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How do you get laid so often?

Also, I'm sure she didn't just have a meltdown because you tried talking to her. What did you say?

Dick too bomb

>>17499070
Are they freezing up in the middle, by any chance? If so, how do you typically react to that?

I don't know about them either. A friend I trust with these suggested me one plus one, got it along time ago and didn't get any problems,only gets hot at the sun while using media and its a bit big. Their newer models supposed to be smaller.

Reliable cheap and not branded .. So much

samsung s5 (try to find the s5 mini)
lg nexus 8
sony z2

>>17499059
If you don't completely suck at soldering and you already own a soldering iron, you can replace the headphone jack for like $2.

Take advantage of what you can while you can.

I remember my face palming so fucking hard when I read a friend's undergrad essay and he literally started his it with:

"Born in Baghdad, Iraq"

Which is technically true... but that's because his parents were on vacation trying convincing his grandmother to come with them back to the states... so he was pretty much on a plane back to the states as soon they could. He milked the shit out of that.... But he also put in hard work.

Fast forward 7 years later, he's graduated with his PhD in Pharmacy (and retardedly thinking of going back for a MD).

Doesn't matter how you get your foot in the door, what matters is what you do after.

>>17499025
White people get in all the time by bribing admissions people or because of "muh family legacy at this school" which only benefits whites since many universities historically denied blacks admission no matter how smart they were.

Wait until you start looking for internships and see all the white kids get positions with their dad's or uncle's businesses and you're left fighting for scraps because you don't know anyone.

>>17499025
White guy of similar opinions here. In cases like yours I would say go with the flow. It's not your fault the system is fucked and you gotta look out for number one, my man. I had to do a lot of bullshit I didn't like to get through university but I make a lot more money for it. Just keep your head down and turn a profit off these whiny fucks who think you're incapable of doing anything on your own merit. Prove them wrong.

"Hey, we should hang out sometime, just a thought."

>>17498969
That's kind of too forward, what if I asked him tonight on fb that did he attend the company party tonight? I know he won't though but that could be a conversation starter? On work he im's me a lot but who knows, maybe he doesn't want to on his free time.

>>17498975
Always worked for me. Just try it, you fuck.

Suck their dick

I realize that most people's interests are pretty shallow and don't take them as seriously when that specific topic comes up.

>>17498938
Stop being a faggot?
Who fucking cares, are they important parts of your life?
Allowing the activities of other people to affect you means you have a weak constitution.
In other words, you're a little bitch.

>>17498932
Yeah, fuck her.
The problem with people in general is that if you try to do decent things for them to help them out, without screaming in their fucking ear daily how you're only doing it to help them out (in which case you become a manipulative asshole) is that they take it for granted and just want more.
Your mom is obviously irresponsible with money, and usually people who are also feel entitled to others' money as if their mere existence is a blessing.

Take this as a lesson in how not to try to help family, or indeed anyone, get through their own foolish decisions. It could have been a far more costly lesson.

Yeah I guess you're right. Her whole family (and by that she means her siblings, not me and my sister lol) are a bunch of neets living on some form of disability or similar, actually only 1 aunt has a job, I guess she's the black sheep.

I guess I just missed living alone and not seeing any relatives much, had just dumped my gf too and felt lonely. I also felt bad for my mom because she was really nice to me when I was younger and did a lot for me (though, not financially lol). I think what pisses me off the most is how she doesn't realize I was up at 6 am, 7 days a week to get the tiny savings I have. She just brushes it off like "well you're young guy, working in the boiling hot sun roofing is EASY for you". or some shit...

>>17498932
Run lad. Your mum will guilt you for everything she can. Not because she doesn't love you, but because she has no concept of finance and thinks your $7000 is just throw around money which she is entitled to.

Who gives a shit it's just entertainment


"le quirky nerdy anime/capeshit" people are just insecure normies. If all you wanna do is fuck a cosplaying qt you don't need to watch shit. Just go to a convention and don't be ugly.

>>17498889

Also, it's not too late. There are 60 year olds who browse /a/.

Who gives a fuck. Most people who say they like anime don't know actually know shit all about anime--Cosplayers in particular.

They tend to know like 5 or 6 shows they think are cool and that's it.


On a side note, I probably started watching anime 15 or more years ago, and I've watched hundreds of animes, it's still the same shit and hasn't really grown much.

It's all just rehashed amalgams of the same subject recycles ad naseum. It's just that every like 3 or so years what's popular to become a clone of changes.

But I could probably say the exact same thing about video games.

At the moment I think the current popular trend tends to revolve plotwise around do-overs (characters that get to do something over, or restart in some way) and trying to blend 3D CGI in to anime is what gets animators visual rocks off.

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Pls, help.

I don't just want attention, I'm seriously lost.

Well i don't think you are "fucked" at all. What has caused the isolation? Social Anxiety? A lot of what you just described are standard symptoms of depression. Whats up anon? Tell me your feels.

