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How do you not have trust issues in a relationship when you kno that girls can get laid whenever they want and always have other guys hitting on them?
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>>17758407
You do not fall in love so it really won't matter. Even the most trustworthy girl that purposefully blocks most guys approach cannot resist an opportunity with a suave good looking guy.
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>>17758407
it goes both ways. The sad truth is, the vast majority are not loyal people. The ones that are loyal, only do so out of convenience or lack of better options. Then there is a percent of people within that, that would never do something regardless of circumstances.
Here's the terrible kicker- there's NO WAY of telling who falls into what category until it's too late. Hence, the trust. It's really fucking hard. But here's what I tell myself- I fall into the 'would never do anything' category. I am not that special. So if I exist, there must be plenty of others. There HAVE to be. Right?
sigh........ fuck humanity.
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>>17758407
It's less about trusting other people doing something you don't want them to do and more about trusting that they will do what's best for them, which most tend to do or at least try to do.
If you're the best option for somebody, they have to be retarded to cheat on you. (At if they are retarded, who cares if they cheated, that's their loss) If you're not the best option for someone, it's bound that they will look for better options, whether it's breaking up with you, or cheating and breaking up with you.
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Sup, 4ch.
I am about to make English subtitles for this pretty video about thoughts of Russian liberator:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N_xADgd-aps
But I worry that my non-native English don’t let me to make this well.
Anon, please check and stylish my text and I will get opportunity to show to the world secret sides of Russian soul.
But I like to conquer people and build an empires. I wake up every morning and I can’t understand how does it possible, the existence of any nations or territories which yet are not part of Russia. USSR was consisted of 200 nations whereas I have to ask: why does so fucking few? It is not indicator we should be proud of. It isn’t a high league at all, it is a middle-level. I see the map and suffer butthurt. Why the hell 5/6 of land is not yet subdued by Moscow? The independent nations still live there. Let them breathe a shreedom for a while and then we will come and deal with them fuck yeah! Some fucking Germans and British talk about cars and iPhones but I don’t understand what are they talking about. The iPhone? What is this fucking shit? The only shot of AK-47 and it’s over. A car? Tank rides over it and it's gone. They treat these things as values but I think that them are peace of shit and waste of important war resources. Whereas a tank or fighter – this is a true value. And no one can argue it, especially if it drop a bomb or shoot with a cannon. Clothing… tricks. All over shops are engulfed with them. But what the point of it if we have a camouflage? It is convenient and practical. You can do everything dressing it. And even though you are covered over with a mud, you still look well. There are also heaps of shoes and other useless garbage in their shops. Just combat boots. Wear it and forget.
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>>17758406
Your translation reads too serious, so while it mostly works in the sense of translating the words that were said, it misses the meaning.
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>>17758416
In original video many specific meanings are used, and I don't sure that all that stuff may be translated precisely because there are different cultural references.
So if someone decides to take it up I encourage him be free to make deep processing of my translation. I think that the saving of emotional impuse - is the most important there
also, part 2
How they can twitter so carelessly when there are so many unconquered lands around? I totally can’t comprehend it. I can’t sleep because this thought. I spin restless in my bed. My head thrills with the plans of annexations and military-politic alliances. Intrigues in international organizations, attacks of armies avalanches, side by side with other mad-men like me. I fuck in the mouth you with your homelike bedrooms. You can get enough sleep only after a battle in fresh air and a little bit feeding mosquito. Take back your Chanelperfume and give me a smell of napalm at morning! It invigorates much, trust me. Someone composes symphonies, daub pictures, but I am created to conquer nations by a peace way or not. I am Russian and I am not suitable for changes. If somewhere crowd more than 3 Russians – a mini-empire instantly raises up in this place.
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part 3
Every time when you think that you have defeated us – we will rise during some years and again threat the world with total destruction. You suppose that the war was over? No, it was only the episode. General Staff took pause in order to conduct analysis of mistakes and charge forward again. You can break down us even every 20 years and some nations can get freedom temporally. But it is a transition phenomenon, just a rest for them. Eventually we will rally round Empire and banish garbage of iPhones, tin boxes and warm beds of reconquered people in order to set them in our arrays and march forward together in order to convert nations into our faith. You will be broken down because such turn of events and we will collect your splinters thoroughly and include them in our State. Sometime this planet will be united under single leadership and goddamn you’d better to negotiate with us now about preferences because it may be late. Eventually when we will conquer this poor globe and when my far offspring in super-nano armor will set Russian flag in the last piece of conquered land – the inhabitants of other parts of Universe should begin learn Russian for their life.
