I don't normally come here, so forgive me if I don't know the culture here.
last month I meet a really nice girl on tinder she's a 7/10 to me and I've been told by /soc/ I'm a 6-7/10 anyways initially started by telling each other jokes and then told about other things until I asked her out for a dinner date. We meet up in Cambridge (she's going to uni there for medical) she showed me around, had Italian then walked around some more showing me all that Cambridge has to offer, all the while holding hands,until I had to leave. hugged, she kissed me on the cheek, I then forced a kiss on her but she rolled with it. The next day I left back home to the states for vacation and we were chatting though messenger but it's seeming like she lost interest... I really felt like something cold come from this but I'm honestly losing hope.
I'm pretty thirsty considering I haven't had a gf since 4 years ago, but I think i handled everything pretty well. I don't want to send many messages so I don't end up looking like a creep but I really want too talk with her, I land back in the UK on Sunday and I'm going to ask her for a second date and hope it all goes well.
What do y'all think I should do or think? I'm honestly just getting out of depression by the idea of being with someone and don't want to go back to that...
Oh and I had better luck with her over SMS than FB messenger
>>17374266
ur over thinking this, just hit her up when u get bak senpai
Can I see the messages?
>>17374287
over facebook or sms?
facebook is where i fell it when down hill
I turned off my feelings to get over a girl and now I can't figure out how to turn them back on. What do?
>I turned off my feelings
that's not a thing.
>>17374233
Are you 12?
there's a feelings on button deep in Uranus.
Is it bad to still like a girl after she rejects you for another man?
What do you do if you ever cross paths again?
you nope the fuc outa der mang
>>17374213
Her rejection may be an end to the prospect of a relationship but that doesn't erase the things about her that you were attracted to in the first place.
Accept it. Internalize it. Move past it. Don't take it personally. There's no reason you can't be cordial and friendly with her should you ever see her again.
>>17374213
burn that bridge
What should one feed somebody who can't stomach anything?
The severity is to the extent of the individual struggling to stomach water at times.
Before you go on about going to a doctor, that's all we've been doing the past month and a half that this has been an issue. The individual is essentially subsisting off of infrequent IVs whenever their condition gets to the point of being potentially life threatening. Morphine, PPIs, Antacids... Nothing has made a difference.
Is there anything I should try? I'd read about rice tea, is that a thing?I just want to try to shove nutrients into this person any way I can. The healthcare system is as slow as always, and if things go as projected, they can look forward to being stuck in this state for another 3 months.
I'm not a doctor. I don't know what to do or try. What should I do?
Bump.
Would suppositories be an option?
Make some bone broth. It's incredibly healthy and easy to make.
Buy 5 pounds of frozen, unsalted chicken wings, thaw them out, roast them in the oven at 450° until golden brown on a baking sheet, chop up onions celery and carrots into evenly sized chunks (~1 inch all around). It doesn't need to be too precise.
put all of those together in a big pot, then cover them with cold water, enough to submerge them. Once your pot is full of the water, chicken and vegetables put the pot on the stove cover and set it to high.
once the contents begin to boil, set your stove on low and allow it to simmer for eight hours ( I know it might sound long, but I do this all the time.)
use a fine mesh strainer or cheesecloth if you have it, and strain out your cook vegetables and meat and bones from the broth. press the ingredients to extract their juices.
the resulting liquid is rich in vitamins and minerals. Lots of collagen and gelatin, good for the skin and the joints. it won't taste like much on its own, but it'll taste amazing once you add some salt. if water can be kept down then this is definitely worth a shot as well. This stuff is basically liquid gold. Very good for you.
It will keep for about five days in the refrigerator and up to six months frozen. Consider making large batches when you have the time to do so, freezing it and then thawing it out when needed. Best of luck.
That's two onions, six ribs of celery and 4 good sized carrots.
I am a 19 year old shut in and am starting to think it is a good idea to obtain a significant other while I am still young.
