How do I stop from getting erections so easily around women?

Age?

in my experience they don't give a shit

>>17497537
I'm 24. Very little experience with women

>>17497539
Yeah, I find that if anything they tend to press up against it even more when they notice.

>>17497533
HAHA, me too man. I was on a couch near a girl and got a boner. And then she put her legs on me.
I had to go to the bathroom to tuck it the fuck back my asshole

>>17497546
Well clearly lol
are you attractive at least?

>>17497551
Above average I guess

My friend once told me that he was like me too, and since he got a girlfriend it got much better.
Do you see where I'm going? It's just your body craving for it, and makes you tense when you might get it.

how put off would you be if you found out some girl you liked got wet every time you were near?
well it's the same thing

>>17497574
Men and women aren't the same so it's not applicable

>>17497583
what makes you think your opinion counts?

>>17497597
Just kill yourself. Nobody cares about you

I had the same problem when I was messing around with my crush in class. I threw her on the ground and had to back off cause I was hard as a rock down there. Any item she'd run her hand around my neck I'd go crazy , if she touched my arm same case. Shit just looking her in the eyes for extended periods of time set me off. Only ever happened with her, but I never got close with any other girls like that either. I remember this one time the grabbed my arm and pressed them against her tits. Fuck that girl was an unintentional sadist.

>>17497598
yeah, you keep thinking that lad

You're going on dates fully loaded bro? Whack it a few times before you meet. If you're young, you'll have no problem getting it up again at the end of the night.

Stop jerking off so much and you're dick won't be so sensitive to the slightest stimulation

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>>17497533
It's natural. You literally cannot help it, don't feel bad. My experience they think it's hot so if you have quite the hog it's good on ya

>>17497574

That would feel great. Knowing I'm that attractive would be a cool feeling to have.

The problem women have is they want to feel as if that they are so extraordinarily attractive, ugly guys don't bother since they know the guy knows that he doesn't have a chance.

So when ugly guys hit on girls, the girl not only doesn't accept the compliment, but actually takes it as a form of derision.

"ugh, I just want to go about my day. why won't this low life just leave me alone."

Guys, in general, do not know this feeling at all... unless they are extraordinarily attractive. Now the only guys who can empathize with how the average women feels are the extraordinarily attractive.

The real problem is that women tend to underrate men, or at least single ones. Proof:

https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

So really, the problem isn't solvable unless women stop wanting to be with attractive men, but that's biology and it's not changing any time soon.

>>17497574

You have to understand that men can get boners from other stimulants besides arrousal. Just like how some laugh during situations that aren't all that funny.

Its probably because you 1. Lack social experience with girls 2. Fap too much 3. Look at too much nudity 4. Probably imagine fucking each girl you see

What you should do is view them as equals. You shouldnt really treat them any different than you would treat guys (to some extent)

OP, stop watching porn and talk to women, it helps making you think of women as persons and not sexual objects.

>>17497949
It's actually the opposite, your penis becomes more sensitive but if you reduce watching porn your mind becomes less sensitive kinda, difficutl to explain.

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I'm 30 and never ever had this problem.

At the beach, in school, etc.

I never get hard unless I KNOW I'm about to get sucked off or scramble some ovaries.

Because if I do get hard, there's no going back.

It's done been decided.

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>>17498093

>>17498093
The fuck am i reading

>>17498093

Is this bait?

>>17497533
Dating a girl for over a month now. Always get hard when we hug. She wouldn't say anything, but a week ago she started asking jokingly what's there in my pockets. And I'd tell her that my pockets are empty. So one time she tried to check it and touched my dick. Was pretty funny.

I can say I get the same thing, it's weird.

I went on a second "date" with this woman who I thought was really hot and when we got back to her place and sat down on the sofa, almost immediately I'm pulling her shirt up and kissing her stomach and just like that my dick is rock hard. But later that night when we were both topless making out, nothing. I'm still as horny as ever, but my dick pretty much decides when it wants to join in and when it doesnt, so yeah. I noticed that I get hardest when we start getting into each other, then it calms down as we continue.

>>17498093
>hugging super hot girl
>remind myself she can vote
>boner urge averted

thanks

>>17498911
U fap in 5 mins or less? Maybe dick too used to short bursts of usage

>>17497539
We notice and we feel too embarassed for you to say anything.

You're damn right if you think we're gonna make fun of you later to our friends, though.

>>17499822
>a girl admitting that every girl is excatly the same

fake

>>17499832
I'm telling you from my personal experience and network of friends.

Sure, there are probably girls who rub up against it, in the appropriate situation.

Dude,. It's good that you get hard. Hold them tight so they can feel it. If she is into you she will feel excited by it.

>>17497549
this makes me nervous to read please never tuck your erection into your own asshole again

You need to fap more often, getting a woody from a kiss makes sense, but a hug is just too much.

>>17499822
>You're damn right if you think we're gonna make fun of you later to our friends, though.
Why though
>omg becky he thought I was attractive what a dumbass

>>17499879
I think masturbation will only make it worse.

I was just about to make this thread. Just holding hands can trigger it.

I don't see much helpful advice for public situations.

>>17500024
How will it make it worse? When you masturbate you release sexual tension.

