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Education or Friendship?
Which is a better value?
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You know, maybe it's a stupid choice, but I think maybe friendship. As long as they would be guarrenteed to never leave me.
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>>17544403
I understand that.
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>>17544400
Don't listen to this >>17544403 fucking retard.

Education. Good education is the basis of a solid career.
Money is everything.
You need to realise, we live in an extremely materialistic society. The overwhelming majority of people are literally human trash that ain't worth your time or money.

Focus on education, career and making money. People are worthless.

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How do you deal with a situation where you're forced to do slave labor by a family member, and they just try to threaten you or guilt trip you with how hard their lives are when you speak up to them?
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>>17544398
What's the worst that could happen if you go 'Yeah whatever' and ignore them?
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>>17544404
They throw me out, or assault and try to kill me, which was a part of the threats. I don't own a vehicle or drivers license, and my mum is paying for community college so I'm not sure what to do.
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>>17544440
Do american families really do that?
They throw out their kids when they don't obey them anymore?

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I think I might be gay or bi. I've always been really effeminate and sensitive, which I know is a stereotype thing but it's the way I am. I've always been into girls with short hair (I don't think that's really an indicator), but I like big asses and tits too. I was noticing girls always raise their arms to play with their hair around me a lot and for a long period of time, so I was researching body language. Apparently it's something we do to release pheromones from our armpits. There's this guy at work, I really like him. I've never felt a connection like that to anyone. He likes all the same things I do and he's so nice. I notice I always do the hair thing around him, but no one else, not even my girlfriend. I'm not very attracted to my girlfriend anymore.
I don't spend a lot of time around attractive girls because it's not common in my field.
I can't believe I'm saying this.
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>>17544321
>I think I might be gay or bi.
Why do you care? Just enjoy whatever you happen to like, you don't need to be classified or anything. You have no actual reason to limit yourself to girls.
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Well... what advice do you want? Sexuality is not cut and dry you dope. Are you personally conflicted? Start by identify why. If the reason why is ridiculous then have fun being attracted to whatever you want to be attracted to.

It's 2016.
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>>17544321
FAGGOT
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My freind has lost her father by heart attack. What can I do for her?
(I want to do something but I don't want to be meddling)

We are friends for more than 25years.
She lives in a town so far from my town.
We meet every year(during my summer vacation) and keep mailing or calling each other.

Her family members had already held a private funeral on Sunday and she called me yesterday.

I could only say she can call me anytime.(and extended my condolence)
What else can I do for her?

She are now raising 1year old childrens (twins).

Now I'm planning to send her some retort pouch food (with a card ) so that she can get out of cooking when she is sunk in grief.
(I know some restaurant made product which is delicious and expensive)

Do you think this is good for her?
Do you think it is meddling?
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Honestly it sounds like your a beta KEK. She sounds like she has a husband and I'm pretty sure it's not worth getting into her life. Why do you talk to this woman so much OP?
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>>17544311
The best thing you can do is to just let her know that you're thinking about her and are willing to help in any way that you can. Just don't pry it into it. Tell her that you're here to talk if she needs you.

But it seems that you already did that. You have a nice idea. Emotional people sometimes react harshly to "meddling", but I would personally feel very happy to get a present like that. Or anything at all.
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>>17544311
Send her a 'Get well soon' card.
With a heart shape.

Let the whore suffer, women deserve to suffer.

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I hadn't dated in ages, but a friend of mine set me up on one with a girl he knew. It seemed to go well enough, but she didn't want to take things any further. She said if she wanted a white guy, she'd get a real one.

I'm still slightly confused as to what she means. My friend and I are both black, but he'd be considered more true to some stereotypes, I suppose. I still don't know how I'm a fake white guy, though, as she seemed to imply, and I'm curious if I'm currently doing something wrong should I try to start finding other people to date.
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>>17544307
Maybe you're acting like a white guy? Sometimes being your true color is better than being something you assuming it's good for you. Maybe you doing it intentionally and even didn't recognize that. I kinda understand what she means. Like a high class guy dated a working class girl and would dump her if she started to act like a high class girl. Sometimes you can't be something you don't.
Be yourself.
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Is she ghetto and black?
I find that poor negresses feel challenged by a black man that doesnt speak like a nigger

>should I start finding other people to date
Yes
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>>17544307
As you go through life, you're going to find a lot of people who say really stupid things that make no sense.

This is one of those times.

>Stop acting like a white guy
What does that even mean? Do white people and black people have to act differently? It seems like there are some people in this world who think that black people that act rational and civilized are "trying to be white." Like it's some sort of betrayal or denial.

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Okay /adv/ I need help, I'm deciding what subjects to choose for college (not Uni) and I'm stuck between doing an ICT course that will result in 3 A levels or just doing individual Politics, History and/or Economics. What would be more useful in finding a good job or what would be more useful when it comes to University?
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>>17544269

>Politics, History and/or Economics

The ride never ends.
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study buttholes in hell
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>>17544277
Who else will lead the Revolution against the captialist pigs?

