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Would this make me sound like a douche 2016-07-20 04:23:37 Post No.17374571
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Would this make me sound like a douche
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Met this girl but she found someone else right before I asked her out. Not too bummed tho but she texts me saying that she feels bad about putting me in the friendzone. Would I look really bad saying something along the lines of if she has any friends looking for a relationship, she could get them to hmu?
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Let me put it this way: if a guy texted me that, I'd be all "sure" to avoid having to say no, but never follow through because fuck setting my friend up with a guy who thinks she's second-best. My friends deserve better than that.
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>>17374576
This is an eye-opening perspective, thank yuo
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>>17374571
this is how many of my friends met their bf/gf
>>17374576
How do you know you are the best? What if you genuinely have a friend looking for a relationship that would be better matched with that person?
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Hi /adv/. I just finished highschool and I work a minimum wage job that I do really just to satisfy my parents. I don't like my family or my town or the people in it, so I was thinking of joining the army. Not sure what I would do there, I just want to leave this place.
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You're too lazy for the military
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any thoughts about college
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Out of state college will be your best option, or a college in your state far away from home
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tips for saving money?
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don't buy what you don't need
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Not spending it?
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Cook your own food, make your own snacks. Buy in sales and even second hand.
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Questions about monogamy 2016-07-20 03:44:34 Post No.17374492
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Just trying to figure monogamy out, and I'm dumb so I don't quite get it. I've got a few questions for people who consider themselves valuing monogamy.
1- Do you want to be monogamous, or do you offer monogamy in exchange for the same? If your partner offered you monogamy but in no way expected it in return, would you be monogamous?
2- Do you transition from "getting to know eachother" to "being monogamous" at some point, or is it just expected that you're exclusive immediately?
3- Do you discuss the terms of your relationship with your partner? How do you set boundaries?
4- Do you only get involved with people with whom you intend to have a permanent relationship?
5- Do you place value on people with whom you're not in a relationship being monogamous in their own lives?
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Monogamous couples expect monogamy from the start. There is no negotiation because the boundaries are already obvious in American culture: don't fuck anyone other than your partner. No, plenty of people get into temporary monogamous relationships, call it a trial run for if long term would be desirable. No, monogamy itself isn't worthy of value judgment, I do however find polyamorous groupings to be generally of lower quality of character.
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On a cultural level, I grew up with monogamy and I place a lot of importance on it. I went through a period of my life where I wasn't looking for 'the one' and basically lived a polyamorous lifestyle. As time went on I began to hate it, and I'm strictly monogamous now.
1. I want to be monogamous, it's a lifestyle I lead.
2. I start relationships with the intention of sticking to it until I know it isnt working, so I'd say I start relationships monogamous.
3. My boundaries are simple: dont cheat on me.
4. Yes I generally tend to only get involved with monogamous people, because we fit eachothers lifestyle and there is a better chance of it working out.
5. I don't really place value on it. I only judge someone if the relationship isnt open and they are acting as if it is. It's not my place to judge other's lifestyle choices, no matter my own beliefs.
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1.yes
2. if im interested in a person then yes i would be monogamous for that one
3. simple : don't cheat, there won't be 2nd chance and just as a resolute i would never ever cheat on them either. if the relationship not working, just break up
4.pretty much
5.i don't really care that much, people have their own ways of living. just don't come to me and whine about it or tell me how i should live my life
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So my hypocritical piece of shit friend wants to hang out soon. He tries to play it off like i dont know his secret. I really dont want to hang out with him. What should i tell him? Pic unrelated
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Instead of being a passive aggressive bitch, maybe tell him the truth?
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>>17374481
also dont you see the irony in your post?
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>>17374481
wtf does this mean, dont be so vague u fukboi
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Do I have the right to be upset with my father? 2016-07-20 03:26:05 Post No.17374449
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Do I have the right to be upset with my father?
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I'll break down pretty much all my gripes.
He made me attend whatever church he wanted me to, at one point making me leave one church I was fairly connected to cold turkey to attend the church he just joined. On top of that, he volunteered me to play in the church band as well as co run sound, without telling me. And on top of that, he made me attend church and volunteer while sick. I recall one instance in specific being bent over a toilet in a church bathroom vomiting as my dad entered the bathroom and stood outside the door telling me I was on in six minutes.