>>17500062
If you masturbate too often you're more prone to those random erections, at least in my own experience.
Of course, if you don't do it at all it's even worse.

>>17497533
OP, this is normal, and many women are flattered by it (if they are grossed out, you probably weren't going to get laid anyway). When you get older and your testosterone levels are lower, you'll miss this, believe me.

>>17500062
I masturbate like 2-3 times a day and I still get OPs issue. It's all anecdotal here but it sure as hell ain't fixing it for me.

Think of a dying cancer looking grandma ripping your dick skin off while screeching. Works for me everytime.

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I love threads like this, as an only child who came from a prudish religious home it's always cute reading about boner stories like these even though I'm aware that it isn't a very fun situation for y'all. Especially for the ones where your date isn't sexually active or interested.

Tell me more about your awkward boner situations.

>>17497533
OP, it could be worse. This thread just gave me a half-chub

>>17500323
I'm having an affair with a married women at work, so we have to stick around the office and kiss in the attic and hallways and shit. EVERY time I kiss her I get a boner. She's flattered, but awkward as fuck returning to work.

We get to have office sex every saturday though when only we have to work.

>>17500323
Do you have a vagina?

>>17497533
Boner hiding apparatus
>Stick tampon up ur butt
>tie string around penus
>???
>profit

>>17497533
Stretch/flex a muscle discretely and/or do math in your head.

I usually flex my calves until it goes away.

>>17497533
Whenever i go out with a girl, I use ductape to tape my penis on to my balls and snugly between my legs towards my ass, i slap a piece of tape from the base of my penis towards my ass cheeks
Works like a charm

>>17500395
This is the man who goes to the next level.

>>17497533
fucking own that shit like a boss
NEVER be ashamed of an erection

>>17500450
Yeah, fuck you granny with your sexy touches, that's my erection!

>>17500455
>grannys never seen wood
she'll understand
probably better than most women

>>17500459
She is a virgin.

ITT: children with no self control.
It's strictly a matter of self-awareness. Your body's acting on it's own because you've let it do as it pleases your whole life.
Often a problem, in general, with people who have either no self-control, or a lacking personal-image.

The question is: Are you consciously thinking about sex, or subconsciously?

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>>17500479

>>17498925
fucking kek'd

>>17500481
You know it's not always possible to control when you get an erection, right?

Most good natured women are empathetic or even flattered. If you want to avoid it though just fap before going out.

>>17500655
>have a wank
>no more desire to go out
>cancel date
It works 100%

>>17499822
>You're damn right if you think we're gonna make fun of you later to our friends, though.
This is why I have mostly avoid women.

>>17500323
Will you answer my question? I want to share my awkward boner situations with you but only if you have a vagina and I don't want to wait until this thread dies to find out.

>>17497533
Erections are a natural thing whether or not you're actively thinking about sex. Obviously, if you're thirsty, you'll probably have them more often, and fapping might not be enough to get rid of that tension.

Nice fitting jeans/khakis usually do the trick. Jeans are a preference of mine because they restrict movement there without being too abrasive and making the situation worse. Leave your shirt tucked out and nobody would be the wiser. Also, denim also naturally forms an upward bump when sitting down, so unless this girl has been studying your crotch very long or is literally feeling down there if you have an erection, she won't be able to tell. Now if she's doing any of those things, then it's likely she doesn't mind.

I feel like past the age of 14 we should be able to be just upfront about this type of thing. If a girl says something about it, I'd like to just say "Sorry I popped a boner, you're attractive to me and my mind wandered."

>>17497533
Is that Gohtze? Fuck him.

>>17501011
I have a vagina! Share them with me anon :)

>>17501171
Goatse? It's been years

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>>17500323
Sometimes when I got bored during Calc my mind would wander and I'd get a boner. I wasn't even thinking of anything sexually.

Also I sometimes get one when I need to take a piss.

Like seriously, I've heard women go on about how he had a boner so he must have wanted it but there are so many false positives.

>>17501346
Sorry, changed my mind. I don't just feel comfortable sharing my explicit experiences when I was [spoiler]07[/spoiler]. Okay one time my hot cousin was grabbing my hand at a theme park and I tried to pretend my lower back was hurting while bending over and slowly walking to a bench to sit on while still bending over. The End.

>>17501472
Why did Ctrl S give me the spoiler tags on a board that doesn't use them?

>>17499891
Can't have men having any kind of pride or appreciation for their own sexuality. We need to maintain the norm that male sexuality is a joke so they continue to feel that they have no inherent worth and will therefore continue to bend over backwards to women's demands.

>>17497533
>How do I stop from getting erections so easily around women?
You shouldn't have to feel like this is necessary.

We need to get rid of this idea that overt male sexuality is shameful, threatening, or a joke, and start celebrating it like we celebrate female sexuality.

>>17499822
>You're damn right if you think we're gonna make fun of you later to our friends, though.
If this is how you treat guys, then go fuck yourself, because you don't deserve to fuck a guy.

>>17500655
>Most good natured women are empathetic or even flattered.
The problem is that many women are not good-natured.

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>>17498093

I think it's just the fact that you are inexperienced with women. Had the same problem when I was sexually inactive arround 12-14 but after I started banging I learned to control my boner arround girls