The thing is I will not settle for someone desperate. I am not very attractive either.
I have tried okc but it turns out that dating sites are not meant to be taken seriously.
I do not leave the house. I do not like dating/sex culture in general.
I would like an intelligent respectable man who will treat me like the lovely young lady I am. A kindred spirit. Yet I do not know where to go about finding him. There has to be a classier way to meet someone likeminded online. I try to make friends on smaller forum websites of my interests but i seem to not pick up friends easily there either.
I am deeply depressed and think that having someone special to share ideas with would help things a little bit. Any advice?
Nice b8
But if you're really not a troll can you tell me why you deserve someone who's attractive when you say you're not attractive? Or why you don't want someone desperate when you're depressed and most likely desperate?
You don't sound ready for a relationship.
I am not a troll. I never said someone attractive. What I meant was I am not tradionally attractive to most people. The experience I have had has been with desperate people amd they were manipulative and not loyal; thus me finding out i'm likely asexual.
>>17374285
and btw appearance does not matter all that much. All though at some respect, basing judgement on entirely that is obviously shallow.
Looking for ways to tone up and bulk arms without gym or drugs , just looking for the best routines that can be done in the house , also best food and diet tips to help put on weight.
Im 29 M and quite skinny/slender , but have been told by many fitness people with some work i can get into shape easily , apparently i have the shape or foundation that will help get a good body.
>I want to get a good body without putting in the majority of the work and avoid the number one place that will let me achieve this because I think things I can do at home are a lot less hard
Nice job fag, you can only get so far with routines you can do in your house.
>>17374145
Push ups.
Jump rope for 5 rounds a day, 3 minutes on 1 minute off. Takes literally 20 minutes
If your skinny and slender and want to get real tone, I recommend boxing or swimming. But both involve gyms.
As for diet? Lean protein and good carbs. NEVER EVER EVER SKIP BREAKFAST.
buy 2 gallons of milk and carry them around, one in each hand, drinking them until they are both empty. repeat daily.
anyone else like this of so how did you change
>Be me
>some people I'm an empathetic open book kind and nice
>The rest I can only interact with saying mean things or being a dick
>Ff 3 years still same
>Meet girl
>Smart, thinks I'm funny, and keeps me on my toes
>Get real close
>Talk to her about anything
>We become best friends
>Cuts me off because her bf doesn't like me
>Shes too weak to break it off
>Hes not abusive just aggressive
>Cuts off the rest of her friends
>I still talk to her
>She tries to avoid me to avoid making bf jealous
>FF 4 months
>Breaks up with bf
>Gets most of Friends back
>Don't talk to her for a while
>"Anon why are you upset?"
>Talk about how she threw me aside for her bf just because he was jealous
>FF 2 months
>She tells me everything her life instead of the other way around
>Every time I talk to her resent that this is one of my only friends
>Shes sensitive , has a weak immune system, and an edge Lord cunt
>Realize how my opinion has changed so much about her tonight
>Want to change into my friend state where I'm nice empathetic etc as my default to make friends
How do I go about it? Also advice on how to cut off the girl from earlier
sorry OP I was too busy adding my own sound effects to your gif to read your problem
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>>17374183
Fair enough. But any advice?
>>17374140
you grab your balls and cut her off. cut everything, better yet, leave town. pussy
Earlier she says "I'm not your boyfriend" in a teasing way. Couple hours before that we see her friend at the bar and sit with him, he greets me as the boyfriend and she looks down and goes "im not your boyfraaan" smiling looking down like a fucking child.
Was gonna ask her tonight but didn't want to kill the mood after making her cum without my poor little dick.
