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>>17760987
Go to church, faggot

>>17761014
..is this
..is this legitimate advice?
are church girls into daddy play more than pagan girls?

Please Help

Japan doesn't have prostitution. You're thinking of South Korea.

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>>17760983
>Japan doesn't have prostitution.

lel. The shit I read on this website...

>>17761611
>prostitution
>camgirls

Not the same thing, you know?

See a doctor you jackass.

Sounds pretty normal desu. If she keeps bleeding or some shit be worried. If she's real freaked out she can go to the doctor I guess.

>>17760967
how was anal brah?

Shameless self bump

I think you've been too linient with her and now she thinks she can get away with anything, meaning now she thinks she's right all the time, get me? That's just what I think

>>17760892
Yeah that's my concern...but she gets really defensive and it's annoying and never productive to confront her without evidence so she cant deny it but that means doing something that makes me look crazy just to prove a point and I'm kinda tired of that option set...I'm just not sure if it's worth everything else because like she is a genuinely cool and attractive girl I'm just having trouble weighing these problems in the grand scheme

>>17760874
You'll have to accept your reality, man. It's the only way you can change it. If you hate on most people, you are just resentful because of a situation you have yet to get over. Go to therapy, most people do and believe me it's worth it.

>>17760908
Tried therapy, it's more of a way to vent than to actually deal with your issues, so it's never helped me much and in a few cases, hardened my views.

>I stopped socializing pretty well altogether due to my deep hatred for all people (read: /pol/ack) and my unrealistic standards for them.
Well that's the problem. Contrary to what /pol/ says, most people aren't 10/10 white, blonde, blue eyed Aryans. In society, you sometimes have to interact with gays and blacks and Jews and other non-whites. And most of them are actually decent people...maybe you should leave your predetermined stereotypes back on /pol/ and Stormfront...you might end up happier.

>>17760855
Because she's a poser.
Seriously though, some girls are like that. Most, even.

>>17760872
tfw no girl to meme with

>>17760879
I had the perfect girl to meme with. Tinder date. One night. A beautiful, wonderful, passionate night of talking for hours finally ending in amazing sex.
Come to find out she was cheating on her boyfriend with me. I caught feelings, hard. Just end my suffering.

Of course, why wouldn't you?

Yes. If they're clean and don't smell, keep re-using them until they're not clean or do smell.

yeah
now sauce me your image OP

>>17760835
Elect to have the socket sutured. Dry sockets suck.

They are going to give you an opiate painkiller, piggyback it with like 600 mgs of ibuprofen. Its gonna hurt for a few days.

I had 4 wisdom teeth and a front tooth removed a while back. Here's my experience.

I laid down in a bed-like chair. They hooked some things up to my chest to monitor my heart beat, and I could hear it too. They actually started strapping me down. Through all of that I started to get really nervous and I could hear my heart beat increasing. I knew I was going to be given some drugs to pass out VERY soon. I mean, they were fucking strapping me down. But it was expected, they can't have you flailing around while you're under. You've probably received needles in your life, so it wouldn't do much for me to tell you the needle didn't hurt at all. I could feel the surgeon wipe off the area on my arm and the needle, which felt like a little poke. Although I couldn't see what he was doing because my head was faced up.
Then, I waited. I wasn't sure how long it'd take for the drugs that were coming from the needle to knock me out. Next thing I know I'm on my couch. It took me a moment to remember everything and get my balance again, but I had gauze pads in my mouth and there was blood on the pillow from all of it. I very very faintly remember stumbling to the car with a lady helping me. It was like a distant dream. My mouth didn't exactly hurt, but it did after a little bit. Reality just had to kick in.

After that it was all sleeping/laying/sitting on the couch and taking my pills.

My first bit of advice would be to TAKE THE PILLS YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO
I took some pills for the pain, but didn't take the ones that relieved nausea (I didn't feel nauseated...). Next thing you know I'm rushing to the bathroom to puke. I puked up a bunch of blood from my mouth and it got in my nose. My gauze pads came out too. It was so fucking disgusting.

My other advice, It's scary, I know, but it's quick. The drugs knock you out so fast, you don't even remember dozing out. You immediately wake up wherever at home.

I hope this helps :)

>>17760832
>I have no fucking interest in being friends
Just take out the "fucking" and there's your answer.

Blunt and straight to the point is the best bet in this situation. No need to beat around the bush.

"Sure"
"Okay"
"Right"
Or no response at all. All very polite and succinct.

say yes and then ghost

>>17760830
yeah it doesnt fucking matter
if you like being a shut in then be a shut in

>>17761000
I don't really. I'd rather not be a shut-in. It's just a tendency, and a cycle I really want to break.

>Just have to muster up the courage to follow through

You gave yourself the only advice needed. No one here has a magic wand that will make your balls drop. You have to step outside your comfort zone yourself. Either do that (remind yourself of how great your social life can be to motivate yourself) or stay in your comfort zone and don't make any friends...the choice is yours. Good luck.

