Do women really want equality?
Im starting to think that they really don't because they get turned on by men who dominates them.
What do you think?
>>17759670
This is not advice, this is trolling.
Go start a flame war somewhere else.
Of course not you dumb fuck, how stupid can you be? You must have very low IQ or extreme social autism judging from the fact that you've never learned this naturally.
>>17759670
It's possible to dominate a woman sexually and take care of her, and also encourage her to pursue her own interests, career, etc. For most women, a guy who can do both is marriage material
>"i only wanted to be with you bcus you were hot and gave me good dick"
Fuck off chad
>>17759675
fuck off yourself. You probably dont know how it feels to be in my position
>>17759707
The guy above is being a little faggot but desu senpai at least you pull women.
>leave my phone in my girlfriends car last night
>she doesn't realize It until she gets home
>holds on to it until the next morning
>has my password
>snooped my whole phone
>went on my reddit app (I know)
>went to history (which you cant erase)
>saw everything I've looked at, including porn
>nothing too embarrassing, I was looking at a lot of bbw porn
She told me today. I'm not that embarrassed, I just feel really awkward and kind of violated. There was also this one time I got curious and went on to a gay porn subreddit as well and that was on there. She knows I'm not gay but still
Any advice?
>>17759626
Dump her.
>>17759626
What a fucking cunt.
Did she at least apologise?
>>17759634
yeah, she said I could look at her phone but I know she has really nothing to hide, and it wouldn't really make me feel any better.
So I've been on three dates with this guy in the past week. This is moving at a much faster pace than I'm used to, but it feels right. I've dated several different guys this year but this one feels truly special, like we have a real connection. He always seemed eager to see me, going as far as setting up the next date before the current one was even over. We have great chemistry, make each other laugh like crazy, had sex on the third date, established exclusivity, and we both opened up to each other about different things like family etc.
We were supposed to see each other again today, but this morning he texted me saying he didn't feel up to it. He has some stuff going on which I was already aware of that's causing some stress, but he also said that he felt like things were going really well and he's "waiting for something to go wrong." I'm used to guys making excuses before fading so this set me off a little bit, and I asked him to just let me know if he's not feeling it anymore. He said part of him wants to run because "good things can't happen to him." I totally understand this feeling, it's one that I've had myself but that doesn't make me want to run away. I explained this to him, that he shouldn't run because he's afraid of what might happen, but emphasized that I'm willing to give him space so he can figure stuff out.. he said he'd let me know, but now all I want to do is text him!
I'm in stage 5 clinger mode. I don't know if I should reassure him that I'm not going anywhere since he's clearly afraid of rejection, or just leave him alone so he doesn't feel claustrophobic. OR maybe he's just completely full of shit and doesn't want to see me anymore, even though yesterday he was texting me like everything was fine, alluding to us having a future and whatnot.
Anyone ever been on either side of this situation?
Dump him and find a normal guy who doesn't give you so many problems.
>>17759580
>OR maybe he's just completely full of shit and doesn't want to see me anymore
you gave him the secks didnt u. he's over you bb
>>17759604
this. he probably feels like he has completed his goal now. if not, he clearly has insecurity problems.
I'm 27 and I'm struggling to have a girlfriend,
where can I meet girls my age instead of going to bars and clubs? The scene is leaving me weary, I need new options.
Any recommendations?
>>17759550
Online dating?
Through friends and/or hobbies?
>>17759575
i got tinder it can suck at times because girls are being total flakes
You can meet many people outside, but you need a plan.
The outside isn't just parties and friends, you know. Without a plan, you won't befriend men or women.
What country would I have on 16,000 a year without working for 3 years.
I want hot plentiful women, and I only speak English. I was thinking Slavland, Hanland, Flipland, Colombia/Ecuador, Costa Rica/Panama/Dominican, or Hillbilly EU.
I am willing to learn their language, but I am no genius.
I plan to return to the USA after 2 years and work in real estate.
>>17759507
>What country would I have on 16,000 a year without working for 3 years.
It might help if you were to specify what it is you have 16,000 of - 16kCAD is a vastly different sum to 16kGBP for example.
Having a two year gap on your resume doesn't sound like a phenomenal plan.
I dont care about my resume or money.
My family has more money than I will ever be able to make in my lifetime.
My plan is to leave the USA withdraw some money, and comeback with more money in the bank.
