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Getting a job or leave your house

Get a routine back into your life. You are in a bad way but its up to you to make that change.

Go into education, sign up to a course, engage with your family. Also get off the computer. Its a vicious circle, as you feel depressed the more you will want to escape and the worse routine.

Also work on eating more. That helps a lot with your mental well being. Finally if you do, stop masturbating and looking at porn. Its not good for you energy wise.

>>17372312
>getting a job
No one wants to hire me, and no one (not even close friends) dare tell me the reason. I feel I look presentable when searching for a job.
I go to college, but I usually stay up all night - go to class and then go to bed.
>leave your house
No job so I'm broke.

>>17372185

Don't trust anyone, keep your mouth shut. Always have a back up plan if things go to shit.

The reason you want to be better is the reason why you aren't

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>>17372185

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>>17372169

watching english tv shows helps, auditory learning helps with that.

I watch movies and tv shows without subtitles all the time. It's not the problem. Problem is my accent because I never really talk, I just listen.

>>17372169
Listen to talking book or some other speaking tape. At same time, speak along with it into a separate recorder. Playback and compare the two.

>>17372053
Once you pop the fun don't stop.

Hopefully, they're cool with it as long as you're doing your job well.

>>17372053
>A) not get caught
impossible, i know your type. every time you dont get caught you test your boundaries harder until you are finally caught.

>B) stop fucking doing this?
why contain it?

>>17372053

stop being depressed as shit and drinking

alcohol only makes things worse

>>17372048
What are your 2 successful kids doing? And the failures? What are the main differences between them?

>>17372048
How did you get started setting up your own business? I've always liked the idea of starting a business but I'm afraid because I've no prior experience.

>>17372054
All the kids are pretty successful, considering only 1 is an adult. All do well in education and the oldest is doing great in the real world.
The largest differences are their interests.

>>17371996
Ain't shit happens. Why?

>>17371996

Have you confused /adv/ with Google?

>>17371996
Boring as fuck depending on coworkers. But money is money. Take the job.

Your rationality could be clouding your heart. What are your feelings, despite your head?

>>17371990
the problem is not her friend but the girl you call your gf. you are not a priority. you were not before and you are not now. you are fully justified in your concern and I suggest self preservation and get away from her. she will hurt you again

>>17371998
I really liked her and the fact we clicked so well in the beginning made me consider seeing her again. But I guess that was part of the newness/honeymoon phase of it too.

I know she loves me but I can't help to think that she's just afraid to be lonely mixed in with abandonment issues as well

You just don't have the right drive and - yeah, hh, you kind of have to ask for it.

>>17371975

Do you have anything in common with these girls? If you have nothing in common with a chic that's literally a "k bye".

>>17371988
But there's already a ton of guys orbiting her, why bother? My social skills are sub-par and I am at best a 7/10. I work out, got 2 jobs, a car, some hobbies and generally open minded. Not sure what am I doing wrong

>>17371948
Tell him like a grown ovary.

>>17371948
You had a threesome probably.
Congratulations on cucking your boyfriend by fulfilling every man's fantasy with not him.

two chicks can't really have sex, so unless you think tyrone joined in I'd say you are alright.

have you and your best friend fooled around before? I mean yeah shit happens when you get black out drunk, but, generally it starts when there are some "feelings" before - not out of no where.

>>17371938
I would ask you to consider:

I am a male. Should I shave my head?

>>17371938
If you want to look pretty, probably not.

>>17371938
Guys will instantly recognize you as a morally flexible liberal and gradually you will transform into a true, liberated cumdumpster. Your call, really.

>>17371877
Have a couch.

>>17371877
If you start having a bad time, just tell yourself that you are under a temporary substance. The trip will end.

Otherwise, find some music you like and a comfortable place to enjoy your experience.

Chillax

Be cool

Actively seek enjoyment

Let no fear or doubt cross your mind

You're like a giant dinosaur man

Also watch for the spiders crawling out of the walls

>>17371841
break off the relationship and find someone that better suits your likings

>>17371842
But i like her and love her, i am stressed myself and i feel like i don't know how to deal with her problems additional to mine.

>>17371841
Where can you buy that lama?!? It is amazing and i want to own it!

I can really use some advice on dating guys. I always hear dudes complaining that women don't give a shit and they're only after your assets (whether it's money or ur junk; maybe both) and here I am giving dudes my all and getting spit in my face.

Do you have to not give a shit about the other person???

>>17371843
I have no idea. I mean in all honesty you will never know for sure if someone won't cheat on you. I mean my parents were together for 25 years and my dad still cheated. And it's not just them there's plenty of times were this happens. All you can do is trust someone. Which can be pretty hard, but it's all you can do. Also work on yourself as well, not just giving all to your significant other.

>>17371872

that's the debate here, so should I just keep things at "I" and "me" and no "we" or "us"???

>>17371815
I can never date the theoretical woman of my dreams at this moment. For some reason. What can I do to find another true woman of my dreams? Is that even the right way? I want to mate and make a family, but I am poor and rude and few women of class will have me, to complain.

Short of cutting my eyes out and taping them to a flying saucer to catch some truly out of this world action, what is a guy to do when his dreamgirl is a nightmare?

Besides giving freshly caught wild salmon - how do I make him fall for me like he never has for a woman?

;) lets see if bear can help

I've recently just felt nothing at all. The past month my father died in a car accident and mother just took her fucking life last week. I got the responsibility of looking after my 14yo sister and I know I'm going to be in utter shit. I've also started drinking and smoking to relieve myself from this situation but I know it only makes it worst.
Apart from that, how many bears does it take to change a lightbulb?

>>17371808
Yes, probably. The word is "kind of."

If she says you will also lose your friendship with her.

>>17371823
>yes. not you.