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I have a somewhat abstract for you women out there.
What things do you fantasize about with a potential partner that aren't sexual?
What things do you hope he does or hope he has? What lifestyle do you fantasize about living with him? Do you dream about going out with him and his friends and having a good time? Or taking him out with your friends?
I know fantasy doesn't equal expectation but I'm curious to know where the female mind goes when you are making up scenarios with a potential mystery man you like.
I am interested in specifics but if its more vague for you then describe that I can relate because as a guy its really vague, there is nothing really specific I fantasize about her doing(talking non-sexual here) it's more of a just wanting her around type of thing.
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In the most general sense, having kids.
It's been that way since I was maybe 22 and most of my friends share the same feeling.
Having a nice home, having a couple kids with him, settling down and raising them. That sort of thing.
> Do you dream about going out with him and his friends and having a good time?
No but I prefer to do so because it makes me feel like I'm an important part of his life
>Or taking him out with your friends?
Good lord no
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>>17754672
Interesting, so there is no social aspect at all?
Like what do you picture yourself doing with him when you guys are having fun?
Or do you just immediately jump to having the kids and a family dream?
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
>Would you date a virgin?
><random insecurity>
Some do, some don't. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Those free text questions always get asked. And people still answer them.
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Need femanons insight here.
So I asked a girl out some weeks ago and we went for a drink. We chatted for about an hour or two then we left each other. Later I asked her about going out during the week-end, but she apologised, telling me she isn't looking for a relationship atm. I'm totally ok with that, the problem is that I've felt pretty bad recently so I haven't been able to see her a lot, and we barely talked in about a month, so now I'm scared about talking to her, trying to be friend with her. I don't want to look like I'm forcing her to love me, nor ignoring her because she said no. How do?
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Why do girls/guys post snapchat ids on instagram stories for brief periods of time?
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I've known this girl for a few months now. Due to some domestic and recovery issues, we weren't able to see each other for a bit, but we're back to talking and hanging out pretty regularly. We had an impromptu coffee date where she told me she was soon to be single. How long is the correct amount of time before asking her out on like, a real date? She's pretty important to me, having been the one that got me to chill when we first met, and put an idea in my head that helped me improve my life a few months ago. Like, I'm not expecting anything but a good time for us for this date. I just don't want to ask her out too early. I don't want it to come off as trying to swoop in and end up pushing her away for it.
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Also we've already fucked, so, good sign?
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>>17754617
Not if she's in a relationship
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>>17754617
you're that close but you need us to tell you when the time is right? come on dude.
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Is it wrong to tell your kid that a scary monster will get them if they're bad?
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Yes.
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There are definitely better ways of dealing with naughty behaviour
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>>17754597
Only if you're that scary monster.
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How can I go from the middle one to the first or second one?
I look disgusting in nice clothes from the side view when I try and wear nice clothes because I'm pretty fat and I got mantits which is why I dress like shit because I'd look like shit either way.
I'm tired of being an overweight virgin and want to start swimming in vagina.
I don't want to necessary lose weight, I just want to lose fat.
I'm 5'6 and almost 195lbs, how can I change things?
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>>17754492
Change your attitude, first of all lol
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Weight lifting. 3 days a week. You need fat to build muscle. But also diet. No more sugar and only drink water. Take in less energy than you expend to lose weight.
The good thing is at least you want to get laid. Have some confidence but dont be desperate. They can smell it sometimes.
Oh also muscle weighs more than fat so dont be fixated on a number. Focus on how you look.
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>>17754508
How much weight we talking?
Is 5 pound dumbells on each hand enough?
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There is this one girl I like. Problem is, that she not only likes me, but one other guy aswell. I am on the verge to call my uncle so his friemds could brake his legs n shit. I havent felt what I feel now with this girl for around 2 years, and thats partially why I havent stopped going out and making out with her. Should I just say fuck off to her and keep my lifestyle of fuckboy? Call uncle? Or try my best to get her fair and square as my own? Pls /adv/ help.
Pick not related.
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>>17754452
Are you Albanian?
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>>17754452
oh boo hoo
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Even if your uncle is a shit tier criminal who would break some dude's legs because a girl fancies him, but in all honesty that would probably just win the girl over.
Fucking move on, dude.
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What does this mean?
Hes left me on read for about a day now.
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>>17754450
Why do you even care? It seems like a total non-conversation with some guy who just wants to get his dick wet.
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>>17754450
He clearly wants to enter your putang. But you dont therefore he is not interested anymore
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>>17754474
I didnt reject him. I asked what his insta was and he didnt reply. I dont know what he looks like
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How do you date a gril who lives five hours away and just got out of a five year relationship?
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by calling her five times?
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You don't numb nuts, thats some high effort low rewards shit right there
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She most likely won't want to date anyone, let alone jump into a LDR with you.
Find someone else, that's the best advice you're gonna get.
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Getting dates without a car
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Carless beta here. Was wondering how you guys set up dates with girls. Like i understand if you meet somewhere with her, but after like i dont want to be a beta and be like see ya later, and then see her take home the bus.
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>>17754395
You get a cab together and drop her off at her house first. She might even invite you in if you're lucky.
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>>17754395
Just don't be american, problem solved.
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If she can't drive or doesn't have a car herself, then she's in no position to judge. This is coming from a girl, for what it's worth.
