How do I handle the shame of being a 23 yr old virgin?
By having sex.
>>17478274
You ashamed you didn't cave to nigger culture and get a girl teen pregnant or catch herpes at 16?
>>17478279
should I just lie until I do?
>>17478285
I'm ashamed that I haven't been able to have sex even once.
>>17478274
By never telling that to anyone, lying about your sexual life in social circumstances, distracting yourself with a hobby and embrancing the meaningless and absurdity of everything.
>>17478307
Yes, lie to the girls. They'd want you to.
>>17478307
I'm sure there's a lot of shit you haven't done once that other people purportedly do at an age younger than yours.
And you aren't ashamed of those.
You've just been brainwashed into thinking that if you aren't running around fucking up society with premarital sex, you're doing something wrong.
You're not. It's ok.
>>17478323
so what I should masturbate forever?
>>17478334
No, it just means you have no reason to be ashamed. You can still go out and have sex you aren't limited to masturbation.
>>17478344
but how can I seduce a woman without letting on that I'm inexperienced?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKY--qaHWSw
I guess what I'm really asking is how to attract and seduce women, while dealing with the fact that I might be asked questions about my past experience.
>>17478274
stop being ashamed of it.
that shame was taught to you by others. stop letting them shame you.
>>17478378
if they ask and you don't want to tell the truth, just say you've only done it a couple times and it was a long time ago with someone who was also inexperienced.
>>17478378
i lost my virginity to a girl when i was 23. Just stop with the mentality that you're gonna try to seduce a girl, because guys with way more experience than you are going to beat you every time. Just do something with your life, and talk to girls. At work, or school, or whatever. Eventually a girl will think you're an alright dude and she'll want to fuck you.
>>17478880
>eventually
>>17478322
>that nearly perfect gaussian curve for men
My ex didn't believe I was a virgin after the first time we had sex because I didn't act ashamed or self consious.
Some think it's important, but only because they think you'll be bad at sex.
>>17478378
You'll always find reasons why you aren't good enough. The trick is just ignoring that and to just start talking to girls.
>>17478880
I'm 27 and I'm still waiting for this girl. Face it, being passive doesn't work for men.