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>start of university term >city is flooded with girls around

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>start of university term
>city is flooded with girls around my age
>tfw graduated from the university this year without having any social life at all
>tfw never flirted with a girl or done anything except with escorts
>never ever been to a pub or club or party (not that I could bear to see girls on the hunt for Chads)
>tfw feel awful seeing all those girls that have deemed me a genetic failure and who would be disgusted if I even looked at them
>tfw tinder experiments show that personality doesn't matter, only facial aesthetics do

>inb4 lift, stop being a manlet, have good hygiene (I already do)

How the hell am I supposed to cope with this? It kills me inside. It's currently the sunniest and hottest day of the year, which only adds to the misery.
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What is the point of asking for advice when good advice is just being shuffled to the side by you?
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>>17538669

The stuff in the inb4 is what I already do
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>>17538663
>(not that I could bear to see girls on the hunt for Chads)

Check your attitude instead of your looks.
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Your problem is that you listened to the "redpilled" Eliot Roger faggots that looks is the only factor.

Leave your house and realize that the ones who are stuffing their meat into "stacies" are dudes who put time and effort into talking with the opposite sex. You may be surprised with what a lot of the guys look like. Do looks matter? Yeah, it'll HELP with the approach... THAT'S IT. After that, ACTUAL fucking words need to come out your mouth.

If it's new to you, you'll have an awkward learning phase where you'll politely get rejected (maybe a few harsh ones who gives a fuck) many times along the way of learning what makes women tick. If you have a nutsuck between your legs, take the fucking heat and polish your likely abysmal social skills.
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>>17538797

There's no such thing as "approaching" in the UK outside of friends if friends.
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>>17538821
Tinder you tard
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>>17538821

With that mentality you deserve to be single for life.
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>>17538797
Yeah. The looks serves as a primary barrier, looka t how you think yourself : you see a girl, you automatically assert her and put her in your own categories : too hot, very nice, cute, fuckable, probably not, never ever, etc.
So it's also very subjective.
If you take care of yourself a little regarding the look, it's enough. Not everyone can please everyone, even those you think EVERY girl wants. Not every girl.
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Same story, only 23 years old and no escorts. My plan is to go head first and ask like 5 random woman for their names and stuff, just so I get the fear of rejection out of my head. As for coping with the situation-it will never happen unless you forgive yourself and just move on with a bit of optimism (and trust me I know how fucking hard that is, all that wasted time, all that depression, all that sorrow). The past can not be changed, but the future can, even if it means putting on a mask and pretend you are normal.
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>>17539009
Very true. If Brad Pitt were to try to go pick up chicks right now, he would probably slay high quantities of pussy, but inevitably come to contact with a woman who wants nothing to do with him.

Simply look at Hollywood... 10/10 dudes with spray tan, perfect teeth, surgically modified faces/hairline.... yet still I hear stories of these men having difficulty talking to women
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>>17538821

>there are no coffee shops, bookstores, public parks, malls, etc... in the UK
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>>17538821
The population of the UK is over 65 million. They can't all be Pakis. Somebody is approaching somebody.

Just screw your courage to the sticking post, go and talk to a woman. If nothing happens, who cares? It's not like your time is so valuable that you're curing cancer or some shit.
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