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I'm really fucking scared /adv/
I saw this the other day and i don't know what the fuck to do. is this really going to happen within our lifetimes?
what should I do??
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Probably.
Just make sure to be old by the 2050s
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>>17760701
The Singularity will kick in before that happens, and Computer Jesus will either save us or kill us all
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>>17760701
I feel like the births and deaths trendlines are incompatible with the population one.
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I'm really fucking scared of doing 3 years of biomed undergrad just to find out i didn't get into med school and have a worthless degree + debt.
Is it worth taking a bachelor of biomed? "Pre-med" Isn't really a thing here, and while I absolutley love learning about anatomy and such, I'm just not sure what i'd be able to do if i didn't get into med school and couldn't find a job with it after.
Are there safer degrees that I can maintain a medschool worthy GPA in, as well as have good career prospects If med school isnt possible?
Australian if it matters.
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>>17760659
You can major in literally anything as long as you fulfill med school prereqs. Pick something that you can easily 4.0 in.
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>>17760659
You can always go into bio / chem engineering instead.
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>>17760659
You want to be a doctor?
You suck dick for a doctor?
Then do pre-med
Then also on top of all your classes, do free intern shit
Like lab shit
Then you're good
If you can do bio/chem lab shit, then you can get an adult job.
Yeah, you're a service tech and not someone real, but it's a job
Best case is doing intern shit and go on the doctor path
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Is it worth the effort to date a non-otaku?
She's really nice, but she likes sitcoms and going outside. Who do I do?
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>>17760646
You mean date a regular person, yes, that's what regular people do.
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>>17760650
Sounds risky.
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>>17760749
It just means you will have to step out of your comfort zone and honestly you will need that. Hence why dating your opposites is a thing because you will be exposed to new ideas, hobbies and people.
If this doesn't intrigue you then don't waste the poor girl's time and break it off now. Keep searching for this mythical otaku girl who has a 8/10 body, gives great sex, knows about anime and likes to be an indoor kind of person.
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>Part 1/2
I'm a cheater. I've been in my current, first real relationship for a bit over 1.5 years now. I've always been very unsure about us and don't see us being together forever because there are so many problems and we have considered breaking up numerous times. However, at the same time I share the most happy moments of my life with her and she makes me feel complete. I'm only 18, and when I got to meet her I had barely ascended robot phase, so I had little earlier experience with women.
For some reason, while in our relationship I've never quit being flirty with girls. I've realised that most of the time I dont even like them or feel attracted to them, its just the psychological game and the validation I get from them liking me. About a few weeks in, I made my first mistake. Followed by about 8 more girls over the course of months. About 8 months ago I quit it because I was riddled with guilt. I never got over it, so 2 months ago I finally decided to tell her, my mindset on all or nothing. Obviously she was very hurt and it took a while to regain her trust and hope. I let her a clear choose whether we should continue, and she wanted to stay with me because she could understand the argument that I did it because I thought we would breakup anyway and that I didn't love her yet, unlike I did now. I believed this aswell.
However, this friday I went to an event by myself in a city 100km from our hometown. A girl on molly who was cute, (didnt really feel attracted to her) expressed interest and for some reason I went with it. Again. Beforehand me consciously realising I will regret it badly tomorrow didnt help me. I dont make my own decisions, Its like I do fucked up shit on auto pilot.
>Part 1/2
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>Part 2/2
I know this is all fueled by deep insecurities.. what do I do now? My girl is 100% loyal and doesn't deserve this. I can't deal with the guilt. I can't do this to her. I can't hurt her again.
My cheating has given me trust and anger issues, all riddled by guilt. Expressing irrational anger to her and not trusting her intentions related to other guys even tho I can rationally say shes super trustworthy.
Should I just leave her and not say anything? How do I overcome the guilt and insecurity and fix myself?
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>>17760622
>she
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>>17760622
If you can do months with that sort of relationship you give me hope lad
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I am a straight white male looking to learn new languages.
