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well op

its time you buy a wig.

I suggest the "Men's Wig Short Straight Synthetic Hair ", I personally like the style of it desu.

>>17374862
You have one life... And by the sound of it , it's not getting better. You can either wait until you fix everything that's wrong with you or do what you wanna do right now , when your at the youngest you'll ever be , just don't give a fuck , everyone has some sorta mental disorder.

I'm balding aswell , 25. I chose to workout and if I'm going to be bald atleast be a buff bald guy , not some little insecure bitch about it.

There's a pill for that. Talk to your doctor a out medical solutions that can possibly help with your hair issue.

Of course just fixing that issue won't help with you your other issues, which will likely still be there, but it's a start.

Generally the best solution to anxiety issues is exposure. Gradually, little by little, expose yourself to social situations. Even if it's tiny at first. There are also some medications that can help with social anxiety, but really even with them you still have to expose yourself to the situations.

>>17374845
Break up with her.
He can have the stupid bitch.

>>17374845
Fuck that bitch.... She obviously still cares about him.

>>17374850
>>17374851
not even a girl, but isn't that kind of normal of the gf if he's going through a really bad time? how bad btw? like I know this one guy (fag) I don't date but am pretty intimate with talks to his jealous ex sometimes because he's going through pretty much mental crisis. even if we were in a relationship I don't think I'd feel threatened. usually exes are exes for a reason unless she's fucked up and they have a long unstable history

>I like to bitch about my period, exaggerate physical pain, and I can't control my emotions.

Sounds like a very serious case of being a woman.

>>17374774
I don't think a formal diagnosis of hypothyroidism and morphine and vicodin given to me from an emergency room is evidence of exaggeration. Seriously dude, I'm in trouble

>>17374779
>hypothyroidism
Oh god, so you have made-up excuses about why you're fat, too?
Any American emergency room will give a whiny patient a script for hard pain meds, as long as you don't look like a junkie. Your pain diagnosis isn't as formal as you think it is.

There's no easy way to do this. I used to be socially awkward and preferred to stay inside all day long to play video games. It took me many years of trying but now I have a super active social life.

You just gotta do it and not give a shit when you make mistakes. It's going to take much time, perhaps years, for you to adjust. But have faith that better days are ahead and remember that people don't really pay much attention to other people as much as you'd think.

>>17374765
The thing is I'd have to cross a street, I think it has those stop lights with little cross walk buttons
I have no idea how to do that
I feel like I'll just get hit by a car or do something "wrong" and embarrass myself
What if I see someone I use to know ? Or high schoolers laugh at this older weirdo who acts like a scared little boy? Or a thug tries to mess with me?

I'm not even sure what I'd do there.
I forgot what I was going to say .
I feel like my memory , health, even my voice has deteriorated so much compared to years ago.
I'm still skinny at least but doing anything too physical puts me at a very real risk of just fainting
My memory is just terrible now.

>>17374790
Really nobody's going to give a shit if you try to figure out how to use cross walk buttons. They'll prob just think you're a tourist or something. You have all these fears of going outside but it WILL get better once you start going outside more often. You must have faith that this is so. You will probably relapse a few times when your fears are actualized, but know that it's all going to help you in the end.

Your health is deteriorating because people are designed to live actively.

Looks like ringworm.

Show us your tits.

you may have AIDS. Have you been tested yet?

>>17374736
does it actually look like ringworms?

>>17374671
I take it you are violating global rule two

just ignore all of it. It hurts now but in five years you will look back on this and see how petty it all was.

Nothing ever happens in a vacuum. Why is she trash-talking you all of a sudden?

>>17374671
>My "Best friend"
>She cheated on her boyfriend with a ton of people (Including me)
Did you screw your "best friend"?

Also >>17374689
You're anonymous here. You can tell us everything.

Nah just leave it. Unlike guys it isn't as pathetic to be a virgin.

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>>17374664

I don't know how girls can say "no one cares or wants me anyways" when literally all they have to do is not be overweight

Find a day you don't have anything to do and take him out very regularly. Stay outside with him as much as you can. If he pees, praise him, give him a small treat. Make it a Big Deal that he peed outside. If he poos, same deal. Do this regularly, make other people do it. If you catch the dog peeing, yell HEY to get it to stop and immediately take it outside. If you find pee or poo, you just gotta clean it up and deal. Rubbing the dog's nose in it or punishing the dog for a thing it probably did hours ago won't work. Dogs are much better at learning "do this" rather than "don't do this"

Make sure that the dog is being let out enough. If nobody is ever letting the dog out, the dog just has to do what it can. if nobody has any time for the dog to even let it out to pee, it needs another home.