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I've been on accutane for 6 months and it gave me clear skin. Now that I'm done with the treatment I'm getting pimples again.
How do I cope? What should I do?
Before I tried accutane I tried many other natural treating methodes and the results were meh. They just lowered my moderate acne a bit. I'm still doing them to date though
>have towel on my pillow that I wash together with all of my other towels every week
>avoid diary products
>don't eat junk food or fast food
>don't drink sugary things, only water
>eat fresh
>wash face with antiseptic face lotion in the morning and evening
>use non comedogenic moisturizer
>never touch my face
I'm really depressed here.
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>>17758377
Six months? Did you do multiple courses or something?
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Does acne clear up as you get older? You should try to worry about it less, stress can cause acne and you seem like you might be overly concerned with it.
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>>17758396
My dermatologist told me it's pretty normal to take it for 6 months. The whole thing was one course
>>17758423
That's what I also heard but I just want my acne gone while I'm younger. Am 20. I probably should chill out about the whole problem
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I'm in love with my mother's friend. 2016-11-13 14:49:18 Post No.17758338
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Sup ladies and gents. I've been feeling this shit for a long time but just recently it hit me hard as fuck. I think I'm in love with my mother's friend (normal girl friend). So here's all you need to know. Shes 32, beautiful, has a boyfriend and an 11 year old child. I'm 20, okay looking, never had a serious relationship and Im feeling depressed because of that. Ever since I saw her I've been attracted to her. Sometimes I think she flirts with me so little just to make me feel confused or maybe shes just teasing her friend's son. Recently we went on a small trip with her, her daughter, me and my mom and she did the flirt thing again. Since then Im feeling confused as shit, I lost appetite, thinking about her all day, dream of her and when I realize that I have no shot with her I just get nailed to the ground psychologically. Why I know that I have no shot with her? She loves her boyfriend, loves her daughter, loves her family and there's no reason to put that to risk because of me. The silver lining in this dark fucking tunnel is that her boyfriend is working in a different country and rarely comes home. She's alone, horny (she told me that) and sad. So my question is:
What the fuck do I do? Do I try to get closer, do I try to ignore my feelings or do I just tell her how I feel and probably get rejected?
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You have a crush. You like her, so you feel like she is flirting. Go out, meet girls you age and you'll be over it in a second.
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>>17758355
Thanks for the advice anon.
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Never take care of another man's child. And you will never come first in a relationship with a single mother.
i just met a girl , she said to me to come in her house this next weed-end , to drink a beer or shit like that , what should i do for not being cockblock ?
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If she wants you to come over and drink with her it sounds like she's already planning to fuck you.
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>>17758334
i'm pretty sure what OP meant to say was, "what should i do to get laid?"
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>>17758343
Literally show up.
If OP fucks this up he's a failure
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How to end 2 year relationship with someone I just don't want to be with anymore?
Been questioning things lately and just not feeling it anymore. It's not like they treat me bad or abuse me, I just think I lost feelings.
Advice? Has anyone been on either end of this situation? I'm going crazy. I don't want to keep leading them on, but feel awful.
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Did you try going up to your partner and telling them this?
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I can kinda relate to what you're feeling. This might not help you, but I'll add my similar situation to the thread.
>Been dating a girl for 2 years now
>1 year in person, one year long distance when she had to move
>Recently I told her that I wouldn't want to continue long distance into college, if we were going to keep dating in the future it would have to be in person
>There's no chance we're going to the same college at this point, she doesn't have the grades to go to any of my schools and I'm not going to lower my school standards
>Our relationship hasn't been the same since I told her that, it's been a lot more distant and cautious. We almost broke up
>there's pretty much no chance that she'll want to have sex again, or get very intimate
>I probably won't have a chance to see her until Christmas, and if I do I'll be traveling across the country to a relationship that just isn't the same anymore
Is there a point to staying together anymore? Honestly I think the only reason I want to hold on to her is because she's such a good friend, and I don't want to hurt her. She said she'd be willing to stay friends if we broke up, but only if it was on "good terms". Also I guess I'm scared of being alone for the first time in years.
