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>be lonely as fuck my whole life, never really experience love or intimacy
>meet girl online
>few weeks go by after us constantly chatting, fills my day up
>feel my getting emotionally invested like never before
>she starts becoming cold and distant
>I'm taking it very badly
This feel is fucking awful, not really sure how to cope. Any advice would be appreciated.
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There isn't much you can do, let time cure this wound.
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>>17547786
don't try to establish any intimacy online
it doesn't work, girls just don't view it the same way you will
ive been down this road numerous times, it never works out except in rare cases
meet the girl online if you must, but setup a date or cut it off
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Take it all in. Thats a feeling youll prbably be familiar with. Not because youre a shitty piece of shit mind you, but because toure not tailored for everyone, and it sounds like youve lacked socialization prior to meeting her.
Just accept it. Dont chase after her. Gl
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I'm dealing with some crazy fake rape allegations. 2016-09-08 22:51:22 Post No.17547662
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I'm dealing with some crazy fake rape allegations.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9vqi7FFTnug
A lot has been said on facebook, and I'll be sharing the full story on my youtube as well. Just hoping what 4chan has advice.
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>>17547662
>I had a liberal girlfriend.
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Me and my gf had sex with her bestfriend. And their other friend has gone crazy with the bestfriend and now they are calling it rape...
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What's the Best Power Play? 2016-09-08 22:45:31 Post No.17547628
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Alright /adv/, I need some input on this - I have time to decide, but it's important I act whenever she contacts me next.
So, long story short, I recently met a tinder chick who for all intents and purposes, is much better looking online. I mean, her vag stinks. Her sex drive is high as fuck, it's insane, but it's made up for by a terribly slobbish (actually refuses to eat anything that isn't meat or starch) and lazy demeanor (made me sleep in until 5 one day). Needless to say, in terms of long term dating, she's a No with a hard, capital 'N'. She's also very clingy, which I don't mind so much, but it makes it hard to break the (what I should hope by virtue of signals) obvious news that I'm not looking for anything involved or long term with her.
Enter my buddy, he's a relatively simple guy. I can't describe him much other than to say he's your typical 40-year-old-trapped in the body of a 20 year old type. Grunty, crusty, burly, simple. You get it. He's told me that in the past, he messed around (I guess flirted, I tried to endugle his story, but I think he overplayed a bit of text flirting, he's not exactly well experienced, so I think he tends to exaggerate) with one of his old work buddy's girlfriends
Knowing this, I keep my friends who reveal this kind of information on a tight leash, so to speak. Now, this girl isn't my girlfriend, but I'd like to keep her around for a while as a friend with cuddling and some sexual benefit (selfish of me, I know). But he told me casually while asking to come over today that she messaged him the other night on facebook, the same night she'd sent out to me that she had a new bottle of liquor, and asked if he wanted to drink. Now, I've been around the block, and it doesn't exactly take an investigative reporter to know when a chick is up to no good, I mean, if she'd told me in some capacity, which she'd have ample time to do, being so clingy, I would've heard about it. So what I'm asking is what the best power play is with her
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I ultimately don't care what she does, I'm sure she's done something or at the very least sent someone pictures, it just seems in her nature. We're talking about a chubby, Facebook-browsing, lame-meme-loving, liberal chick here with an aversion to healthy food, who claims to exercise, yet remains pasty.
I really don't care for her in any serious romantic way much, but I'd like to make sure she knows damn well she isn't pulling a fast one on me. I could opt for blocking her outright on everything, calling her out on it, seeing if she brings it up if she calls me or eventually if I see her, or something else. What are your recommendations?
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>>17547648
This is pretty ridiculous. Power play? This lameass broad isn't even worth the effort. Why tf do you care if she knows she's not getting over?
Regardless, I'd drop her. She sounds gross and you're kinda gross for wanting to keep her around... Her vag STINKS?? Wtf dude. And your pride is already irreversibly hurt because you KNOW she's gross and she was still trying to play you. Like a hobo talking shit about your clothes. It's insulting. Even if you "win" it's still punching down, so it's not even going to be that glorious. I don't know what the fuck you want out of this situation.
