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Stop falling for petty shit.

>>17500587
You dig your grave and decide to keep digging everytime, only you can stop it; no excuses.

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>>17500587
>being a huge slut
>feeling horrible
Justice.

>>17500544

Immediately leave 4chan and never come back.

you are man-boy accept your man-boy ways and step into man-boy hood.

cut off vidya and fappin this instance
far as I've gotten

Maybe you just don't suit each other.

what is image? where is it from?

>>17500541
Lisa the joyful

>>17500535
Don't try to entertain her, don't even say hello when starting a conversation. Instead talk about the more interesting or annoying things in your day.

Things like-
"This professor is so boring talking about..."
or
"This was doing the coolest thing when..."
Basically talk about your day but focus on the more interesting things you see and hear throughout the day. If nothing happens in your life them I refer to >>17500540

It should probably be noted as well, I've known the girl I'm seeing now since we were 11, although we've only now started talking and getting to know each other now really.

My ex who I cheated on was somebody I met online and I'm not really friends with anyone in her social circle anymore and vice versa.

>>17500496
so you're only still talking and shes telling you about previous relationships?

beware shes probably still heartbroken from being cheated on and it could lead to some serious bullshit insecurities.

>>17500496
>should i lie too be with someone with trust issues?
>i totally won't cheat again i swear

slippery slope to alcoholism anon.

>>17500491
Are you driving to school? If not who cares?

>>17500498
Yeah, but I wouldn't drink until I'm in the parking lot at school and have a few swigs from a flask.

>>17500468
We don't have those videos. We've tried but the truth is its just a sad situation perpetuated by our greedy meaty desires.

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>>17500468

Ok. Let me break it down for you.

Here is what is true. The meat industry is atrocious. Hormones, cages, torture, disease, contamination, animals being packed into tiny warehouses where they live short, painful lives and then die.

I just ate fried chicken. I am aware of the way of the world and I honestly don't care enough to stop eating meat.

Your girlfriend does care. Its not a matter of who is wrong or right its a matter of who cares about certain things and who doesn't.

The pros and cons for being a vegan vs. a meat eater are endless and we could spin around in circles all day but the basis of your difference is she cares about something more than you do. It happens all the time. Its not weird.

Start by not calling her opinions "vegan bullshit" and just agree to disagree. You're not better for thinking the way you do and there are no studies out there that will prove you are. Your priorities are different. Thats it. Just leave it alone and stop talking about it.

>>17500468
There are no valid arguments against it. Accept the truth, OP. Go vegan.

im pretty sure most people here are social retards. the shit i see people asking about on this board makes me cringe so hard. i dont even know why i came here anymore.

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>>17500464

>Are most people on 4chan autistic?

The lack of social awareness created by 4chan highly mimics legitimate autism.

Autism is an inability to understand social cues; a distorted view of the world in which its impossible to tell what is and isn't appropriate behavior because your brain is incapable of creating a point of reference or developing the neural pathways to do so.

The exact same effect occurs when you take entitled millennials, tell them they're special and they can be anything when they grow up and plant them in front of a computer 8 hours a day and don't challenge them; don't let them fail, don't let them sit with the responsibility of their actions but instead create a portal in which all of their adolescent delusions and shortcomings are validated instead of corrected by real world experience.

This place is an echo chamber for dysfunction that does not encourage people to grow up or to view failure as a learning opportunity.

The "culture" of this place is anti-responsibility. Have a hard time socializing with other cultures? Its "niggers" fault. Have a hard time finding a girlfriend? Its "feminazis" fault. There's a scapegoat for everything around here.

20 years ago there was no place to run to hide from the world; no instant access to millions of other kids looking for other people just like them to tell them its ok and its not their fault.

Over the years places like this removed the space for adolescents to grow beyond their own understanding of the world and has created a neverland of sorts. There is no learning, no progression, no contrary ideas or belief systems, just a cyclical microcosm of escapism that seems to have convinced itself that by conforming to the "counter-culture" mindset they have somehow elevated themselves above conformity.

In short, nature created autism but thanks to the internet age our society is now churning out artificial autism and we don't even have to leave out houses to do it.

>>17500549
True enough. I see that. I'm glad I discovered 4chan in a fairly unconventional way and when I was already well-adjusted, now it's just where I go to blow off steam.

When I see the types of content on a lot of boards here, it really fucks with me. Seeing how people act on here. Then I step outside and it's totally different. But these people HAVE to exist; actual robots aren't posting on 4chan. That's why I immediately went to "autism" as a idea, as they tend to view the world differently than the regular person on the street.

I have a lot of issues with the internet and echochambers and social media as a whole that are pretty much as you described, and it's very hard to reconcile with myself at times.

I feel comfort here, but I wouldn't consider myself an extremist or a "scapegoater"... just someone who feels the outside world has failed them sometimes. And this comes from no lack of responsibility or shoddy parenting... must just be the way I MYSELF think. Fuck. I don't even know where to start.

You can be a sales douche, you wont get rich but you will think you are.

>>17500429
This, or forklift driver. My friend is 20 and making like 23/hour plus benefits and overtime.

>>17500435
holy fuck where?!
I barely make enough to survive

>>17500416
Are you 15?
You can litteraly buy drugs on any street corner.

>>17500424
I don't live in a ghetto.

yeah sounds like a good approach, he'll probably know whats up as well, dealers are always paranoid like that, so just play it cool and say it straight

don't message him about drugs but, just be like can we meet up sometime or some shit, he'll cut you off if you mention buying

Maybe i should make an adv discord f

>>17500406

>i dont like big websites
>i refuse to use smaller ones

go fuck ur self

I made a discord

This is shit. No server browser

>>17500398
slut
/thread

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Your boyfriend is a cuck

Probably nitpicking because you didn't make her cum. Either way, everyone could probably work out a little more and eat better. Just let it slide, there will be bigger arguments to get worked up over in the future.

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>>17500396
A red flag to lose some weight hambeast.......wait this isn't fit

>>17500396
How much do you weigh?

Don't do it, I've gotten back with my ex 6-7 times and she's left me for 2 different guys all those times. Definition of a boomerang whore, I caught the feels bad and she shattered my self confidence and screwed me bad. Don't do it, you don't want to be me

>>17500371
Why do you desire a slut?

>>17500463
I dont even know..

Im not delusional I know Ill never have anything serious with her, but I never wanted something more than fucking her,

Here comes the problem, to get to that point where I can fuck her I have to talk, chat with her, help her etc.. and then Ill get attached to her all over again, the memories will come back.. and after she leaves Ill be devestated again.

So is it worth it to try? Despite all the shit that happens later?

ask her if red Fred can come out of the shed.

You don't fucking ask, you feel the mood with her when you're in a situation where it could happen and if it feels right then you make a move.

What's the worst that could happen, she says no and you feel a bit awkward for a bit?

Because I'm telling you if you ask her and she says no you'll feel more awkward.

>>17500358
ah ok yep maybe Id better go that route

im a bit of an autist so this stuff doesnt come naturally

Go to a cardiologist. Get an EKG / ECHO. Cannabis is known to exacerbate cardiovascular issues. Avoid caffeine and other stimulants until you see a doctor.

>>17500329

but i'm 21 D:
i mean ok i used to smoke a lot of cigs, but i'm over it now for a month can i really have problems at my age?

>>17500368
I'm 26 and have an arrhythmia that's getting worse. I have a friend who has had heart issues since 12, and a cousin who had to have a new heart at age 4. Shit can strike any time, especially if you have a family history of heart issues.