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>>17758287
Losing feelings is just normal after 2 or 3 years. You're just used to the other person.
Ending relationship for this reason is extremely stupid, since it will happen again and again and again with other people, until you're old and all alone.
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How to focus on school when depressed/overstressed 2016-11-13 14:09:22 Post No.17758268
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Topic. Basically how do you focus on school when you can't focus on it and can only focus on your other problems. Which are a 5 year relationship that is going to shit (that I keep fucking making worse because I am always worrying about school, so its going to shit) and generally extremely unhappy with life. I legit have depression, anxiety, and ADHD (have medication for that) as well.
Honestly when trying to fix my relationship it just gets worse because I'm too stressed about school and life and I can't focus on school and do well in it because I'm stressed about my relationship and life, and depressed, thus making my sleep schedule complete shit.
Just basically my life is compeltely in shambles, gone to shit, I'm overstressed and overworked, and it seems like literally nothing can give. And to top it off I'm depressed and always anxious as shit to the point of being burned out.
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Anyone, please? At this rate I'm going to drop of of college and my relationship is going to fall apart. And I just got back into college, I can't afford to get suspended again.
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Mate, be honest with yourself. At this point, you have to look in the mirror and ask yourself what's more important to you right now? You clearly can't deal with both the pressures of school, and the pressures of a relationship, and that's okay.
Once you decide what's more important, cut the other off. If your education is more important (which it should be), try to explain to your girl that you just need a break from the relationship. You still will like her the same after a year, or better yet, you might find a flame at uni that'll be easier to manage since you both go there.
On the other hand, if your relationship is more important, then stop going to school. Just pay what you have to and get out. You'll be out a shit ton of money, which then your girl would probably like you even less for, causing more problems in the relationship, but hey, now that you're out of school you'll have all the time needed to try to fix it.
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Man i get stressed in college a lot, working 60 hours a week at the same time. What i do, put on some chill grooves, take a look at my student loans, and say to my self "Fuck this up, and you are down a couple grand for this one class." And then i study my happy little ass off. Unless your parents are paying for your shit in that case fuck you.
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Well, /adv/, I really need help with a situation that I've never experienced before.
I've always been fat and, because of that, my self-esteem is almost 0. Recently, I've started to go to the gym and, since then, my weight loss has been incredible. This led me to the best phase of my life in terms of girls. Some friends, mostly girls and gay guys, have started to say that I'm getting hot and stuff, but not even that has made me more confident (I still feel fat, I believe I'll only be confident with at least 10kg less).
This led me to a situation that I've never expected and I really don't know how to deal with it. There's a girl in my college. If you ask me to build the girl of my dreams, with all the characteristics, looks and stuff, would probably be something very similar to her. I've been looking her for some time now, but never talked to her because I've always thought she was too much for me and I'd never have any chance, so I was ok with that and was living my life normally.
Turns out that, the other day, one of my friends was talking to her while I was away, and she said she was into me. I was shocked, I never thought a girl like her would want a guy like me, but it happened. But I just don't know how to react. I don't know how to talk to her now and I'm feeling nervous about it. What do I do now? What do I talk to her? I really don't want to miss this chance and I'm awful at flirting.
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"Ayy girl.
Listen after history we should go get some dinner. Cool?"
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>>17758261
Well OP, its time to grab it right by the pussy.
What i would reccomend is to put yourself in a situation she is in, optimally a party would be a perfect excuse to talk to her.
If shes not going to any, i suggest just going full Chad Thundercock and ask her straight up if you want to go watch a movie or whatever
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>>17758354
Also OP, how many times have you actually TALKED to her? Of you do it its likely the convo will naturally turn to hanging out.
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>be her, single for a year and only ever had 1-2 week relationships, but nothing ever really happened.
>I come along, 8 months together, her first kiss and first everything else.
>Treated her really good, always done cute things, we have many good memories, opened up to each other etc
>She said in the beginning how she wasn't used to being treated so good, and how perfect I was, how she feels safe with me, etc.
>But she broke up with me, nothing major had happened, and a month later (today) we've just been on/off arguing. She got in a rebound only a week 1/2 later but that lasted 2 days.