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>>17547773
That's what I'm asking you, you seem to feel pretty strongly about the situation, clearly you have a course of action in mind
And don't let me overplay it just because I dislike her negative traits, she isn't REPULSIVE, she just looks more curvy chubby and less "I'm going to be huge in 10-15 years" chubby on her tinder page
I only care because it's a friend of mine she hit up, and he had the good sense to tell me about it, that's embarrassing, I'm trying to figure out what the best course of action is that preserves my dignity on all fronts. Hell, I barely want to even bring it up in passing to my buddy once he comes over just because I don't want to seem like I care at all, when the truth is, I obviously care a little
Is there spoilers on /adv/? [spoiler]it is a hit to the pride, I'm definitely more desirable than my buddy on practically all levels I can conceive of, so her going to him secretly for any reason is just a testament to how dirty she is, she just wants more dick, not quality[/spoiler]
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Does this girl like me or not 2016-09-08 22:43:13 Post No.17547617
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Does this girl like me or not
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>I apply for a job, get interview
>while interviewing, spot cute cashier who is just my type
>we chat for a while about randomness
>get good vibe from her
>week later; first day we talk again. Shes happy I got the job
>for couple of weeks talk to her everyday
>she always waves to me and rushes to ring up my items when im on break
>she always asks when my shift ends(our shifts are always 2 hours apart)
>after a month I get the courage to hand her my number instead of asking for hers
>she texts me 5 days later
>"hey anon it's me, girl.sorry I haven't texted you yet, but It was my birthday and I'm wasn't feeling well"
>i ask her if she wants to go out sometime
>she responds "we could, if you'd like"
>I tell her I'll plan it when both of us have time
>she responded "cool cool"
Is she being polite and playing it cool or actually likes me??
Please help anons. I need it as I'm about to tell her the date plan
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Seems like she likes you, plain and simple. Does she go to school or work another job? It comes down to how good you are (or in this case, bad, no offense) at reading people. When women are "busy" they're either 100 percent full of shit and they're sluts/partying/adventuring/whatever, or genuinely busy. With chicks, you get a good read on them. If you haven't been able to do that casually at your job, hanging out with her will let you do that.
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>>17547657
No, I don't think she has a another job, we both work there full time but I'm good at reading people it's just Im sorta second guessing myself because some girls are just super friendly
Should I just tell her the date plan? Like right now?
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>>17547617
She's being more than nice, but she seems like she wants to be good friends than boyfriend material. If she really a boyfriend or sexfriend she would have told you to come over around her birthday, which she was probably sick by drinking too much with her friends. It's been over a month you say and these feelings won't go away so take plunge and ask her out before you slide into gay best friend territory.
What flesh light should I purchase?
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>>17547600
Stoya Destroya
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>>17547607
Care to explain why? I've never owned one before and there are so many of them.
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>>17547600
The Stamina Training Unit (STU). The first time I used it I came in like like 30 seconds but am able to last 10 to 15 minutes in a regular fleshlight. I highly suggest the STU if you want the most intense orgasm.
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How do I deal with my bf's fetish for women of a race that isn't my own? I snooped (I know I shouldn't have but it's too late now) and found him messaging random women on Facebook in Spanish... He doesn't even speak Spanish or come from a heritage that does. He just uses Google translate. It makes me feel so extremely inadequate... there's no way I can change myself to satisfy him more. Wat do
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>>17547583
Learn Spanish
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>>17547589
I already was. He constantly ridiculed me for it.
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>>17547583
Why did you snooped?
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What's the point of living if you'll never have a charming depthful personality capable of great achievements?
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>>17547530
Here's a secret:
No one else really does either.
Anyway- how old are you OP? Where do you live? Current money/relationship/living situation? Cough up some deets.
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>>17547530
What's the point of living if you do? You'll fate will still be the same.
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>>17547530
You create that
There are doctors out there with IQs at 90 and janitors with 130+ IQs
Hard work and dedication brings you places
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gf of 2 years deleted me from a game we play and avoids me in it. she still replies to texts but doesnt address the deleting thing, all she did was apologize for "not noticing me on" that she "wasnt paying much attention"
its over right? no recovery past this point.
a few weeks back she said that she didnt feel like she should be texting me goodmorning daily, and that shes been wanting to stop that for awhile. But she reassured me that nothing would change between us and not to worry/overthink about it. She said all of this with a positive mood that i havent seen since then. convinced me that things were okay, she even said she wanted to go watch a movie with me. Last week she hit me up to tell me to go watch a movie with her, she ended up cancelling because she had to help her parents but she told me we can watch it the next day, i was busy most of the next day but she told me to let her know when i was free, yet again after doing that she went to do other stuff and we didnt end up watching it. a day later is when she deleted me.
Now shes back on campus, and avoiding me in game. I asked her about the movie and said she cant this week, " maybe another time" which to me translates to never.
Do i just confront her now? or give up. id rather have her break up with me then lie nonstop, oddly enough the last person in the world id think would pull this shit
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this is what she said the day after i found out she deleted me
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>>17547517
you two have some A+ communication kek.
just talk to her you idiot. maybe she's busy with classes? if you want to pursue the cheating possibility then tell her you think she has been acting weird and if there's anything you should know about.
>oddly enough the last person in the world id think would pull this shit
that's not odd at all. you're just naive.
