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I am 23, graduated with a BA in political science three months ago, and have since been living unemployed/part time employed with one of my parents.

I want to get a real job but everything I've tried requires 2-3 years experience in the industry. How do I get a job? I don't want to live paycheck to paycheck forking over half of it every month to student loans/taxes.

I don't care what kind of work it is, so long as it pays well and they'll hire me.

Please help.
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Theres always hard labor. But they might pay weell but thats because no one likes hard labor and there is damaging tour body as well
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>>17763624
Really depends on where you live. If you live in a city where there's lots of government work and lots of companies that want people who have the wider skills that BAs teach you, then you're in better luck than if you live in the middle of nowhere
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>>17763637
I live in a major city, but again, all the jobs I've looked into are either pyramid scheme-type scams or require 2-3 years experience already.

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Why is it a red flag when a woman has a lot of male friends, or vice versa?
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>>17763598
please respond senpai
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>>17763598
well i'm a grill so i can tell you why that's a redflag for women....

it means she
>constantly needs male validation/attention
>can't get along with people in general, and can only befriend thirsty men who just barely tolerates her for the miniscule chance of getting laid
>they are her back up plans, plan A, B, C, D...
>she sleeps with them or borderline cheats with them and she'll use them to make you jealous/insecure but will defend her position that they were her "long time friends" before you came along
>she WILL cheat on you with one of them, or they will try their very hardest to make her cheat
>if these males are thirsty, they will also try to break you up with her and/or make your life hell as long as you are with her
>or she's so unattractive/unfeminine that she's quite literally "one of the guys", so you'll be basically dating a dude with a vagina which isn't so bad if you're into that. off chance she might be a lesbian though.

met plenty of girls like this in my life time... they're just bad news. i'm assuming men with lots of girl friends are kind of similar though more rare...

i can only recall those type of guys that girls consider as their "gay" best friend being in that instance. the guy is usually super unattractive; they keep him around because he's hilarious and ok with being the butt of the joke. basically taking place of the token "ugly girl" or if he really lost his manhood, the token "gay but not really" guy of the group. weird how that works.
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Because people are insure in themselves and see others as threats. Some are just attention seeking sluts, but that nit always the case.

Trying to hangout with this girl I hangout with about once a week. We play games, watch tv, talk, whatever but recently this happened

Wednesday> We hangout watch south park, play videos games and watch tv until like 2am

Thursday > Ask if she wants to hangout friday she said maybe since she might have plans but they aren't confirmed yet

>Saturday ask if she wants to hangout that night and she said no since she was all socialized out from friday

>Sunday: asks if shes free monday she said idk

>Monday: Ask if she decided if she wanted to hangout and she said she has a bad headache

Idk /adv/ I feel really stupid and pathetic that I keep asking and just get shut down over and over.
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>>17763556
> she said she has a bad headache
you should tell her to get a panadol for the headache lol
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>>17763568
I don't get the joke...
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Give her some space and try again. Last thing any girl wants is a needy dude.

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Do anime level girls exist in meatspace? I can put in effort if there's a payoff.
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>>17763552
What do you mean by animé tier girls?
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>>17763559
I'm assuming he means women who dress in kinky outfits for fun/cosplay, do crazy things, and maintain some degree of loyalty to their men.
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>>17763552
No.
The real world is really not worth putting in any effort at all.
People are terrible, females especially so. 2D will always be superior.

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In college Sociology course... Need some responses.
If someone just came up to you and untied your shoe, what would you do?
Real responses if you can, but wouldnt mind a laugh or two.
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kick em
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>>17763512
I would probably think they were my friend now, but actually is not fren ;-;
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Call them a faggot and kick them in the face.

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I've been going on dates with this girl and it's going really well. We've gotten to second base but haven't really tried to go farther. We went to see doctor strange the other day and during the movie we were pretty cudddly and I had my arm around her. When we would move around and change lositions or whatever she would sometimes hold my hand and put it in between her thighs and squeeze them together. Sometimes she put our hands really close to her vagina when she was squeezing her thighs together.

