So I recently lost my virginity only to realize that years of masturbation have given me delayed ejaculation issues. I suppose death grip was the issue, but you don't really think about that when you aren't getting any. Welp, I haven't jerked off in a few weeks and I still can't have an orgasm through actual intercourse. Anyone overcome this issue before? How long do you think it'll take to get my sensitivity back? This shit is awful.
Find a submissive girl who likes it rough. I find it hard to cum if im not pounding the shit out of a women. But not all girls like it.
>>17500801
did you at least make the other person orgasm
>>17500801
Coming from someone who just recently exited a 2 year nogf period, the first few times we had sex my dick couldn't even believe what the fuck was going on was real and I had minor trouble staying hard, and round two was out of the question.
Your body will get used to it as you keep fucking, nothing's wrong with you.
Give it about 3 weeks of frequent sex
Staying at a house with 3 "chads" for a wedding
This is unbearable
What do I do
you either die a virgin
or you live long enough to see yourself become a chad
>>17500797
Elaborate.
>>17500797
What makes you say they're chads?
How do i move on?
>>17500796
Dear OP,
You move on by letting go of bottled up emotions. I didn't let go of a 3 year break up and I actually spoke to my ex last month to figure out that I missed the memories more than the actual person and if you're stuck in that predicament then you can't re live them but what you can do is make new memories. Forgive and Never forget, That's all I know. Good luck, Senpai!
-Secret Of The Forest
Just time, and focusing on your mental and physical self. As time goes on, you'll find that those emotions you're feeling are less easily aroused.
I had a crush on a girl for about a year and a half and she knew it, and eventually it got so uncomfortable between us that she decided it was best for us to not be friends.
After severe depression, followed by being constantly angry at her for what happened, I finally managed to try to talk to her again later on and now we're good friends again (point is it's possible for you to move on or things can get better).
I threw away everything I had that reminded me of her and distracted myself as much as I could. Hopefully everything goes well for you.
how light is too light?
I am 21, and 103 pounds. 6 feet tall.
I am not anorexic at all, but somewhat insurance about my weight
>>17500790
girl or guy? Its important to have a healthy weight. You can search for the min and max weights/bf% recommended. Ultimately it depends on how you feel. If you are sick all the time and weak and tired, you need some more weight. If you feel fine, your fine
BULL FUCKING SHIT you don't think 6 foot nothing and 103,ESPECIALLY if you're a man isn't anorexia personified
I need a pic right now
Im 6'2. 25 years old and weigh 235lb
i have a muscular build with a bit of fat ontop.
But 103 for a 6ft 21 yesr old is very light.
start lifting?
Hey /adv/ how do I get myself to stop having feelings for my FWB? By far the most attractive person I have ever seen, and great interests and fun, all that. Just too many red flags, kinda crazy, [spoiler]cheating on her BF with me.[/spoiler]
Just trying not to be depressed as shit over this stuff, any help welcome.
She's cheating on her boyfriend with you
She will do it to you as well
Cut ties with her
>>17500740
I know that but the sex is so fucking fire, never been as physically attracted to a girl as I have her.
I know you are right but IDK if I can do that at this point.
Going back to school full time starting next week and dont like being totally alone.
>>17500736
you can't really tell if she's cheating on her bf with someone else.
If I were you I would stop dicking her around in the act, she might catch a STD in any moment.
Ok, I'm going to make this nice and quick. I met a girl online like six months ago and we became really good friends almost instantly. We chat through Skype every two-three days and we usually have very meaningful chats. But, I don't know if I should ask her out or not. Though we do get along really well, whenever I say something funny she just goes "ha ha" or when I compliment her she just goes "aww thanks". So I have no clue whether she is actually into me or just thinks of me as a friend. I also don't know if I ask he rout and she says yes our relationship could work because of the distance between us; I live in New York and she lives in Connecticut.
We have sent each other pics and shit but that's besides the point I guess.
bump
probably bait but fk it.
no you shouldn't ask her out.
>>17500723
When you make a move, it's always blindfolded.
Just ask if she'd like to meet up to do something somewhere, like get some food or see a movie.
You're an adult and this whole "bby be mine gf" shit is for high schoolers.
To even see her is a commitment in itself, so it's best you do it now and see if you both click in person.
