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I have this coworker (we are new hires, out of college) who consistently shows up late or till the last minute before a meeting, sometimes skips meetings till after lunch. He has been texting me everyday to the point as '?' for information on what time and where is the meeting (same time, same place, everyday, agile), he also asks if we will be doing on the call or physical, if I tell him we are not, he goes on call from home, else he shows up last minute to not make him look bad as the only person who is not attending the meeting. Its is very annoying, irresponsible, and disrespectful since all of this information is already available for him on Outlook, I am not here to keep him up to date on his own professional work, but he refuses to use the resources provided to him, then chats me to send him the link to the meeting when he is already on the computer. I told him multiple times after giving him the info to please refer to the Outlook. He later on the day calls me an ass for telling him to look on his calendar. My coworkers agree what he is doing is ridiculous. How should I proceed this?

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Is it ethical to fuck a 16y/o as a 20y/o

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>Have been getting sorta wreckless with gf lately and fucking her raw
>This time, I sorta came out of nowhere and was too late
>I tell her this and that we should get Plan B
>She smiles and doesn't seem worried
>She says that's a good idea
>Mention that I'll go with her to get it and buy it, but she says that it's ok
>Uses vague language like "If something happens, I'll take care of it."
>Get solid verbal confirmation from her that she's getting the Plan B, but just from the tone of her voice it doesn't even seem like she's serious

Should I be worried? Is she low key trying to have my baby right now? How do I make sure she gets this Plan B?

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How much has Highschool affected your life?

Honestly I dropped out around my Senior year. I got really depressed out of no where and a lot of personal stuff happened, and I just stopped showing up. I think when they finally 'let me go' I had like 35 missed days total.

I took up Carpentry right away, and am currently making about 10-15/hour depending on what I do. Im going to be attending Classes to get my Welders License, as I know you can make good money doing that.

Has anyone else dropped out? Are you 'comfortable' with how you're living? Do you live by yourself?

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Hey /Adv/ I have a court date tomorrow for a speeding ticket for goin 70 in a 65 zone, however the location the officer put on the ticket was still technically in the 70mph zone with a reduce speedin sign just up ahead. Do I have a case?

P.S I was technically going way above 70 but the cop wrote only 70 down.
P.S.S was ticketed in California

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I am single, and I don't have any sex. I only had sex with a girl a very long time ago, when I was still a teenager. Never had sex with anyone else again. She was like my girlfriend, but not really.

After that, I had the opportunity to have sex with other chicks, but chose not to do it. I always thought I'd rather wait until I found someone who I loved, in order to have sex. And since that someone never arrived(not because I didn't find anyone good enough for me, I did, but for different reasons we could not get into a relationship). So I always feel like I am waiting for that special someone, but then I think that I am also losing a lot of experience. For some reason I think it'd be awkward to have sex with someone who I do not love, but maybe it's not true? I don't know, what should I do?

Btw I'm 21 right now.

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Going to pierce my skin massively with a catheter in a process which final goal is going to take about 8 months of piercing and healing.

What's a good antibiotic to avoid infections?

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I have been having this problem for 3 years now. I just cant enjoy games as i used to back then i dont know why i cant enjoy them. When ever i play i just feel like im not accomplishing anything the feeling of being rewarded for the progress just isnt there anymore. I tried solving this problem by buying new games i even bought games i would never even try. Just so that i can feel happy playing the new games this worked, but eventually the empty feeling would come again and i would need to buy another game, and another, and another... How do i regain that feeling of accomplishment? How do i fill the emptiness that has been left behind?

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How do I stop being a clingy faggot boyfriend and become attractive again to my gf?

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Hey /adv/ I de-activated my Facebook about 3 years ago and since then I've had virtually no online/social media presence. I'm trying to get back in the social media game. Which social networking sites/apps etc should I join for max /soc/ gains?

What's it gonna be like going back to social media after being gone for so long?

Also anyone have a guide on how to return to social media and manage your social media without looking like an ass/serial killer/anything else horrible? Like how do I tailor my social media accounts to give the best impression possible to the most people possible?