>She's agreed to see me a few times, and contacts me half the time (even though she says she doesn't like me doesn't wanna be with me etc) but we argue. Her acting cold, me wanting to fix things, her saying I piss her off.
>Now she's with someone else, but she herself told her sister who then told me it wasn't going to last. Her best friend told me they barely talk in person (I should note, she's only ever had unattractive, beta boyfriends).
>She tells me, I get mad, we see each other again, we argue, etc.
>3 days ago was the last time I spoke to her. She was telling me to just move on, I told her once I do I don't look back, then she said she can promise me she will probably regret this but for now its best, and telling me I don't have to let go of her completely because I don't. But I told her I have to, and that I need time and space from all this.
>Been 3 days since then, no contact at all. Although she's tried talking to me, and telling me not to ignore her but I haven't replied. She also commented on my status.
What's she doing? She changed her profile pic a week ago too, to the one she uploaded the first day she met me. She still wears my hoody often (the one I wore during her first kiss). Her ring I got for her birthday. And last night she uploaded a pic, from 3 months ago, of her round mine when we had sex for the first time.
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>>17758234
again today huh?
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Sounds like she has self esteem issues and probably doesn't feel good enough for you. She definitely isn't over you though. But hell I don't know what you can do.
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>>17758234
jesus fucking christ dude just stop
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So my gf is, as the title indicates, kind of unhappy with her looks. The problem here is that she really does look good. She seems not to react to compliments and even if I try to tell her that this is a topic she really doesn't have to worry about it won't help.
Now I see that being unhappy with your looks is pretty normal to begin with, however it really is getting extreme in this case. She pretty much hates all of her and this affects the sex as well as she is losing the interest in having sex because she can't see herself being attractive.
Any advices on clearing this whole situation up?
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>>17758223
let's she how good she looks
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>>17758226
I won't post her here. That's something you'll have to believe me.
Not a 10, certainly. But a solid 7.
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Every girl is like this
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So I'm really into this girl and when we were watching a movie I jokingly called her a bitch. She ignored me until the movie was over and got off the call, I messaged her apologizing saying it was only a joke and she went to bed upset at me and didn't forgive me.
Is this standard behavior for girls or a red flag? First time talking seriously to a girl for a while too, so I may be out of touch..
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Each girl is different, tough luck m8, move on to the next girl, maybe next year or the year after that you'd be luckier.
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>>17758211
Words are words, if it's not meant in a disrespectful manner it doesn't mean that no one will be offended, but maybe she isn't the one for you.
Some couples get by on banter, if you plan on having someone who understands your humour enough to see past a silly comment here or there then stay far away from women who will take that commentary too seriously.
I prefer it when my fiance doesn't say "fuck you" jokingly, but I wouldn't ignore him for the rest of the day over it. I've gotten over a lot after being in a relationship for 8 years (including words like bitch and cunt) but maybe that's because I know him so well and he and I have matured over the years (25yo and he is 27yo)
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>>17758211
I call all of my female friends (and my sis) "bitches/cunts/whores" and nobody was ever really upset at me, ONE time a chick said that even in bantz context it was degrading, so we had a little talk and it was perfectly fine too.
As much at depends on the girl, your delivery and the initial impression she got about you matter at least as much.
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>Good at making people like me
>Once the "thrill of the hunt" is over and they consider me their friend I stop having fun talking to them
How do I quit doing this?
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Hey I do this too!
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>>17758194
I think I subconsciously have this problem
I have a hard time letting anyone close to me and hardly have many true friends
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Invent a new hunt.
How can you make them laugh in new ways?
How can you surprise them?
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Hey, /adv/. I don't even know how to ask this the right way. I haven't seen this type of question on here or anywhere I can remember. I wanna know if and how I should talk to my sister. My paternal sister. I found her YouTube channel. I was looking at my biological dad's YT channel, because we've talked a few times here and there, barely at all really, and he told me about it. I found he had a video of him and her on it, and it kinda made me jealous. I know it shouldn't, but seeing them happy together, makes me wish we two could've had that, but yeah.
This isn't for me to whine or bitch, but I wanna know, if I should ever try to talk to her. I think she's about 13-14. I know at that age, I wouldn't just talk to strangers that much, even if they were relatives, because they were still strangers, but maybe that's just me. I know merely being related maybe isn't a good reason to talk to or reach out to someone, but I have a pretty small family, and I don't want her to think I ignored her. Maybe she never even thought about me, though. I don't know. Is this dumb for me to even be concerned about and should I just ignore her existence because my dad fucked up? She's an entirely different person so I can't really think that. Please, /adv/, if you've maybe been in a similar situation.