What would be the easiest and/or must useful languages to learn?
I have traveled through many European countries on interrail.
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>>17760580
>tier 1
german
>tier 2
romance
>tier 3
slavic
>tier 4
arabic, east asian
>dante must die tier
mandarin, icelandic
Czech our the sticky on >>>/int/
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>>17760580
>I am a straight white male looking to learn new languages.
Why don't you fuck off to the other boards on here? You'd be welcome on /pol/, Not here.
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Spanish is probably easiest, Mandarin the most useful if you ever get into serious business. Arabic is useful for the military given where they operate now. Russian and German are useful because both are relatively powerful / relevant countries. Then again, so is France. These three are obviously way easier than Arabic/Mandarin.
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Is it dickish if i look at a message and then just leave it in most cases and choose another time to reply to it?
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>>17760568
so ur one of those faggots huh. no wonder nobody replied to your thread, how's it feel cocksucker?
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Yes. You're selfish.
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>>17760568
sage this thread. go suck dick op.
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Helping a friend get on their feet. 2016-11-14 03:17:58 Post No.17760551
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Helping a friend get on their feet.
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Hey I'm basically looking for help in finding some kind of job or way of life for someone with no job, no car or transportation, they have bad back problems which cause stress when walking short distances, sitting in one position for a short period of time and standing for too long. This person is 21, not much work experience at all and basically is alone with no support. Any ideas?
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The only thing she really has going for her is a place to say
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>>17760551
telemarketing
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She has no skills, no experience, and can't stand, sit, or walk.
Disability. There is literally no work for someone that can do absolutely nothing.
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My gf just said "do you think we could still be friends if we break up?" What the hell
What should i do? I would survive if she broke up with me but i wouldnt be too happy abd i suck at getting girl friends...
What do you think this means? Will she break up with me????
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And*
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it means you already know your over it. So get over it.
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It's over, OP. Don't bother. She has made up her mind.
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I recently met a woman who seems to check all the boxes on my list. She's cute, she's really smart, has a good job, she's fucking hilarious, amazing cook, shares a lot of common interests and we talk for hours about them, and even though we don't agree on some points, she doesn't get annoyed by my point of view. Hell, she even lives two hours away and I have no problems going to see her and she has no problems travelling to see me.
There's only one issue: I don't find her body to be sexually appealing.
My question is this: How do I push through the one issue I have with her and progress to a full relationship, considering she's already expressed interest in having a relationship.
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>>17760535
how can she be cute, but not sexually appealing?
I am confuse
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>>17760539
I am confused too. Either he is saying "cute" in some bullshit "kawaii personality" sense or "I am in love with a fat bitch." Needs to clarify to get advice.
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>>17760539
Cute face and personality, but unfortunately a bit overweight so my libido just dies.
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Fucked up 1st date, want 2nd chance
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tl;dr:
>met girl at house party fri night
>clicked
>we wanted to hang but her friend was too tired
>we meet up sat aftenoon
>i mc fuck up and push too hard for sex, never go against her will but in hinsight I definitely was too pushy
>contact has broken down, even though she seemed to be happy, having a good time, offered me pot on the way out, kissed me, etc
I really feel bad, I really like her, I was just exceptionally horny that day and I feel bad and I wanna keep seeing her
I know exactly where she lives because gps + memory, if there's still no contact come tuesday afternoon, should I go over there and try to put my head on the chopping block and apologize?