Also anyone here in college and use Facebook to find events? Especially in metropolitan areas. AFAIK Facebook has an events tab. Does it just fill up with shit your friends are going to or does it require work on your own part? Like how could I use that to find events where I could meet people outside of my current social circle?

PS sorry for such a long post.
PPS anyone can feel free to ask any social media questions in this thread.
so it's a /soc/ media general

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>poor neet
>Got a bunch of cash
>Best friend told me I was going to piss it all away
>I ended up pissing it all away
>I locked myself in my room and didn't leave at all in months
>I got fat
>I became more miserable than I ever was
>And in the end I lost everything and I'm not even back where I started I'm worse
He is right I can't handle money at all. I see money and I think oh hey money, I'm going to do so much cool shit with it and then I burn it all regressing to a baby like state were every time I need something I pick up the the phone and call someone.
How can I fix this shit and before you tell me to get a job I had jobs before, I had a job that paid so well I could completely act like this and get away with it but I ended up getting fired

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Umm, how would you feel if your friend dated your younger sister/bother (in my case sister).

Pic by no means related.

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I work at a restaurant and legitimately fucking hate it. Not gonna say which place because it's local, but I work support. I bus, seat, greet, and work cashier for pick up orders.

>Pay is shit
>They make me work overtime almost daily. Ranging from 30 minutes to 2 hours after im scheduled to be off work.So I can never plan anything on work days, even after work.
>If you ask to not be on overtime ive heard they give you more overtime so im not trying it.
>Customers are shitty as fuck
>Dishwashers are slow as fuck and NEVER DO THEIR JOB.
>At one point had only one day a week of work. Then when I started going to school that's when they gave me hours. So only got hours when I didn't have much free time because of school.So shitty hours when I needed it and too many hours when I didnt.
>Cashier is shit
>Cashier closes, and closing it a long retarded process that makes me wanna stick my head in a deep fryer.
>floors are fucking slippery
>Employee at the front has resting bitch face

Is this what a job is all about and I'm a whining faggot or am I actually being cucked by a bad workplace. Am I justified here?

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I just had this conversation with an anonymous number at the pizza place I work at.

>man calls and asks what the cheapest thing i can deliver is
>dude seems to be pretty high, shouting everything, talking over me, cursing like a sailor just while ordering pizza
>tell him to let me check
>he gets really anxious and starts talking over me
>"don't fuckin check just tell me - wait you aren't the manager woman are you"
>tell him no
>"you really aren't the manager?"
>nope
>"listen so what i need is for you to get one of your drivers to come out and let me get in the car with them, then take me and drop me off some place and ill give them a bigass tip"
>i don't think i can do that, want me to ask a manager?
>"NO DONT GET THE MANAGER TELL THE DRIVER DIRECTLY BECAUSE THEYRE GONNA WANT THAT TIP"
>oh boy let me see
>he starts mumbling
>"fuck man i think i killed my fuckin girlfriend"
>what did you just say sir?
>"oh i just got in a big fight with my girlfriend and want to get away for a bit"
>tell him all our drivers are out and he should try a different location
>"WHAT THE FUCK AM I SUPPOSED TO DO AT A DIFFERENT LOCATION THEY ARENT CLOSE ENOUGH AND WONT DELIVER TO ME"
>tell him our drivers are unavailable
>"you should've fucking said that in the first place"
>hangs up

Thoughts? Not sure what do do with this, given I have no caller ID on file.

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I can't ditch porno you guys. I tried and failed multiple times.

I can't do it because there is nothing to replace it. Well there is.. but I am in no position to obtain it(a real relationship).

Its like pissing, there is no replacement for pissing. The only way to relieve yourself if you have to piss.. is to piss. You can't just "turn that urge into motivation!"

It doesn't work like that. Pissing is pissing. Masturbation is masturbation. The only substitute to masturbation is sex. The only substitute for sex is masturbation.

FUCK!

I just don't have the resources or the capital to get a girlfriend. So what am I supposed to do? Not masturbate? What the fuck is the end game here? WHAT THE FUCK IS THE ANSWER!?