Ho or Discard?
who the fuck is she? some random chick you're fingerbanging or someone you're trying to date? I don't understand op, if you think she's getting clingy and you don't want that ditch her, if you think she's breaking up with you, talk to her. we need some context though brah
>>17374127
Wtf are you trying to say? I can't decipher this gibberish
what the fuck did i just readings
I grew up with a friend who was in every way better than me. He was (and is) taller, better looking by a huge margin, and more charismatic. Girls LOVED this kid for as long as I can remember. A lot of them would go out on dates with me just to get to him. He went on to do a career track that I won't name out of respect for his privacy, but I'll say he's musically inclined as well, has had a couple model gigs, and is more than likely going to be famous one day. He banged and dated absolutely drop dead gorgeous women who came from good homes and were cultured (I met them. I'd wife every single one). His life was/is so fucking cool, I wish I had anything of his: his looks, his presence, his musical talent even, his laid back lifestyle.
Me on the other hand? Nerdy as fuck. Not charismatic. Went to study STEM and now I'm working a shit office job. Have been involved with girls but nothing of high quality like my friend. My life has no excitement. No matter what I do, no matter how many gains I make in the gym or how many tinder girls I bang, I'll never have my friends life. I'll never be him, have his life, or do half the cool shit he'll do, or not even 1/4 of what he is. He is a winner and I'm a loser. Will this ever go away? I wish nothing but the best for him cause we grew up closely but it really really sucks to be BTFO'd in every area that you care about
>>17374095
Nope it'll never go away
You'll alwaya resent him
And none of you are to blame really that's just how humans are
you just wrote a blogpost about how bad you want to drink his cum
>>17374095
Sucks man.
Of course 99% of people aren't going to have what your friend has, but at least we don't have stare that reality in the face every day due to close proximity.
Tbh if someone makes me jealous I just cut them from my life. Shitty and selfish I know, but I'd rather be shitty and selfish to someone better off than me than have my overall happiness suffer from their mere presence in my life.
>be broke 21 year old
>have relatively okay full size futon
>want to have something I can be proud of putting girls on ass up
I'm looking for recommendations for a good full size mattress pad, not the shitty $20 ones that tear if you fart on it too hard. I got a budget of $70, maybe. Anybody know of a good brand?
If it's life changing, I'm willing to spend $100.
you just wanted to tell someone that youre getting laid didnt y
kek at tearing from farting
>>17374097
I'm actually not getting laid, but that's a whole other >tfw no gf post
I'm hoping to be less shit at meeting women when my town gets populated from college students again
So, there is the new girl at work. I'm 26, and she's 22. Anyway, I'm the head cook/chef/kitchen dude and she's a server. We get along really well and she's p cool. Problem is that she has a degree from an Ivy League school and is only working at the restaurant because her family spends summers in this area.
So she is always willing to go with the cooks to the bar if I'm there, and she waits for me to get out of work before she leaves, even if it's 20 or more minutes after she's done. Today I asked her what she was doing tomorrow (restaurant closed) like "any big plans for your day off?" And she responds with "no not really. I guess my like, partner or boyfriend is coming to visit, but nothing really".
So i don't know how to take the information here. I'm a cook man. I take my job seriously so when I notice the things I've said, it kind of throws me for a loop because I'm usually focused on work. Is she just being friendly, or is it possibly more?
>>17374087
She's being friendly. If it was a guy who was willing to wait up for you to get drinks would you suspect he was into you?
>>17374152
No. I don't know. She doesn't go to the bar if I don't go though.
>>17374087
not a chance OP give up
How to increase viewership and install base?
I have a unique premise but no exposure.
stop making shit videos, advertise them on reddit
you don't have a unique premise. increase viewership by improving quality. install base is literal nonsense, youtube videos are not computing platforms
>>17374174
Not OP, but same problem as OP.
Doesn't reddit have a rule of not posting too much of your own content?
Or is that rule not really enforced?
Nothing vague like "what do you like to do?"
Looking to try new stuff and find new hobbies.
Psychology and applied psychology (marketing, salesmanship, etc.) are fascinating and potentially profitable subjects to study.
