extremely shitty thing to come home to, being stationed out there and having to come home to find girl who's been fighting so hard to stay with you being with someone else.

I don't know what it is about you, but you are such a hard girl to read. Nothing you do is typical, some stuff leans one way, and other stuff, yet another way.

I just wish that I can get closure out of you. A simple, "Yes, I am interested" or a "No, I only see you as a friend"

In fact, you never even used the word "Friend" with me, at all. But you seem to be kinda wanting to open up with me at times. But when ever you start, you close right up again.

So what is it? Are you interested? Or are you not?

M,

I'm having my cake and eating too. This won't last long.

A

Hey!

The truth is that I used to love you. But we've changed and now I don't anymore. I do wish you all the best and that you grow to be a good person one day, so I can stop hating you then.
Be safe.

-

He's going to tell the whole world after so if you're okay with that then yeah.

>>17756503
>Any advice?
Control yourself. Don't do anything stupid. You're the adult here.

Just tell him that's a very nice thing for him to say, and that he's gonna make some girl HIS OWN AGE very happy someday. Let him down nicely but make it clear it's not gonna happen, lol

I bet he's mature for his age, huh?

Mechanical Engineering, bro.

Do whatever you like. Keep in mind though, that you really can't know if you've made the right decision untill you're actually doing some study.

Well, if either of your parents has a degree in either of those fields, go with that one undoubtedly. Otherwise rely upon the classes you've taken in those general areas and which job is more appealing to you a decade down the road, concerning both pay and the actual enjoyment of your work. Depending on how new you are to college, keep in mind you can change your major, but whatever you do, don't do it past the first year. Good luck, anon

Social skill is exactly that, a skill.

You've got to practice them until you improve.

>>17756452
Best autism indicators show in the early years and carry over into adult life through various abnormal mannerisms (i.e being a shut in, awkward as fuck with people who aren't complete weirdos, watching horrible anime in adult life, voting for hillary..)
Were you loud as shit as a kid? Screaming all the time, jumping for no damn reason all day, kicking your feet at for long periods for no good reason, needing to make a certain sound or sounds randomly...

>>17756452
Depression includes that fear of reaching out. It's really simple anon. You make an appointment to the doctor and tell them you want to be screened for autism or other mental disabilities. If you qualify you might be entitled to some free government $. It's worth a shot, and you'll feel a lot better with some help on your social skills and such.

>>17756448
You should take him out to distract him. She should pack up her shit while he's gone and leave his abusive ass. He's not actually gonna change just because you beat him up. He's just gonna be even angrier at her for "getting him in trouble." That's how people like your brother think. She just has to leave

how about not being a fag and just TELL him to stop being a cunt

>>17756455
Good advice

Holy shit what's with spergs on here overthinking every little thing a girl does while texting

Who is the girl in OP's image and why does everyone use her as thread bait?

>>17756484
Jessicababyfat on instagram
>>17756471
I just don't know how to interpretate that shit. I've never done that while texting.