Was she trying to get me to make some sort of move? Was I just being daft and not realizing she was sending me some sort of sign or was it just comfortable for her.

I felt like it wasn't anything, but I could be wrong
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>>17763467
>Was she trying to get me to make some sort of move?

Yes she wanted you to fuck around with her.
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>>17763471
In the theater?
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>>17763601
no balls

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Hello everyone, ok so i have been datingmy girlfriend for about 7 months now its been all good till yesterday when i used her pc, i found old porn of herself and her ex at the time. Seeing it was horrible i told her about it and she told me the story behind it but it still makes me uncomfortable and im not sure if i can touch her anymore... ok so heres my question am i overthinking it? Should i end the relationship? Will i get over it and look at her the same way as i did?
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Bump for help
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>am i overthinking it?
no
>Should i end the relationship?
yes
>Will i get over it and look at her the same way as i did?
yes

Frankly you could make this work if you loved her. But if that happened to me i would never be able to get it out of my head.

Also she still had the porn so that is red flag enough for me to drop her.
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>>17763450
id have left her on the spot
respect yourself, anon. she obviously lacks respect for you, so someone has to do it.

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>have group therapy in school for substance abuse
>myself, three other girls and two counselors
>all three girls knew each other before i got there so i may not know some things about them
>one girl experiences sexual assault
>i think her step dad had something to do with it
>he calls her and apologizes and says he is in town and if they want to go fishing
>tell her not to do it because he's probably full of shit but you can thank him for the apology
>everyone else tells her to do it and maybe you can rekindle your relationship
>next week she's crying about he "acted inappropriate"

I'm upset because I thought my advice was a no brainer and I can't believe two professionals advised her on going was a good idea. I want to just leave the group because I don't think I can trust their judgement
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>>17763446
My advice is to post this on your blog next time.
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>>17763446
You are right!
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>women's studies major

Funniest thing I read all week.

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In which subject I should major if I want to avoid an overflow of indian/asian people?
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>>17763388
Technical engineering. Plumbing, on the ground engineering stuff. Indian and Asian tend to gun for high status degrees.
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>>17763388
Anything that isn't STEM. But then again, I don't know why you'd want that.

Or go into trades.
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None. You'll never escape the Asian invasion

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Long story short, he does not like the fact we're dating. He thinks I'm no good for her despite him being.

>white trash
>going on two years of unemployment
>a recovering alcoholic who's now a pill head

I'm no shining star myself I work a dead end job as a mechanic and I'm prone to anger but I'm getting better at controlling myself. So we were over her mom's place (he sleeps on the couch) for Sunday dinner. He would not stop making little snide remarks about me, and then he got heated when I started busting his balls.

Later that night I was out smoking a cigarette, he comes out to purely start shit, he got in my face, I tried to push him away with my hand and he smacks it away and we ended up on the ground throwing pillow punches , her family broke up our fight. No blood or nothing like that.

Now she tells me her family is essentially taking his side, and I can tell it's really bothered her. Should I dump her and just get myself out of this situation or trying to confide in her. I really like this girl and it's been two great years dating her.
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life is unfair, he's to blame, he's the one that's living a miserable life and taking it out on others.
As for the other thing... Idk man, bitches ain't shit, but... you do whatever you feel is better.
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You should've stomped his shit OP. I say stay with your girl through. Shit happens. He might come around a few years from now and apologize.
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Dump her immediately. Situations like these can only get worse if you stay with her. You're lucky they did not call the police.

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Was at a friends get together and the topic of online dating came up and why I wasn't doing it, responded with "all these bullshit sites are for desperates, divorcees and who don't want to put forth the effort of meeting people in real life. it's like looking for a job, finding something you might like and hoping your resume passes the screening because she thinks she's entitled to something. fuck that nonsense".

The shit looks I got because apparently a few of the couples listening met their significant others via online dating/apps.

Another girl I know is always saying how perfect her now boyfriend is while I interject; if he's so perfect then they the hell did his first marriage fail within a couple years?! Oh but it was his ex wife! So he makes bad life decisions and couldn't see the person he married was a bitch?