>>17374600
Pretty much this.

Also don't let it on your bed, it's a dominance thing. The Dog is learning it's place in the pack and right now it believes itself above you. If he lays on your bed, shove him off. If he gets back up, shove him off again and hold him down until he stops trying to get up. You'll know when he sighs.

Do this whenever you get the impression the dog is testing you. It seems harsh, but dogs are pack animals and this is how you establish who is in charge.

It's to the point where I need to pack up and leave. I can't get sleep because of the two teens in the house, they ruin everything. It doesn't help that in this small town people die bi-monthly of heroin overdose

>>17374568
Don't chase someone who isn't putting equal or more amount of effort that you are.

When you realize that she's moved on too.

>>17374604
Let's say

>meet girl
>have a nice chat with her
>she laughs and everything goes well
>adds me on facebook
>talk to her a bit
>ask her out
>says she can't and doesn't re-schedules

Should I pursue more or just stop? I often heard that if a girl is interested, she will let you know

Just remember that tomorrow is a new day and that you can still take your kids to the park or some shit.
Just make sure you spend time with them somehow.

>>17374559

You get to be fun dad. Hopefully your kids are into more than just playing vidya. Catch a game, go to a pool, play Pokemon Go, I don't know, do something and make it positive for the kids.

As for your own place, better figure that out, senpai. You're a grown-ass man and your kids shouldn't be getting used to the idea of their old man crashing at Uncle Charlie's like a bum. Do you work? What's the support order looking like?

Divorce is tough, but you're now free to fuck all the sluts you want. Another reason to get your living situation in order.

>I married someone who already had a kid
So is your life a long series of bad decisions?

Doing an Honours degree in Mechanical Engineering. In my fourth year right now, final semester because I'm studying in New Zealand.

First year was pretty basic calculus as in Integration, Differentiation. Also had to deal with statistics and a bit of R coding.

2nd year we were dealing with series approximations and a bunch of stuff I don't quite remember.

3rd year we were dealing with PDEs, which was by far the most difficult.

Not sure how it is in the US but we couldn't use calculators in our math tests and exams.

The most important part is to not give up at the start because it looks daunting. They're trying to drum people out.

>>17374524

How about a HVAC course?

>>17374548

Congrats on making it this far and hope you do well on your finals.You a native to New Zealand or are you doing a study-abroad program of some sort? And what are PDEs? What makes them the most difficult in your opinion?

*thot

Hot!

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feedback on my body?
my insecurities: pectus and that I am thin. If I work out my chest will look like boobies, because of pectus :/

Hey women,

Would you consider dating a man who ia losing a substantial amount of weight, plus sticking to it, and would look attractive fit?

I went from 280->250 at 6'3 and I still have a gut. I've been talking to a girl online for awhile now and we are really into each other. I just don't want to catfish her so I was really upfront about my weight and dedication to health now. Couldn't tell if it bothered her but things are still going well.

>>17374403
Looks fine to me. Can't really tell you have pectus as least from the front.

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Here is where it becomes confusing for me

>Recently her flirting has ramped up tenfold, so much so that I'm taken aback
>cuddling with me, being all lovey-dovey, joking to co-workers how she "likes me but I pretend to not know what's going on"
>Co-workers asking if I'm hitting it
>NO
>Her: "Hey anon! Lemme show you something on my phone!"
>Me acting annoyed: "What? What do you want? No I don't want to see pictures of your dumb fucking cat go away"
>she shows me some of her "private" instagram pics (underwear stuff, nothing nude)
>INSTANT BONER
>them tits
>that tight bod
>oh god I want to fuck her so bad
>I didn't ask for this
>Gotta do something, this is getting out of hand
>The next few days I start ignoring her, deliberately acting boring, uninterested
>I think it's starting to get through to her, shes less flirty and she's still doing the discreet couple thing with my best friend
>Regret sets in, I'm realizing how attractive, smart, funny, and chill she is, and how she was right under my nose this entire time
>But if I'm taking this whole thing the wrong way, that she was actually just being flirty and nothing more, I can't help but feel a little heartbroken, and worst of all, jealous of my best friend

what do I do?

>what do I do?

Get a real life with real problems

>>17374326
>what do I do?
go fuck linda from accounting

oh for sure man

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>>17374196
No, wtf? Laws of nature aren't creepy
Its more creepy if you are attracted to women and hide it, or pretend you aren't.

Shit thread anon.

>>17374196
>Its more creepy if you are attracted to women and hide it, or pretend you aren't.
W-what? I do this