Is it wrong that I feel like I wanna beat him up?Heres a little context Im not a violent person,but I was living with my ex then she fell out of love for me and hooked up with him and was hiding it from me.Then she moved out and moved in with him and puts pics on fb with him etc and blocked me from everything.Then one day on the street I met with them on the street and saw him face to face for the first time and he was smiling at me with a smug face while she was looking down scared to face me.Why shouldnt I kick his /adv I just feel so angry?The inly reason I didnt so far is because she would interfere and I dont wanna hurt her
>>17759506
You're looking at it from the wrong perspective. Instead, ask yourself "what would I gain from beating him up?".
What do you achieve by beating him up?
Whenever you feel angry, take a deep breath and tickle your anus or do a kegel. It will relax you.
OP here.I would get satisfaction knowing that his physical pain will reach at least a small percentage of my pain tat I feel inside.I mean the prick flirted with her when me and her were having a rough time in our relationship
I hope I came to the right place.
My 15 year old sister is on the very edge of becoming edgy emo trash, she's saying things about suicide and "fuck my parents" because they removed her from her after school program. I know she has a friend who cuts herself on the regular so she might go that route.
How do I get her back to reality and snap her out of her phase?
>inb4 "fuck her"
I would like to keep this non-sexual, if possible
Pic related, is her ~1-2 years ago.
That's a rough 13
>>17759409
She's actually 11 and the photo was taken this year, as seen in the filename that I forgot to change.
Any /adv/ice?
>>17759452
Yeah, you're not her mom. Chill out and worry if she actually does something.
Hey I'm going to be throwing a bachelor party for my friend soon and I was wondering where to look for good strippers. I live in Jacksonville florida.
>>17759399
Step one: find and hire strippers
>>17759399
no one here has enough experience with hookers in jacksonville florida to know which service to recommend over the other. and even if we did what actually matters is the stripper themselves.
just get on google and look at oyur local stripper options. dont go for the cheapest one, its simply not worth it.
pay close attention to the description as some are very clearly just prostitution. if they do a 'toy show' where the boys get to play with the toys, shes just a prostitute. thats it really.
I used to smoke weed all the time as a teen. Only sparingly since then maybe once a year. I was gonna try to get into it and tried on 4 seperate occassions but couldn't because of closed eye visuals
Now im gonna say something youre not going to believe since it makes no sense to me so i dont know how it happened. When i tell you this weed wasnt laced i tell you in complete confidence. I got it from a family member. One of the closest people in my life and they had the stash for over a month and had been smoking on it. Anyway :
I smoked some by myself on my front porch (just a bowl), went back inside and started playing chivalry on my PC. As the high started to set more and more in i was engrossed in this world of chivalry more and more even to the point to where i said "i am a polygon man" when looking at my character's hand models. I had completely lost all sense of self.
The game was about defending the city and the corn fields where my character supposedly lived and so did his family. The game has some gruesome death scenes but all in all its pretty silly. My mind blocked out all the silly. All of a sudden im just some guy with a sword fighting other guys who are trying to kill my family. I start getting anxious. The game is real to me now. My family is going to die, im shit with a sword.
I stop playing after i realize whats going on, but look around my room and there is total darkness (its 3am and my wife is asleep in the bed behind me) with only the light from my screen to dimly light the room (just enough to see the bed). I wait as i try to remember where i am, i cant remember why i am where i am, or what my name is.
I sat there struggling trying to remember the names of everthing, i get my name, i remember desk, bed, over the course of a few minutes (or at least i think so, time was really hard to tell). I remember what a stroke is and start to wonder if ive had or am having a stroke. I panic a bit more.
I see my wife in bed. Another human like me. I try to rationalize why she's there. Remember shes my wife, cant remember her name. Eventually do and then try to find a way to rationalize my need for help or how to speak to her. I remember the words "bad trip" as if it were something i heard decades ago. I call her name and wake her up. I ask her what a bad trip is. She has never done drugs.
"How should i know?" She says. "Come to bed, are you okay?"
Im not okay. She pulls me into bed and holds me. I start shaking as every time I close my eyes i start seeing dead bodies and hr geiger shit like op pic. As i go to sleep i start seeing galaxies, universes, and all the music composed in them. Im talking like as if i had done some really heavy hallucinogen. I eventutally fall asleep and im still high the next day but much more calm and no more visions or confusion.
What happened to me /adv/? I am 100% sure there was nothing in that weed. It wasnt even harsh or anything. Ive been searching for an answer to this shit for years. Now every time i smoke i get episodes like this or HR Geiger shit. But i dont want this to keep up.
Pics related. This is the kind of stuff I see if I shut my eyes. I've never been diagnosed with schizophrenia or anything. I have depression and anxiety disorders, but that's about as far as that goes.
>>17759387
Nice bait homie. You gay
>>17759462
>bait
I mean i get thats a meme and all, but literally what could i be baiting people for?
Just replies or something? I'm honestly 100% asking for help or insight here.
