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brighton, colorado?

gumtree, fridayad, all the standard room mate type sites.. i lived there for a fricking year in a hostel because i could never afford a place. Hostelpoint lets you live long term and they have double rooms.

>>17499216
Must be, a British person would just search a renting site.

>>17499158
Seen her boobs many times while changing into swim suit or topless on a hot day inside.

>>17499158
seen naked, played with tits, licked pussy and she gave me head and I took thousands of provocative pics all while she's in a relationship but no dick in pussy. She won't cross that line because she says she loves her bf.

>>17499158
We never talked about sex though desu I never talk about sex with any of my friends.
Sometimes we walk hugging each other like we are bf-gf with one of my female friends but there's really nothing remotely sexual at all between us. That one girl is dating some other guy now.
Then there's another female friend I have but I asked her out and then she started talking to me and ignoring me like the plague lol.
And then there's some other one who's older than me and has a boyfriend but we talk a lot and get along great though mostly because she herself is super easy going. But again, nothing sexual at all, we are just buddies.

If u ask me she will end up like her mum. If she isnt against her actions her mother will remain the most influential role model in her life. U could talk to her but probably she won't listen. Dunno if u could talk to her dad. If she loves u that much u could use her love to change her but that would mean kind of treating her like a child probably for a long time... Dunno if u want a relationship like this. Feel sorry for u anon

>>17499166
Well there's also one more thing. She told me one time if I were to ever break up with her, then I would probably break her emotionally, and she would probably kill herself. Her family has a pretty big history of suicide, and it honestly worries the fuck out of me. I know I'm not responsible for what happens, but I couldn't live with that man...

>>17499204
So I see it that way... U r trapped in her world which she will likely never change. I doubt she really loves u or anybody else but herself. I would rather live alone than live to fulfill her needs. As long as u do what she wants u will prove she is right and therefore as long as u stay the same she will never change or threat u differently. If u have the patience stay with her but I think that she will change her attitude probably only if u leave her.

You're her betacuck security blanket. She doesnt want your dick.

>>17498883
so during the time you knew her before you went on a date she was giving head to other guys she dated and you still wanted her as a gf? not smart

If you had gotten head before and she couldn't get past that you would've thought she was a bitch. Girls like to have fun too, get over it.

You could eat her out? But to be honest if shes going to be a size queen id say better to get out of there. If she treats it like a problem then she mustn't be that serious about you.

>>17498856
You just answered just own question with your last sentence. If you really have tried everything then you already have your decision.

>>17498863
desu I'm making it more of a problem than her, but before I started dating her I never had an issue with my size, now it just feels like I have a tiny dick and I can't satisfy my gf in bed.going from one of the spectrum, feeling good about my size, being above average, down to the smallest my gf has been with and she treats it like a joke just fucking kills me.

also going back to that sensitivity thing, she doesn't like being eaten out because she really doesn't feel as much as she should down there and her ex's never ate her out either. I've tried when we fist started dating, but she kicked me off (in a nice way) and that was the end of that.

Dear Girl,

I didn't read your messages to me on Facebook after we stopped being friends, mainly because I was toxic to you and you were toxic to me. I tried to find something that wasn't there and left when you found someone else, but at the same time you also knew and didn't say anything about it.

I don't want to make up with you and start being friends again because I have my own set of friends who love and support me, and who are always reliable to me.

Bye

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Dear person,

It's almost always a pleasure talking to you. Our last chat was one those. I can tell you fear something and it's not hard to take a guess.
Be more confident in your words, you can be comfortable around me.

To Mark, Zack, Emilie and the chopper pilot.

I wish you guys were real, yesterday was the most fun I've had in a long time.

Bump. I graduate next year. Would love to study music but I think it doesn't really help you getting well payed jobs.

>>17498778
If you're very talented, it's worth it and you could potentially (but with difficult) get into make music for commercials, being a producer, soundtrack work etc but if you're not exceptionally skilled, it's a bit of a waste.

If you love music though but aren't some kind of prodigy, go with the shorter course.

OP here:

>>17498785
I guess you're looking for the same advice?
>>17498791
Sounds reasonable, none of the "normal" majors hold my interest or motivation for long though

>>17498591
Ikr ?

Really makes you think

Try /r9k/

>>17498584
/pol/ was right again

>>17498654
What do you mean?

>>17498659
Among other things, they're constantly going on about how bad it is to race mix.

>>17498444
>we broke up
>should I get further involved with her

No, anon, it's over. Whether she lied or not makes no difference. If neither of you want each other in their life (as a break up would suggest) just move on with your life. No good will come out of further involvement.
At the very least ask yourself what you're trying to accomplish and why it is important to you.

>>17498450
Because I want her to see that I managed to discover her lies. I do not want her to think that I fell for her tricks. And then I want to never see her again.

>>17498461
Why does it matter? No reason to do that all you're doing is making it possible for horrible shit to happen. Just leave it.

>>17498290
Frankly, you sound like the type who will just have to learn to live with this.
Thankfully, there are a few people out there who you may be able to interact with more naturally, so try to find them.

From my observations so far, this type of problem is caused by non-verbal communication processing defects, which leaves you unable to naturally and easily engage in the kind of interaction that comes very easily to most, the same way a computer without a GPU must perform graphics calculations using the CPU, which is much slower and more resource-intensive.

In this case, interacting with people who communicate mainly verbally and/or avoid non-verbal stuff is much easier. Autistic people are all included here, since they're typically awful at non-verbal communication and need to rely on other methods to get information across. Others who do this because of personality quirks or other psychological issues are also reliably easy to talk to.

Good luck.

>>17498316
I certainly do find talking with aspies and other assorted fringe types much easier but it's still quite unfulfilling. Perhaps I should just accept my lot.

>>17498290
90% of all conversations are NOT about the small talk subject, but just excuses to be together and be friendly.

Bear with this explanation. Monkeys and apes like to "groom" each other, sitting together and picking nits from each other's fur. Now, getting rid of nits is good, but biologists have spotted that it's really just an excuse for sitting together and showing friendship.

People don't pick each other's nits (usually) but we do the equivalent by sitting around talking about weather or sports or TV or gossip. WHAT we talk about is not important (as you can see by the way we don't get deep into any of it) - it's the sitting around being friendly that it is all about.

You can be part of that communal bonding without having a lot to say. The occasional "Yeah" or "I agree" or even "That reminds me of..." will hold up your end and let you share in the warm friendship that is the point of the experience.

>>17497562
10/10 would wife

>>17497562
>>17497559
I'd wife you in a hot second, OP. 10/10.

Age?

in my experience they don't give a shit

>>17497537
I'm 24. Very little experience with women

That's what every rapist says. The only person who can say they are ready is that person. You sound like you watch porn and fap all day and has lost all sense of reality when it comes to sex.

I like one night stands but I waited a few dates for this one as well.

>>17496045

What is your gender?

USE THE OLD IMAGE DAMMIT

Now that that's off my chest...
Kinda wanna break it off with her as she's way too free-spirited and fun-loving and exhibitionist for me. It brings out my inner insecurities and trust issues.
Problem is that I do still have feelings/attachments to her and she's been staying at my place for the past month and is suicidal. I don't want her to end up on the streets or worse, and I don't want her offing herself. I tend to be the guy that tries to save them...

My girlfriend is awesome and very moral/religious, but she's my first girlfriend and I want to ask her about her past relationships but I don't know how

>>17495705
You just shouldn't.