Blacksmithing, or metalworking of some other kind. Because it's awesome.
>>17374038
Sketch art.
How do people cope with life?
Seriously. I've gone to therapy, I've meditated, I've gone on medication, off again, I've read self help books, I've tried destressing techniques, I've tried thinking positively, none of it works.
The only time I'm not sad is when I'm drunk or high, and I just can't drink and smoke weed all day.
Shit, suicide isn't even enough because I know people would be upset about it and THAT bothers me too.
I've given up hope on living but I can't kill myself. I feel like I have to shuffle through another 50 or 60 years and I honestly think I'll mentally break before that.
Holy fuck I just want to be dead and have everyone forget about me.
>>17374035
I feel similar to anon
I wonder why I get up in the morning and deal with life.
I look at like this,
in 20 to 60 years it will all be over
so look forward to death, live for the end and enjoy the maddness
Get a hobby. Get really into it. Go 100% deep into it. Not a habit not a form of entertainment but a hobby. Something you're passionate about. Or if you have no passions something you like. Maybe that hobby is by yourself and you can relax and be at peace. Maybe it has a rich community and you'll make friends. Just dedicate yourself 1 hour a day to this hobby. If you have clinical depression not
>Life has no meaning my gf broke up with me and I'm poor
Ask your doctor for different medication. But if youre just sad get a hobby
Self esteem is a byproduct of achievement
> so I hear
I come here whenever there's absolutely no one else to talk to about this. I'll try to be as brief as possible:
It's been half a year since I confessed to her. She didn't say yes or no, but "I don't know." I told her it was alright to say "no," but she never did. Having an "idk" for an answer is much worse. When I asked her much later if I still had a chance, she said "Yes?" With a question mark. It only made me more anxious.
Whenever I bring up something funny over Facebook (nothing weird, just memes from games we're into) to break the ice, she doesn't reply. Just says "read *insert time*" Feels like I fucked up big time. But when I ask her a question regarding whatever whatever, she responds normally. But whenever we talk during the day, we're all fine and laugh a lot. She did say I was her only true friend that she doesn't feel awkward around, so that's something?¿
We have a lot in common, but I'm not gonna list it out, because it's quite a bit. So... What am I doing wrong? Did I fuck it up already? I've already been to her house twice, and she's been over to mine once. Her parents don't seem to have a problem with me. And at this point, she hangs out mostly with me now. From what I can tell, I'm not that bad-looking. Just average. I straight up know one or two girls who like me. Not interested in them at all though. She knows that also. I'm decent at cooking >____> been trying to workout lately.
>What am I doing wrong????
Secondly, how do I overcome this god-awful anxiety? Everyone becomes anxious during moments like these, right?
Thanks in advance.
You're in the friendzone by virtue of having handed her all the power, causing her to not respect you. Stop trying to "break the ice" / quasi-flirt with her and decrease your engagement with her. If she doesn't like the weakening of the relationship and consequently increases her efforts to engage with you, congratulations, you have the power back and can start thinking about how to put your penis in her vagina again. If the relationship grows progressively more distant and dissipates, that'll suck, but it wasn't meant to be in that case anyway.
The one thing you shouldn't do is to continue being a beta orbiting cuck who lets themselves be constantly hurt by being in a relationship where you want one thing and she wants another but you're too scared of losing her to break it off.
>>17373991
walk away. if she follows you might have something if she doesn't you never did. when I say walk away I mean cut all contact
You gotta make a move senpai. Ask her to go hang out somewhere. If you don't hang out anywhere, go to shows or concerts or plays or something. If she keeps saying "no" (even if she makes excuses), that means she doesn't want to spend time with you. At that point, you can either keep going and be persistent, or give up and look for someone else. If she doesn't value you and is not interested, stop wasting your time and look for someone who is worth your time.
If you get anxious just remember that you are not worthless. Learning your own worth is part of growing up. Your worth is not defined by other people, it is defined by you.