>>17498909
I just feel absolutely worthless. I'm talk and in moderate shape but I have an ugly af face. I'm extremely shy, bitter and hopeless. I can't talk to people like I'm fucking autistic, I don't have anything that excites or interests me, I have a hard time making/keeping friends and I avoid getting out of the house because I'm literally crippled by self doubt and self hatred. I lie in bed all day crying and picturing my suicide because at this point I really don't see another out anymore.

If you do it, she'll stop talking to you. I'm sure she'll understand how you feel but if she's in a good relationship with her partner and respects him, then once she knows you have feelings from her yours and her relationship will be seen as inappropriate as long as she is with this other guy, and she'll cut ties with you. This is not a smart idea.

>>17498855
>my stomach drops
Who thought this sounds good?

>>17498884
It's like balls reverse-dropping

>>17498852
>When I've offered to go to her place, she says she's not feeling well
>honeymoon phase
lel I do this too, but only because I wanna look cute, and I can't do that if a guy suddenly says "hey, let's hang out in 30 minutes!

>>17498852
Try doing different things together. You read a book while she's doing her math homework or whatever. Each in your own brain-space but able to look up and see the other.

>>17499152
Actually really good advice. Thanks.

>>17498851

Addition to this is that I've tried talking to her on occasionally, but she doesn't want to talk to me at all.

What do I do now /adv/?

>>17498872
ok you are about to become a wizardo anon.
what is wrong with that?
are you crippled?
deformed?
have an extremely low paying job?

well then, everyone goes through something harsh. you don´t have to kill yourself.
you don´t need to fall for the ¨sex is the greatest thing ever¨ meme

just don´t anon.
also you wouldn´t want the title of the daily news to be ¨29 yo kills himself because he couldn´t get laid¨

go to a gym
read a book
eat your favorite meal

there are so many things you can do with your life

>>17498904
>been trying to get better in life before mess
>applying for jobs and all that shit
>been trying to be more healthy as well

It's just that an opportunity for sex is just too damn hard to resist, and now I end up regretting it.

So anon, what are my chances? I don't really want to see this take a turn for the worse.

>>17498829
be strong and break up

obviously this relationship isn´t making you happy.

this is about you not her. relationships should be for both parts, you are doing yours she isn´t and that isn´t your fault.


talk to her one last time, tell her exactly what you´ve written here and go from there.
tell her you are doubting your feelings for her and that she should do something about herself or else you are out


be more of a man anon. you are anon not a doormat

>>17498829
OP, from your post your girlfriend sounds very toxic, childish and insecure.
The thing about living with people is their absolute worst traits come out and you see who they really are. Often what you see is not what you thought you wanted in a person.
Her behavior is not reasonable. Talking with her will not be productive if she is a very manipulative, irrational person. Simply tell her she needs to leave. Dont give her reasons, don't let her prey on your emotions. Tell her you need time to rethink the relationship and that living together was too big a step and a mistake. Think of it as quitting a job. The more you offer in excuse for your unhappiness, the worse off you'll be when you try to deal with a spiteful and malignant employer you've royally pissed off. You want her to work with you so offer her nothing that would let her fuck you over.

You're not a good match and she has some souls arching shit to do, and the burden of supporting her as if she's your wife doesn't rest with you. Tell her about everything you've told us here, and that if she can't put in some more effort to appreciating the work you do for her then it'll be quitting time. Put your foot down and stop being all pussy whipped. You're not her parent, your her boyfriend and you need things to support each other, not just you being a crutch for her.

Im the same as yah, it sucks man.

>>17498820

No expert on the matter, but maybe masturbate more?

If your more sexually fulfilled maybe you wont cum as easily.

What is it about her that's so sexy that you cum in your pants? Does she have an amazing figure or something?

>>17498810
https://www.youtube.com/user/DrachenLord1510/videos
This is a well known and universally appreciated German linguist and philosopher. Watching all of his videos will elevate your German language speaking skills to a level in which you will be perceived as native German.

How much time do you have?

If it's just for interest, then just peruse dw.de educational pages.

Popular self-study books are FSI and Assimil.
FSI is free.
Assimil, you can get "German without toil" cheaply from abebooks.

Don't buy german dubs dvds. Subtitle doesn't match. And german dubs are awful.

Deponia is a recommended game. Great german voice acting with subs. Wait for discounts from gog/steam. Make an alert.

Just do something first and assess your progress after 1 month. Don't be paralyzed with the wealth of resources. Just start now.

>>17498816
he kinda ugly. You have something with a hot women?

>>17498799
So you insulted his manhood implying he was gay and you see no problem with that?

>>17498803
Instances happened to lead me to think that.
e.g. he was friends with a trap before, saw his legs, told me he really liked them (esp. the sharp knees)
he linked me to a mtf's tumblr before and said she was cute.

>>17498808
jesus, what a disgusting bf
you should think about this or talk to him.

but above all, you should think about how this makes you think regarding your bfs sexuality.

I´d hate to date a bisexual