So about three months ago my gf dumped me. It wasn't pretty; I still had feelings for her but she just wasn't feeling it. Three months go by and I don't hear a fucking word from her; not a single text or call or anything and I'm miserable every single fucking day. We go to the same uni and today out of nowhere she texts me and asks me if I'm ok, that I seemed upset today.
Can someone please tell me what the fuck she wants? Does she want to be friends? Does she want to get back together? If she really fucking cared about me she would have texted me at least once in three fucking months
Legitimately ask her "what do you want?"
Anything involving money or a place to stay is definitely a "fuck off"
If she asks about emotional support,kindly tell her that she should be seeking the advice of girlfriends and not an ex boyfriend
If she wants to fuck, then maybe pussy and nothing else
>>17500722
she wants attention.
You dumped her for a reason. Remember than reason.
Ignore the cunt, block her number and move on with you life.
>>17500777
she dumped me, I didn't dump her.
it was a really pathetic breakup too; I said all the usual bullshit like 'I can change' and 'Just give me one more chance ' but she wouldn't have it.
What is it with normies and the things they like?
Today I was at class and this loud idiot pulled out his laptop and started to hear whatever the fuck millenials call it, Skrillex, that type of shit, who cares, loudly, not even with headphones.
Shit was some of the most sad and pathetic things Ive ever witnessed. To see somebody with such tastes, proud of it and blasting it out loud for everybody else to hear.
I just cant stand normies and I dont know why.
How did they end this way?
>>17500721
you're probably insecure, and feel threatened by them. most "normies" are alright, they just have shit taste.
>>17500747
I probably feel threatened.
Its just that I am amazed that they like... such things, but they've never heard of this instead.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rsn4SrnFxUw
>>17500747
>most "normies" are alright, they just have shit taste.
Sums it up pretty well.
My girlfriend wants to go to college parties without me. She wants to get drunk also. She said she wouldn't get wasted and that she would never cheat, or go alone. I go to a different school than her btw. Will she cheat?
>>17500703
Shit, most likely.
>>17500703
she might properly love you and all but when people drink things happen..
The real question is, are you close enough to be going with her? if so and she said she doesnt wanna go with you.. thats some code red defcon 5 shit.
if your like half way across the country, then let her go man, you cant expect her to not have a good time becuase your not there. She may cheat, she may not. If your THAT worried about it, the you should probably break up anyway.
Serious question, I don't want to start a flame war but i'm genuinely curious about this: Why does the double-standard exsist?
Like, if a man and a woman are having sex, the woman says "stop", and the man doesn't, that's considered rape right? What if the roles are reversed? As in the man says to stop and the woman doesn't. Is that rape? And if so, why is this not seen as being as big of an issue as when a women gets raped?
What about abuse? Yes, it is a big issue if a woman gets abused, but it's just as important if a man does aswell. So why isn't that acknowledged?
This of course exists in more than just gender, but ultiametly the question is: Why would anyone want to perpetuate something that unfairly benefits certain people while fucking over others?
Only men can rape. Unless its a dike with a broom handle.
>>17500705
I feel as if this is bait.
>>17500671
Because we're all equals, but men are stronger, smarter, have more self control, have more functionality under the effects of drugs, are more responsible, are more capable, are more mentally capable of handling risks.
Dunno about you, but I'd say we've fucking earned that mythical pay increase. We're clearly putting more effort in, assuming on a base level, we are all equal.
>Meet girl on internet back in june
>She's 18, almost 19. I'm 24
>she's cute, she's kinda quiet nerdy/anime girl
>Most of the girls I get are sluts and ravers and party girl types, this girl actually enjoys spending time with me, comes over and watches movies and goes on walks with me
>not much in common but genuinely enjoy spending time with this girl
>Don't fuck her but try to, she's interested in me
>A bunch of shit is going on in my life, legal drama, my grandpas dying, etc, just want a quick lay
>Stop talking
>hit her up a month later and ask how she's doing, she says good and asks about me, I say "I've seen better days" and she doesn't reply
>she still looks at my snapchat story all the time, think about her frequently
>all of my legal shits over and my grandpas dead, school starts and its time to settle down
I think that I insulted this girl and that she thinks I was just in it for some pussy, I really regret this, I finally met someone that would rather spend time for my company rather than going out all the time and I fucked it up.