If she isn't there than say it to one of her friends and ask them to tell her for me
If no one is home keep trying once a day until eventually someone will be
Again I have to emphasize this, I legit do feel bad
I really do like her
Also I know there have been people in the past who fucked up 1st dates and got 2nd chances, that's actually the story behind my parents, albeit it he just didn't show up for the 1st date
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>>17760516
dont go to her house, that'd be really fucking creepy
you've only gone on one date with her, you aren't in a relationship or anything yet
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>>17760548
Well she gave me her address and we hung in her room
I mean fuck what do I have to lose? She doesn't know anyone that I know, I really like her and I think she is one of those girls who is actually nice and shit, I was just a prick
I feel like, if I give it time (tuesday), then enough time will have passed where it doesn't seem crazy, but at the same time she hasn't forgotten about me
If I show up and am 100% honest and sorry, why wouldn't she?
Its one thing to say "sorry" via text message, but when she sees it in my face and when she sees I actually cared enough to come say it in person which on its own is pretty ballsy, unless I just absolutely 10000 % fucked up so hard that its just unforgiveable I don't see why she wouldn't at least give me a cautious 2nd chance
She clearly liked me enough to do all the shit she did with me to begin with, so I imagine it hurts her too
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>>17760564
I think you'll come off as creepy if you show up at her house unannounced
YOU ONLY WENT ON ONE DATE
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So I just started using tinder and I've been talking to this guy for two days now. He's very polite and we both enjoy talking to each other (I told him this myself and he admitted it too)
Should I keep messaging him every day or every other day? I don't want to seem too clingy but at the same time I still want to get to know him more.
I've never had a relationship with anyone before and I was wondering when I should meet with him in person. How long do you guys usually wait until you go on your first date?
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you can ask to meet up now, 2 days is plenty enough time.
>Should I keep messaging him every day or every other day? I don't want to seem too clingy but at the same time I still want to get to know him more.
just ask him irl once you set a date
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>>17760549
do you think a trip to a skating rink would be too much for a first date? Or should we plan like a coffee date? Because I'm worried that i'm going to flounder if we're just sitting in one spot I guess. What have you done for a first date?
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those two are fine
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Is it normal to think of suicide when intoxicated?
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no
get some help
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>>17760451
I've just accepted that my life is shit. There are some people with less shit lives and some people with more shit lives.
I used to think I'd kill myself one day. The only thing stopping me is that all of my brothers literally said the same thing and it would be sad if all my mother's sons killed themselves.
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>>17760477
what's wrong with your life? feel free to dump the dumpster here. it's anonymity rights after all
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How do you tell your boss that you're not competent enough to do the work? Basically I've been stalling on a project for a week now because I don't really know how to do it, but at some point I'm going to have to show something and I have no idea what I'm going to do. Should I just say that I'm not the right person for this job and quit right now? My boss happens to be the owner of the company and I'm pretty much the only employee doing this kind of work right now.
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> I'm pretty much the only employee doing this kind of work right now.
Then just fucking try and do it.
The fact you just stalled for a week instead of trying and saying "Dude I have no idea what I am doing" is already really fucking damning, because now you can't show him WHY you're not the right person to do that work by showing him what you've attempted.
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Try really hard for a couple days, fail, then tell him.
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>>17760423
But I think that in any case, not being able to do this just proves the fact that I'm incompetent at this job, so there isn't any scenario where I end up keeping my job.
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My dad walked in on my girlfriend and I. He mostly saw her ass and she is incredibly embarembarrassed. We have been dating for years so they must have guessed it right? What do we do to get over it?
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A threesome
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>>17760282
Over not under
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>>17760262
Let her walk in on your mom pegging your dad
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ITT: Shitty vague advice that sounds like it'd be helpful
JUST BE YOURSELF
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HEY, YOU'RE STILL DOING BETTER THAN <homeless drug addict in third world country>
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>>17760253
Is a great fucking advice, although idiots tend to misunderstand it with being a lazy shit head. It obviously means being the BEST version of yourself and not trying to change to appease others, just for yourself.
>>17760279
Perspective is always good too. It's shit when it's aimed at actually depressed faggots but not to bad for everything else.
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>>17760253
There's nothing wrong with that. The problem lies with you. If you think it's bad advice, you're a shitty person and too retarded to know it.