Today I had a huge fight with my fiance. Ill quickly run through a summary of what happened.She wants to have a separate personal bank account for herself even after the marriage to "guarantee herself" and she promises it will never affect her actions or our relationship. It was our biggest fight to date, and she was very very very angry when I said we must have a common bank account, to the point that she swore she will stop working once we marry. Im trying to replay what happened in my mind, am I in the wrong in insisting on us having one bank account once we marry? Pic unrelated
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This is one of those. She will see you are right in the future things.
Once you have to keep reminding her about bills and needing to transfer funds she will change her tune. Just don't be a dick about it or she will make it a pain in the ass forever.
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>>17754394
No. She wont pay any bills, she says she will have her account separate from mine to spend on herself, but that I cover household expenses, she just spends on herself. I felt like shes being selfish about the situation
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>>17754385
Wife and I have three accounts. Joint that both of us contribute too and most of the money and bill are paid from. She has a personal account and I have a personal account and any extra we both have goes into that account. How we spend it is up to us individually.
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Why doesn't he want to be friends with me?
There was a guy I really enjoyed being around. Had lots in common and great chemistry together. But I've just never been romantically interested in him. He's very fun, very sweet, the nicest guy I've ever met. But I don't know why, I just never wanted to be more than friends.
But when he asked me out, I had to let him down. And since he's so nice, I decided to be honest, direct, but kind. He just nodded his head and, calmly, said that if this was the case, it's best he and I never speak again. Again, he was really calm and nice about it (my heart sank nonetheless). And when I rebuffed and suggested friends, he just told me no, which left an awkward silence between us. Shortly after, he smiled weakly and walked away. That was the middle of spring, and I haven't heard or seen him since. I miss him dearly.
What I don't get is that he's friends with a lot of women and seems to have no problem with it. And when I asked him (before he walked away) why they get to be friends with him and I don't, he told me it was because he doesn't have any feelings or romantic interest in them.
I don't understand.
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>>17754375
When you close a door on a man don't be surprised when he leaves.
Guys don't play games. We hear No means no all the freaking time. And you said No.
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>>17754375
Girls are monsters. People like you sicken me. Poor guy, he definitely deserves better.
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>But I don't know why, I just never wanted to be more than friends.
>He's the nicest guy I've ever met.
That's why.
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fucked up big time /adv/
>be me, be bi, closeted gay
>want to blow someone
>find some guy
>decide to do it in car
>how could this go bad?
>park somewhere in the middle of the night
>do the deed.
>everything is fine!
>go to drivers seat, lift head
>oh shit!
>building right in-front of me has three, yes >three
>fucking IR security cameras
>oh shit, oh shit, try to be calm but cannot
>go back there in the morning
>the business in the building is closed
>some relief
>building managed by some real estate
>can't decide to talk about this or not
>go back there at night
>check the cameras, all functional, IR is >working
>total panic mode
what the fuck do i do /adv/, what the fuck do i do. cameras working does not mean they were recording, who would keep the dvr system inside an empty building. Should I ask the real estate to inside the building as if I will be leasing it? ask them about the cameras, or come clean and leave myself to their mercy? Not aggravate the situation at all and hope that after enough days the footage will be overwritten?
can't sleep, can't do shit, totally overwhelmed by this stupid thing I did.
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>>17754345
They are not going to do anything about it. You are fine. Stop freaking out.
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why do you care? unless you also broke some windows or stole something nobody will look at the tape. if they did it's not like it'd be recognizable.
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What reason do they have to check old footage for. None. You're dick sucking adventure will forever be lost in hours of empty parking lot footage.
Hey fellows,
The voices don´t stop to give me orders.
What to do?
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Anyone actually hearing voices? I just hear a yelling AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! all the time. Makes it hard to sleep sometimes.
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>>17754312
OP here.
It´s serious...
I can hear the voices loud and clear, all the time!
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>>17754317
i believe you i recommend embracing them. All voices in your head are you in some way shape or form.
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Okay, so I am 26 and feel like I have done nothing with my life. One of my bosses at work is good friends with a lot of cops and mentioned that I should get on the highway patrol. There's quite a few pros like: making hella more than what I make now- without a degree, good benefits/ insurance, get a car, learn how to shoot, have 5 days off in a row, learn how to do badass things. Didn't know if there was anyone on here that is in this same type of field and get advice on if it's worth it or not.
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I'm interested as well.
I'd prob move up to CO and into popo if popo can meet with mary on their free time without penalty
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I talked to my boss about that also. He said not to worry about it, other than getting tested once- which would be prior to starting the job. I guess that's the only time. I'm sure every where is different though...
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>>17754290
You weren't a bully in school by any chance, were you?
Hey I need advice with a girl, pic related
I'm 22 years old and haven't had a girlfriend (or any action for that matter) since I was 17-18 in 2012. I think I'm pretty decent looking and have a full time job.
I met this girl working at the desk at a business I was delivering too she seemed nice and I could tell she was really nervous but trying really hard to talk to me and ask me questions and stuff.
So after a few more times seeing her when delivering I came up with a plan to give her an extra baggie of lollies (we give free lollies with deliveries) with a piece of paper in it with my number.
Everything went smoothly and she ended up texting me straight away when she got off work at 9pm (pic related).
I texted her the next day with no reply and then sent another text this mourning on Saturday with no reply..
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you've been ghosted. Sorry dude, but there's nothibg else to do but to wait for a reply which may never happen. Do not send a third one or you'll come off as desperate.
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>>17754281
Send another reply. Show her that youre confident and an alpha. Even better, show up to her work and ask her out.
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Give her a detailed, multi-message death threat.
That gets chick's adrenaline going, which we all know leads to their lower lips salivating.
Trust me, it works every time.