I think she was seeing some dude shortly after me but it wasn't serious, but I saw her saying something about being single on snapchat the other day, and I saw her pop up back on the dating site I saw her on but can't easily find her profile now (haven't looked too hard)
Should I contact her?
>>17500664
How obvious was it that you just wanted pussy?
If you weren't reeking of desperation you probably have a way out, blame your grandfathers failed health.
Tell her you were upset about it and thats why you weren't acting yourself. And that's why you sort of dropped contact. You just needed time to yourself.
Only negative is this completely puts the ball in her court. If she feels sympathetic and decides to see you again you are golden. If nothing changes, move on, she has.
Apologize and tell her that she helped you get through the hard time even though she may not have noticed it.
>>17500681
Good advice, thank you
it wasn't super obvious at first, I wasn't begging for it, but after awhile of cuddling and watching movies with her I made out with her off and on, which she was into, but any time I tried to take it further she stopped me.
She ended up actually falling asleep at my house, I carried her to my bed and slept on the couch for a few hours, she eventually got up and came and talked to me for a bit than left. I tried to get her to stick around and fuck than too but she had to work the next day
>>17500698
You said she wasn't whorish, but she sounds like a cock tease. Either that or she was mistreated in a previous relationship.
Is it okay to verbally express my infantile emotions if I'm alone in my apartment?
Yes.
>>17500646
Its perfectly normal. It's even better if you get a trusted ear you can express your emotions to, and then get constructive advice back, if that's your thing.
>>17500651
If I let myself whine, cry and wallow in self pity here, won't that make me more likely to act similarly in front of people?
Hey /adv/ first time posting here.
About 6 years ago I cut ties with all of my friends and our social group kinda went in a few different directions.
Sparing the details (long very autistic highschool drama story), I feel that I treated a few of them unfairly. Even though the whole group was toxic and we all spoke ill of eachother at one point or another, I feel I need to apologize to a few of them who probably didn't deserve it.
I guess I need advice on if opening old wounds to try and explain my actions and acknowledge my faults on how I handled things is ever worth it?
One of my old friends I fear has self image issues that I may have contributed to, another was like a brother to me until he betrayed me multiple times and I was constantly trying to be more alpha than him.
Another was a girl that was my everything, but kept me in the friend zone for years seemingly on purpose (who my best friend betrayed me by dating which will not be forgiven)
My aim isn't to be friends with any of these people again, but to at least get things off my chest and see how everyone is doing.
I haven't had friends in the entire 6 years since I deleted everyone from my social media and started ignoring their calls. I felt like I had to distance myself from them, which has matured me a lot, but at the same time I am tired of being lonely with this burden.
No you can't go back to high school.
Just go and apologize, make it an honest apology and treat them to lunch or some coffee. If you are honest about your apology they will have no choice but to simply accept.
>If you are honest about your apology they will have no choice but to simply accept.
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Alright, me and my girl work at the same place. Recently a co worker asked if she had a boyfriend and she said yes, I am. So now this dude is trying to be her friend and shit. Offering her rides home and shit. Now, I'm not a control freak or anything, but I don't like this nigga and I don't trust him. He looks at her the way a grizzly bear that just woke up from hibernation looks at a deer with two broken legs. He gives her compliments that she refuses to accept, and he'll flirt with her and she'll flat out tell him to fuck off. I don't like him but she's naive and wants to be friends with everybody. Now, normally I'd beat his ass and tell him to fuck off, but that isn't an option. What do I do, I seriously need help. This dude is like 30 something and she's 19.
call the cops. say he is harassing her.
You're right, the guy's a predator and is taking advantage of the fact that your gf is too young to know men's motives. Whether you're her bf or not doesn't even figure into it for me desu; the guy just sounds like a creep. If you trust her, though, I don't think you have to worry about anything. If anything, report him for sexual harassment tho
>>17500623
>too young to know a men's motive
Keep telling yourself that
Insecure about small hands.
Wat do? Pic related, my hand
I'd worry more about being fat
>>17500604
Stop your fat shaming. Big is beautiful.
>>17500609
Small hands are beautiful, fat is disgusting. Sorry you got confused. Retard