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help plox

Honestly I don't think. All the survey jobs don't pay that much and require way too much time to make anything have a shit.

Your best bet is work remotely within you company or find a job that allows you to work from home.

Another totally different option is keep working at your place and in the mean time find a job that is closer to your home.

>14/h entry level position from home with no experience
does not exist.

She obviously has anxiety over it, tell her she is a great kisser and to chill out and that you will take the lead. How old are you two?

>>17760762
She's 18, I'm 20

I found out what the problem was. Apparently something traumatised her in the past. I want to help her, how would I go about doing this?

Sounds like you need to stop stressing about how to be happy and just enjoy life.

>>17760740
>>17760803

>>17760740
sometimes that shit happens to me and i cant get the fucking happines
>doujin
>fap
>think about god
>fap
>sleep
>find new musics to listen while going to school
>turn off all lights in home than sit middle of room
>yoga in bath

just do it what the fuck u want and dont try every piece of shit u find

>>17760726

When we moved into the house I bought carpets, furniture, all sorts of things and I had been living there for about 3 months before she dropped this on me. I hung around living with her for about 3 weeks while I weighed up my options hoping she would change her mind, and decided to move back in with my mother and sister. All through this I'm asking the ex to explain why she isn't happy, what could I do, is there someone else, but she never gave me a real answer. She said that she needed her space, maybe in a few months without me she would be able to make sense of it.

I have been out of the house about 2 months now, I didn't feel a great deal of emotion about losing her, but I deeply miss the kids, I have them when I can but they can't stay overnight at my mothers house, and I work long hours so fitting them in can be difficult. I also miss family life, and the companionship you gain with someone you've known for 8 years, which she seemed to switch off like a tap.

I blocked her on social media, when I saw her to exchange the kids I'd say very little to her, I couldn't look her in the eye. At those times I felt pretty bad but I could ignore to a point.

To be continued..

>>17760728

Now I've found out from somebody that my ex works with, that my ex has been seeing a guy from her work which she has known for years. This is a guy that she had told me before that he reminded her of me when we first got together, and actually said his name during sex once.. I was willing to put this to one side as we had been having certain bedroom fantasies which I'll leave for another time.

Now I struggle to believe that they spontaneously started dating after I was well out of the picture. I have asked her directly if she was cheating on me with him but she doesn't say yes or no. I had a minor argument with her regarding babysitting, because I was having to sit in her house one night a week until she got home from work, after I found out she was seeing this guy. I said I shouldn't have to be in that position because it's too difficult for me, why can't the new guy sit here all night while the kids are in bed.

She was very defensive about this telling me it was none of my business, telling me that it was the 'very early beginning' and he doesn't have anything to do with the kids. My response was that she's known him for years and he knew what he's getting into, but also that I shouldn't have to sit in the family home I was kicked out of while she is with someone else.

A week later I'm on Facebook and my exs sister took a selfie with my daughter at exs house and posted it, I notice in the background somebody sitting in a chair, my chair, at my desk (I'd bought this when we moved in, it was expensive but I have no room for it), using my computer monitor, to play a game on his PC. Oh it's the guy from her work. Seems pretty settled in for the 'very early beginning' of a relationship.

This has really sparked something in me and I'm losing sleep over it, feeling like I've been lied to for a long time.

>>17760734
Obviously I don't have all the facts, but you don't take your computer over to play games with headphones on at a girls house you've only been seeing a month. This combined with threats from her about me having to pay child maintenance (she could force me to pay 20% of my wages directly to her) has really got me angry and bitter.

I guess my question is, how do I deal with all of this. I wish I wish that I could have just cut her out of my life and not cared what she does, but with the children I can't just block her out. I've had my entire life taken away from me so suddenly, and I've been replaced so quickly.

She has been extremely cold and oddly bitter towards me the whole time also, she acts like the victim and like I have wronged her, she says things like I don't care about the children, which is always when she wants me to have them but I can't, she knows how busy I am. I have been incredibly amicable towards her considering the circumstances, 'if you can't say nothing nice say nothing at all'.

One thing that has cheered me up is that several members of her family are disgusted with her actions and genuinely feel bad for me, also I'm so glad we weren't married and I hadn't bought a house with her (I was saving up to do that). I don't really know what I'm asking for, I suppose any advice from people in similar situations, thanks.

tl;dr : kicked out of my home away from my kids, possibly cheated on with guy who appears to have moved in quite quickly.

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>>17760715

>>17760715
Do you really need to eat food or do you just like the taste?

>>17760739
>Honorable and culturally enriched OP asks a simple question
>Butthurt poster replies to question under the assumption that the OP was attempting to make an implication merely by asking said question
>Butthurt poster makes an absolute, utter fool of himself, because the OP was not doing so