He made me completely stop talking to my best friend of (at the time) about 7-8 years with no notice to my best friend (who recently lost his father), due to him being almost robbed (some kids at school came to his doorstep attempting to steal some designer clothes he had, and I happened to be there when police were called). About 2 years later my friend lost his mother to breast cancer, leaving him at 17 living alone with his brother. Luckily I kept in touch secretly, but my dad, despite knowing of his situation, was actively against being on contact with him, because he "attracts trouble".
I'm currently a closet atheist, as well as a closet homosexual, living with my parents still. I work, and plan to move out soon, but currently I still go to church every Sunday, and am active in the band.
I recently had two teenage girls at our church (one 17, the other 18, and I'm turning 19 early September, for context) try to pretty much spark a relationship with me. One of them, as a way of being less subtle, told me my dad told them I needed a girlfriend. After asking the other girl I friendzoned if he did the same to her, she said yes.
I could probably think of something else, but at that point it would be me just being melodramatic. Any opinions?
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why not? does it really matter if you have 'the right' to be upset?
you are upset.
if you move to socal though hit me up anon
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I mean just because I'm upset doesn't mean he's in any wrong. I'm on here more or less to validate my being upset. If someone responds me giving me a good enough reason to not be upset, then I probably won't be. I hate drama, so I'd rather not be mad.
And sorry, I live nowhere near socal, and I'm broke as hell. Lol.
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>>if someone responds me giving me good enough reason not to be upset, then i probably won't be.
thats a stone cold lie, and you know it. you would disregard and argue the point and continue to feel the way you do. and im not saying you shouldnt or that its a bad thing. it just comes back to my point:
does it matter?
it doesnt. no matter what you're going to feel upset with your dad cuz no matter how you rationalize it, it upsets you. you could rationalize six ways til sunday saying 'well thats the law, there's literally nothing wrong with what hes doing, morally or legally'. but that doesn't make the nigger feel any better about his master whipping him to go get cotton.
you're going to be upset no matter what cuz you feel slighted by him.
>BUT MUH VALIDATION
then yes, i agree, you do have 'the right' to be mad.
>i hate drama, so id rather not be mad
thats not what drama is, and being mad or upset with someone doesnt have to elad to drama. im upset with my father cuz he left when i was 9 and told me he had no choice (also a stone cold lie). but just cuz im upset doesnt mean its drama.
>no where near socal
>tfw no bf to be in the closet with
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So folks i'm in pretty good health
and suddenly I've woken up with dizziness and like a pressure feeling on the front of my head
if i move the top of my face muscles it hurts a lot also
i don't feel sick or have lost appetite
it won't go away either i've had it for 3 days now
i've taken some tylenol and that helps the pain a bit but the dizziness is still there
anyone have an idea of whats the problem?
thanks.
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>>17374350
u have cancer,
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does it last the entire day?
do you drink or do any drugs?
sexually active?
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go talk to a doctor and get a brain scan.
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Is university worth going? 2016-07-20 02:47:47 Post No.17374338
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Is university worth going?
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Is uni worth going?
I'm opening the thread for career advice and uni experience and advice.
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how much $$$ u paying for it ?
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A STEM degree is worth it. Especially engineering. Employers will look at the degree but most of all what they're looking for is your ability to make it.
However, there's a lot of money in tradeskills especially when you move on to opening your own business and have people work for you.
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>>17374338
We cant help you if you dont know what YOU want to do. What do you want us to list all the possible choices?
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Since apparently you're trolling today maybe you should get in here. you know who you are
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wat up sempai
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>>17374332
How are you still this salty? That thread was days ago. You're still a faggot btw.
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>>17374344
u dont know my life anymore sempai, the shit i have had to go through since last night has been hella sheegy.
im just peppered all over my johns today, u no it u c it u do it 2 it til we thru it ;)
but no idk what ur callin me a fag about
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I am a successful retail middle manager getting ready to earn a Regional Vice President position. My wife is originally from another country and she has contacts there as a result. Her nephew recently approached her and asked if we'd like to work with the largest coffee supplier in that country as a middle man to sell their coffee they'd export to the U.S. I'd sell it, get paid, and then pay the supplier their cut. While I am very experienced and good at sales, I know nothing about the logistics, USDA laws, or general business of coffee wholesale. It sounds like something I could do on the side and I have been waiting for something I could do to set out on my own. I am setting up a call with the owner of the business, but I am at a disadvantage because I know nothing about the business. Any advice?