Was I just giving my opinion too freely or what?
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Sounds like you've got a bad case of being an idiot.
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>>17763264
>it's like looking for a job, finding something you might like and hoping your resume passes the screening because she thinks she's entitled to something.
How is it any different from normal dating?

>if he's so perfect then they the hell did his first marriage fail within a couple years?!
Most likely she meant "perfect for her".

>Was I just giving my opinion too freely or what?
Your opinion is built on very limited understanding, and in cases like this it's better to keep it for yourself.
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Wow you're embarrassing lol

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IS IT TRUE THAT WHOLE OATS CAN CAUSE TOOTH DECAY??? Or whole grain, I have cavities and I would like to just.... not have them continue to become worse cavities. What's foods other than the obvious ( like sodas, sugars etc ) should I be avoiding?
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Everything can cause dental caries.

Brush your damn teeth.
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>>17763105
Wrong. As long as you have a low sugar diet you should just be able to scrape of plaque build up with a tissue.

>>17762997
Avoid anything high in sugar. Some oats have added sugars or dried fruits which a horribly bad for your teeth. Avoid things like sunflower seeds. Stick mostly to fresh produce and whats in season and you'll be fine.
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>>17763105
>>17763311
okay so what about genetics, what do you think about that having to do with teeth health???

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big enough to kill myself if i drove it through my neck? or what place on my body would be most effective in killing myself? thanks in advance.
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>>17762985
why not go ballz to the wallz?

Like, shit you have an amazing opportunity infront of you.

If you're going to kill yourself, you might aswell first ask.. If you'd do the same if you had millions of dollars.

And, then if you think you might change your mind with that kind of money, you should immediately rob a bank with that knife, and see if you can get that money.

And, if you can't, you get shot by security and cops and you're right where you wanted to be anyway
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>>17762985
Left armpit would probably be the best. Wrists work too, but the veins are smaller so it'll take longer. Between the shoulder blades and slightly to the left of the spine is the absolute fastest, but good luck doing that yourself.
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>>17762993
this anon had an idea in his head but forgot to type it out

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>me and friend at chicago skatepark
>leave bags on ledge
>4 hoodlums run off with bags
>frind sees and chases them down
>somehow got bags back minus my iphone and $70
>he points me to them
>unaware they stole from my bag i follow them
>they hop on train
>i get on with them
>get off on next stop to follow them
>followed wrong guys, saw the right guys still on train
>i run out of station, on phone with cops, tell them to stop train at next station
>find cops in the street, tell them some kids robbed me and describe them
>we go to the station, cops wouldn't let me go down to the train and identify them
>cops talk to the guys
>come back up and say they were like 30 years old and let them go
>took "kids" literally
>didn't check their i.d.'s
>basically have a police report and nothing to go on now
>what do?
>i see these guys at the skatepark selling weed all the time
>theyre from south chicago probably have guns
or knives
>should i call the cops on them next time i see them?
>or get a bunch of homies to beat the shit out of them with our boards
> or something else?
>im losing so much sleep over this, im tired of letting things go in life and letting people walk all over me, i really need to do something about this, not just to get my shit back but to finally stand up for myself
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>>17762874
What?
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>>17762895
basically got stuff stolen, cops let the thieves go by accident without checking their ID's. I know who did it but i don't know their names, i see them at the skatepark frequently though. should i call the cops on the next time i see them or take care of it myself?
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>>17762916
What in the world does 'take care of it myself' mean?

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Im only 18(turning 19 in a week) and i drink heavily every other night, every weekend guranteed. I would drink every night but i dont have a way to get that much alcohol on a regular basis. I fear what will happen when i turn 21 and can do it all the time freely. My parents dont know cause i do it at night when they are in their bedrooms. What do i do? I have tried stopping i just cant.
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>>17762845
>What do i do?
Come clean to your parents, for starters.
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>>17762849
Nope that would lead to them kicking me out or sending me off to therapy or something
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>>17762861
Then stay an alcoholic and drink yourself to an early death. It's up to you

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