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>>17547529
what i mean by this is odd for her to breakup in this way, ie silent breakup, id expect her of all people to have the decency to be upfront with it
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Alright Imma be honest /adv/, I'm sexually retarded. I have no idea what I'm doing and the two times I've gotten laid were hilarious but awful. Any ideas of how to make up for this? Hookers are out of the question and I'm not really smooth enough to get one night stands in da club. I'm not really opposed to one night stands I guess, but that's not really what I want. I'd just use it to get better at having sex or whatever. So what do I do guys? Teach me your ways
>inb4 it doesn't matter anon, it's about your personality and love and rainbows etc
Yeah if you're lucky enough to be able to lie to yourself like that then good for you, but I've learned multiple times that it matters. A lot. I don't care if you think you're different, or if I'm bitter, or whatever. I'm not having this argument with you and I'm not responding to you so fuck off and go back to your fantasyland
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bump with nature n shit
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Just realized my thread isn't even bumping, not sure if that's how the board works or if the janitor is being a bitch
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I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months and she is always around. I can't watch anime around her because she gets mad because of the "skimpy girls". We can't watch ANYTHING with nudity in it because she gets mad. What should I do? Tough it out or just drop her. She does like to buy me things occasionally.
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Stop watching anime
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>>17547457
why does she dislike "skimpy girls"?
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>>17547457
Tell her to fuck off, you can watch whatever you want. Don't let her control you, women are always pushing the boundaries and if you let this go it's only a matter of time until you become a fucked doormat.
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im scared my bf gave me an std..
we been together for a year and a half. i dont like to believe he would cheat on me, but about a week and a half ago i had a lot of vaginal itching. it kinda started to go away, i have an appt with a dr tomorrow btw. i thought maybe it was a yeast infection from the antibiotics i was on.. cuz ihad yeast infection like symptoms. but when we were having sex yesterday in the dark, after we turned the lights on there was blood all over the sheets on on the towel he used. i honestly dont even know if it was from me or him... i told him it might be him, and he didnt seem worried he just said it probably tore the skin and bled. ive bled before during sex but a tiny amount and not often so i thought those times were normal. but this was a lot of blood.
again i dont like to think he cheated on me but a couple weeks ago he barely saw me.. like would tell me he was busy every day then text me those nights and ask me to hang out (like as if his plans got cancelled and i was a backup call) then after he started being REALLY nice to me and starting to see me more. i dotn want to jump to conclusiosn but im scared. i also just had brown vaginal discharge.. which maybe was left over blood from last night or something else. i have pain during sex for the past week and a half ish. i am supposed to be getting my period but not for a couple days-a week.
im really scared... i dont know what to do. i have a dr appt tmwrw so im gonna get tested and stuff but ..help??
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>>17547449
bwt i havent gotten tested yet im just having anxiety that he might have gave me something cuz this isnt normal i dnt think
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>>17547449
Get tested first before you do anything else.
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>>17547449
put it out of your mind until you know more, don't jump to conclusions until you know more
as you said it could just be a yeast infection or some other kind of UTI that's unrelated to any STD
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I recently stopped taking my Zoloft after 3 years. My god. My brain is in the gutter. I've lost interest in everything I do, I'm barely eating, barely sleeping. I feel like life is worthless again. Like there's no point being alive. I can see reality as just being pointless.
Are these my real thoughts coming back? Should I return to my numbed state of obliviousness?
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There's no such thing as "real" or "unreal" thoughts. They're your thoughts and that's it.
It certainly sounds to me like you aren't doing so well off your meds. Were things so bad when you were on them?
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>>17547442
Did you ease off slowly or stop cold turkey?
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>>17547618
not OP but:
>Do depressive people push other people away?
Yes, some of them. But not everyone.
>Can you even attempt to help them or will they hate you even more for trying?
If you want to help someone with depression, the absolute best thing you can do for them is convince them to see a doctor about it. It is a terrible fucking illness and trying to help without knowing how can absolutely make things worse.
I'm a senior in high school and this year one of my classes is being taught by a teacher new to the school. Let me just say that she is VERY attractive. My point is that I want to get with her but I have no idea how. Help?
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>>17547433
Your best chance to get on good rapport with her and see if she's single I'd so, you have to wait till you graduate otherwise your putting her job in jeopardy
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>>17547433
You wont, dont try. And even if you could, you would literally ruin her life.
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If you want to ruin her life then go for it. If not wait until you graduate
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Is there an appropriate way to show interest in a girl at their place of employment? I met a girl today who works at a Subway sandwich restaurant and I was a bit taken by her.
Would it be inappropriate for me to simply slip her my number next time I'm in there and tell her to give me a call if she ever felt like it?
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>>17547427
go for it.
she isn't going to call you.
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>>17547427
Just tell her she's cute and you want to take her to a hotel for a mind blowing fuck. Or coffee.
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>>17547427
Take into consideration that if she rejects you your work situation will be extremely awkward. The same will happen if you go out on one date and don't like each other.
I'd still say go for it tho mane.
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Can a male who has slept with about 30 women successfully be in a committed relationship with someone who is saving herself till marriage?
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>>17547423
It's possible, but oh holy hell is it going to suck for him. Probably for her too.
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>>17547423
yeah, number of sex partners is irrelevant.
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>>17547423
Why would either person pursue something like that? They're both going to hate it. Probly the guy more, cuz he knows what he's not getting.