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Anyone else have a serious case of yellow fever? It's gotten to the point now where I'm literally not attracted to any other kinds of women other than asians. It's kind of a bad thing, honestly, because I feel like I'm missing out on many potential women just because they don't interest me at all based purely upon race.

Any bros got some tips for yellow fever/attracting asian women/talking about this
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>>17544265
I've had a strong preference for asian women for the past five years. But in one of my college courses there's this flat-faced caked on makeup asian sitting next to me which is fast making me retreat to white women.
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>>17544300
How many asian women have you dated?
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>>17544327
One. Fucked four total.

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How do you prevent a girl from cutting herself?
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beat her with your belt asshole
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>>17544264
Cover her hands in moltan magmo
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>>17544264
By cutting her out of your life

I don't have a ton of friends. I'm not too hideous or awkward, I just am really quiet and am always busy with full time school and work. However, I do have one special friend (I guess best friend, lol). She's friends with two girls I know who hate me.

why do they hate me??

>we met at work
>one, lets call her D is 30 years old and accused me of checking out this guy she's attracted to (he's my age, 20)
>she never had a problem with me until that happened, and that's because the second girl (my age, chubby, clearly insecure, lets call her J) told her that. She also told other women we work with that I'm checking out their guys, but none took her as serious as D.

I had a boyfriend at the time and I literally have no interest in any guys. And if they believed that I was checking them out (staring too long? I guess) they could have came to me because odds are I was spaced out. Instead they started rumors.

*con*
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They have been making my work life hell. They openly talk about "that ugly girl with the blonde hair" and "H is so flirty with me today!) (H being my ex boyfriend). Pretty fucking obvious considering how I am the only blonde and they specifically use my ex's name.

They act pretty fucking childish and giggle every time they see me.

My close friend knows all this. She has been there when they would openly talk shit about me, but she says to just ignore them. I know she's friends with them and I don't expect her to get involved and speak for me, but at the same time it makes me look like a fool.

I went to HR and my close friend found out because D and J were warned and they told her. She said it's gonna be really bad if they lose their jobs, and then gave me an attitude.

What did she expect me to do? Be their bitch??? I really don't wanna lose her as a friend because I really like her and she's like the only person I hang out with/talk to.

I can't quit this job. The pay is great, they give good hours, and I'm really appreciative that HR (who told me that D has caused issues before) moved so swiftly.

This whole situation depresses me because these women are making me feel like shit about myself (pointing out my flaws, insecurities, talking about my ex who I'm not quite over, etc) and the person who I consider my best friend is siding with them. I feel really bad, lol.

Should I just drop everyone and be by myself or take their shit and grow a thicker skin?
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>>17544253
>>17544259
Wow OP. That is FUCKED up. And that is NOT a best friend. Doing nothing is as bad as joining in.

Being alone is better than being treated like shit by someone you care about, that's not cool. You did the right thing by going to HR, these women sound pathetic. The whole "frenemies" thing doesn't have to be a reality. Keep your head up high, tell bestfriend how you feel, and cut her off if she still tries to make YOU feel like the bad guy.

If they cared so much about paying bills, they wouldn't act like unprofessional cunts at work. Too bad, so sad. I'm really sorry man... that sounds like torture.
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>>17544296
ahhh thanks lol. I think I'm just gonna slowly stop talking to her. I feel like it might create more tension but I dunno

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What it says on the tin. Questions that don't need their own thread, go.
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If a lady would like to watch a dude masturbate online, without having to show herself and preferably not have to give any personal info like a skype or something, where would she go?
I swear there was a website for this, like chat roulette but specifically for this purpose.
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Starving and adderall
Perfect combination?
Because I'm gonna di it for a month! Lots of water. I know I'll get wreak skinny and what not but better then being 180
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>>17544408
Quit the adderall you stupid cunt
Go visit thinspo for your anorexic needs and take care of yourself
Dont do this stupid rexi shit unless you want to die

You can do it

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So im switching to a new OS but im not sure which one i should choose its either Kali Linux, Ubuntu, or Linux mint.
Well ive been reading online that Kali Linux is similar to Ubuntu but Ubuntu is also similar to Linux mint. Well im kind of new the linux based OS's so i need some help on which one is best. I also read that Kali is more for specialists so i was thinking i could try it out but im still not sure.
Anyone got some advice ?
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>>17544200
go with mint
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>>17544228
state your reasons
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>>17544200
If you aren't hacking shit go with Ubuntu

Otherwise Mint if you have any experience

Slackware if you aren't a bitch ass nigga

Arch if you're a dumbass weeb that posts on /g/ desktop threads and just dual boots back into Windows 10 after

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It always feels like I am bothering women. I want to talk to more of them but I just get this sinking feeling that I am bothering them.