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>>17374312
>successful
>retail
Don't kid yourself.
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>>17374334
I make over six figures and about to make even more so I consider that successful. You are welcome to a differing interpretation. That said, you didn't offer any worthwhile advice.
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If you honestly can't figure out what you need to do between now and your business call on your own then you success up until this point has been due to a fluke and will be leaving you shortly
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So my girlfriend had 1 positive pregnancy test and 2 negatives, could it just be a false positive? what do you think
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Some sides notes
Her period is late as hell but she recently got off a pill that regulates her period and she had ovary cancer and her ovaries are fucked beyond belief. she should barely be able to have kids but that positive is there, and she did some stupid home made preg test that i don't trust
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most likely a chemical pregnancy.
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>>17374297
take three more and see what happens. or better yet just go to the doctors and get a real pregnancy test.
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My old best friend fucked around with my ex when we were together. Then some of my friends who knew us since long ago, started saying he was dating this other chick, Sarah (who he was supposed to have been talking to but nothing serious at all), and pretty much they don't want me to find out this while laughing at me behind my back. I stopped talking to her got tired of lies. But then a while ago, he acted apologetic and wanted to be my friend. Told me about Sarah. Until one day outta nowhere he tries to fight me. We didn't talk since. But now he is back, apologetic, and still talks about Sarah. He talks to my ex but makes it seem normal. Like he is sure I don't know what's going on. Then I stopped talking to those friends because they turned out to be dicks. And he talks about them like if he doesn't like them. But I think it's not true and they helped him. Pic unrelated.
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tell that cunt to go fuck himself, bye, bye
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>>17374296
Get them out of your life.
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Beat that niggas ass.
Painting a room for the very first time. I tried cutting in, but the results were awful. Got paint all over the trim. If I'm going to be sanding and painting the trim after this, does it really matter? Will the trim paint cover it or have I fucked up?
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I don't know, your painting might be a success: looks like a sandy beach, and a lawn-chair by the ocean.
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ur supposed to use tape over the trim.
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>>17374306
I'm pretty sure that you are supposed to tape the walls when painting the trim, not the other way around. Doing both would be incredibly tedious.
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My ex dumped me for "reason" but he still want to be friend with me and i'm ok with that, but we haven't talk to each other for month now. he either don't want to make it awkward or already forgot about me.
i kinda want to talk to him again so my question is how to talk to your ex without making it awkward? should i just forget about him and move on?
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its been a month he's gone and you need to move on. Missing him from time to time is normal but it's over
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>"reason"
what did you do?
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oh man the feels I wanted to talk to my ex again.
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Why don't I find more varied things enjoyable? 2016-07-20 02:28:26 Post No.17374271
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Why don't I find more varied things enjoyable?
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I think there is something wrong with me. Only a few things ever make me happy. Sitting and playing video games all day when I am not at work and reading about rocks and metals.
Thats it. Thats my fucking life. How do I change this? I am in my late 20's and looking back, I have done nothing. The reason is because I just don't find things like traveling enjoyable.
Something is wrong with me. I feel terrible thinking about this. Why don't I get the same enjoyment from like traveling or the thought of raising kids? Kids actually repulse me and I hate dealing with them and being around them.
How the fuck did I get like this? Why am I so basic? What the hell does it mean to live life? Am I living? I don't possess that desire to like see new things or do new stuff.
Like the other day a friend of mine asked me to go camping with them. I said no. Camping to me is stupid and serves no purpose. I didn't say that obviously but that is how I feel. WHY DO i FEEL LIKE THIS!?
Help me understand.
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It's rooted in a strong sense of identity and unwillingness to change.
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Elaborate more? Not OP but I have the same problem
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>>17374281
yeah, what does that even mean? I don't mind change.. but my brain finds so much shit like "irrelevant" or pointless.