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Approaching suicidal
Long story short:
I'm a sex addict because of my childhood. For religions reasons, I never had sex until I left the religion and met my wife. She's my one and only.
We didn't do it until we had dated for a while. It was great. She said she was a nympho, awesome.
Now we're married, in our 20s, been together since April. She only wants sex 1-3 times a month. I'm going crazy.
On top of that: she can't do blowjob because of jaw issues, can't so hand job because of carpal tunnel, can't so titjob because small boobs and they're sensitive. She's willing to let me cum on her once in a while, but after a loud sigh and she always looks disgusted.
What's really rough is that I love her a ton, and would rather die than cheat on her or separate. And I'm not just being immature, I'm an old soul, I've known tons of people, I'm highly intelligent. She's perfect.
We've talked about it and neither of us know what to do. I know part of the problem is my sex addiction, so I'm trying to learn to be happy without sex. But I can't. I'm just depressed.
What do?
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>>17540975
>he fell for the marriage meme
Make a Tinder profile before you commit a murder suicide
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You're not compatible and your relationship is a mistake
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Look at the reasons why she doesn't want sex more (were you here a few nights ago?). Are you doing your share of the house chores WITHOUT having her ask you? Does she feel taken care of? Libido takes a nosedive if women are stressed out or not well rested.
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>went to school's cafe to buy dinner
>guy comes up to me and tells me my selection is good
>"oh, I usually eat these for my meals"
>"he responds me too, i eat i do it after studying"
>i don't say anything, i'm scared and i look down and buy it quickly and leave
I get too nervous when I'm talking to guys /adv/ and freeze and fuck up. How do I stop this nervousness eating away at me when I'm around guys?
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>>17540969
Dumb bitch
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So you are an autist. Jeez.
The next time someone talks to you and it is a decent looking guy, just smile. Think of the words in your head and then say them. Don't lead them on by laugh at their shitty jokes just be honest with yourself. Do you have a brother or a friendzoned schmuck you can practice on?
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>>17540969
just laugh and smile. if youre funny, make a joke, but dont be too funny, guys dont like that
Firstly, thanks to anyone who takes the time to read.
So a brief overview of my dilemma is I'm 29, I am the go-to person for everyone in my life that everyone uses to talk to. But now that I'm having a hard time, I lost my job due to some internal politics, and I totaled my car which has financially choked me for months. No one in my life seems to care. People actively look for ways to disengage from the conversation. I've been known to in the past not sleep at all before work to help other friends and family through hard times. It's just depressing coming to the realization that it's always been a one-way street with the people closest to me. And I feel like the situation is compounded between my parents going through a divorce and trying to use me as a pawn through the disguise of "needing someone to talk to". In addition my "best-friend" of 12 years has cause fights with almost every other friend I've had because he's socially inept. I live with him and my brother. My brother is and has always been very introverted. And I know if I was to try and leave I would be leaving him all alone. I know he would listen but he doesn't have the skills to absorb and I've prospective on things. But at this point everyone around me just feels toxic. The region in which I could get to for work has almost no job opportunities and the ones that do are mainly restaurants that won't hire anyone without kitchen experience. I'm just starting to feel like I'm at the end of my rope. And I don't know what to do. So here I am...
Thanks for listening even if that's all you do.
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>>17540968
Those people were never your friends. They used you as a therapist to vent to.
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>>17540989
I'm slowly figuring that out. I just wish it wasn't when I was approaching rock bottom.
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>>17540968
Not as morose as the first person who responded but I just wanted to say that most people do not appreciate kindness and genuineness. I can't completely relate because I am only 22 and NEET for the last few months but I have a depressing amount of memories of listening to people's deep feelings and consoling them but when I would go to the same people for advice it was like talking to a stranger. They had no fucking clue what to say to me and whatever they did say to me was totally generic. This went on until I decided not to talk or share deeply with anyone except a few close friends.
I understand that part of your ordeal at least OP. Maybe give some more detail?
What are some benefits to not fapping for a long time? I've noticed I have more energy when I don't fap for a while but it just might be in my head. Can anyone confirm this?
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>>17540948
it makes you hornier which should lead to a higher production of man musk, which while attract women
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>>17540948
Oops didn't mean to say benefits, I meant negatives. I'm trying to stop and I need to convince myself
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>>17540979
This true? It sounds like bullshit, but I've heard it before
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I got straight C's in high school. Not going to college. Are there any decent jobs I can get with a livable pay and enough free time to enjoy it?
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>>17540945
sucking my fat dick
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Maybe a trade.
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Any advice for a plucky young graduate looking to get a job out of state?
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Bum
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Please
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Im 20y/o currently living on my own far away from parents
Looking at my age, everyone will think im old enough to be independent. But to me it not that easy. Dealing with anxiety, im facing lot of problems that i cant handle and i dont think i can keep going anymore. Life is very hard for me right now.
I know you guys faced this not long ago, but how do you guys had the strength to keep on going until now.
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>>17540940
>everyone will think im old enough to be independent
Don't worry, that's absolutely false.
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Talk to a therapist, it helped me with anxiety and independence. Got stuck with a therapist but it's good for me
Be honest with him/her and they will be able to guide you without having to feel and get negative responses if you told someone like ex: parents. Sign up for medicare or something you'll be eligible for so it can get covered if you have no insurance. You won't know or have everything together by 21. Don't know what your goals or the hardships you're currently going through are but make sure you're also working towards those to keep going on to the next step towards your independence. And if you don't know how to get there don't forget to ask those you know that can give you an answer you're looking for.
