Adv,
My friends and family don't respect me. I do well for myself financially, am self sufficient and a decent person. But my communication skills are garbage. This leads to others simply cutting me off mid sentence and or getting annoyed with me. What do I do? I'm getting sick of being a weak speaker that stutters and forgets words.
It's effecting my life and relationships.
well you could try hanging a dry erase board around your neck and writing on it to communicate.
>>17500325
Nice meme friend. Spicy af 8/8
Voice lessons. Perform. Present. Sometimes engaging a crowd of strangers is easier than one person you've known your whole life--but eventually you'll realize the two aren't so different
This is a bit different frommsimilar threads but I will try to keep it short.
>26
>very bad at opening up
>act rigid and formal most times
>single but interested in meeting.
Here is the issue
>Korean girl from abroad
>meet her 4 times in a year
>after not seeing each other for nearly a year, contacts me through a mutual friend
>go out to have tea, lunch, pool and movie, was fun
>4 months later arrange to meet for lunch and pool
>friend tonight suggests i enter a relationship and show interest tomorrow
I have no ulterior motives as I have a number of platonic girl friends. I dont particularly find this girl attractive but she is nice. I feel it would be terrible to try to enter into a relationship for the sake of it even if im not attracted to her.
For context her English is good enough to be starting an MBA but probably 85% (still accemt and occasionaly isssues understanding).
What should I do? Meeting her tomorrow.
helpbump
Go for it
Fuck her
Then kill yourself
Anyone?
What is wrong with me? I just can't talk with people and make friends. A girl comes to talk with me, I keep it as chill as I can because the only thing that runs through my mind the entire time is how good she would be at blowing me. A guy talks to me and all I can think about is how I can talk about video games and sports, anytime the conversation is outside of those things, I immediately lose interest.
I WANT to have things like conversations, but when I get the oppourtunity, I WANT them to fuck off. What the fuck is wrong with me? I hate this.
I have the same problem.
Problem is I'm si obsessed with what the other person is thinking about, if I did any mistakes while talking. And so, normal talking becomes for me more a performance than a conversation I enjoy.
>>17500265
Start with something relatable, like the news or a trending #
Then steer towards what you want
>>17500271
This is me. I think about how we'll I'm speaking and don't actually enjoy the conversation. It's Fucking retarded because I'm concerned about it in the first place. So stupid.
I want to start regularly drinking to get away from my depression, if for just a few hours. Is there anyway to do this without becoming an addict?
I'm also taking antidepressants if that matters, I know they make the effects of alcohol stronger.
I did it.
Don't.
>>17500252
Drinking won't help your depression at all. Please trust me, it's going to make everything in your life worse
>>17500252
>>17500263
>>17500287
Marijuana or beating your kids or wife is a better answer than alcohol. Alcohol will ruin you for the rest of your life even if you think you can "quit" alcohol.
Don't do it anon. Alcohol addiction is more life ruining than anything else.
gonna fuck an ugly chick tomorrow, expecting anal - what's the most fucked up thing I can do? Like I'll probably get to do whatever I want and might as well do some incredible stuff. I was thinking deep throat but I don't want to see her face too much if ya get it.
Pic unrelated, I'd be lucky to get to lick her feet.
Don't get shit on your dick
Depends how low her self esteem is and how good you are at convincing. I have gotten full blown catholic, family first girls to do ball and gags while a analed them because they had super low self esteem. That said, don't be a dick to them if they don't wanna do something. Take what you can make happen and call it a day.
>>17500233
I think having sex with someone you don't like just to be able to pat yourself on the back for degrading her is some middle school shit that we joked about in the locker rooms but never actually did because even at 12 years old we knew pretending to be a piece of shit was a lot funner than actually being a piece of shit.
I don't know you, anon, but you sound like a very sad person.
What should I do when my parents ask me for money? The same people that gave me so much shit growing up whenever I asked for anything more than $10 are hounding me every paycheck for $100. Idk it just seems like a really shitty thing to do using the fact that they raised me as leverage. I've already given in once, I don't want to keep giving these scumbags money. Granted I don't really spend my money much and just sit on it, but still I'd rather have it in case of an emergency rather than have them draining at it and make me beg for it later when I actually need it.
You didn't ask to be born
Tell them that they could of aborted or adopted (or just used a condom) you if they didn't want to pay for you.
Anyway, if you're over 18, asking for rent is fair.