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what's her YT?
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>>17758196
I'm not here to dox anyone.
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>>17758197
What? No one is gonna dox anyone
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Sorry if this is not a particularly liked subject in /sci/, but I'd like to ask. I'm almost at a point where I can apply for specific programs on the B.S. level. When I was young, I wanted to become a scientist, and if I was capable of doing it, I wouldn't be opposed to doing it (maybe in my later years). However, when looking back at many of my biology classes, I noticed many of my professors were Ph.D's, had done research for some years, and then went into teaching. When I was talking to those professors, one taught entry-level biology, one taught microbiology, and the other taught microbiology (I had to retake microbiology because I could not handle the honors class at the time), that they mentioned having to give up research after a certain point.
A lot of these women were older, with the youngest one having gone into grad school around the age of 24 and a half. My professor did encourage me into considering research when I was talking to her about struggling with some concepts. When I was at a line for an event, I spoke with another female grad student (her study was ophthalmology). A lot of them decided to go out of research once they started having families and they talk about leaving with some pain.
I understand that grad school and beyond is very stressful for everyone, and more or less you have to dedicate your life to it, and I'm not quite cut out for that at this time. But why is that? Why as a society do we have such a narrow focus on upper level academia, with very limited funding? Why is a lot of the medical field very haze-mentality in the way it treats students? Why is grad school so grueling? I know that you might have very strong opinions, but I'd like to ask because I've never viewed it directly, but from afar. Please don't judge; these are very bright women that I know, and they certainly did enjoy their time in academia, but if anyone wanted to give insight about grad school lifestyle or research, it would be appreciated.
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It's not a career-asking thread. It's asking about why academia is not conducive to a healthy mental life or personal life.
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So which question do you want answered? All we can see is a convoluted blogpost that doesn't get to the point of your query. Mind rephrasing in a few sentences instead?
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1. Why does academia get next to no funding?
2. Why is grad school, doctorate school, and medical school so grueling and not conducive to a family life?
3.If you are female and in a stem field, do you feel that your program or focus does not have an anti-maternal attitude?
4. If advanced programs have such a high divorce rate, why does no one seem to care?
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Hi /adv/ Im just gonna make this short so please help me out
>me, Filipino
>Senior, IT
>girlfriend is a Junior in college. chinese
>her Dad is full Chinese raised in the Philippines
>her mom is half chinese
>went to her house I planned to meet her parents, I got her mother's favor, I met her we talked and she seemed very okay with me
>her dad doesnt wanna see me in person he just looked at me from afar and never saw the fucker again
>fast forward second visit and her dad is pissed for some reason but Im already otw to their house
>no parents in house
>gf and i decided to go to her room, things went serious, but just oral cuz she was still a virgin
>parents find out that I went to her room and just us two
>furious
>sweatingbullets.gif
>her parents want me dead
TLDR; first time meeting her parents went well except her dad doesnt want to see me, somehow fucked up and her parents want me dead, how do I gain back their trust
Please guys help me out here, is there anyway to redeem myself to them or like gain back their trust. thanks
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>Filipino, IT
>Chinese girl
Her father already hates you. Prove you're a man and prove you can make money and he'll give you his blessing, otherwise you're pretty much fucked.
Note: Proving this means proving it at a minimum to HIS current standards. If they're poor cunts this should be easy but if they're influential then you have your work cut out
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>>17758126
Also I just finished my third bottle of soju and forgot to read the second part of the post
Her parents hate you because you tried to fuck her before marriage or a serious relationship. Chinese are hardcore traditionalists almost everywhere except europe and america, and even then they're still very much so.
Everything from this point forward depends on whether or not they found out what you did. If they never do then you play the fucking toe kissing bitch, you respect the parents wishes at every turn and you'll return to their good graces.
If they do know what went down, you can just say "fuck it" and keep trying to see the girl, but the parents will forever hate you.
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So you're saying there's a huge chance that her parents will hate me for the rest of their lives? Also I think its been about a week since her parents banned her from talking to me but we're still having our secret conversations