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Why would you go to an event without checking up on the clothing to wear? Are you naturally this dimwited?

Also your vp sounds creepy as fuck.

Honestly sounds like they're pretty chill with you OP

>>17544771
Because every other event I've been to with them and all other fraternities has had no dress code and it wasn't on their card and no one told me

>>17544774
It texted the guy who acted distant at first but has warmed up to me and told him about it and said how I was worried and he just said its no big deal to skip an event and not to worry about it


I really like these guys and would hate to thing that its all ogre because of this

When did the nightmares occur in your life? I mean at what age and was there anything stressful going at that point?

>>17544676
You sleep with your dog? That's pretty messed up

>>17544678
They still happen pretty often. Like I said, they happen if im sleeping by myself. So i rarely do to keep them from coming. But the very first one that i had really terrified me, I thinj i was 14, and i dreamed that i stabbed both my parents to death, but I wasn't in control of myself, like i could see out of my eyes, but someone else was controlling me in my own mind. I've also had a couple of very jarring experiences where I've met myself in my dream with a different personality.

Only do it if you are financially stable and can take the risk, otherwise swallow the blue pill.

Btw you have to be 18 to post here.

>>17544665
dude im 26
old enough that i should really do whatever the fuck i want
i guess im just kind of attached to my parents in a stupid way

>>17544659
Generally, you have to make your own decisions, regardless of what your parents want or not.

Gonna need more details on your situation though

>>17544646
What's the question? Just dump her and keep an alibi for the next few days.

>>17544646
Dump the whore.

Sounds like your slut of a girlfriend drank too much, slept with the jock and then pulled the "I was raped" card when she felt guilty.

Bullshit. You had 3 classes with the same prof in one day?

>>17544631
Anon, please get your shit together. Tell your prof the truth about why you didn't attend class. Lying will make things even worse for you

Nope. Three hour class monday and wednesday. Missed three of those.

Cut her off completely. Phone number, social media and whatever else you are connected to. Let her know from this point on you don't want to associate with her and that is that.

>>17544582
This will only work if they are not close, I think.

More detail is needed.

Is this girl a friend of yours? How close are the two of you?
Are all three of you friends or do you share group of mutual friends?
Does she want to be with you yet you chose another girl over her?
Does she think that you are not good enough for the girl and she is trying to protect her from you?
Did something in the past happen between the two of you that would lead to her trying to ruin your relationships?

>>17544593
She believes that I tried to sabotage her last relationship so she is in turn trying to sabotage mine. We used to be alright friends until this happened.

Now I'm fuming with anger and I do not want to let her win.

>Once a cheater always a cheater?

Yes. I am surprised you are asking this. A person who has not enough empathy to break up with the person but would rather cheat behind her partner's back is a scumbag. Yet here you are rationalizing why you should marry her.

Unbelievable.

>>17544564
This. It was good that she was honest about her past with you but that doesn't change it.

>>17544564
>>17544574

Yes, but I really love her and I don't think that she would cheat on me, but it is hard to believe 100% (obviously since she has cheated before).

Please keep in mind that the whole "considering marrying her" thing was before she mentioned the thing about cheating.

I don't know what to do. I enjoy her company so much, she is very good to me, she makes me happy, I make her happy, but this sticks in my craw, hence the thread.

Maybe I should talk to her about it? Ask her more about it? Idk.

It's not 100% foolproof, but yes it does work.

>>17544575
Does it work in a predating situation? I'm feeling bummed, is there any way you could check this thread and see if it might be applicable?

>>17544523

Trying to get this girl back is the least of your problems. You sound overly emotional and clingy to be quite honest. You fall for others way too fast.

She probably noticed that and bailed.

If you ignore this girl for a few days or even a week, she may or may not contact you when she needs something, but then by that point would you even want her?

2

I leave her a spare key and tell her to keep sleeping, and to lock up after she leaves. An hour or so into work she texts me that she's never met anyone like me and that I'm great. We make plans to hang out again that night.

That night we talk, vibe, just really get along. We have passionate sex, I end up cumming in her which causes a bit of a scare as she's not currently on bc. We go and get Plan B that night, she apologizes for "freaking out" I tell her that she's fine (she was just really scared)

She spends the night again. Ten minutes after leaving she tells me she misses me. We chat back n forth throuighout the day, flirty now. She says she wants to go on a date one day, I say we'd go that night.

