Is it better to tell her you're crushing on her or to fade away an go no contact and never let her know /adv/?
If she were to die tomorrow, would you regret not telling her?
Definitely don't tell someone if you like them. It's better to go through life without meaningful relationships. I've never heard anyone say they were happy they talked to a cute girl. People always look back and regret it.
>>17478724
Yeah but I've made my interest pretty clear as far as I can tell.
>got her number
>invited her out for drinks with my crew
She doesn't put any effort in so I figure she doesn't care.
Fuck that anime shit about confession.
Just ask her out.
>Hey. you want to go to X? I hear X has some great Y.
That's it.
Ask her on a date.
It's not hard.
>>17478731
>invited her out for drinks with my crew
heres your problem, this doesnt sound like a date at all it sounds extremely platonic like you dont really want to take time out of your comfort zone to get to know her
>>17478714
Telling a girl that you have a crush on her does not get you any closer to being with her.
The exception to this is if you are gorgeous and rich, in which case telling a girl you have a crush on her makes her blush and feel nervous.
If you're just an average guy, though, telling a girl you have a crush on her might make her briefly feel good, but it simultaneously makes her completely uninterested in you, because it's completely boring for a girl to learn that an average guy is crushing on her.
As
>>17478732
said, skip the part where you confess. Jump straight to asking her out.