I've failed at- and abandoned- trying to think of a way in which to write about this without being creepy, so: I'm wondering if anybody knows if there's any point in seeking medical diagnosis and help with regards to erectile dysfunction/more or less no libido if it's been more than a year?
Obviously it bothers me a lot, but as it's not something that affects my life in any way besides bothering me a lot I've not sought medical diagnosis or help before now because I'd expect that I'd be told that I'm wasting everybody's time as I'm a virgin, I don't have a partner, and it is... highly unlikely... that either of those things is going to change
Nobody?
start lifting and going outside, also stop worrying about yourself.
>>17759382
That's not creepy at all. You just need to go to a doctor. If you don't feel well, you have the right to be helped. You don't need to prove you'll use your dick. Just go ask for a diagnosis.
I love and adore my boyfriend so much. I just broke up with him. We can't be together. But I don't want to be without him. I've broken his heart and I hurt so much
>>17759376
>We can't be together.
Why?
>>17759376
> We can't be together.
Yeah, why?
How did you break up with him?
>>17759376
How can you be this vague and expect any kind of advice from this board?
>meet this cute girl
>end up talking every day
>get a 100 day snapchat streak
>in my mind shes the hottest girl ive ever talked to
>in this whole time i dont talk to any other girls and get super attatched
>end up getting clingy as hell
>fast forward to last week
>end up getting into an argument with her via text
>say some fucked up things like call her a whore that i totally didnt mean
>in person and on the phone im sweet as fuck and she knows it, never had the slightest problem talking on the phone or when i was with her in person
Anyway she blocked me and said to never message her again, I called a few days ago and while she was pissed and still said she wouldnt forgive me the convo went okay. Tried calling yesterday, didn't pick up.
Todays my birthday and she hasnt acknowledged it at all.
I know I fucked up pretty badly but is there anything I can do at this point? I really want to talk to her on the phone but I don't want to keep calling until she answers... honestly all I do is think about her. Maybe give it a week and try calling again?
Please help /adv/
>>17759331
>100 days
>hasnt made her your gf
never gonna happen at this point anyway
>>17759331
>end up getting into an argument
about what?
>>17759351
Long distance bro.
>>17759352
Basically what happened was she would constantly ignore my messages and open my snaps not responding then i went full retard and said "i guess you'd rather another guy thats going to use you for sex and cheat on you" (shes been with 20 guys and told me shes never had sex with a non fuck boy) Argument just built from there until she blocked me
Don't know why but getting ignored on purpose pisses me the fuck off. i know i probably cant fix it but im hoping i can
What crazy things do you do while dating someone new?
Park my car across the street from where they live one night a week and just spy on them.
You know, the usual.
>>17759293
how do you spy on them from the car? Dont they have doors?
>>17759332
>Dont they have doors?
Well, yes, but they usually also have windows.
How should I deal with this?
>be me (22m)
>have girlfriend (20f) of 3.5 months
>before me she was fairly sexually liberal, having slept with the same number of people I had (12) but many of those were one night stands on a eurotrip
>things progressed rapidly, both fall in love
>tell girl everything
>tell her about how i feel about specific things (drugs, tattoos, sex, etc) and sometimes how I'd react
>one of these is flashing
>ask if she's ever done it, she hasn't. Tell her that's good and that I don't think I'd like it if she had
>explain I'm just a bit more conservative with the way I view sex and sexual things
>tell her if she ever flashed someone it would be a big deal, she tells me she never would
skip to last night
>she goes out for a "girls night" with her best friend who really likes me and is supportive of our relationship
>receiving snapchats throughout the night
>get a cryptic snapchat "A new currency" captioned over a white screen
>ask what it was about
>tells me "you don't wanna know"
>finally get an answer
>she flashed a bartender with her friend to get a free drink
>go off because this is close to cheating in my eyes
>she's too drunk to talk about it
Should I dump her ass or try to work through it? We otherwise have a perfect relationship and I could honestly see myself being with this girl for a very, very, very long time (though I'm not naive to the fact that this is possibly rose-tinted glasses)
I view it as an absolutely huge disrespect to me, our relationship and even herself. On top of that it's an enormous breach of trust and I've basically lost all trust in her. We have a completely exclusive relationship and have clear boundaries and have had from the start
I think the big reason was because she was very drunk and is high susceptible to peer pressure, but this isn't an excuse
I feel like we could move past it, because it's not really a huge thing, like she didn't actually cheat on me, but it's still pretty bad
What's your /adv/ice?
lied to your face, what more do you want
dump her
Don't dump her you retard, talk with her about it
Don't use the atomic solution at the first problem in a relationship.