We go out to eat, hit a bookstore, she's shy, but affectionate, we hold hands, she opens up more at the bookstore. Somehow date cliches get brought up and she mentions in passing she's never actually got flowers from anyone.

I make some pretext to stop at a store for drinks, and have her wait while I run in. I sneak up on the car and give her her first rose. She's smiley. She spends the night. Sex.Cuddling. I've yet to ask for the key back and tell her to lock up when she leaves. She had left me a note the first night saying to hng out with her again with a heart. I leave one this time, a heart with our names in it.

Again she messages me that she misses me soon after. We just met and three nights in a row she's spent the night, and we are vibing well, and she's flirty with me over text and talking about her hectic schedule and how if I were ever to be hers she's work around it. She's at like a 2-1 ratio of cute messages to mine, and the vibing is really great. I'm already falling for her, and she's hinting heavily she is too.

3

She can't come over the next night, she has early classes. We text back n forth, I send her some poem from a writer we like, she says she loves it, she's never met anyone like me. She wants to hang out tomorrow. She is going fast and I'm reciprocating. Flirty lovey texts back n forth she's sending hearts, etc. Feels good.

Ffs get to the fucking point.

>>17544488
Make your bed so you have a clean, flat surface to set things down while you re-arrange elsewhere. Keep filled trash bags in the hallway. Put on some JAMS.

>>17544530
I suggest a playlist of Sugar Ray and nothing but Sugar Ray

>>17544488
Take a pic of your room for us, and we will tell you what a pathetic slob you are. Then clean your room so that the next pic is nice, and then you will feel proud.

If you want to die then go ahead, no one is going to convince you otherwise here.

Call the suicide hotline in your local area and talk to someone who is trained to deal with people like you.

>>17544486
If you're gonna off yourself, make sure you take as many normies with you as you can.

>>17544486
Well, do you enjoy playing video games? Does it make you happy? Do you appreciate the artistry involved?
Do you enjoy being by yourself? Do you like being outside? Is there anything in life that you enjoy? You say that >Most people's excuse to keep living is to make something great
(BTW, I love that you use the word "excuse" as though wanting to stay alive is something that people should need to fucking apologise for)
But anyway, even if that isn't YOUR reason to stay alive, doesn't mean that there is no reason. Come up with something else. No one else is going to do it for you.

Read more
Write more
Take better notes when you read
Annotate EVERYTHING
Talk to your teacher during tutoring/office hours

Follow a three part structure. For example, the thesis should have three arguments supporting it. Each argument should have at least three points. Each paragraph ought to have the sentences. You get the picture....

Besides that, for the rough draft I always just write everything down in bullet points. Then later, flesh it out.

Also be sure to write on something that actually interests you .. And above all, have loads of criticism to cite from.

>>17544460
Make your first paragraph on notes of what you want to say. more like a super rough draft that guides your paper. After you finish writing it go back to and redo the first paragraph.

There are as many, if not more female losers.

It's the standard for what a "loser" is that is different between sexes

>>17544455
I have heard a lot of /r9k/ say that there are more male losers. I don't think there is, but I am curious about this.

What is the difference between being a loser in either sex would you say?

Because the ugly ones are invisibe to men because the losers think they are physically owed a woman who is a 7+

>>17544442
You don't fuck chicks?

>>17544442
I'm the same.
Only I have no work, I have no friends and my day consists of shitposting and fapping.

I'm also curious for advice on how to get motivated to do anything.

>>17544489
You could try measuring when your motivation streaks come up

Mine comes up regularly at 9 pm and persists for exactly 7 minutes

>>17544424
Why do you want to commit suicide?
I'm not gonna tell you not to do it.
I might tell you something else based on your reasons though.

Don't take pills if you really want to die.
You will just wake up dizzy and maybe some of your internal organs will be fucked up.
I took a lot of codeine + paracetamol, and when I woke up I puked blood during 10 hours straight.
Plus the doctor sent me to a mental hospital.

So if you really want to die, don't go the easy way.
If you're not a fatass I'd suggest hanging yourself.

If it's because "girls problems" don't do it, it's not worth it.

We can't really give you proper advice on how to off yourself if you don't say why you want to off yourself.
Anyway, I'd suggest going out with a bang.
A good old fashioned school shooting, as cliche'd as it can be, is a great way to off yourself and take revenge on a society that drove you to the point of wanting to off yourself.