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>>17540940
Honestly the only thing I can tell you is that your 20s is just spent dying inside. By your 30s you'll be so burnt out that it won't matter though.
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Ive been using tinder and I just recently found a girl who is really into ass stuff I guess. She really wants to eat my ass and ive never had that happen before. She wants me to eat hers aswell though. Should I do it? Mine is kinda hairy so should I shave? Or how does this all work?
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I am curious about this as well
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>>17540906
face pics pls
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My ex was european.
He shaved his asshole.
I liked eating it because it was smooth and I liked his reaction.
My current SO also likes when I eat his ass, but he doesn't shave.
Even having both just showered, I would prefer the shaved one.
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any tips on good time management and concentration? currently find myself always late to things and running out of time for almost everything, usually caused by me just fucking day dreaming and not being able to focus on what ever the fuck i'm doing. don't want to take any medicine for concentration cause i hear that shit fucks you up.
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For students with debilitating ADHD, I use a timer that goes off every 5 minutes. When they feel the timer (it's like a watch they wear), they assess their attentiveness and refocus. People with poor concentration often need stimuli to knock them out of daydream mode and get back to work.
Also, I don't let them use cell phones. Checking the phone every 30 seconds is the worst thing. If they really want or need music, they have to turn it on and it stays in their pocket. No "I'm swiping until I find a song I like."
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>>17540909
thanks for the advice, anything on time management?
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You're not depressed, are you OP? Those are also common symptoms of depression.
Girl acting super weird after a couple nights ago. We used to pleasantly talk and see each other until one night she went partying with her female friends. She didn't drink like the rest of them, but I got rather angry and called them "idiots" for endagering themselves. After that we all hugged goodbye and she was sort of pressured into hugging everyone. Since then, she's been feisty around me, teasing me playfully and sometimes harshly, smiling towards me a whole bunch and then being distant. She does, however, always make sure to say goodbye to me unlike leaving without saying goodbye to the others. The fuck happened? She's also not inviting me places anymore, but she's still tagging along and sitting with me and my friends.
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>>17540894
>She's also not inviting me places anymore
Do you invite her to places? What vibe are you giving off?
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>>17540917
Well, no, I only invited her to sit with me at my table but she already had friends there, but oddly said thank you twice in the same sentence. She's hot and cold and it's really odd. However, I hardly give her attention since I'm pretty quiet in general.
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>hardly give her attention since I'm pretty quiet in general
>called them "idiots" for endagering themselves
You sound like someone I dont want to hang around publicly since your a downer.
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I just started my first week at University. I've been invited to this party happening this Saturday and I might need to bring a girl as my ticket in.
I have no problem making friends (that's how I got invited) but I have never gotten a girl to go to a party with me.
How do I get a girl to be my +1 to this party by this Saturday??
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Does it have to be a hot chick?
Just ask an uggo. She'll be absolutely stoked anyones even paying attention to her, and even more so to go to a real life college party like the normal hot chicks.
This is coming from a uggo though. I know we typically aren't allowed at parties, less everyone gets sick and vomits at the sight of us
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Tinder. Your icebreaker is you know a party to go to. Upload seriously good pics.
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>>17540871
Get this normalshit out of here
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> Hate school
> Actually really like working
Is it possible to be successful without college/uni or will I just be stuck working mediocre jobs for the rest of my life?
I'm 23 and have one year of college under my belt but disliked it immensely. I'm currently working at Gamestop and everything is pretty chill but there's absolutely no room for advancement in the company so I don't know what to do next.
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I'm in the same boat. except I don't like working either
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Same here! Absolutely hate it, and I suck at Math.
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Many companies have room for advancement into management positiona, but they require at least an AA degree. I would stick with it for the AA or go find a tech school.
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I've been sort of testing the waters with my ex-girlfriend to see if she wants to get back together.
My plan if she says yes is to shoot her down.
What the hell is wrong with me?
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Many things. What do you need advice on exactly? Or are you just here to brag?
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You need closure or to feel like you "won" at breaking up. I'm guessing you all broke up on her terms. Spend the time you would use baiting her in getting a new girl or boyfriend.
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Your a human being also is Vega your main as well?
Hoes dont matter as much as street fighter dude.
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I work in a nursing home and this old priest who works there creeps me and my coworker the fuck out. He's always trying to get touchy feely with us and never stops mentioning how "strapping" we are. Guy practically starts drooling when watching PG movies about boys.
Do you think he fiddled somebody before?
What do we do?
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Fucking hell, I meant he LIVES there
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Well, he is a priest. Put 2 and 2 together.
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>>17542008
But isn't it stereotyping?
How do I relieve the claustrophobia and sensation of being stuck in my life when I've done everything in my power to help my situation for now?
All I can do now is stay still, keep going to work, keep going to school, and not freak out and hurt myself. The urge to freak out and hurt myself to keep the pieces on the board moving keeps rising.
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Someone pls
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>>17540831
close your eyes, count to 27, think about your favorite food, and then suck my fat dick
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>>17540984
I am trying to not end up in a mental ward again. My life will be ruined if I do. I am at the brink of a collapse, would you please make some kind of an attempt to take my crisis seriously.