>raised me as leverage
That's not how parenting works.
Tell them you've already spent it? I don't know man, you just need to not give in.
I'm gonna make this quick:
I have a friend who's a girl with a boy friend
I like her
She sends an image to me through text out of a joke that implies sexual urge for another dude we know
I saved it and took a screen shot of me almost sending it to bf (I don't, of course)
She loses her shit but tries playing it of later by typing "Kek"
And I imply I'm blackmailing her
What can I do?
Also she goes to my house a lot
>>17500217
You can stop being a thirsty creep.
>>17500217
Move on. Nothing good is going to come out of this.
Just playfully bring it up next time she's over then calmly whip your dick out and tell her you're serious.
Me and my gf like roleplaying. We love medieval fantasy stuff, like horny empresses, fauns, mysterious travelers and sex rituals with sadistic magicians.
I'm looking for more scenarios that don't fall on the "nurse/patient", "teacher/student" clichEs.
So tell, me what are your favorite roleplaying ideas?
>>17500216
Just beat the shit out of her, fuck her up the ass and say you were an orc or some shit.
Orc/elf
Battle weary warriors who seek comfort in one another's arms because the whole world is out to kill them.
I think my learning ability has really deteriorated over the past couple of years. How do I fix this?
>>17500175
You first need to find out why or how your learning ability degenerated.
take your pills algernon
>>17500176
I don't know why but what I know is that a few years ago I could easily study for 2-3 hours straight and remember everything I studied but now I can hardly study for 30 minutes before getting overwhelmed and wanting to do something else. My mom says it is because I have been spending too much time inside, on my computer. Would reducing that time and doing something else instead help me improve?
I start community college in 3 days, any advice?
>>17500145
Go to all events and shit. usually free swag..
Do well, show up every day. Do your work every day. Work for an A, don't get too crushed by your B's, evaluate what caused your C's.
Quietly hate yourself and everyone for letting you come to this point in your life.
>>17500145
join a club
doesn't matter what club just join one. Sports preferably.
my gf of 2 years has always told me she doesn't like foreplay much. not sure if she says that because she thinks i suck at it (no girl has said that) or if its true. whenever i try and use a toy, eat her out, or finger her she always stops me and asks for my dick. what gives?
>>17500144
There are women like that.
>>17500144
There are women with that preference.
My gf always wants to go straight to fucking
How affectionate is too affectionate for a mother to be towards her son?
Mom is making me very uncomfortable kissing my forehead, putting her head on my shoulder, etc, etc
>>17500125
Well considering this website is only for those 18 and above, it is probably too much.
Corrin, pls. Big sister loves you very much.
>>17500125
She wants to fuck.
does a butane torch contain enough gas to kill someone?
If i put my mouth around the nozzle and slowly breath in the gas, would i die?
>>17500099
Why breathe in the gas? Just turn that sucker on, you pussy.
>wahhh i want to kill myself but I don't want to hurt in the process even though it wont matter in a minute.
>>17500099
Why not sit in a car in a garage or muffler redirect?
helpp how can i start a conversation with one of those they keep visiting my profile
If "hi" isn't enough add a light statement for context, or a simple question like "how are you" if you're going to ask more about them.
>>17500084
Is that a dating site? If it is and you're a guy, you're going to get metaphorically fucked maintaining conversations. You can try to start them by visiting their profiles and talking about something on it you know.
>>17500109
>hi
>how are you
You're going to have to try a little harder than that.
>>17500116
>>17500109
i feel creepy leading the conversation the whole time girls are thinking too high of themselves fuck them i have no fucking interest now
ps: i m searching for friendship no romance
I keep on having dreams about a guy I used to know, who killed himself last May. We hooked up in high school and he was my first heartbreak. When we were in high school we were both fucked up people coming together. He killed himself bc his wife left him and posted pics of her bruised face all over their facebook. How do I stop having these dreams. Also I would like to control my dreams, through lucid dreaming, but I don't even know what I'd want the outcome to be. Anyone know how to help?
>He killed himself bc his wife left him and posted pics of her bruised face all over their facebook.
He killed himself because he could not continue his heinous and criminal behavior.
>Also I would like to control my dreams, through lucid dreaming, but I don't even know what I'd want the outcome to be.
brutal
>>17500089
So do you have any actual real input?
Bump. Does anyone have any advice about this?