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Hello Guys,
I am planning to apply for studies to Skandynavian universities (like Norway, Sweden etc...).
I love the country climate, nature and landscape.
However I have heard that ppl there are kind of quiet, do not talk much, try to avoid strangers.
They are very secretive and try to avoid anything that might be personal.
I am kind of energetic guy, who likes to get to know many ppl and have quite few friends.
I am not like a party person and all that, but Like to have many close friends with who I can talk with about anything.
Living in UK right now, and I find brits kind of... different when it comes to interacting with ppl.
I am Polish btw, so you might get the idea of the culture and how we are.
So Would the Skandynavia be wrong place for me?

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What would you say to your partner after they had a tiring day, /adv/?

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I tried to tell people, "you can't hate all capitalists" I said. "you can't hate all white people" I said. "you can't hate all men" I said. "you can't hate all religious people" I said. I tried telling people in as many ways and in as many places as possible that alienating and hating people under the guise of righteous vengeance for things that either happened a long ass time ago or for the slightest perceived injustice or slight would have a backlash. now people are surprised that people have had enough and everyone is melting down and crying like it's the end of the fucking world.

if we're very lucky, we will have better business, not barrel headlong into ww3 and instead have civil relations with russia for once since like ever, and stop spending so much goddamn money.

no one knows until things get started and there's still awhile before he even actually takes office. everyone shut the fuck up, calm the fuck down, stop crying, figure out how to move forward and don't even fucking think of trying to figure out how to divide the country even more or we will fall. it's going to take the whole country to keep shit together, move forward, and if need be keep this government in line.

I am so damn tired of the hate towards either side, the logical fallacies used to lump everyone into the monster or corrupt category and justify the hate, and all the dramatic bullshit like the country isn't going to just go on tomorrow.

fucking damn people, get your shit together.

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Anyone here good at texting girls? What should i say back?

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A girl who tried to make out with me (I didn't follow because I'm retawdid) a couple months ago has been on a trip to Europe since a week after the makeout attempt. She texted me first two times during her trip, I did once. Now she just texted me "greetings from (european city)". I responded "How you doin there gyal?" and she doesn't respond. What do? I'm considering sending pic related emoji.

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How do you deal with embarassing fuckups in public?

I can't go about my daily life anymore because whenever I'm doing something my brain just automatically thinks about that one memory where I've recently humiliated myself. I want to brush it off but I just can't help these thoughts.

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Hi /adv, i'm 22, drawing in a drawing school and whenever a drawing is bad i'm really embarassed and i do my best to hide it to my classmates because i don't want to appear incompetent

Also i don't have the guts to draw what i want to draw because i'm afraid of what others might be thinking about me

To be short i'm afraid of being myself and afraid of others thoughts. How do i stop being a little bitch?

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How do I deal with my girlfriend when she is stressed or pissed?
When she's like that she takes it very seriously, enters a spiral of thought and everything gets quite cold and mostly quiet in between us until she gets better.
It's hard to deal with it for me. I try to cheer her up, and it ends up helping after a long while... But it all really brings me down. Plus if I'm not in a good mood I tend to get distant or even mad irrationally, thinking it has to do with me (while it rarely does).

Her life isn't easy here (she's a foreign student), that's the source of everything (everything's harder, she doesn't have many friends, is away from her family...) and I know that, but for some reason I can't seem to stop reacting like what I said, it keeps affecting me.

How can I improve? I want to make her feel better and avoid this before it seriously damages our relationship.

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I’ll keep this short:

option 1: work hard and make something of my life
option 2: do the only thing i truly enjoy which is writing but risk ending up being worthless

can't combine the two because writing takes a lot of time

i would like honest opinions/advice

Ty in advance

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My girlfriend screamed her ex's name during fuck

Do I kys myself?

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Hello, pretty new to this thread. Just wanted some generic advice on "dating". I'm 22 years old, 6'6 tall, athletic build, and groom myself quite well. I don't consider myself to be good looking, but I don't think I'm very ugly. I'm the only one in my group of friends that is a virgin (and also kissless). I'm not too flustered by this because there's probably more important things to worry about. However most of these said friends wonder why I haven't been with someone before, and my answer is that girls just don't dig me. I noticed that every time I'm out in public, even though I am very tall, no one seems to even glance at me. I don't care for attention from others, but I think it's a good indicator for approaching someone if they at least look over towards your direction, right? Ladies (and gents), do you look at people you find attractive in public, or is it just me? And if you do, would that mean that I'm unfuckable? Thanks in advance.

Pic quasi-related.

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So I need some advice on what I should do.

I was recently snooping on my computer and found in my wife's google history that she has searched for lesbian porn about 6 times in the past half year. This comes as a shock to me because she has always been kind of prudish and I never would have expected her to be masturbating to porn at all, let alone lesbian porn.

She has been going through a complicated pregnancy that has prevented us from having sex, it is not safe for us to do that. She has also been in pain and has not been up to really doing anything for me like blowjobs or handjobs and she doesn't want anything from me because she gets extremely triggered by getting eaten out from her being molested as a child.

I wonder why she would keep this secret from me? I feel like she should have some private things like this she can enjoy for herself but in the complete lack of a sex life for the better part of a year I wonder if my wife, the mother of my children, is secretly a lesbian? I wonder if her past prudishness in bed is actually her being a closet lesbian and not admitting it to me or her?

Help me /adv/ I need some guidance right now.

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Does anyone know of CBT-style self help books for Generalized anxiety disorder? I really don't want to fuck around with medication anymore as it's never proven useful, and only been harmful to me. I want to get out of this fog, I want to be awake/lucid again, and I want my memory back.

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How do I deal with people who advocate for anti violence resorting to organized crime to punish America for not giving them what they want?

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Here's the deal, in traditional 4chan format
>be me, september last year, 16, awkward fat betafag
>meet this 7/10 short nerdy girl at an extracurricular activity
>likes weeb shit, has depression or something
>just like me
>after a month of knowing her, finally work up the courage to ask her out
>we go to a cat café and it's a hecka fun time
>eventually we go drinking
>we discuss problems, she tells me about her suicide attempt, I tell her about my abusive mom
>BUT
>she lets me no closer than greeting by hug; not even holding hands
>keep trying, going out with her every now and then
>meanwhile, a new guy came into our group, become friends with him, also go for beers with the new guy and other guys in the program

Later, today:
>left out on like 2 sessions, but still talked with girl on fb
>see her and newbro kissing (on the cheek), holding hands
To add insult to injury, 2 weeks before they barely even noticed each other

Wat do? Did I lose her? No jokes but I'm literally shaking