Also, I have some ethics questions.. I am mid twenties and work for a university. I don't have a position in which I could like alter grades or have any kind of academic impact on a persons grades at all. Would it be unwise or unethical to date a female student?

I wouldn't normally even consider this but I honestly meet so few women in my life that I am super desperate to meet one and I see new women every day at my job because its a uni.

What would you say? Also, I am sure there is a policy in place at this uni that says staff or faculty can not have a relationship with a student.

Is it even worth the fucking trouble?
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>>17544171
>It always feels like I am bothering women. I want to talk to more of them but I just get this sinking feeling that I am bothering them.

You're propably not very hot and propably not rich.
They don't want to talk to you, they want to talk to Chad Thundercock or Tyrone or someone rich.

Basically, females are stupid whores, unless you're hot or rich or both don't even bother with them.
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>>17544171

>It always feels like I am bothering women. I want to talk to more of them but I just get this sinking feeling that I am bothering them.

Undesirable = bothering them.

>Also, I have some ethics questions.. I am mid twenties and work for a university. I don't have a position in which I could like alter grades or have any kind of academic impact on a persons grades at all. Would it be unwise or unethical to date a female student?

>be you
>think you are in a place where you can be concerned about minor ethics

>What would you say? Also, I am sure there is a policy in place at this uni that says staff or faculty can not have a relationship with a student.

Depends on what's a priority for you.
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>>17544182

>you don't want a hot rich girl

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>mom finds anal bleaching kit
>gives me stern look
>talks about my brand sucks
>recommends better one
>try new brand
>10/10. bretty gud. won't go back to old one.
>now she knows what I do in spare time

Can it get any worse from here on out? I'm 28 and still living at home.
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>>17544154

Tell us more about your life and hobbies.
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>>17544154
>>17544154
The amount of questions you left in the air is impressive.
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gib name of new brand

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So there is this girl i met in college today and shes so beautiful and coming from me this means alot because i see all girls as nothing but a sex object. But this girl was amazing she was nice, and she actually looks like she wouldnt fuck around in a relationship. but i suck really bad when it comes to getting girls due to me having no interest in being with one. Inb4 fag. This doesnt normally happen to me. What do?
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>>17544147
bump
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well first of all start viewing girls as more than just sex objects
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>>17544155
how? i been on /b/ for years is there really any hope for that

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my girlfriend and I got into an argument because her parents are rebuilding the house in a way that the basement becomes an apartment. Sounds cool right? the problem is, her parents have 3 dogs, I got a dog and my gf has a dog so it rounds up to 5 dogs in a separated home, my dog tends to bark really loud he is a schnauzer and they told me to avoid problems from neighbors complaining and resulting in me having to get rid of him (which I won't, ever) I should remove his vocal cords. I really didn't like this idea since it's my dog and I love him and don't want to lose his voice and the cute noises he can make so I calmly said I can't do that while speaking with my gf. As a stubborn headed-girl, she snapped and it resulted in 4hrs long of txting and her insulting me and telling me I am not willing to make a sacrifice for our future so we can live together (finding an apartment that allows dogs is nearly impossible) that her parents are doing this for the profit of both parties, that I am immature yada yada yada.
her mentality is to move out of parent's house when you're adult, she is 21 I am 20 and we both live in our parent's home. While I love the idea of living with my girlfriend after I finish school and get a good job I have this feeling that shit might turn out bad if anything ever happens between us and I don't want to get my dog voiceless if we happen to break up some day if it ever happens. She said she is willing to get her dog's vocal cords removed as well as a compromise but I just can't take it thinking my dog going voiceless and if shit ever happens... I don't want to feel cucked.
can anyone give me some light on how I should approach this? I really love her but I don't like it when she snaps for these types of discussions and is basically non-negotiable when I voice my opinion and think otherwise. She starts insulting me and pretty much black mailing me that she will leave me if I don't do this compromise. what do?
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If you're planning for your breakup just break it off now.
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>>17544055
I am not planning for a breakup at all, I don't like her blackmailing even if its not meaningful to her (women..) it is to me, and at a point It may as well get tiring and having her doing this now means it may happen later on and I will live as a whipped cuck. I really love her when she is not angry, everytime I express these feelings she takes it way to negatively and won't listen/think something else or retaliate.
It feels toxic, that is why I am cautious about this situation.
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>>17544049
Your dog unconditionally loves you, on a level that your girlfriend never will. Sure human love can be more intense but it is never unconditional unless it's between a parent and child.
Put your foot down, tell her you're not getting your dog's vocal chords removed and if she wants to leave you over it the door is right over there. Honestly I might break up with her anyway even if she conceded, because it's very likely she'd try it again and she doesn't sound like she can listen to reason very well.

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