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Is it REALLY that bad though?

You'll fuck it up like you fuck up everything you do.

Think about how much worst your life would be as a cripple.

Instead of just being a loser, you'll be a loser that couldn't an hero correctly.

>>17376509
how about don't

>>17376503

SSRI is Sertraline by the way.

>>17376503
I know very very little about this, but is it possible to get a different drug that does the same thing? I know someone who's dick didn't work at first then he changed to some other pills and those side affects were no longer present.

Welbutrin and seroquel are both antidepressants that generally do not have sexual side effects. You might want to talk to your doctor about trying one of them.

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>>17376496
>without alcohol

>>17376496
Join Alcoholic Anonymous even if you think its bullshit.

Meet women who have the same issues as you and stop being dependent on alcohol at the same time.

>>17376496
I wish I knew man, I wish I knew.
There should be some medical methods of killing the parts of your brain that cause the need for affection and companionship and thus also crippling loneliness.
Just like you can get yourself sterilized.
Self inflicted lobotomy is too risky.

>>17376480
>life hacks
autism

>>17376490
kek
>>17376480
Look both ways before crossing a street! Unless it's a one-way street, then only look one way! Such a time saver. Kek

>>17376480
For the greater than less than I imagine it as an arrow pointing to the smaller one 3>2

First of all, I want to congratulate you on your B and C+ grades while having mental health issues. Well done, that's an accomplishment few could match.

Most unis, at least ones that aren't pure bureaucracy, want their students to succeed. The earlier you bring up your concerns, the better. Talk to your advisor, every single professor you have, the Office of the Registrar, everyone you can think of. Tell them you want to succeed and you are willing to put the work in to make it happen. That way you have multiple layers of padding. Your professors will be less likely to fail you knowing your situation (and by talking to them, OFTEN, you will get the help you need to not fail). Your advisor will help you find a course load that makes sense. The registrar will try to make an exception if you need it. These people want to help. If you talk to them, show them you want to succeed, they will do everything in your power to help.

>>17376449
study more.
>b...but i study as much as i can.
If you are here posting and reading this you should be studying.

Sort your shit out, if you are upset and lonely then find other people to study with.

Why do you want custody?

>>17376435
Oh... dude. I just went through this myself. My legal aid lawyer was absolutely useless.
It's gonna be hard to get full custody of your child, unless the kid's mom has some serious issues. You can ask any question you want of me, and I'll answer to the best of my ability.

>>17376435

I would ensure that the child would get visitation and a chance to be a part of both parents lives, and the courts could hold me to that.

More than a good goddamn woman ever said.
Also odds are against you anyway, so good luck, don't stress out over what you can't change though.

>>17376432
Nah you just need to discipline the shit out of your dog. If it bites, give it holy hell and lock it in a room/crate for a time out. Repeat until trained.

You should take both back as you clearly aren't capable of being a responsible pet owner.

throw it in the wood chipper, violent dogs need to be put down.

>>17376345

Basic questions are boring, desu. Can you imagine how damn many times a girl on a dating site gets asked those kinds of questions. Come up with something more interesting, something she can relate to or something that surprises her or catches her attention. If she gets one surprise among the million "what's up"s, your chances are notably better.

Also, if a convo stopped long ago, I'd say one new shot at it is acceptable. If the response is short or uninterested or doesn't come at all, leave it. But trying doesn't hurt.

>I merely ask them basic questions like how are you, what's up etc.; and try to ask them about their interests

That's what you're doing wrong. Don't treat it like a goddamn interview, try to spark a conversation based on their interests stated in their profile.

girls on dating sites are interested in the top 20% of guys plus they put out all these demands of guys that they wouldn't in the real world. the real world allows you to form bonds quickly and also shows them that you have confidence in talking to them one on one this is why you see some guys that aren't really otherwise attractive with attractive girlfriends. But be aware that the current overly sexualized society leads to lots of cheating and disloyalty especially if you don't show some signs of being able to take care of threats and control the situation otherwise you will end up a cuck.

>>17376335
Work a second job to save money and finish school. or take out a load and finish school.

There is no shortcut. Sometimes you get knocked down financially and just have to work hard to get back on your feet.

>>17376335
Why can't you go to college?

>>17376351
Lack of money. Barely able to get one class.

I don't know if its possible to do it slow by taking 2 classes a semester with some of my money.

Masturbate at work

Is she a time traveller from the far past when anyone cared that people masturbate?

>>17376313
I used to send my GF to the store or groceries. If i am the only one working you better damn well be running errands.

Sounds like IT is not your passion.

>I have an IT degree. It took me for 5 years to get it. Normally it takes only 3 years.

By saying this i assume you are coming off passively.

Be confident, dress nice, only talk about work related things. Like when they ask you to tell them about yourself they don't care about hobbies. You should be talking a additional skills you have outside the job field like management or additional programing experience.

>>17376312
What kind of tests?

Did you suck in college?

>>17376298
Should be fine, but make sure you keep your cat in a separate room for a while so the cats get used to eachothers scent.

No matter what you do they are goona fight to figure out who is dominant. At the very least you should clip your cats front claws with a nail clipper before you go.

>>17376310
How long should they be separated?

>>17376298
maybe half a day.

That way your cat has a place its comfortable in and if the other gang up on him/her.

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>>17376270
Find a place and constantly upload your shit.
As for commissions, you have to learn how to build a network.
Always keep working to improve, I'm talking thousands of study pieces, people won't be interested in your shit if you don't work to git gud.

Draw, draw, draw
Post everything from small sketches to finished pieces
Join groups that take art submissions and submit a lot of art
Draw fanart for currently popular fandoms
Also, from personal experience, sex sells. Draw a little lewd art or fandom art with a shipping aspect every now and then

>>17376270
I want to kiss Kurapika

>>17376264

By physically assaulting them or otherwise behaving threateningly or unstably. Perhaps blackmail or coercion if you feel uncomfortable with violence.

>>17376287
This will work nearly 100% of the time.

>>17376264
grow up kid.