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>>17543230
we cant fucking see your fucking god damn shit chink ear fag

>>17543230

Stop being a vain faggot. Don't get plastic surgery, that's absolutely ridiculous

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>>17543226
How are you so sure that the child is even yours?

I guess it really depends.

If you care about the girl and baby at all, yes you should try to shack up if you can live amicably together. Having a mom and dad in the same household is best, developmentally, for a baby. This has been proven many times. However, if you fight all the time, then shacking up is not best.

If you don't care about the girl or baby at all, move away and tell the mom to tell the kid you're dead. That's more palatable than being unwanted by your dad.

Meh, this seems to be asking for drama and troubles op.
How old are the two of you? Why is abortion not an option?

Just you

>>17543214

That's more likely because you're a 5-6/10 yourself so only 5-6/10 women bother to speak properly with you.

>>17543214
It depends. That 5-6/10 could be another guy's 10/10. But generally speaking, the more attractive women tend to be vapid and shallow because they don't have to try. They've got their pretty clothes, their makeup and their phone. So they don't have to do anything, they just wait for people to try and entertain them. You'll find that one gem every now and then that isn't like that, but again, it's rare.

I say meet him in public and tell him exactly why you left. You felt he was cold and you need someone warm and touchy feely.

If he gets agressive or continues contact, then go with the nco.

Just stop replying

>>17543206
>I say meet him in public and tell him exactly why you left.
I wouldn't even meet him in public.

>>17543206
>Problem is my ex didn't take well my breaking up with him and is now harassing me. He demands an explanation in person because my text message wasn't enough for him.
How long ago did this happen? Tell him once more that you need someone that isn't cold/distant, that your needs weren't met and that you've moved on. Then let him know that this will be the last time you respond.

>>17543166
>distant
>seems uninterested
watch Blue Valentine

>came across as needy
stop being a nu-male

>>17543174
>stop being a nu-male

I'm never needy with her because i know it's a turn off and makes you look pathetic. but she really pissed me off one night and I lost my temper, i started saying stuff which made me sound controlling and needy

It's over anon. Except it like a man, it'll save you from the embarrassment of trying to "talk about it." She'll respect you for it too. First breakups are shitty af but do as I say senpai.

>>17543138
Define normie.

I'm not a normie because I have never had a job or a girlfriend, I'm socially awkward, I hate being in photos and social networks, I hate almost everything, I fap to weird stuff and my interests are writing weird stories that I never finish. And because I knew about memes back in 2008 and felt awful when I saw actual normies trying to meme.
I'd maybe also add the fact that I've seen a bunch of super violent videos so now I'm completely insensitive to gore and animal violence.
Idk if I'm better than normies but I consider myself a good person and I assume most people are less than good judging by their lack of involvement in charity work or helping others. I would say I'm better but on one hand that would be judging and judging is wrong, and on the other at least normies get girlfriends or boyfriends and I don't.

>>17543140
The point of my question is that i feel like there is no definition of a normies and that all of you (including me) are normies.

>>17543146
So, a normie? Or ARE you actively involved om charity work?

If drama happens then you just walk away

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>>17543113
We work in the same place, share friends etc.
Like really close. I can't just go away

If she actually is a lesbian then it could be bad. One of my best friends is a lesbian and only hooks up with "straight girls" they always get all crazy because they are confused about there sexual its etc. If she's secure enough to handle it then go for it but in my experience 95% of the time fwb always turns into drama and if this someone you want to remain friends with then I would be careful

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Also, the ring.

>>17543073
Well, here's how you do it:
First, get some limes...

I hope this is bait

>>17543059
>seen each other 3 times in 2 months

Fuck that noise.

OP, it is WAY too early to allow yourself to be frustrated by someone. Go find someone that makes you feel the way you want to feel and isn't leaving you guessing.

You are his side chick. He isn't worth it.

There's a difference between "taking it slow" and seeing eachother once in 3 weeks. Something's fishy here, you better talk to him about it.

>is it normal/okay to be an uneducated shit to people for no reason

>>17543050
sounds normal and as far as ethics i dont really care but it's what I do myself. Life's too short to talk to those you don't care about. I mean I don't say ignore them like the plague but it's natural that you'll go after the ones that interest you. It's not like girls are any different about guys they like...

You need you need to be over 18 to post here, right?

>>17543048
If you're dead set on having it hang on the wall, why not try moving it where the boat painting is and flip the couch to the other wall? You could also get curtains to make sun damage minimal.

Congrats on your new home sempai, it looks great.

But I don't think you should seek advice on how to decorate it. It's your home, you will live there, do whatever you like. I don't think some strangers on the internet would know what design and decoration you'd enjoy more than you yourself.

If you want my opinion I think you should just keep it as it is, no more decorations needed.

>>17543063

It's actually not as wide as the space between the two windows behind the TV. The panorama is distorting the actual space. It's also making the house much bigger than it really is.

I wanted to hang the TV on the wall because I wanted to get every inch possible with the space without having to downgrade to a smaller TV. There's hardly any space between the sofas and the coffee table.

I'm almost tempted to say screw it and just mount the TV on the wall anyway, TV blocking part of the windows or not.

Any advice?

>>17543020
I'm sorry to hear that you're hurting.

You say that you aren't happy with how you look, and I believe you, but what is it that you want? I doubt that it's just to look different; more likely, looking different is how you plan to get what you want. What do you WANT?

This isn't just a question: it's also part of my advice. You need a clear handle on exactly what you want, or you risk getting bogged down in implementation details that prevent you from getting it. Sometimes you even have to sacrifice the plan to reach the goal.

What aren't you happy about, looks-wise?

It's difficult unless you actually want them to be anxious and feel bad whenever you don't read their messages. They'll be hard to impress whenever you don't actually have a good reason for not spending the evening with them. Lying is not an option, so you'll have to agree that you're relationship isn't going to depend on open communication. In other words, you have to tell them that when you're together you're together, when not they must respect your wish for privacy.

I'd recommend you find yourself girlfriends who are into open relationships, instead.

I didn't but I know someone who did when he was like 17. He simply ignored them for most of the time, never texted with either of them (well most people didn't text back then) and went out a few times a week with them (one at a time, obviously). None of them came over at his place, although he had a pretty easy excuse for that since he was living with his parents. I don't think they even wondered what he was doing when he wasn't with them, they always assumed he was with his friends or doing something at home. They just weren't suspicious. He was never caught either, he dumped one of them after a few weeks.

I imagine this shit would be much harder to pull off with older women. Impossible long term. And I see no reason to do it, it would only get stressing and tiring.

That's how I got a rock through the window of my car 10 years ago. Never again.

>>17542927
I don't like that haircut, looks too much like a combover, maybe try combing it straight back instead of to the side.

Lose the mustache, it doesn't really work connecting to your beard.

Get your eye brows done, looks like you are on the verge of a unibrow.

Shave that hair on your neck.

Overall 7.3/10. Not bad.

>>17542931
Noted, thank you. Anything else?

Anybody working two jobs?

I work 2 jobs, but one is more of a priority than the other. 1st job I put in all my hours the first few days of the week. Rest of the time, I work on the 2nd job. But, both these jobs I set my own hours, as long as I get in my time.

I really doubt the bakery would give you the weekends off, but you can always ask. Maybe you can find something online instead

>>17542903
honeslty, because it's a different job, you'll be WORKING overtime, but not getting PAID overtime. It's not worth a lack of any free time (without work hanging over your head) in my opinion.

And I doubt they'd give you weekends off. I'd try to find a full time gig ASAP.